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HOW TO LAY GIRLS GUIDE HTTP://WWW.PICKUPGUIDE.COM/LAYGUIDE 1 2 Contents GENERAL RULES ...............................................11 3s Rule .................................................................................................................... 11 Be the Alpha/Dominant male ................................................................................. 12 Do my looks matter? .............................................................................................. 13 The Iranian from Hell ............................................................................................. 13 Nice guys vs jerks ................................................................................................... 14 Good traits to have/develop to be a successful player ........................................... 15 It all comes down to satisfaction ............................................................................ 16 Women want good sex and romance ...................................................................... 16 Should you express or contain your sexual desires? .............................................. 16 Wanna play the dating game? Um� let’s see� .................................................... 17 The rules with your wingman................................................................................. 18 GETTING STARTED ............................................ 19 On confidence and getting started with approaching girls .................................... 19 Experiment! ............................................................................................................ 20 Casual meetings vs pick-ups .................................................................................. 20 At a party ................................................................................................................ 21 Just say "Hi" ........................................................................................................... 21 Talk to girls everywhere ......................................................................................... 22 How to initiate a conversation................................................................................ 22 Talking to her = echoing her .................................................................................. 23 Fluff talk ................................................................................................................. 23 The don’ts of fluff talk ............................................................................................ 26 Reading body language .......................................................................................... 26 Mirroring ................................................................................................................ 30 Kinaesthetics (aka kino) - have kino with your female friends/acquaintances ..... 32 APPROACHING AND MAKING THEM INTERESTED. 35 Where to meet girls ................................................................................................ 35 If she seems unapproachable .................................................................................. 38 General guidelines on approaching ........................................................................ 39 Demonstrate value and personality ........................................................................ 41 The importance of a first impression...................................................................... 42 Pace and lead .......................................................................................................... 42 APPROACHES .................................................... 44 Simple approaches .................................................................................................. 44 The cold approach .................................................................................................. 47 The collision approach ........................................................................................... 47 3 The available chair approach ................................................................................. 48 The crappy sketch-artist approach ......................................................................... 48 The dramatic approach ........................................................................................... 49 The cellular approach ............................................................................................. 51 The familiar approach ............................................................................................ 51 Pez opener .............................................................................................................. 52 You look stunning approach ................................................................................... 52 Pacing the ongoing reality ...................................................................................... 54 Buying her a drink .................................................................................................. 55 Should I ask for her name? ..................................................................................... 56 Leech off someone else’s crash and burn ............................................................... 57 If she’s working ...................................................................................................... 57 If you just have to use a pick-up line ..................................................................... 58 "I like�" game as an opener .................................................................................. 61 Mr Smooth technique ............................................................................................. 63 The questions game ................................................................................................ 66 GIMMICKS ........................................................ 67 Use a gimmick to get going.................................................................................... 67 Palm-reading - why should you use it? .................................................................. 67 The three major lines in the hand ........................................................................... 68 Reading the line of Fate ......................................................................................... 70 Reading her love-life .............................................................................................. 71 Reading the line of Heart ....................................................................................... 72 Reading the mount of Venus .................................................................................. 74 A sample reading routine ....................................................................................... 75 NIGHT-CLUBS AND DANCING .............................. 77 Night-clubs vs other places to meet girls ............................................................... 77 How to switch to the right mindset ........................................................................ 78 Asking for a dance.................................................................................................. 78 About dancing ........................................................................................................ 79 Slow dancing .......................................................................................................... 80 Fast dance to slow dance ........................................................................................ 81 After the dance ....................................................................................................... 83 GROUP TACTICS ............................................... 84 If she is with a friend / a group of friends .............................................................. 84 Approaching a group of many girls ....................................................................... 86 How to have her leave the group............................................................................ 86 NEGHITS........................................................... 88 Neghits explained ................................................................................................... 88 Neghits expansion pack.......................................................................................... 90 4 ELICITING VALUES............................................ 92 Eliciting values explained ...................................................................................... 92 Trance words explained.......................................................................................... 95 Calibrate the girl ..................................................................................................... 95 Eliciting values - introducing the questions ........................................................... 97 Eliciting values - the answers ................................................................................. 99 The perfect relationship ........................................................................................ 100 GM STYLE ..................................................... 102 GM style explained .............................................................................................. 102 GM style lines....................................................................................................... 103 SEXUAL TALK.................................................. 105 Talking about sex.................................................................................................. 105 Use sexual stories to get her horny ...................................................................... 106 The Ideal Guy routine........................................................................................... 107 PATTERNING ................................................... 108 Patterning explained ............................................................................................. 108 Delivering patterns - general rules ....................................................................... 109 Delivering patterns - tonality ............................................................................... 112 ADDITIONAL PATTERNING SKILLS .....................115 Trance words explained........................................................................................ 115 Anchoring explained ............................................................................................ 116 Quoting and stacking realities .............................................................................. 117 Time distortion ..................................................................................................... 119 Bullshit fantasies .................................................................................................. 120 Thought Binding .................................................................................................. 120 Submodalities ....................................................................................................... 122 Read romance novels to enrich your patterning language ................................... 125 Common misconceptions and problems with patterning ..................................... 125 THE PATTERNS ............................................... 132 How to approach and introduce patterns into a discussion.................................. 132 Discovery Channel pattern ................................................................................... 133 Stone Necklace pattern ......................................................................................... 134 The Trust pattern .................................................................................................. 135 The Rose patterns ................................................................................................. 136 Believing the Supernatural patterns ..................................................................... 139 Passion to Passion pattern .................................................................................... 140 Mental Screen pattern........................................................................................... 141 Peak Experience pattern ....................................................................................... 141 Natural Woman pattern......................................................................................... 142 5 Meeting the Perfect Man pattern .......................................................................... 143 Feeling Drawn patterns ........................................................................................ 144 Incredible Connection patterns ............................................................................ 146 Falling in Love patterns........................................................................................ 152 Dream pattern ....................................................................................................... 157 Being Similar pattern............................................................................................ 158 "Too bad we don’t� but if we could�" pattern .................................................. 158 Find Your Desire pattern ...................................................................................... 159 Sex is Natural pattern ........................................................................................... 159 "The more� the more" pattern ............................................................................ 160 Reading the Poem pattern .................................................................................... 160 The Eyes patterns ................................................................................................. 161 I Want You pattern ................................................................................................ 162 At Least We Can Be Friends pattern .................................................................... 162 Indifference to Attraction pattern ......................................................................... 163 Find That Girl pattern ........................................................................................... 165 Blow Job pattern ................................................................................................... 165 Backdoor Pleasure patterns .................................................................................. 167 The Void pattern ................................................................................................... 169 The Door pattern .................................................................................................. 169 Presuppositions and other "mind-tricks".............................................................. 171 LONG-DISTANCE SEDUCTION ........................... 173 Become your own "friend" for her ....................................................................... 173 Patterning over the phone..................................................................................... 174 Nickname-tease .................................................................................................... 175 NOW THAT SHE’S INTERESTED ........................ 176 Common signs of interest ..................................................................................... 176 Building a bridge AFC-style ................................................................................ 177 If more than one girl is giving you the vibe ......................................................... 178 Reading the signs of a "committed" woman ........................................................ 178 Capitalise .............................................................................................................. 180 Don’t forget to make a timely exit ........................................................................ 181 Closing - the kiss close and the number close ..................................................... 181 Asking for a� date? ............................................................................................ 185 Proceeding instead of closing............................................................................... 188 Our World routine................................................................................................. 191 Inviting the girl over to your place....................................................................... 193 If she has second thoughts.................................................................................... 195 My home is my love-nest ..................................................................................... 197 Networking and pivots ......................................................................................... 198 HANDLING THE GIRLS ..................................... 200 6 Attract girls by being busy ................................................................................... 200 Suggest competition ............................................................................................. 201 Put a price on yourself .......................................................................................... 201 Show a willingness to walk away ........................................................................ 202 Use her friends ...................................................................................................... 202 Judge her by her actions, not her words ............................................................... 203 Have and reveal secrets ........................................................................................ 203 Use poetry ............................................................................................................. 204 If she compliments you ........................................................................................ 204 Act like the two of you have something really special going on ......................... 204 Paying her a compliment ...................................................................................... 205 Cook for her and "date" at home .......................................................................... 206 When should you call a woman after having sex with her? ................................ 206 Romantic gifts and things to do ........................................................................... 207 Managing many relationships at once .................................................................. 209 TROUBLESHOOTING..........................................211 She wants YOUR number instead? ...................................................................... 211 If she still refuses to give you her number ........................................................... 212 If she says "Why do you ask?" ............................................................................. 213 If she asks "Are you trying to seduce me?" ......................................................... 214 "Have you ever�?" gets busted........................................................................... 215 Ejecting ................................................................................................................. 215 She cancels a date ................................................................................................. 216 If she doesn’t return your phone-calls/e-mails ..................................................... 217 If she disrespects you ........................................................................................... 218 The age difference problem.................................................................................. 219 Nothing works with this girl ................................................................................ 220 If she says: "Let’s just be friends", aka LJBF’s you.............................................. 220 Dealing with rejection .......................................................................................... 221 But I really want this girl! .................................................................................... 223 THE BOYFRIEND PROBLEM ............................. 225 If she says she has a boyfriend ............................................................................. 225 Alienating the boyfriend in her mind ................................................................... 226 Boyfriend-smashing techniques ........................................................................... 228 Boyfriend Destroyer patterns ............................................................................... 229 MISCELLANEOUS............................................. 233 Fun and games ...................................................................................................... 233 "Bad" jokes ........................................................................................................... 235 Play a game of Crash and Burn ............................................................................ 239 Things to do for fun .............................................................................................. 240 Top colognes for getting girls .............................................................................. 240 7 Miscellaneous suggestions and observations about seduction ............................ 241 Appendices......................... 247 Eye contact experiment ........................................................................................ 248 The pivot theory ................................................................................................... 250 Falling in love vs being a player .......................................................................... 252 Female seducer turning straight girls into bi and lesbian .................................... 254 Rolling Stone article about Speed Seduction ....................................................... 256 Job Interview patterns .......................................................................................... 260 FIELD REPORTS .............................................. 263 The effetiveness of persistence with a smile ........................................................ 263 Svengali’s street pick-up ....................................................................................... 264 Svengali’s friend’s street pick-up .......................................................................... 265 The original Mr Smooth posts .............................................................................. 266 David Shade’s real-life seduction ......................................................................... 270 Maniac High’s report, NYC’s comments .............................................................. 276 The Orgasmotron - planting a post-hypnotic suggestion ..................................... 282 8 #close - the number close. Get the girl’s number. Give your’s if she only agrees to an exchange. See Closing for more details. *close - kiss close. Get the girl to kiss you. Then #close:) See Closing for more details. 3s rule - the three seconds rule. There may be a maximum of only three seconds between you seeing a girl and acting upon it. See The three seconds rule for more details. AFC - Average Frustrated Chump. A phrase coined by Ross Jeffries to describe a healthy (read: horny) male not (yet:) educated in the art of seduction (which in Ross Jeffries’ terms would be Speed Seduction, but that is much too limiting). A few typical traits of an AFC - hanging on to just one certain girl, supplicating, swallowing whatever crap treatment a woman gives him, being afraid to make a move, thinking in terms of "dates", eiter for lack of courage and/or knowledge being unable to do a pick-up or a close. ASF - alt.seduction.fast, a Usenet newsgroup created by Ross Jeffries for discussing Speed Seduction and its implementation, which has far outgrown its original agenda by becoming the world’s premiere discussion board covering various seduction techniques. Everything in quotation marks starting with "ASF:" is material originally published on ASF. See Disclaimer for why some of you might find your material here without due credits and please contact me if you wish to have your name added to your material. BF - Boyfriend, often also (and not mistakenly:) read as Borefriend:) HB - Honey Bunny, an acronym coined by Ross Jeffries in his newsletters. Also sometimes mistakenly read as Hot Babe, Horny Bitch or Hard Body, but it’s a free world, to each his own:) Kino - kinaesthetics. Touching her: her hands, shoulders etc. See Kinaesthetics for more details. LJBF - "Let’s Just Be Friends", also know as "the treatment". You know what this means, when a girl gives you this line; I don’t have to explain:) See "Let’s Just Be Friends" for more details. LTR - Long Term Relationship. Although the length of a relationship to qualify as "long term" can not be defined, the physical and/or emotional involvement of such a relationship certainly extends beyond that of a chance encounter aka one-night-stand. Mindlist - a mailing list dealing with NLP and its various applications, seduction amongst others. You can find it on www.egroups.com/group/mindlist Neg - also known as negging, neghits or negative hits. See Neghits explained and Neghits expansion pack for more details. NLP - Neuro-Linguistic Programming. An new approach to psychotherapy co-founded by Richard Bandler and John Grinder. NLP uses language patterns and metaphor to communicate with the subconscious mind enabling the patient to recover within weeks or even days as opposed to months and years when using traditional psychoanalysis. See www.nlp.org for more details. PUA - Pick-Up Artist. Someone who has picking up girls down to an art and uses one or various pick-up techniques with a high success-rate. 9 SS - Speed Seduction. An NLP-based seduction technique created by Ross Jeffries. See www.seduction.com for more details. SP - self-point, point to yourself (like put your hand on your chest or stomach for a moment). An aspect of patterning to link descriptions to yourself (example: "have you ever met someone..." while self-pointing). UG - Ugly Girl, the opposite of HB (Honey Bunny), usually the HB’s friend and an obstacle. See "Group tactics" for more details. 10

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