Seduction Simplified: How to Build an Attractive Personality Through Personal Development to Attract Women

182 Pages·2017·0.8 MB·English

by  German Muhlenberg

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Table of Contents

Prologue
Introduction
STEP I: CHANGE OF VISION
Chapter One: Sexes Are Complementary, Not Opposed To Each Other
Chapter Two: What Does it Mean To Be A Man?
Chapter Three: A “Perfect Ten” Girl
Chapter four: Are All Women The Same?
Chapter Five: A Look Towards The Past
Anecdote I: The Girl On The Bus
STEP II: BUILD A STRONG IDENTITY
Chapter Six: Who Are We Really?
Chapter Seven: Our Value Scale
Chapter Eight: Diversify your Identity
Anecdote II: Chance
STEP III: BE YOURSELF
Chapter Nine: The Three Principles That Influence Our Success With Women
Chapter Ten: What Determines Women´s Attraction
Chapter Eleven: The Key To An Attractive Personality
Chapter Twelve: Honest And Powerful Ways Of Expression
Chapter Thirteen: Expressing Sexual Desire
Chapter Fourteen: When Saying no Becomes Attractive
Chapter Fifteen: Deep Understanding Of Conversation
Chapter Sixteen: Be Funny Without Being A Joke
Anecdote III: Double Date
STEP IV: STRATEGY
Chapter Seventeen: Attraction Is Not Enough
Chapter Eighteen: The Best Places To Get Women
Chapter Nineteen: How AndWhen We Should Kiss A Girl
Chapter Twenty: The Simple And Best Way To Get Her Number
Chapter Twenty-one: The Date Of Your Dreams
Anecdote IV: The Perfect Date
STEP V: HAPPY MEN ARE MORE ATTRACTIVE
Chapter Twenty-two: On Happiness
Chapter Twenty-three: Are Problems A Problem?
Chapter Twenty-four: Happiness Is A Choice
Anecdote V: Continuing My Trip
Epilogue
Acknowledgements
Bibliography
Prologue
When defining the main characteristic of this book for the purpose of this
prologue, I did not hesitate for an instant: Seduction Simplified making the
difficult easy. In order to put across his ideas, Germán employs plain language
and a didactic tone, always followed by his own personal experience, completing
thus the praxis that goes with his theory of seduction. I believe it is impossible to
read this book and find his experience inconsequential for your life; the concepts
he presents are so simple, so true, so wholesome, that you will carry them with
you for a long time.
As far as Germán is concerned, he was definitely the man for this job. He is
one of the pioneers in the scientific study of seduction in Argentina. He is also
one of the most experienced coaches in Latin America, perhaps the most
experienced. I have witnessed how hundreds of men that attended LevantArt
were coached by Germán to improve their nightclub skills, and they thanked him
heatedly for his tips, his dedication and his shared wisdom. But above all, I
would like to highlight that Germán is not just a theorist of seduction, a writer
consecrated to that field or, as they say in the seduction community, a keyboard
jockey; he is one of the experts that has most put into practice all the theories
and techniques that circulate in the world of seduction. I have witnessed it, I
have seen him dozens of times, trying out all kinds of things, not rejecting or
adopting any theory before testing it himself. And so he progressed, on a trial-
and-error basis, and developed what he now shares with us in this book.
I could never reveal any confidences or details of the author’s private life. In
the field of seduction we believe that discretion is a virtue, and in this book
Germán shares the parts of his life he deems relevant. What I can talk to you
about is my own personal experience of being coached by Germán: he was my
one and only seduction coach.
It happened three or four summers back. We were in Mar del Plata, in one
of the trips we organized for a group of students of seduction. It was our last
night there, and I have to be honest, though I was single, I couldn’t bear to think
about women anymore. It’s not that I didn't want to meet anyone that night, I
did. I just couldn’t bring myself to it, my energy was low, and I was
psychologically exhausted. I wanted to go back to Buenos Aires and take a rest
after so many days of partying. That was when I thought: “It’s so unfair, I’ve
been coaching men on seduction for years, and nobody has ever coached me. I
had to learn everything on my own.” Fortunately, Germán was there, providing
guidance to some of the students of the academy. I asked him straight to the
point: “Germán, tonight I want you to tell me what to do, step by step. I don’t
want to do the thinking, but I’d like to get to know that woman…” and I pointed
to him the one I thought was the prettiest around us. As I said before, I consider
discretion a virtue, so I won’t go into detail; I’ll only say I followed his
directions step by step, and nothing ever came to me so easily. The following
morning, had I been given stone, a chisel and a hammer, I would have erected a
monument in honor of Germán in Playa Grande. And that was the day I fully
realized how important such help in this area can be for some people.
As you will have the pleasure of discovering in Seduction Simplified, there
are no magic formulas, unless you consider leading a happy lifestyle,
communicating effectively and having courage to face new challenges to be
magic. Maximizing your lifestyle, developing social skills and growing in
courage are the basic foundations of this work. Every man who wishes to
improve his social and amorous relationships will appreciate this book.
To close by circling back to the beginning, this book uncomplicates the
complicated. This doesn't mean that it is easy to modify harmful behavioral
patterns, some of which we have been dragging for years on end. What is
unquestionable is that we can all become better people, and Seduction Simplified
could be the first step towards that change. What the final destination is depends
on you.
Thank you, Germán, for keeping us grounded with your work; it is my
honor to provide words for the occasion.
Martín Rieznik, Buenos Aires.
Introduction
Since the first books on seduction were published, the use of methods to
attract women, and the learning of them, has been the object of many criticisms
and controversies. One of the most frequent challenges claims that the use of a
method would imply that all women are the same. The answer to this sort of
objection is simple: any kind of social research is based on the observation of
repeated behavioral patterns. Ultimately, the fact that there is such a thing as
psychology does not mean we all have the same thoughts and feelings. The same
happens with seduction. Regardless of sex, no two individuals are identical, but
most people manifest shared behavioral features.
Another very frequent criticism is that seductiveness is innate, and it cannot
possibly be taught. Those who present this kind of argument seem to be unaware
of the fact that throughout their lives men and women acquire and develop ways
of seducing. Some do it without realizing, some study to achieve it, and many
develop their own methods. I believe nobody can categorically judge whether a
method is good or bad, but perhaps they can be gauged on the basis of its
efficacy. As the American expert Leil Lowndes puts it, “true love is a luxury, not
our preordained birthright. As with achieving any luxury, we must examine the
most powerful methods to acquire it.”
Your method may be based on buying flowers, dancing, playing an
instrument, complimenting, lying or being completely honest. Quite a few years
ago, during my first nights out, my “method” consisted in simply sitting down
and waiting for a girl to come up to me…and it worked, but with very few girls!
Let’s just say it was a very limited “method”. The desire to overcome that
limitation was what led me to research the most effective ways to attract women.
Nevertheless, my main aim here is not to expound on the most effective
seduction techniques and methods, but rather on how we can successfully
become more attractive as individuals through personal growth and awareness of
our own potential.

My first steps in the world of seduction
When I was 19 I was madly in love with a young woman who in those times
was beginning her career as a model. I liked her very much. I thought of her as
the love of my life and I couldn’t get her out of my mind, but no matter what I
did, my attempts at winning her over were in vain. And it was during one
frustration-riddled night that all my love for her started to transmute into anger
and hatred. I felt betrayed. Back then I thought, “How is it possible that I, who
offer her so much, come in second place to guys who ignore her or mistreat her?
It makes no sense. She can’t be that silly!” During that night of dejection, I
turned on the TV and, without paying much attention to it, I watched a show in
which two young Argentinian men were being interviewed on the subject of
seduction. They talked about their experience teaching seduction techniques, and
they announced the upcoming inauguration of their very own academy,
LevantArt. These young men were Martín Rieznik and Mike Tabaschek, who
would later become very good friends of mine. At one point in the interview,
Martín explained that sometimes men blame women, and don’t realize they are
the ones making a mistake. That phrase stuck in my mind for several minutes. It
was at that moment that I started thinking, “what if I am the one doing things the
wrong way?”
Suddenly, all the anger turned into enthusiasm: “This is a good thing,” I
thought, “I can work to improve myself, to take control over the situation”. And
even though that insight played a decisive part in my life as a man, this story
lacks a romantic movie-like happy ending: I never got the girl. I tried for a long
time and I failed. And you know what? I had to admit that in a certain way it had
been my fault, and that encouraged me to improve.
A few weeks later I was starting my first seminar in LevantArt and reading