What Can Parents Do? New Insights into the Role of Parents in Adolescent Problem Behavior Edited by Margaret Kerr ¨ Center for Developmental Research, Orebro University, Sweden Håkan Stattin ¨ Center for Developmental Research, Orebro University, Sweden Rutger C. M. E. Engels Behavioural Science Institute, Radboud University, Netherlands (cid:84)(cid:104)(cid:105)(cid:115)(cid:32)(cid:112)(cid:97)(cid:103)(cid:101)(cid:32)(cid:105)(cid:110)(cid:116)(cid:101)(cid:110)(cid:116)(cid:105)(cid:111)(cid:110)(cid:97)(cid:108)(cid:108)(cid:121)(cid:32)(cid:108)(cid:101)(cid:102)(cid:116)(cid:32)(cid:98)(cid:108)(cid:97)(cid:110)(cid:107) What Can Parents Do? (cid:84)(cid:104)(cid:105)(cid:115)(cid:32)(cid:112)(cid:97)(cid:103)(cid:101)(cid:32)(cid:105)(cid:110)(cid:116)(cid:101)(cid:110)(cid:116)(cid:105)(cid:111)(cid:110)(cid:97)(cid:108)(cid:108)(cid:121)(cid:32)(cid:108)(cid:101)(cid:102)(cid:116)(cid:32)(cid:98)(cid:108)(cid:97)(cid:110)(cid:107) What Can Parents Do? New Insights into the Role of Parents in Adolescent Problem Behavior Edited by Margaret Kerr ¨ Center for Developmental Research, Orebro University, Sweden Håkan Stattin ¨ Center for Developmental Research, Orebro University, Sweden Rutger C. M. E. 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HQ799.15.W432008 306.874—dc22 2007043593 BritishLibraryCataloguinginPublicationData AcataloguerecordforthisbookisavailablefromtheBritishLibrary ISBN978-0-470-72363-0 Typesetin10/12ptPalatinobyIntegraSoftwareServicesPvt.Ltd,Pondicherry,India. PrintedandboundinGreatBritainbyAntonyRoweLtd,Chippenham,Wiltshire. Thisbookisprintedonacid-freepaperresponsiblymanufacturedfromsustainableforestry inwhichatleasttwotreesareplantedforeachoneusedforpaperproduction. Contents About the Editors vii List of Contributors ix Acknowledgements xi Introduction: What’s Changed in Research on Parenting and Adolescent Problem Behavior and What Needs to Change? 1 Margaret Kerr, Håkan Stattin and Rutger C. M. E. Engels PART 1: ADOLESCENTS AS ACTIVE AGENTS 9 1 Adolescents’ Agency in Information Management 11 Lauree C. Tilton-Weaver and Sheila K. Marshall 2 Relational Implications of Secrecy and Concealment in Parent–Adolescent Relationships 43 Catrin Finkenauer, Rutger C. M. E. Engels and Kaska E. Kubacka 3 Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (Your Mom and Dad): Disclosure and Nondisclosure in Adolescent–parent Relationships 65 Judith G. Smetana and Aaron Metzger PART 2: THE ROLES OF ADOLESCENT AGENCY AND PARENTING EFFORTS IN RELATIONSHIPS AND ADJUSTMENT 89 4 Parents React to Adolescent Problem Behaviors by Worrying More and Monitoring Less 91 Margaret Kerr, Håkan Stattin and Vilmante Pakalniskiene 5 Vicissitudes of Parenting Adolescents: Daily Variations in Parental Monitoring and the Early Emergence of Drug Use 113 Thomas J. Dishion, Bernadette Marie Bullock and Jeff Kiesner vi CONTENTS 6 Reciprocal Development of Parent–adolescent Support and Adolescent Problem Behaviors 135 Susan J. T. Branje, William W. Hale III and Wim H. J. Meeus 7 Linkages between Parenting and Peer Relationships: A Model for Parental Management of Adolescents’ Peer Relationships 163 Nina S. Mounts 8 From Coercion to Positive Parenting: Putting Divorced Mothers in Charge of Change 191 Marion S. Forgatch, Zintars G. Beldavs, Gerald R. Patterson and David S. DeGarmo PART 3: LESSONS FROM PARENTING RESEARCH ON YOUNGER CHILDREN 211 9 Stepping Up without Overstepping: Disentangling Parenting Dimensions and their Implications for Adolescent Adjustment 213 Wendy S. Grolnick, Krista L. Beiswenger and Carrie E. Price 10 What is the Nature of Effective Parenting? It Depends 239 Joan E. Grusec 11 Positive Parenting and Positive Characteristics and Values in Children 259 Marc H. Bornstein Index 285 About the Editors ¨ Margaret Kerr is Professor of Psychology at Orebro University, Sweden, and Co-director of the Center for Developmental Research. She earned her PhD at Cornell University, USA, and then completed a postdoctoral research fellowshipwithRichardTremblayattheUniversityofMontreal,Canada.She is an associate editor of the Journal of Research on Adolescence. Her research focuses on internal and external adjustment in adolescents and their roles in the life course. Her current research interests include adolescents’ choices of developmental contexts and parent–child relationships and their role in the development of delinquency. ¨ HåkanStattinisProfessorofPsychologyatUppsalaandOrebroUniversities, Sweden. He earned his PhD at Stockholm University. He directs the Center forDevelopmentalResearchatO¨rebroUniversityandhasservedasPresident oftheEuropeanAssociationforResearchonAdolescenceandassociateeditor for the British Journal of Developmental Psychology. He is probably best known forhisresearchinthreeareas:delinquencydevelopment,pubertalmaturation in adolescent girls, and parental monitoring. His works include an authored book (with David Magnusson in 1990), Pubertal Maturation in Female Devel- opment. In addition to his continued basic research in these areas he is conducting prevention trials to reduce alcohol drinking and delinquency among adolescents. Rutger C. M. E. Engels is Professor in Family Psychology at the Behavioural Science Institute, Radboud University Nijmegen, Netherlands, since 2001. He obtained his PhD at the Department of Medical Sociology, Maastricht Universityin1998.Sincethenhehasworkedforthreeyearsasapost-doctoral researcherandassistantprofessorattheDepartmentofChildandAdolescent Studies, Utrecht University. He is involved in fundamental research on the linkbetween(social)environmentalinfluencesonadolescentandyoungadult substance use and delinquency. (cid:84)(cid:104)(cid:105)(cid:115)(cid:32)(cid:112)(cid:97)(cid:103)(cid:101)(cid:32)(cid:105)(cid:110)(cid:116)(cid:101)(cid:110)(cid:116)(cid:105)(cid:111)(cid:110)(cid:97)(cid:108)(cid:108)(cid:121)(cid:32)(cid:108)(cid:101)(cid:102)(cid:116)(cid:32)(cid:98)(cid:108)(cid:97)(cid:110)(cid:107)