FM-Page-45574:FM-Page-45574.qxd 4/11/2008 4:14 PM Page i http://avaxhome.ws/blogs/ChrisRedfield FM-Page-45574:FM-Page-45574.qxd 4/11/2008 4:14 PM Page ii To Alia, with her brilliant personality, playfulness, and humor, who came into my life unexpectedly and enhances it immeasurably; to her friend Ocean who is as beautiful in every way as her name; and to twins Violet and Aria, miracles who make every day a joy and who take my breath away; Alia, Ocean, Violet, and Aria, the future is yours. Source:Photo, art, and production by Dave and Jen Page. FM-Page-45574:FM-Page-45574.qxd 4/11/2008 4:14 PM Page iii FM-Page-45574:FM-Page-45574.qxd 4/11/2008 4:14 PM Page iv Copyright © 2008 by Corwin Press All rights reserved. When forms and sample documents are included, their use is authorized only by educators, local school sites, and/or noncommercial or nonprofit entities that have purchased the book. 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Classroom management. I. Title. LB3013.P24 2008 371.102′4—dc22 2008006269 This book is printed on acid-free paper. 08 09 10 11 12 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Acquisitions Editor: Carol Chambers Collins Editorial Assistants: Gem Rabanera, Brett Ory Production Editor: Eric Garner Copy Editor: Gretchen Treadwell Typesetter: C&M Digitals (P) Ltd. Proofreader: Charlotte Waisner Indexer: Kathleen Paparchontis Cover Designer: Lisa Riley FM-Page-45574:FM-Page-45574.qxd 4/11/2008 4:14 PM Page v Contents Foreword xiii By Bruce A. Marlowe Preface xviii Acknowledgments xxv About the Author xxviii Introduction 1 1. The Critical Beginning: Knowing and Using Students’ Names 9 Barry 9 The Context 9 Barry’s Plan 9 Friday 10 Justin 10 The Questions 10 After Justin 11 Knowing and Using Students’ Names 12 Your Number One Classroom Management Tool 13 Student Teachers and Interns 13 Before the Teaching Practicum Begins 14 Student Teacher’s Responsibility 14 Novice and Experienced Elementary Teachers 15 Aito 16 The Upside of Aito’s Schedule 16 The Downsides of Aito’s Schedule and Class Size 16 Shalee 17 Getting to Know Shalee 17 FM-Page-45574:FM-Page-45574.qxd 4/11/2008 4:14 PM Page vi The Results 18 Novice and Experienced Middle and Secondary Teachers 18 Preteens and Teens 18 The Middle and Secondary School Day 19 Learning the Names 19 Other Approaches 21 The Seating Chart 21 Name Tags and Name Signs 21 Block Scheduling 22 Back to Barry 22 The View From the Back of the Room 22 What Happened to Barry? 23 Summary: Step 1 24 What Comes Next? 24 2. Avoiding Anonymous and Dangling Questions 25 Dave 25 The Context 25 Dave’s Problem 26 The Lesson 26 And the Rest of the Class? 27 Types of Questions Teachers Ask 27 Type 1 28 Type 2 28 Type 3 28 Type 4 28 Levels of Questions Teachers Ask 29 Lower Level Questions 29 Higher Level Questions 29 Dangling Questions: What Are They and What Was Dave Doing Wrong? 30 Students Left in the Dark 30 Worse Consequences 31 What Can You Do? 32 The Problems With Hand Raising 32 A Better Way 33 An Old Teacher’s (or Is It a Researcher’s?) Tale 34 The Results of These Better Strategies 35 Anonymous Questions: What Are They? 35 FM-Page-45574:FM-Page-45574.qxd 4/11/2008 4:14 PM Page vii What’s Wrong With These Questions? 35 How Can a Teacher Fix This? 36 Questions 1, 3, and 4 36 What About Question 2? 36 Question 5 37 Did Dave Recover? 37 The Experiment 38 The Results 38 Summary: Step 2 39 What’s Next? 40 3. Choosing and Using Words Wisely 41 Mariah 41 The Context 41 The School 42 Mariah’s Goal 42 The Problem 42 Yawning and More 43 What’s in a Word? 43 The Importance of Tight and Professional Language 44 George Orwell 44 Sloppy Language 44 What Are Filler Words? 45 What Happens When You Use Filler Words? 46 Boredom and Worse 46 A Mirror Image 46 An Unprofessional Word 46 A Test 47 The Answer 47 Mariah’s Transformation 48 The Results 49 The Other Side of the Language Coin 49 Terry 49 The Context 49 The Problem 50 And Danae 50 The Context 50 The Problem 51 FM-Page-45574:FM-Page-45574.qxd 4/11/2008 4:14 PM Page viii Using Words of Civility in the Classroom 52 Five Important Words 52 Examples 52 The Common Thread 53 Terry 53 Danae 54 Three Other Powerful Hints About Language 55 1. Language Tone: You Don’t Need to Yell 55 2. The Power of No Language 56 3. Getting the Class’s Attention While They Are Involved in Group Work 56 Making These Language and Tone Changes in Your Classroom 57 Summary: Step 3 58 Coming Attractions 58 4. Avoiding Confusion When Giving Directions 59 Elizabeth 59 Class Begins 59 The Context 60 Her Instructions 60 Pandemonium 61 Clarifying Directions 62 The Results 62 A Pilot Project: A Different Story 63 The Purpose of the Project 64 Three Phases 64 Ben 64 The Context 64 Ben’s Issue 65 What Are We Supposed to Do? 66 Giving Instructions That Don’t Lead to Disruption 67 Why It’s Important for Students to Re-Explain 67 Forget About Asking: “Does Everyone Understand?” 67 Forget About Asking: “Are There Any Questions?” 68 FM-Page-45574:FM-Page-45574.qxd 4/11/2008 4:14 PM Page ix Back Up! We Are Missing Two Preliminary Steps 69 First: An Explanation 69 Second: Students Need to Ask Questions Up Front 70 Ben’s Plan 71 The Barbarian Hordes 71 Following the Steps 72 The Time Factor 73 The Results 74 Special Needs 74 Summary: Step 4 75 What’s Next? 76 5. Attending to Civility With Reminders and Cues 77 Seventh Period: A Special Ninth-Grade Class 77 The First Day of School 77 Whoa! 78 Fourteen IEPs 78 What Happened With This Class? 78 Mrs. Watkins’s Advice 79 Classes Have Different Needs 79 Horrified? 79 The Problem With Classroom Rules 80 Can You Define Respect? 81 Lack of Consistency 81 Simple Expectations of Civility 82 Jeannie 83 The Context 83 The Class 83 The Issue 84 Reminders and Cues 85 How Often Do You Have to Give Reminders or Cues? 86 Jeannie’s Approach 87 The Lesson 87 Jeannie’s Reminders and Cues 87 The Results 88 The Bottom Line 88 Summary: Step 5 89 Coming Next 89