the ultimate guide to performance anxiety

72 Pages·2022·2.805 MB·Ingles

by  Stirling Cooper

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ULTIMATE GUIDE TO PERFORMANCE ANXIETY
INTRODUCTION
HOW DOES A BONER ACTUALLY WORK?
WHY NOT JUST TAKE A BLUE PILL?
HOW TO USE THIS BOOK
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PHYSICAL CAUSES
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ULTIMATE GUIDE TO
PERFORMANCE ANXIETY
DISCLAIMER:
This eBook is for general informational purposes only. The
author is not a medical professional and nothing in this
publication constitutes medical advice. Any exercise program,
including the exercise routines outlined in this publication,
may result in injury. To reduce the risk of injury, consult your
doctor before beginning any exercise program. The materials
presented in this publication in no way substitute the medical
advice of a licensed physician. The reader should always
consult with their doctor in any matters relating to his/her
health. Any exercise program or supplement regime contains
inherent risks of physical injury or death. Seek medical advice
from your personal physician prior to beginning any of the
exercises or taking any of the supplements in this book.
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INTRODUCTION
Every time I do a private webinar, every time I do a call in
show, every time I’m on a podcast and every time I check my
inbox I get asked by men of all ages, all demographics, all
shapes and sizes; “How do I fix my boner problems?”
The issue is that a lot of guys although they are comfortable
confessing that they have a boner problem, or have had one
in the past, or they have one in very specific circumstances,
are reluctant to elaborate on the exact conditions of what
went wrong. I think this has something to do with it being a
pretty traumatic and emotionally impactful event for most
men, the first time they lose their boner or can’t get it up.
One minute they’re a randy teenager with an insatiable
sexual appetite who can get hard at the sight of a paper bag
and then all of a sudden, as if out of nowhere, their junk stops
working for some unknown reason.
They can’t figure it out and after much frustration and
desperation they turn to me, they swallow their pride and ask
me to help them.
But the issue is that they need to go further, they need to
really open up and relive that traumatic event in order for
me to properly diagnose what the hell is the cause of their
problem.
What do I mean by this?
I need to know exactly what was going on in their head.
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I need to know exactly what their lifestyle is like.
These are the conditions that will lead to either success or
failure in the world of the erection.
I should know, because it’s literally my job.
In case you weren’t already aware of who I am and what I do,
allow me to quickly introduce myself.
I’m Stirling Cooper, I’m an Award Winning Pornstar who has
been shooting erotic films all around the world since 2017.
Prior to that I worked for several years as a High-Class male
companion back in Australia (where that kind of thing is legal)
where I would be paid to “service” wealthy business women
or perform live cuckolding sessions for couples.
So I have a fair amount of experience with “performing under
pressure”.
It takes a certain mentality to be able to deliver the goods to a
woman who could buy your entire family’s net worth 4 times
over.
It takes a certain fortitude to be able to deliver the goods to a
woman whose husband is sitting in the corner rubbing one
out watching.
It takes a certain skill set to be able to deliver the goods to
a woman while you have a director telling you to open up
so the camera can see what’s going on, and you have a film
crew waiting around for you to finish so they can all go home.
I’m qualified to teach you this stuff, and I have helped
thousands of men solve this problem (among numerous
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others) in the bedroom, not because I have a fancy sounding
degree or some special letters in front of my name.
No, I’m qualified to teach you this stuff because I’ve been in
the trenches, I have real world battle tested experience in the
harshest environments known to boners.
The irony is that Pornstars have an intimate relationship with
erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety, boner problems,
whatever you want to call it. You see, the thing that nobody
ever talks about is that every single Pornstar you’ve seen
on screen, at some point in his career, I guarantee has lost
his boner. Maybe it was only for a few minutes and he was
able to bounce back, or maybe it was such a bad day that he
wasn’t able to finish the scene. But either way they’ve got
experience with it. Most won’t admit it in public, but when
male pornstars get together and share tips and advice with
one another, inevitably we end up talking about our “bad
days”, our “war stories”, and it’s because we’ve been through
these shitty situations that we are forced to find a solution to
it, we are forced to find a way out of that rut or else we risk
never getting work again.
So that’s why I’m able to help you.
Whatever situation you’re in, I’ve either been there myself or
one of my colleagues has.
And we’ve found a solution to it.
Not only am I able to help you overcome any current
performance issues you might be suffering from, but I can
help you to prevent other issues from arising in the first place.
I get a lot of very vague questions from guys saying things
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like “Hey man I’m suffering from performance anxiety can
you help me?”, well yes I can but I’d need to know exactly
what your situation is to figure out the exact cause of your
particular problem.
So that’s what this book is for, to help you self diagnose the
exact cause of your problem and then give you the tools to fix
it on your own. So rather than me sitting down and fishing for
details with your particular circumstances (whilst charging
you hundreds of dollars an hour) you can read through the
pages of this book and figure it out for yourself.
In this book I’m going to go over the most common Mental
and Physical causes of performance issues and then I’m going
to give you what I believe are the most effective solutions to
them.
Consider this a user’s manual for your penis, a frequently
asked questions guide for your Frankfurter, an ikea assembly
guide for your genitals.
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HOW DOES A BONER
ACTUALLY WORK?
Here’s a brief guide to the anatomy of an erection.
A strong long lasting erection is dependent upon 5 factors;
good cardiovascular health, Nitric Oxide (NO) production,
a strong PC muscle, healthy testosterone levels and MOST
IMPORTANTLY the right mental state.
During sexual arousal, nerve messages begin to stimulate
the penis. Impulses from the brain and local nerves cause
the muscles of the corpora cavernosa to relax, allowing blood
to flow in and fill the open spaces. The blood creates pressure
in the corpora cavernosa, making the penis expand and
creating an erection. Erection is reversed when muscles in
the penis contract, stopping the inflow of blood and opening
outflow channels.
An erection is actually a relaxation response and this is
something most men don’t realize.
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WHY NOT JUST TAKE A
BLUE PILL?
This is something I’m quite passionate about educating men
on and I make sure I always tell guys this when they ask me
for advice on curing performance issues.
A lot of men when they have their first experience with
erectile dysfunction or performance anxiety immediately
resort to taking a pill like Viagra or Cialis.
While they may actually see some results from taking them,
they don’t even know why it’s working.
Here’s the secret most men don’t know about Viagra/Cialis,
these pills DON’T GIVE YOU AN ERECTION. They simply help
you to maintain one for longer or achieve one quicker.
You see the act of actually getting/starting the erection is still
up to you.
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When most guys experience some kind of performance
anxiety it’s due to them not having the right mental state,
but they think it’s something physically wrong with them, so
they take a little blue pill and magically their performance
anxiety is cured. But what’s actually happening is a Placebo
effect. By taking the pill they stop worrying and think it’ll do
all the work for them, which actually puts them in the right
mental state so they can get a boner.
Unfortunately this doesn’t work if they are really having
problems in their head, and I know this because I’ve seen
this on set time and time again around new male pornstars.
They come on set and they pop a little blue pill thinking it
will solve all their problems, but they are still so nervous and
anxious that they can’t get a boner and they’re sitting there
wondering why it hasn’t worked.
Also, what new male pornstars quickly realize (and regular
guys who end up dependent on them for performance) is
that when you take these pills regularly your body starts to
develop a resistance to the drug. So gradually you need more
and more of the drug to have the same effect until it gets to
a point where they stop working for you entirely and you’re
back at square one.
So in reality pills like Viagra and Cialis are just a Band-Aid
solution, they don’t actually fix the underlying problem.
It’s better to work on the root cause of the problem. Which is
exactly what this book is about.

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