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ι r - THE ENNEAGRAM APPLIED TO COUPLES AND CONGREGATIONS IN μ - KOREAN CONTEXT 잭 r- b「 교회의 질척 성장율 위한에니어그행 부부프로그쩡 개발 및 활용에 관한 연구 」 -한국의 좋은땅교회를중심으로 - A Professional Proiect Presented to the Faculty of Claremont School ofThe。logy In Partial Fulfillment “ of the Requirement r the Degree of D。ct。rofMmistry By Yong Ko。Jung Jan 2015 02015 Jung All RIGHTS RESERVED This professional project completed by YONG KOO JUNG has been presented to and accepted by the faculty of Claremont School of Theology in partial fulfillment of the r여uiπmentsofthe DOCTOR OF MINISTRY Faculty Committee Young Gweon You, Chairperson Kathleen J. Greider Dean of the Faculty Sheryl A. Kujawa-Holbro。k May2015 ABSTRACT THE ENNEAGRAM APPLIED TO COUPLES AND CONGREGATIONS IN KOREAN CONTEXT by y。ngK。。Jung Nowadays, Korean churches tend to c。ncentratemore on quantitative gr。wth,but still struggle with accomphshmg qualitative growth such as communal maturity and healthy relational c。uplemteractl。nsin the church To achieve such g。wthand a deep understanding 。fc。uple κlat1onsh1ps, there is a need for small group act1v1t1es within the church. Typical examples 。fhelpfulactivities are th。sethat involve the family gr。up Family is the foundation of all groups ma church, and the healthy relati。nshipbetween husband and wife has a great positive impact 。nother small groups Therefore, c。nflicts between husband and wife that hurt each 。therwill cause crises m fam1hes This frequently results m adverse influences on children immediately, and eventually may have negative effects 。nrelau。nshipswithin the church From this pomt ofv1ew, supporting couples as they learn to develop healthy relationships is an important factorthat leads to qualitative growth of the church. Thus, programs that enhance c。uplerelationships are required m the church, and I will prop。se using Enneagram programs that deal with individuals' natural and essential desires and tendencies as a model of a couple relati。nshipenhancement program in the church. The results of this pr。~ectaπ summarized as follows First, the elements of the qualitative growth ofa couple ministry in the church community was understood as prom이ing these factors I) understand mg the characteristics ofone s spouse, 2) kn。wingdiπerences in sens。rypreference, 3) hstenmg to each 。ther,4) promoting conversations, 5) expressing aπect,。n‘6) understanding the preferential behavi。rofone’s spouse, and 7) dealmg with g。nflicts Second, Enneagram programs help c。uplest。check the1r 。wnstπngthsand weaknesses and guide them to respect each other. Third, th1S project shows what changes happen using this program This project was done with 16 couples who were selected from the K。rean G。。dlandPresbyterian Church, and c。nfirmedthe1r marital experience level through an interview report. The experience πp。nis expected to sh。wan increase in their emotional depth, the strength 。freflect,。n,understandmg others with empathetic attitude‘ as well as the level 。fcl。senessl。each other. Moreover, when the mtimate couple attends church, the c。upletends to easily become mvolved members of the church, and this 1mmed1ately aπects the quahtat1ve growth of the church This study focuses 。nrealistic phen。mena,showing h。wcouples with conflicts are able to develop healthy relauonsh1ps, and 11 will produce meanmgfi비 data t。 dem。nstrateh。wthe church is able to grow quahtat1vely by applymg the organic model of Enneagram. Add1t1onal reseaπh studies are required t。exp I。mm。πdeeply how th1S model can be used t。increase healthy and qualitative growth in the church. Future studies can also expl。rea wide range ofκlau。nsh1pissues that can enhance healthy family life. KEYWORDS: Marital Growth Program, Qualitative growth of the Church, Enneagram, Hatunna SUMMARY This project explores how the church helps couples devel。ph。listicrelationships as well as how the development of couple relauonsh1ps affects qualitauve 딩rowth within the church. Many curπnt couple relationship enhancement programs in the church deal primarily with external aspects of couple relationships. Thus, this project tries to perform a study m which I gradually m。ve From c。uples" unc。nscious inner world to their conscious levels of thought l。prop。sepracucal practices for improving relationships The first chapter.‘ summarizes the c。nceptof qualitative growth through a discuss,。nof the arguments and the importance of the ra1Sed 1Ssues 。nthe qualitative growth of church Also‘ 1t introduces the definitions of key tenns and methodology 。fthe evaluauon or exist mg research‘ and reveals the extents and hm1tat1ons of the study In P하ticular. healing and caring 。fthemarital relati。nshipwhich is the smallest unit of qualitative growth. should make the quality of the mteracuon between each 。therl。be an integrated process with conscious communication from the unconscious reaction patterns And furtherthe influence 。finteract,。nshould be able to act as a fact。r。fthehealthy community. The quality 。finteract,。nIS that it should be able to rec。gnizethe difference fully between each other. Therefore, the need for program devel。pmentto help the growth of the marital relauonship was emphasized In Chapter 2, the theological approach t。qu히llallve growth of church was attempted by expanding Christian A Schwarz’s l。veπlau。nshipamong his eight kinds of the。riesof holisuc small groups It helps to understand the relevance and qualitative growth of the quantitative, qualitative, and organic aspects 。fchurch growth, and the approach, such as the h。meministry Also, 1t helps t。understand and to organize the view 。ffamllyfor the qual11at1ve approach through Biblical approach:‘ Old Testament’s view of family, Jesus Christ’s view of family, Paul’s view 。ffam1ly.In addlli。n,through the ecclesi。logyof the home model of Gen Gets, the role 。fmamage, family and church was looked at as theologically. And, family-theological approach was done by looking at the four virtues 。famamage that C. J. Whitehead emphasizes self-recognillon and understanding, expresSJ。nof intimacy, maintaining the faithfulness, and integration of wisdom In Chapter 3, the psychol。g1calapproach 。nmarital relationship -which is the basis r。rthe qualllallve growth 。fchurch-was done First, the research 。nmarital relat1onsh1p were found from home and abroad, then these following studies helped to understand and to approach to the marital relationships; John M. Guttmann’s study that guides l。fonn a marital relationship with psych。l。gicalapproaches, IMAGO therapy that helps l。reflect on couple’S inner surface of the unc。nsc1ousness‘and the Enneagram t。help understand the quahtat1ve d1ff농rence between couples Chapter 4 addresses the devel。pment。fprogramfor marital relationship based 。n the extracted data from the previous studies. It IS to find 。utthe model's elements 。fa healthy c。uple,t。organize the processes and procedures of developing marital relationship growth program by findmg the elements for marital relat,。nshipgrowth, and to introduce Hatunna that is the practice 。fmarital relati。nshipgrowth program. The program was addressed that helps to understand the maj。rproblems 。fc。uple’sgrowth - conversation method, expresSJon ofaffecll。n,preferred action, conflict-c。pingstrategies- to look at a d1ff농rences between couple, and to guide unconsc,。USto CORSCIOUS In Chapter 5. It was analyzed m which part has grown out amonι conversation meth。d,expπSSI。n。faffecuon‘preferred action, connict-c。pingstrategies 30 couples’ relati。nshipswho attended to the program that was devel。pedm Chapter 4. The c。uples were interviewed on their reactions before experiencing, when experiencing, and after experiencing the marital relationship growth program, Hatunna The interviews were coded and analyzed to examine the subjects, c。uplemformauon, behef status, couple situation, sense ofbelongmg, c。mmunalcharacter, healing, change, family settlement Then, how the result 。fmaritalrelati。nshipgrowth affected the qualitative growth of church was looked at. The Chapter 6‘ the concluS1on, S앵gests that marital relauonsh1p growth program can be used not only at church but m vari。usareas, based on the marital relati。nsh1p growth for qualitative growth of church Als。,the bibliography, c。nsentof interview, and analyS1s data will be added m Appendix In Chapter 7, I will propose a couple relationship enhancement program based on the couple relati。nshipgrowth which this proJe디 d않Is with In the appendix, I will add biblio응쩌phy, the mterv1ew consent form I used, and analyzed interview data 목차 TABLE 。FCONTENTS Chapter Page l. 셔론 lntr。ducuon A. 문제제기 Raising Questi。ns B. 제기된문제의논의 Discussi。n。fthe Questi。ns .. 4 c. 논지의토론 DISCUSSI。nof the Thesis ‘ … …“… …-----… “ …… …-• • • • ••• • 6 D. 기존연구에대한명가 Hist。ry。fResearch .9 E. 방법론과방법들 Meth。do I. 부부관lo계gy성“장 …프---로--그-…앵…모…형…의--- -개----발--- ---- --------……---------------’ ‘ …------------•••••••• 15 Devel。pment。fCouple Relationship M。del. 15 2. 연구방법론과연당 Research Meth。dand Interview .16 F. 주요용어의정의 Mam Termin。l。gy ... .17 I. 질객성장 Qualitative Gr。wth. 17 2. 에니어그햄 Enneagram .17 3. 부부판제 4. 하M툰ari나ta l Relan。nsh1p“ • ………----………---------…… -----‘ … …… .17 Hatunna 」7 G. 연구범위와제한생 Scope and Limitati。n。fResearch. 18 I. 연구법위 Scope 。IResearch .18 2제한생 L1m1tat1。n …… …………………-------------- • 18 H. 각장의개요 Syn。야. 。fEach Chapter ...- -……---…,, .. 18 11. 교회의 질척 성장에 대한 신학객 이해 Qualitative Growth 。fthe Church in a The。l。gicalUnderstanding 21 A. Christian A. Sch、.varz의 질적 교희생장 Christian A Schwarz‘5 Natural Gr。wth 21 B. 건강한 가정의 성셔척 이혜 Understanding 。fthe Biblical Perspectives on a Healthy Family ... ……--------------…24 C. Getz의 교회론 가갱모렐 Getz’s Church The。ry H。meMinistry .36 D. Whitehead의 Marring Well The Element 。fMarriage 40 E. 교회의 질책 생장과 가쟁풍통체와의 상관생 Qualitative Growth 。f the Church and the H。me Community and the Correlati。n 41 m. 부부판제애 대한 심리학척 정근 Psych。logicalApproach I。Rel a ti。nsh1p……………,----------------- -----…………,, •••• .46 A. 국내외부부관계연구 D。mesticand lnternati。nalResearch 。nMarital Relationships .46 B. 가트땐의 부부관계 이론 …“ … G。ttman'sTheo•y。fMamalRelat1。nsh1ps . . -““‘ 51 c. 에니어그햄의 부부관계 이론 E meagram Theory of Marital Relati。nships 53 D. 이마고치료의이론 The。ry。fIMAGO Therapy ......... …………… , • , , , • , …… … •• 79 E. NLP의 선효감각체제 이론 The。η。fNLP System: VAKD. .84 IV. 부부판계 성장 프로그램 개발 Devel。pmentof Marital Gr,。wthProgram .87 A. 부부판계 성장 프로그햄 개발 모형 M。del。fMarital Devel。pmentGrowth Program. ... .88 B. 연담과정과방법 Interview Pr。cessand Meth。d 90