Understanding Parricide This page intentionally left blank UNDERSTANDING PARRICIDE WHEN SONS AND DAUGHTERS KILL PARENTS Kathleen M. Heide , Ph.D. 1 1 Oxford University Press is a department of the University of Oxford. It furthers the University’s objective of excellence in research, scholarship, and education by publishing worldwide. Oxford New York Auckland Cape Town Dar es Salaam Hong Kong Karachi Kuala Lumpur Madrid Melbourne Mexico City Nairobi New Delhi Shanghai Taipei Toronto With offi ces in Argentina Austria Brazil Chile Czech Republic France Greece Guatemala Hungary Italy Japan Poland Portugal Singapore South Korea Switzerland Thailand Turkey Ukraine Vietnam Oxford is a registered trade mark of Oxford University Press in the UK and certain other countries. Published in the United States of America by Oxford University Press 198 Madison Avenue, New York, NY 10016 © Kathleen Margaret Heide 2013 All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or by any means, without the prior permission in writing of Oxford University Press, or as expressly permitted by law, by license, or under terms agreed with the appropriate reproduction rights organization. Inquiries concerning reproduction outside the scope of the above should be sent to the Rights Department, Oxford University Press, at the address above. You must not circulate this work in any other form and you must impose this same condition on any acquirer. Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Heide, Kathleen M. Understanding parricide: When sons and daughters kill parents / Kathleen M. Heide, Ph.D. p. cm. Includes bibliographical references and index. ISBN 978–0–19–517666–7 (pbk) 1. Parricide. 2. Family violence. 3. Abused children. 4. Mentally ill children – Treatment. 5. Juvenile homicide. 6. Parricide. – Case studies. 7. Family violence – Case studies. 8. Abused children – Case studies. 9. Mentally ill children – Treatment – Case studies. 10. Juvenile homicide – Case studies. I. Title. HV6542.H449 2013 364.152’3 – dc23 2012014179 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Printed in the United States of America on acid-free paper To Eldra P. Solomon and Fran Knowles with deep appreciation for your friendship, support, and encouragement over the decades. This page intentionally left blank Contents Foreword by Dr. George B. Palermo ix Preface xiii Acknowledgments xvii Part One: Clinical and Legal Issues 1. The Phenomenon of Parricide 3 2. Child Maltreatment and Parricide 27 3. Parricide: Basic Facts and Literature 47 4. Matricide: Basic Facts and Literature 75 5. Patricide: Basic Facts and Literature 103 6. Prosecuting and Punishing Parricide Offenders 123 7. Defending Parricide Offenders 139 Part Two: Case Studies 8. Forensic Assessment of Parricide Offenders 169 9. Patty Smith—No Way Out but Murder 181 10. Peter Jones—Repeating the Past 205 11. James Holt—The Making of a Murderer 227 12. Daniel Culbreath—Fantasy Becomes Reality 257 13. Ben Simpson—An Over-Indulged Child 289 Part Three: Society’s Response 14. Treating Severely Abused Parricide Offenders 317 with Eldra Solomon, Ph.D. 15. Follow-Up Studies of Adolescent Parricide Offenders 331 16. Risk Assessment and Prevention 355 Afterword by Judge Irene Sullivan 371 Notes 375 References 409 Index 437 About the Author 445 This page intentionally left blank Foreword Socio-cultural taboos have had the function of keeping human aggressive and destructive drives in check since the beginning of civilization. Nevertheless, history is replete with acts of violence, including that which is the topic of this book, par- ricide. At present, such intra-familial violence, frequently fueled by terror or des- peration in adolescent parricide offenders and often by feelings of humiliation and frustration in adult parricide offenders, might erupt in families that have become destabilized in a climate of progressive social change. In Understanding Parricide: When Sons and Daughters Kill Parents , Professor Kathleen Heide, in her usual objec- tive and methodical way, describes the consequences of this climate within the family as she sheds light on the incomprehensible killing of parents by their chil- dren, the tragic shattering of a multi-millenial taboo and Biblical commandments. Even though she addresses both juvenile and adult parricide, her emphasis is on juvenile offenders, as their destructive behavior is more amenable to prevention and treatment. Throughout the 16 chapters of this highly comprehensive book, Dr. Heide exam- ines in a progressive way the problematic entity of parricide. The fi rst chapter is fundamental to the understanding of parricidal offenders. Maltreatment and abuse, from emotional neglect to rape, are dealt with in Chapter 2. Their psychobiological consequences on the child/adolescent are pointed out in a concise and thorough way. In the next several chapters, Professor Heide introduces psychological, biological, social, and legal views, especially when discussing the dangerously antisocial parricide offender and his or her characterological tendency toward violent behavior. She mas- terfully discusses the motivational dynamics, the legal issues, and the relevant defense strategies in various case studies. Her typology of adolescent and adult parricidal offenders, proposed in her fi rst book, Why Kids Kill Parents, and validated throughout 20 years of professional and forensic experience, is highlighted in the extensive case studies presented in Chapters 8 through 13. The illustrative cases show the importance of a thorough assessment of the offender’s personality and its development over years of maltreatment and abuse. The various steps in the diagnostic process and the diagnostic criteria employed by Dr. Heide when examining these young offenders are of particular interest. They not only will captivate the interest of the studious reader, but also will enhance the diagnostic and treatment choices of many mental health and legal professionals. In addition, her clear and enlightening description of the various legal defense strategies based upon the mental state of the offender and recent national court dispositions