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All Rights Reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced in any form or by any means, including scanning, photocopying, or otherwise without prior written permission of the copyright holder. Copyright © 2017 Simplified Series on Kindle : Seduction Simplified Free Version How to Talk to Girls: Free Version 10 Attractive habits Free Version Happiness Simplified Free Version Travel and Love How to Talk to Girls: Full Version Seduction Simplified: Full Version Table of Contents Prologue Introduction STEP I: CHANGE OF VISION Chapter One: Sexes Are Complementary, Not Opposed To Each Other Chapter Two: What Does it Mean To Be A Man? Chapter Three: A “Perfect Ten” Girl Chapter four: Are All Women The Same? Chapter Five: A Look Towards The Past Anecdote I: The Girl On The Bus STEP II: BUILD A STRONG IDENTITY Chapter Six: Who Are We Really? Chapter Seven: Our Value Scale Chapter Eight: Diversify your Identity Anecdote II: Chance STEP III: BE YOURSELF Chapter Nine: The Three Principles That Influence Our Success With Women Chapter Ten: What Determines Women´s Attraction Chapter Eleven: The Key To An Attractive Personality Chapter Twelve: Honest And Powerful Ways Of Expression Chapter Thirteen: Expressing Sexual Desire Chapter Fourteen: When Saying no Becomes Attractive Chapter Fifteen: Deep Understanding Of Conversation Chapter Sixteen: Be Funny Without Being A Joke Anecdote III: Double Date STEP IV: STRATEGY Chapter Seventeen: Attraction Is Not Enough Chapter Eighteen: The Best Places To Get Women Chapter Nineteen: How AndWhen We Should Kiss A Girl Chapter Twenty: The Simple And Best Way To Get Her Number Chapter Twenty-one: The Date Of Your Dreams Anecdote IV: The Perfect Date STEP V: HAPPY MEN ARE MORE ATTRACTIVE Chapter Twenty-two: On Happiness Chapter Twenty-three: Are Problems A Problem? Chapter Twenty-four: Happiness Is A Choice Anecdote V: Continuing My Trip Epilogue Acknowledgements Bibliography Prologue When defining the main characteristic of this book for the purpose of this prologue, I did not hesitate for an instant: Seduction Simplified making the difficult easy. In order to put across his ideas, Germán employs plain language and a didactic tone, always followed by his own personal experience, completing thus the praxis that goes with his theory of seduction. I believe it is impossible to read this book and find his experience inconsequential for your life; the concepts he presents are so simple, so true, so wholesome, that you will carry them with you for a long time. As far as Germán is concerned, he was definitely the man for this job. He is one of the pioneers in the scientific study of seduction in Argentina. He is also one of the most experienced coaches in Latin America, perhaps the most experienced. I have witnessed how hundreds of men that attended LevantArt were coached by Germán to improve their nightclub skills, and they thanked him heatedly for his tips, his dedication and his shared wisdom. But above all, I would like to highlight that Germán is not just a theorist of seduction, a writer consecrated to that field or, as they say in the seduction community, a keyboard jockey; he is one of the experts that has most put into practice all the theories and techniques that circulate in the world of seduction. I have witnessed it, I have seen him dozens of times, trying out all kinds of things, not rejecting or adopting any theory before testing it himself. And so he progressed, on a trial- and-error basis, and developed what he now shares with us in this book. I could never reveal any confidences or details of the author’s private life. In the field of seduction we believe that discretion is a virtue, and in this book Germán shares the parts of his life he deems relevant. What I can talk to you about is my own personal experience of being coached by Germán: he was my one and only seduction coach. It happened three or four summers back. We were in Mar del Plata, in one of the trips we organized for a group of students of seduction. It was our last night there, and I have to be honest, though I was single, I couldn’t bear to think about women anymore. It’s not that I didn't want to meet anyone that night, I did. I just couldn’t bring myself to it, my energy was low, and I was psychologically exhausted. I wanted to go back to Buenos Aires and take a rest after so many days of partying. That was when I thought: “It’s so unfair, I’ve been coaching men on seduction for years, and nobody has ever coached me. I had to learn everything on my own.” Fortunately, Germán was there, providing guidance to some of the students of the academy. I asked him straight to the point: “Germán, tonight I want you to tell me what to do, step by step. I don’t want to do the thinking, but I’d like to get to know that woman…” and I pointed to him the one I thought was the prettiest around us. As I said before, I consider discretion a virtue, so I won’t go into detail; I’ll only say I followed his directions step by step, and nothing ever came to me so easily. The following morning, had I been given stone, a chisel and a hammer, I would have erected a monument in honor of Germán in Playa Grande. And that was the day I fully realized how important such help in this area can be for some people. As you will have the pleasure of discovering in Seduction Simplified, there are no magic formulas, unless you consider leading a happy lifestyle, communicating effectively and having courage to face new challenges to be magic. Maximizing your lifestyle, developing social skills and growing in courage are the basic foundations of this work. Every man who wishes to improve his social and amorous relationships will appreciate this book. To close by circling back to the beginning, this book uncomplicates the complicated. This doesn't mean that it is easy to modify harmful behavioral patterns, some of which we have been dragging for years on end. What is unquestionable is that we can all become better people, and Seduction Simplified could be the first step towards that change. What the final destination is depends on you. Thank you, Germán, for keeping us grounded with your work; it is my honor to provide words for the occasion. Martín Rieznik, Buenos Aires. Introduction Since the first books on seduction were published, the use of methods to attract women, and the learning of them, has been the object of many criticisms and controversies. One of the most frequent challenges claims that the use of a method would imply that all women are the same. The answer to this sort of objection is simple: any kind of social research is based on the observation of repeated behavioral patterns. Ultimately, the fact that there is such a thing as psychology does not mean we all have the same thoughts and feelings. The same happens with seduction. Regardless of sex, no two individuals are identical, but most people manifest shared behavioral features. Another very frequent criticism is that seductiveness is innate, and it cannot possibly be taught. Those who present this kind of argument seem to be unaware of the fact that throughout their lives men and women acquire and develop ways of seducing. Some do it without realizing, some study to achieve it, and many develop their own methods. I believe nobody can categorically judge whether a method is good or bad, but perhaps they can be gauged on the basis of its efficacy. As the American expert Leil Lowndes puts it, “true love is a luxury, not our preordained birthright. As with achieving any luxury, we must examine the most powerful methods to acquire it.” Your method may be based on buying flowers, dancing, playing an instrument, complimenting, lying or being completely honest. Quite a few years ago, during my first nights out, my “method” consisted in simply sitting down and waiting for a girl to come up to me…and it worked, but with very few girls! Let’s just say it was a very limited “method”. The desire to overcome that limitation was what led me to research the most effective ways to attract women. Nevertheless, my main aim here is not to expound on the most effective seduction techniques and methods, but rather on how we can successfully become more attractive as individuals through personal growth and awareness of our own potential. My first steps in the world of seduction When I was 19 I was madly in love with a young woman who in those times was beginning her career as a model. I liked her very much. I thought of her as the love of my life and I couldn’t get her out of my mind, but no matter what I did, my attempts at winning her over were in vain. And it was during one frustration-riddled night that all my love for her started to transmute into anger and hatred. I felt betrayed. Back then I thought, “How is it possible that I, who offer her so much, come in second place to guys who ignore her or mistreat her? It makes no sense. She can’t be that silly!” During that night of dejection, I turned on the TV and, without paying much attention to it, I watched a show in which two young Argentinian men were being interviewed on the subject of seduction. They talked about their experience teaching seduction techniques, and they announced the upcoming inauguration of their very own academy, LevantArt. These young men were Martín Rieznik and Mike Tabaschek, who would later become very good friends of mine. At one point in the interview, Martín explained that sometimes men blame women, and don’t realize they are the ones making a mistake. That phrase stuck in my mind for several minutes. It was at that moment that I started thinking, “what if I am the one doing things the wrong way?” Suddenly, all the anger turned into enthusiasm: “This is a good thing,” I thought, “I can work to improve myself, to take control over the situation”. And even though that insight played a decisive part in my life as a man, this story lacks a romantic movie-like happy ending: I never got the girl. I tried for a long time and I failed. And you know what? I had to admit that in a certain way it had been my fault, and that encouraged me to improve. A few weeks later I was starting my first seminar in LevantArt and reading

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