FM-Javier-45113.qxd 11/22/2006 5:44 PM Page i FM-Javier-45113.qxd 11/22/2006 5:44 PM Page ii DEDICATIONS RAFAEL A. JAVIER To all those who gave me a better appreciation of the adoption experience in all its complexity. To my nephew, Bill (Sasha) Homolka, who made me an adopted uncle and to Jenna Stern, who not only enriched the life of her adopted mother (my neighbor and colleague), but mine as well. I also dedicate this book to my friend and colleague, Dale Hahn, whose willingness to share her personal journey of her adoption experience had a profound impact on me. Finally, I dedicate this book to all the members of the adoption triad. AMANDA BADEN I’d like to dedicate this book and all of the work that went into it to my parents, Leon and Marianne Baden, my sister, Rebecca Baden-Eberwein, and my loving husband, Michael Glicksman. They are both the source of my strength and my inspiration for the work that I do in adoption. FRANK A. BIAFORA To LeaAnn, the woman who, during the creation of this book, started out as my best friend and became my bride by the end. You were my strength and my sounding board throughout this entire process. ALINA CAMACHO-GINGERICH I would like to dedicate this book to my mother, Dr. Daria Rivero, who many years after her death continues to be my inspiration; to my husband, Willard; and my children, Tanya and Daniel, for their love and support in all my endeavors. FM-Javier-45113.qxd 11/22/2006 5:44 PM Page iii Handbook of ADOPTION Implications for Researchers, Practitioners, and Families Rafael A. Javier St. John’s University Amanda L. Baden Montclair State University Frank A. Biafora St. John’s University Alina Camacho-Gingerich St. John’s University Preface by David Brodzinsky FM-Javier-45113.qxd 11/22/2006 5:44 PM Page iv Copyright © 2007 by Sage Publications, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or utilized in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher. For information: Sage Publications, Inc. 2455 Teller Road Thousand Oaks, California 91320 E-mail: [email protected] Sage Publications Ltd. 1 Oliver’s Yard 55 City Road London EC1Y 1SP United Kingdom Sage Publications India Pvt. Ltd. B-42, Panchsheel Enclave Post Box 4109 New Delhi 110 017 India Printed in the United States of America. Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Handbook of adoption : implications for researchers, practitioners, and families / edited by Rafael A. Javier...[et al.]. p. cm. Includes bibliographical references and index. ISBN 1-4129-2750-1 or 978-1-4129-2750-5 (cloth) ISBN 1-4129-2751-X or 978-1-4129-2751-2 (pbk.) 1. Adoption. 2. Adoption—Research. I. Javier, Rafael Art. HV875.J38 2007 362.734—dc22 2006025203 This book is printed on acid-free paper. 06 07 08 09 10 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Acquiring Editor: Kassie Graves Editorial Assistant: Veronica Novak Project Editor: Astrid Virding Copyeditor: Quads Typesetter: C&M Digitals (P) Ltd. Proofreader: Scott Oney Indexer: Kathy Paparchontis Cover Designer: Janet Foulger FM-Javier-45113.qxd 11/22/2006 5:44 PM Page v Contents Acknowledgments xi Foreword xiii David Brodzinsky 1. Breaking the Seal: Taking Adoption Issues to the Academic and Professional Communities 1 Rafael A. Javier, Amanda L. Baden, Frank A. Biafora, Alina Camacho-Gingerich, and Douglas B. Henderson PART I: Foundation 15 Preface by Frank A. Biafora 2. Toward a Sociology of Adoption: Historical Deconstruction 17 Dawn Esposito and Frank A. Biafora 3. Adoption Data and Statistical Trends 32 Frank A. Biafora and Dawn Esposito 4. A Legal History of Adoption and Ongoing Legal Challenges 44 Madelyn Freundlich PART II: Theoretical Issues in Adoption 59 Preface by Rafael A. Javier 5. Developmental Challenges for Adoptees Across the Life Cycle 61 Michael F. McGinn 6. Adoptive Identity: How Contexts Within and Beyond the Family Shape Developmental Pathways 77 Harold D. Grotevant, Nora Dunbar, Julie K. Kohler, and Amy M. Lash Esau 7. The Cultural-Racial Identity Model: A Theoretical Framework for Studying Transracial Adoptees 90 Amanda L. Baden and Robbie J. Steward PART III: Transracial and International Adoption 113 Preface by Amanda L. Baden 8. Putting Culture Into Context: The Impact of Attitudes Toward the Adoption of Chinese Adoptees 117 Amanda L. Baden FM-Javier-45113.qxd 11/22/2006 5:44 PM Page vi 9. Moving Beyond the Controversy of the Transracial Adoption of Black and Biracial Children 133 Rhonda M. Roorda 10. International Adoption of Latin American Children: Psychological Adjustment, Cultural, and Legal Issues 149 Alina Camacho-Gingerich, Susan Branco-Rodriguez, Raúl Ernesto Pitteri, and Rafael A. Javier 11. From the Ashes of War: Lessons From 50 Years of Korean International Adoption 160 Hollee A. McGinnis PART IV: Special Issues in Adoption 171 Preface by Amanda L. Baden 12. Open Adoptions: Longitudinal Outcomes for the Adoption Triad 175 Ruth G. McRoy, Harold D. Grotevant, Susan Ayers-Lopez, and Susan M. Henney 13. Single-Parent Adoptions and Clinical Implications 190 Behnaz Pakizegi 14. The Special Needs of Special-Needs Adoptees and Their Families 217 Elizabeth J. Keagy and Barbara A. Rall 15. Double Stigma: The Impact of Adoption Issues on Lesbian and Gay Adoptive Parents 228 Carol Anderson Boyer 16. The Importance of Kinship Relationships for Children in Foster Care 242 Kathleen M. Doyle 17. School Issues and Adoption: Academic Considerations and Adaptation 256 Francine Fishman and Elliotte Sue Harrington PART V: Training and Education for Adoption Therapy Competence 281 Preface by Rafael A. Javier 18. Variations in Clinical Issues for Children Adopted as Infants and Those Adopted as Older Children 283 Joyce Maguire Pavao 19. Counseling Adoption Triad Members: Making a Case for Adoption Training for Counselors and Clinical Psychologists 293 Theresa Kennedy Porch 20. Psychologists’ Self-Reported Adoption Knowledge and the Need for More Adoption Education 312 Daniel A. Sass and Douglas B. Henderson PART VI: Research Findings in Adoption Work 323 Preface by Rafael A. Javier 21. Research Contributions: Strengthening Services for Members of the Adoption Triad 327 Madelyn Freundlich FM-Javier-45113.qxd 11/22/2006 5:44 PM Page vii 22. Birth Mothers and Subsequent Children: The Role of Personality Traits and Attachment History 348 Mary Jo Carr 23. Identity, Psychological Adjustment, Culture, and Race: Issues for Transracial Adoptees and the Cultural-Racial Identity Model 359 Amanda L. Baden 24. Adoptees’ and Birth Parents’ Therapeutic Experiences Related to Adoption 379 Douglas B. Henderson, Daniel A. Sass, and Jeanna Carlson (née Webster) PART VII: Assessment and Treatment Issues in Adoption 399 Preface by Rafael A. Javier 25. Why Has the Mental Health Community Been Silent on Adoption Issues? 403 Douglas B. Henderson 26. The Inner Life of the Adopted Child: Adoption, Trauma, Loss, Fantasy, Search, and Reunion 418 Betty Jean Lifton 27. Birth Parents in Adoption: Using Research to Inform Practice 425 Amanda L. Baden and Mary O’Leary Wiley 28. Relinquishment as a Critical Variable in the Treatment of Adoptees 445 Ronald J. Nydam 29. Psychoanalytic Understanding and Treatment of the Adoptee 461 Christopher Deeg 30. Psychic Homelessness Related to Reactive Attachment Disorder: Dutch Adult Foreign Adoptees Struggling With Their Identity 474 René Hoksbergen and Jan ter Laak 31. “I Don’t Know You”: Transference and Countertransference Paradigms With Adoptees 491 Janet Rivkin Zuckerman and Betty Buchsbaum PART VIII: Poetic Reflections and Other Creative Processes From Adoptees 505 Preface by Alina Camacho-Gingerich 32. Reflections 509 Penny Callan Partridge, Christian Langworthy, and Sarah Saffian PART IX: Conclusion 525 33. The Future of Adoption: A Call to Action 527 Frank A. Biafora, Rafael A. Javier, Amanda L. Baden, and Alina Camacho-Gingerich Resource Guide 538 Index 543 About the Editors 555 About the Contributors 557 FM-Javier-45113.qxd 11/22/2006 5:44 PM Page viii FM-Javier-45113.qxd 11/22/2006 5:44 PM Page ix List of Figures and Tables Figure 3.1. Estimated Number of Total Adoptions (1957–2001) 36 Figure 3.2. Total Adoptions by State (2000 and 2001) 37 Figure 3.3. Percentage of All Adoptions in the United States by Type 38 Figure 3.4. International Adoption (1989–2004):Immigrant Visas Issued to Orphans 40 Figure 4.1. Legal History of Adoption Timeline 55 Figure 7.1. Cultural Identity Axis 101 Figure 7.2. Racial Identity Axis 102 Figure 7.3. The Cultural-Racial Identity Model 103 Figure 7.4. Depictions of the 16 Cells of the Cultural-Racial Identity Model 104 Figure 7.5. Parental Attitudes and Characteristics Model for Affirming/Discounting Environments 106 Table 8.1. Immigration Visas Issued to Orphans From the U.S. State Department by Year 119 Table 8.2. Race/Ethnicity Reported on U.S. Census of 2000 and the Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System for Fiscal Year (FY) 2003 126 Table 12.1. Nine-Category Openness Definitions 178 Table 12.2. Birth Mothers’ Nine-Category Openness at Wave 1 and Wave 2 179 Table 12.3. Relationship Between Birth Mother’s Openness Category and Satisfaction With Openness at Wave 2 180 Table 12.4. Adolescents’ Satisfaction With Birth Mother Contact: Reasons for Those Having and Not Having Contact 185 Table 13.1. Clinical Implications for Work With Single Adoptive Parents and Adoptees 203 Table 20.1. Percentage of Courses With Adoption Content 317 Table 22.1. Marital Status of Participants 353 Table 22.2. The Relationship Between Number of Children and Pressure to Relinquish 354