University of Tennessee, Knoxville Trace: Tennessee Research and Creative Exchange Doctoral Dissertations Graduate School 8-2011 AN EXISTENTIAL PHENOMENOLOGICAL EXPLORTION OF THE LIVED EXPERIENCES OF MOTHERS IN DUAL- CAREER FAMILIES Andrea Darlene Marable To the Graduate Council: I am submiting herewith a dissertation writen by Andrea Darlene Marable entitled "AN EXISTENTIAL PHENOMENOLOGICAL EXPLORTION OF THE LIVED EXPERIENCES OF MOTHERS IN DUAL-CAREER FAMILIES." I have examined the fnal electronic copy of this dissertation for form and content and recommend that it be accepted in partial fulfllment of the requirements for the degree of Doctor of Philosophy, with a major in Child and Family Studies. Priscilla Blanton, Major Professor We have read this dissertation and recommend its acceptance: Mary Jane Moran, Julia Malia, Sandra Tomas Accepted for the Council: Dixie L. Tompson Vice Provost and Dean of the Graduate School (Original signatures are on fle with ofcial student records.) AN EXISTENTIAL PHENOMENOLOGICAL EXPLORATION OF THE LIVED EXPERIENCES OF MOTHERS IN DUAL-CAREER FAMILIES A Dissertation Presented for the Doctor of Philosophy Degree The University of Tennessee, Knoxville Andrea Darlene Marable August 2011 Copyright © 2011 by Andrea D. Marable All rights reserved ii DEDICATION This dissertation project is dedicated to my parents, Eddie and Tina Marable, and my sister, Beth Blevins. Your unwavering love, support, and encouragement kept me going on those days when I could not see the light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for all you have done to help me accomplish my goal! iii ACKNOWLEDGMENTS First, I must thank the chair of my dissertation committee, Dr. Priscilla Blanton, for her support, encouragement, and advice throughout the entire writing process. It meant so much to know that she believed in me, and I always left our meetings feeling more reassured and confident in my abilities. I thank her as well for her academic expertise and editorial revisions of my work (and for loaning me all those books!). I must thank also Drs. Julia Malia, Mary Jane Moran, and Sandra Thomas for their willingness to serve on my committee. I appreciate their thoughtful insights, editorial comments, and willingness to make themselves available to me when I needed guidance. I want to thank the members of the University of Tennessee Phenomenology Research Group for their support and encouragement. I knew so little about phenomenology at the beginning of the writing process, but the members of the phenomenology group helped me deepen my understanding of this methodology. I want to thank them as well for helping me analyze transcripts and for giving me feedback on my thematic structure. I do not think I could have completed this project successfully without their help! I must thank the director of the University of Tennessee Early Learning Center for Research and Practice, Dr. Sean Durham, for his willingness to allow me to utilize the center in soliciting participants for my research project. I was overwhelmed by the number of mothers who agreed to participate in the study, and I want to thank everyone who volunteered to participate. Most importantly, I want to thank all 10 study participants. All the mothers I spoke with were so gracious, inviting me into their homes iv and lives. I must thank them for taking time out of their busy day to speak with me about an issue I find important, as well as for their honesty and candid descriptions of their experiences. I am forever grateful to them for helping to make this project a success. I must thank as well my friends and co-workers for their encouragement and support. I want to thank them for their kind words of comfort on days when I felt like giving up, as well as their reassurances that I would, indeed, graduate. I must say thank you as well to the children I work with on a daily basis who make me laugh and bring a great deal of joy to my life, so to Michael, Simone, Francisco, Lily, Catherine, Max, Jalen, and Lucy, I want to say thank you for being you! v ABSTRACT The purpose of the present study was to explore and describe the lived experiences of mothers living in dual-career families. Using existential phenomenology as the guiding research methodology, I interviewed10 mothers living in dual-career families. Analysis of the interview transcripts revealed four themes that stood out as figural for participants in the study: (a) “Free time isn‟t really free anymore”: Timing is Everything; (b) “It‟s because of the support I get”: Supporting Me; (c) “I feel like I‟m lacking in one area all the time, just a little bit”: Struggling to Find a Balance; and (d) “I know how I would do things”: Knowing Myself. Each theme stood out against the ground of world, specifically the two worlds of home and work and the struggle that existed in integrating the two. Study findings revealed that the two primary struggles faced by these mothers living in dual-career families were those associated with balancing and time. A limited amount of time necessitated a need to try to balance work and home, a balance that was not easily achieved. Mothers perceived support networks and certain personality characteristics as helpful in balancing the two worlds (although personality characteristics were perceived as disadvantageous at times). Although challenges existed for these mothers, they noted overwhelmingly that they desired to have a career. These mothers saw their careers as one of the primary benefits of the dual-career lifestyle, and it was a lifestyle they willingly chose. Two findings from the study warrant future research. First, supportive others in the community were an integral part of the support network for mothers in the present vi study, and little empirical literature is dedicated to the impact of this type of support on the dual-career family. Second, participants perceived certain personality characteristics as either advantageous or disadvantageous in helping them navigate the dual-career lifestyle, and little empirical literature is dedicated to denoting the impact of individual personality characteristics on managing the dual-career lifestyle. It would behoove family scholars to be aware of these two unique aspects of the study. vii TABLE OF CONTENTS CHAPTER PAGE 1. INTRODUCTION 1 Rationale 1 Purpose 6 Research Question 7 Nominal Definitions 7 Summary 8 2. REVIEW OF LITERATURE 9 History of Women‟s Labor Force Participation 9 Delayed Childbearing 12 Challenges Facing Dual-Career Mothers 16 Benefits and Rewards for Dual-Career Mothers 28 Summary 37 3. METHODOLOGY 39 Introduction to Phenomenology 39 Rationale 47 Pilot Data 50 Procedure 52 Credibility of the Study 60 Protection of Human Subjects 61 Summary 62 4. FINDINGS 63 Demographic Data 63 Participant Vignettes 64 Table 1: Participant Demographics 65 Themes 69 Contextual Ground 84 Thematic Structure 89 Figure 1: Thematic Structure 91 Summary 93 5. DISCUSSION 94 Conclusions 94 Personal Reflections 97 Theoretical Context 100 Implications for Practice 101 viii