Personal Power Paul Weinzweig Dr. Paul Weinzweig THE TEN COMMANDMENTS OF PERSONAL POWER Creative Strategies for Shared Happiness and Success ©Paul Weinzweig, 1988. Meridian Press. ISBN 2-920417-27-4. Personal Power Paul Weinzweig Personal Power Paul Weinzweig TABLE OF CONTENTS PART I THE PURSUIT OF PERSONAL POWER 3 PROLOGUE 4 Chapter I: THE NATURE OF PERSONAL POWER 7 Chapter 2: THE CHALLENGE 10 Chapter 3: SELF-CONTROL 13 Chapter 4: HARMONY 20 Chapter 5: IDEALISM 25 Chapter 6: THE EFFECT OF OUR TIMES ON PERSONAL POWER 32 PART II: HOW TO MAXIMIZE YOUR LIFE ENERGY 35 Chapter 7: STRESS AND SELF-AWARENESS 36 Chapter 8: THOUGHTS, FEELINGS, AND ATTITUDES 41 Chapter 9: THE LIFE ENERGY EXCHANGE 45 Chapter 10: THE LAWS OF NATURE 51 Chapter 11: CULTURE AND THE LIFE ENERGY 60 PART III: HOW TO FREE YOUR CREATIVE POTENTIAL 64 Chapter 12: THE PURPOSE OF WORK 66 Chapter 13: HOW TO DISCOVER YOUR LIFE'S WORK 70 Chapter 14: HOW AND WHY YOU DEFEAT YOURSELF 93 PART IV: THE POWER OF CREATIVE THOUGHT 103 Chapter 15: A CHALLENGE FOR THE MIND 104 Chapter 17: THE NATURE OF THOUGHT 122 Chapter 18: OBSERVATION AND DETACHMENT 134 1 Personal Power Paul Weinzweig Chapter 19: SELF-CONFIDENCE 142 Chapter 20: OPTIMISM 149 Chapter 21: INTEGRATION 154 Chapter 22: VISUALIZATION, MEDITATION, AND DREAMING 162 Chapter 23: THE BODY'S WISDOM 167 EPILOGUE 170 REFERENCES 172 2 Personal Power Paul Weinzweig PART I THE PURSUIT OF PERSONAL POWER "Life is a search after power; and this is an element with which the whole world is so satur- ated, - there is no chink or crevice in which it is not lodged, - that no honest seeking goes unrewarded." - Ralph Waldo Emerson, "Power" (The Conduct of Life) 3 Personal Power Paul Weinzweig PROLOGUE Amidst the remarkable and perilous changes that are rushing at life in the modern world, it is easy to lose sight of the individual. In an age of organizations and systems, of social problems and institutional solutions, it is commonplace to forget that individuals are the mainsprings of all problems and all solutions. The casting of the social net has brought insights and practical benefits but individual human beings too readily slip through that net. The growth of mass society with its undisciplined freedoms and centralization of functions has resulted in a decline in personal responsibility and, consequently, of Personal Power. A system - be it a family, school, corporation, or govern- ment - cannot succeed if the individuals within it are without creative thought, self-expression, or practical responsibility. All the industrial, technical, and scientific progress of the Twentieth Century has not brought happiness to people. One is far more likely to find a genuine smile on the face of an impoverished Ecuadorian farmer than on the faces of shoppers on Rodeo Drive or of the attache' set on Wall Street. Rex Harrison, the great English actor, who lived in both India and the United States, expressed his amazement that a people as poor as the East Indians should appear so open, generous, and happy while Americans, the richest people in the world, looked insulated and distressed. Wealth and technical progress alone are no ticket to personal satisfaction and fulfillment. The industrial and technological revolutions have brought many wonderful benefits to mankind but in certain crucial respects they have failed to champion the deeper needs of individual human beings. Without the development of our unique powers of energy and thought, creativity and character, life will be lacking in lustre, distinction, direction, and meaning; hopes and dreams will falter and be scattered in the wind. Personal Power is that capacity not only to survive life's vicissitudes, but to turn them into creative achievements. The philospher Bertrand Russell noted that if, in the Seventeenth Century, a certain hundred people had been killed in their childhood, the modern world would not exist. If the Personal Power of one hundred people could make such a difference to the world, what a beautiful future we could have if one billion individuals had the learning, freedom, and self-control to develop their inalienable powers of personal expression. We have the resources and 4 Personal Power Paul Weinzweig technology to make this possible. We need only the will, imagination, and heartfulness to implement it. The physical or mental enslavement of any human being diminishes the light and threatens the life of all others. No one knows the birthplace of talent and every individual has a unique contribution to make to the welfare of others. The rights to wisdom and to personal growth belong no longer to an elite but to all people. For them this book was written. Each of us has a "dharma" - a path to follow, a mission in life. Most of our unresolved problems stem from the failure to recognize our talents and to realize our true potential. Only a few fortunate ones are aware of their destiny and are fulfilling it. Those individuals are the ones with Personal Power. This book provides the ethical principals and scientific know-how for unlocking the code to your future, your happiness, your success. Personal Power is the guarantee of individual and social achievement. Personal Power is a practical formula for shared happiness and success which enables each of us to make maximum use of our inborn talents. Here, for the "Me Generation", are the TEN COMMANDMENTS OF PERSONAL POWER 1. BE MASTER OF YOUR DESTINY 2. BECOME SUCCESSFUL BY DOING WHAT YOU LOVE 3. MAKE A CONSTRUCTIVE CONTRIBUTION TO YOUR WORLD 4. BUILD LOYAL RELATIONSHIPS 5. FREE YOUR CREATIVE POTENTIAL 6. DISCOVER COURAGE 7. CARE FOR YOUR HEALTH 8. AVOID SELF-DEFEATING BEHAVIOR 9. APPLY THE POSITIVE POWER OF YOUR MIND 10.COMBINE MATERIAL SUCCESS WITH SPIRITUAL SATISFACTION 5 Personal Power Paul Weinzweig 6 Personal Power Paul Weinzweig Chapter I: THE NATURE OF PERSONAL POWER "There is no meaning to life except the meaning man gives to his life by the unfolding of his powers." - Erich Fromm "Power" is a vigorous word with many shades of evocative meaning. People in positions of power - financial, military, political, educational, legal, bureaucratic - respect it. People outside such positions often suspect it. Personal Power, however, is very different from other forms of power. Personal Power can never be taken away by the whim of the voters, by revolutions, by the fluctuations of the marketplace, by parents, teachers, police or by bureaucratic decisions from higher up. Personal Power and domination are two entirely different concepts. Domination is a symptom of personal weakness because it is caused by ignorance, fear, and isolating egotism. Personal Power, in contrast, is based upon knowledge, courage, and co operation. Personal Power is synonymous with WISDOM: experience strained by the heart and crowned by intelligence. Personal Power should not be confused with wealth, official power, fame or the authority of office. Sometimes they are the same, but often they are not. Many of the "walking dead" of this world occupy positions of official power in government, business, education, and elsewhere. Any signs of Personal Power which they may seem to exhibit are an illusion created by the prestige of their office. Once they lose their wealth or leave their official positions of power, the "walking dead" quickly lose the appear ance of power because that is all it was - appearance. In the early 1920's, the paintings of a renowned Russian artist named NIcholas Roerich were being widely exhibited in America. In one of the large cities, during the tour, a wealthy art patron arranged a festive dinner in 7 Personal Power Paul Weinzweig Roerich's honor. Everything was luxurious and on a grand scale and the most prominent people of the city were present. The host and hostess, both elderly, heartily entertained the guests. Many speeches were delivered. Everything was beautifully and magnificently arranged. After dinner, one of the female guests said to Roerich: "This is indeed a remarkable reception," and added confidentially, "Probably this is the last dinner in this hou se." Roerich looked at his companion in amazement and she, lowering her voice, explained that their host was absolutely ruined and just yesterday he had lost his last three million. Roerich was shocked. The lady added, "Of course, it is not easy for him, especially considering his age. He is already seventy-four." The incongruity of this revelation with the graciousness and calmness of the host and hostess amazed the artist. After that conversation, Roerich began to take a special interest in their fate. Three months after that grand dinner they moved to their former garage. It seemed that everything was lost; but three years later this businessman was again a millionaire and again lived in his 1 former palatial home. The demeanor of the businessman, (his graciousness, cheerfulness, and buoyant self-confidence), during the party in Roer- ich's honor, was not altered in the slightest by the news of his financial bankruptcy. Such conduct and the subsequent return to solvency show clearly that the businessman's power did not come from his wealth but that his wealth came from his considerable Personal Power. Personal Power is accessible equally to the poor and the rich; the schooled and the unschooled; those in favor and those out of favor; women and men; young and old; the physically attractive and the not-so-attractive; to people of all nations, races, and creeds. BUT YOU HAVE TO EARN IT. Personal Power cannot be conferred from without; it can only be created from within. The Webster's Dictionary gives several definitions of power: "great ability to do, act, or affect strongly; vigor; force; strength." The strength of Personal Power resides not merely in the muscles. It lives primarily in the self-mastery of the mind, in the depth of refined feeling in the heart, and in the wisdom of experience retained by every cell of the body. Personal Power is a synthesis of mind, heart, hands, and feet; a working together, in effective harmony, of thought, feeling, and will. To refer to Power as Personal indicates simply that the power belongs to the person and not to the surrounding circumstances. Personal Power is accumulated in time and space but lives outside of both. Personal Power is gathered in the course of life's encounters but grows according to the desire, the will, and the imagination. Personal Power is hewn 8