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Omar Johnson’s How To Overcome Your Self Limiting Beliefs & Achieve Anything You Want Copyright Notices Copyright © 2012 by Omar Johnson All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, mechanical or electronic, including photocopying and recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher. Requests for permission for further information should be addressed to Make Profits Easy LLC 497 West Side Avenue Suite 134 Jersey City, N.J. 07304 Legal Notices While all attempts have been made to verify information provided in this publication, neither the author nor the Publisher assumes any responsibility for errors, omissions or contrary interpretation of the subject matter herein. The purchaser or reader of this publication assumes responsibility for the use of these materials and information. Adherence to all applicable laws and regulations, both federal and state and local, governing professional licensing, business practices, advertising and all other aspects of doing business in United States or any other jurisdiction is the sole responsibility of the purchaser or reader. The author and Publisher assume no responsibility or liability whatsoever on the behalf of any purchaser or reader of these materials. We expressly do not guarantee any results you may or may not get as a result of following our recommendations. You must test everything for yourself. Table of Contents Introduction Part 1: Background to Self-Limiting Beliefs Why you need to have great beliefs in order to be great. The inner and outer world The 3 ways in which you process your sense data Internal Filters Beliefs Part 2: Exercises Exercise 1: Goal setting Exercise 2: Future Projection Exercise 3: Setting a positive anchor. Exercise 4: Contrasting beliefs with things you don’t believe Exercise 5: Reframing Beliefs Exercise 6: Reframing Beliefs Conclusion Other Books Written By Omar Johnson Introduction What your beliefs are and the way you think are the two defining factors that will determine whether or not you will be successful in your endeavors. These two defining factors are what is known as a mindset. A mindset is universally defined as a habitual or characteristic mental attitude that determines how you will interpret and respond to situations. Two examples of individuals having incredible mindsets are Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods. Tiger Woods has a mindset and a core belief that every golf ball that he hits will go in and every tournament that he plays in he will be victorious. All of his golf shots don’t go in and he doesn’t win every tournament but is there any wonder why at the age of 33 he won 92 golf championships? It has to do with his mindset. Michael Jordan is known as the best basketball player that has ever lived but did you know that he was cut from his high school basketball team as sophomore because at 5’9” he was deemed to underdeveloped? Of course that did not deter him. He practiced even harder. He grew 6’6” tall and within the next two years became a high school All American. He went on to establish a distinguished career which included hitting the last shot to win the NCAA college basketball championship, winning 6 NBA titles, 5 MVPs and a slew of other accomplishments. Why was he such a winner? Why did he dominate? Simply because of his mindset. He believed that he was a winner so he won. He believed that he was destined to dominate so he dominated. So let me ask you what is your mindset when it comes to setting and achieving your goals? Do you have super goals or mediocre ones? Are your planning and skill set that you need to achieve your goals sufficient or insufficient? Do you pursue your goals with clarity, vigor and passion or are you unsure of your direction and are guilty of giving a half hearted attempt? Whatever your case may be there is always room for improvement. For example, if you are a commission based salesperson and you are making 10-20 sales per month and that results in you making a “decent” living instead of being content with that develop the mindset and take the action necessary to do 50,100, 300 or more sales per month. It can be done. In fact, no matter what your goals are you can achieve anything that you want. Remember it is all about your belief system and the way that you program yourself to think. If you think that you can and act on that belief chances are you will accomplish your goals if you execute. If you are not thinking “Big” in this way at the present moment chances are you have self-limiting beliefs that are standing in your way and interfering with you achieving success. Self-limiting beliefs affect the total outcome in all areas of entire your life because it has to do with your core beliefs which triggers the way you think and ultimately the way you act. So how do you overcome and eradicate your self-limiting beliefs and achieve anything that you want? In this book How to Overcome Your Self Limiting Beliefs & Achieve Anything You Want I show you exactly how. So take your time when you read it so that you can fully absorb and understand the concepts as well as the solutions. Part 1: Background to Self-Limiting Beliefs Why you need to have great beliefs in order to be great. The first part of this book will consist of an explanation of how our minds work and where beliefs come from. In the second part you will be shown exercises to help you get rid of your self-limiting beliefs forever and how to install more productive and empowering beliefs. The idea that it is the thoughts that we have that shape our reality is becoming more and more popular in mainstream western culture. Through films like the Matrix and the Secret and through disciplines such as Hypnosis and Neuro- Linguistic-Programming people are becoming more and more aware that their psychology is for a very large part responsible for the results in their lives. Although some people will dismiss a lot of these ideas as new-age pseudo- science the fact of the matter is that mainstream science and psychology are finally catching up to the fact that the mind is a very powerful tool. One which can aid us or inhibit us in many ways. You only need to look at how successful sports people such as Tiger Woods employ positive thinking and visualization to such good effect for evidence of this. In fact you can ask any successful person and they will say that positive thoughts and beliefs are a huge component of their success. It is always the ‘realists’ (more negative people) that don’t believe in the power of having great beliefs, and their results in life are the worse for it. Although this book won’t go into great scientific detail be assured that none of the ideas or exercises presented here were randomly plucked out of thin air. They were modelled from the thinking patterns of successful people. The mind and body are intimately linked. Every thought you have is reflected in how you hold your body, the tone of your voice, the color of your cheeks, even the subtle dilation of your pupils. Humans primarily still communicate through body-language and voice-tone (the actual words that we speak are less important than we think) and these subtle things we communicate to others determines how people treat us, what expectations they have of us, how open and honest they will be with us and whether they will like or dislike us. Our social relations are one of the most important things in determining success in our life and so having the right beliefs and attitudes will determine if you get that date, promotion or pay rise. Besides these social repercussions you will literally see more opportunities and be more productive if you have the right mindset. How this all works will be explained in the following sections. The inner and outer world Everything that you see, hear, touch and feel outside of you in the outer world is raw data for your senses. It is not yet information or knowledge and before it has been processed by your mind it needs to be ascribed a meaning. The unique meaning that each person gives to the raw data will determine their emotions, behavior and their results in the world. The five senses absorb millions of bits of information per second over the course of an average day. To filter through this otherwise overwhelming amount of data we have evolved something called the Reticular Activating System. The R.A.S. is important for maintaining our state of consciousness and is located at the core of the brain stem between the myelencephalon and mesencephalon. One of the functions of the R.A.S. is to filter through all the data that we receive through our senses. It has to quickly decide which data to bring to our conscious mind and which to leave up to our unconscious to process or ignore. In order to understand what is going on in the world around them, a person has to take all the data they receive and create an internal representation of that data, pictures, sensations, sounds, feelings, emotions and the things that you say to yourself in your mind. In this way the data that a person receives from the outer world becomes an internal experience. How this interpretation is formed is dependent on several factors including, how you feel (otherwise known as your emotional state) in your mind and body. Thus the external data is run through an internal processing system consisting of the R.A.S. and psychological internal filters that create an individual’s subjective reality. We will discuss these psychological filters in more depth later but for now it is sufficient to know that our internal filters direct our R.A.S. to sort for specific kinds of information in a way that is consistent with those internal filters (values, beliefs and concept of our identity and reality). In this way you can see that this is a self-reinforcing process. For example, a woman that believes that all men are useless will focus on all the negative traits in men and forget all the positive things and a man who believes all women are manipulative will only

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