HOW TO LAST LONGER IN BED A Practical New Approach for Men to Radically Transform Their Lovemaking By Nick Hudis MA, Dip CH, Dip T, CPNLP Mentor and Sexuality Coach How to Last Longer In Bed A Practical New Approach for Men to Radically Transform Their Lovemaking Copyright © 2017 by Nick Hudis All rights reserved. This book or any portion thereof may not be reproduced or used in any manner whatsoever without the express written permission of the publisher except for the use of brief quotations in a book review. Printed in the United Kingdom First Printing, 2017 ISBN -13: 978-1546534228 ISBN – 10: 1546534229 www.nickhudis.com Table of Contents Foreword SECTION 1 Chapter 1 Introduction Chapter 2 Client Success Stories Chapter 3 How to Use This Book SECTION 2 Chapter 4 Get Control of Caveman Chapter 5 Mastering Your Ejaculatory Cycle Chapter 6 Reining in Your Inner Little Boy Chapter 7 The Mind of Ejaculation Chapter 8 Change Your Expectations about Sex SECTION 3 Chapter 9 The Theatre of the Mind SECTION 4 Chapter 10 Calm Body Calm Mind Chapter 11 Wisdom from the ancient Chinese Master Lovers SECTION 5 Chapter 12 Solo Practice Programme Chapter 13 Gaining Ejaculatory Freedom with Your Partner SECTION 6 Chapter 13 Summary About Nick Hudis Seeking Help Foreword This book could not have been written without the inspiration, support and advice of many people. I’d like to mention just a few of them. My teachers in Taoist healing, martial and sexual arts: Sifu Raymond Towers, Master She Yu Hong, and Master Ma Bao Gou. Many years ago, Master Ma did my I Ching horoscope and predicted I would have three lovers and write many books. So far, life is proving him right! My tantric teachers, particularly Shakti Malan, who, when I remarked that someone should do for men what her Female Sexual Awakening book did for women, said, “that’s your job, Nick”. This book is part of that commitment. The teachers who I have only known through books and recordings. The spirit of such great men as Maxwell Maltz, Bernie Zeibergeld, Herb Goldberg, Robert Maurer and others runs through this book. I walk humbly in their footsteps. The women who have blessed me with the gift of intimacy on this life journey of loving and learning. The many men I have worked with as 1:1 clients and in groups and workshops. Your stories, your challenges and your commitment to grow and embody your fullness as men are a constant inspiration and lesson to me. Last but not least, Kalyani Ma Mukti with whom I share so much and who came close to locking me in a room until I finished this book. Without her unconditional love and faith in me, this book would be no more than a few scribbled notes and an unfulfilled dream. A Note to Gay Men This book is written from a straight perspective. I write mainly from personal experience, and the only experience I have of sexual intimacy is as a straight man. I do not seek to be homocentric but in many long conversations with gay friends I have come to the conclusion that the assumption that many sexual educators make, that the dynamics of straight sexuality can be mapped directly onto gay sexuality, is false. Some things we have in common, some things are the unique gift of gay men. I would not presume to lecture you on something I have no personal experience of. SECTION 1 INTRODUCTION Chapter 1 Introduction What You Can Learn From This Book This short book teaches you exactly what you need to know and do to last longer in bed. It offers a proven step by step solution to premature ejaculation. It offers a way to be free from anxiety about ejaculation and have rock steady confidence sexually. It opens a gateway to great sex. It presents an approach that I call Ejaculatory Freedom. Ejaculatory freedom is just that, freedom, having choice about when, or if you ejaculate during love making. This programme set out in this book is unique. You will not find anything else like it. Here is why: • It places equal emphasis on creating a positive mind-set and developing advanced physical skill. Most other approaches are either psychotherapeutic or just rehash the old “stop-go” method beloved by sex therapists. • It uses the same cutting edge coaching techniques I use with my 1:1 coaching clients to upgrade your mind-set and skills towards true confidence in bed. • It goes beyond curing premature ejaculation and opens the door to true ejaculatory freedom and sexual mastery by simplifying techniques handed down from ancient Tantric and Taoist sex manuals and making them relevant and usable by you as a 21st century man. • Everything in the programme has been “road tested” by me personally and by my clients. It works!
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