FEARLESS APPROACH: APPROACH WOMEN AND LIFE WITH UNSTOPPABLE CONFIDENCE (how to get a girl)

79 Pages·2017·1.21 MB·English

by  Joe Ducard

FEARLESS APPROACH
Approach Women And Life With Unstoppable
Confidence

Copyright © 2018 by Joe Ducard
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WARNING
The information in this book goes against popular belief
as well as common dating and sexual philosophy. Some
concepts may be extremely taboo and make readers'
blood boil. Especially Women. If you are easily
offended and looking for something that is politically
correct then I encourage you to read no further. If you
want no holds barred truth that may piss some people off
but actually works in the real world, then you are in the
right place.
Table of Contents
Chapter 1 - Why Do We Have To Approach?
Chapter 2 - You Need Practice

Chapter 3 - Fear Of Approaching

Chapter 4 - Approaching Mindset
Chapter 5 - The Next Step

*Bonus Material – Available at the end of this book
Introduction

How many more times can you see that beautiful girl only a few feet away from
you and not say a word to her. She’s absolutely gorgeous and you know without
a doubt that you would love to have her in your life. Feel her body pressed
against yours. Tell your friends about her. Walk into a party with her on your
arm. She’s right there, and all you have to do is introduce yourself.
But something goes terribly wrong…
You completely freeze up. Paralyzed. Just the thought of talking to her makes
your heart start to pound out of your chest. Your throat squeezes like a vice.
You get a sick feeling in your stomach. Then a burning sensation rising up from
your gut and you start sweating bullets.
Right away you get in your head and start making excuses about why you can’t
approach her.
“She probably has a boyfriend”
“What do I say?”
“If I get rejected I’ll look like a total loser, everyone will see it”
“I don’t have it in me to approach her. Maybe another time”
“She’s too hot”
“She’s not hot enough”
“When I get in better shape or I’m more successful. She probably doesn’t want
a Guy like me”
“What would it mean about my worth if she rejects me?”
“What about the consequences of my actions in the future”
“I would lose face and damage my reputation”
“I might say something stupid and embarrass myself in front of everybody”
“I’m not warmed up”
“I’m too awkward”
“I’ll run out of things to say once we start talking”
“I don’t want to interrupt her she’s talking to her friends. I can’t just go in
uninvited”
“What’s the point of putting myself out there again if I’m going to get another
rejection.”
“Won’t people think it’s weird if they see me hitting on girls?”

Any of these sound familiar? The list of excuses goes on and on. And before
you know it you wind up talking yourself out of doing what you truly want deep
down inside. Because you’re intimidated and afraid to put yourself out there.
The idea of approaching her is now completely out of the question.

Fear has won the battle.

This fear pisses me off. This type of fear ruined most of my life growing
up. I was so concerned with what other people thought and I had such low self
esteem and confidence, that I literally watched life from the sidelines. Plenty of
Guys were having great experiences with Girls, but I was so petrified of them
rejecting me that I didn’t even try.
Out of nowhere, I had a massive mental shift. I realized that if I built the habit
of giving in to this fear, I would never live the life I truly wanted. I had to build
a new habit of facing this fear head on at every opportunity I had. Or else my
dreams would die.

This book is me waging war on the fear that almost
stole my dreams
A friend of mine used to say about approaching Girls that there are a
million reasons not to do it, and only one reason to do it. And the one reason is
the only one that really matters. Life is truly meant to be lived, and the way to
live is to go for what you truly desire.
Enough is enough, the time is now. Let’s go after what you really, really
want. Make the same promise to yourself that I did and never let fear stop you
from working towards your dreams. In fact we want to do the opposite and
embrace anything that scares us.
Nowadays approaching Girls is second nature to me. My fear of
approaching is virtually nonexistent, and at worst, highly manageable and very
temporary. I don’t have to think twice about getting rejected or what to say. It
has become a habit to me that is as easy as walking. It should be by now
because I have been exercising that habit for a decade, tens of thousands of
times. I want to get you up to speed with all that I have learned from that
experience, as well as teaching thousands of other Men to do the same.
I decided to write this book to destroy every mental hang-up, fear, and
myth you have that is holding you back from meeting girls in the real world and
living the life you truly want. I can give any guy an “opening line” and tell him
to introduce himself to girls, but he still won’t do it. The reason is because of his
mental hang ups. We are going to destroy those hang ups so that you can have
full confidence to build the same habit that I did. I want to get you as
comfortable with the idea of meeting Women as it is for me. If you follow my
advice it will become easy for you too.
I’m not one for talking in circles with no point made, being politically correct,
adding in fluff to fill space, or trying to sound cool. This information will be
dense. It will be to the point. I may repeat very important points in different
ways because I find that it’s not always what you say, it’s how you say it that
will just click with someone.
How many times have you repeated negative and limiting beliefs in your
mind? Now is the time to repeat some new and empowering ideas. I’m going to
dive deep right away into exactly what is holding you back from putting yourself
out there to meet the quality of Women that you truly want and deserve.
Feel free to read straight through, but I suggest you either take notes or highlight
the parts that really resonate with you. It may take only one sentence of an
idea to really make a big shift for you. You now hold in your possession
knowledge that can absolutely change the course of your life. It changed mine
and many others. I encourage you to take it to heart and take action. Let’s get
started.
Chapter 1
Why Do We Have To Approach?

This may be one of your first questions to yourself. I know I’ve asked it myself
many times in the past. As a man it is your duty to initiate the conversation with
a girl. Besides a very rare occasion, Women just aren’t going to do it. I didn’t
write the original rulebook. It is a masculine and therefore attractive trait to
boldly go for what you desire in life. If anyone tells you otherwise they are most
likely jealous and trying to justify not taking action themselves, but more on that
later. I strongly encourage you to chase your dreams and go after anything and
everything you want in your life not just Women. In fact I would argue that is
the real definition of living. I told you we were going to get deep really quick.

“The saddest thing at a funeral is not the death of the
body, but the death of the dreams”

But you are a great Guy! Girls should be coming to you! You should just be
yourself and let the chips fall where they may. As great of a person as you can
transform yourself into, and as great of a person that you already are, it doesn’t
matter. Life is not fair. If you follow the norm and just be yourself we know
how that scenario plays out. If you sit around and wait for a girl to magically
appear in your life you will most likely be waiting forever. I tried waiting for
one most of my life.
I knew I was a great Guy with a lot to offer. My friends and family told
me that often. Despite their high opinion of me and my hope and waiting, my
Girl never showed up! Is it fair? No. But where there is adversity there is big
opportunity for you. Once I accepted my role and privilege as a man to go out
into the world and go after what I wanted I have never looked back. Take it as
an honor.
Do onto others as you would have them do onto you. Didn’t expect a
biblical philosophy in here? Neither did I, but the golden rule as it’s called is
very applicable here. I want you to imagine that you went out and had attractive
Girls approach you with confidence, elegance, and genuine intention. Wouldn’t
it be nice? Wouldn’t it be awesome? Well it isn’t going to happen. Sorry not
sorry. What you can do though is provide that to Girls because you know you
would enjoy it. The golden rule baby! Do onto others as you would have them
do onto you.

Lose your ego!
Do not compare yourself to other Guys who are luckier than you and
naturally great with Women or even to Women themselves who get to sit back
and let the Guys do all the work. A girl can be a terrible person and just be “hot”
and she will most likely be bombarded with sexual options constantly. Is that
fair? No! Who cares!? Nobody gives a shit. This book was written for you not
them. They don’t give a crap about your dilemma. The sooner you accept the
fact that it is on you to take control of your life the sooner you will be
successful. Excuses, ego, comparison, and feeling bad for yourself are all
bullshit. Let them go immediately and control what you can. You.
Remember you have the power! You can pick and chose who you want to talk
to. Every average Guy who doesn’t take action is sitting around waiting and
hoping for the person they want to finally arrive. Take it from me, it is very
empowering to be the one going for it and choosing who I want to talk to rather