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Am I Weird Or Is This Normal?. Advice and Info To Get Teens in the Know PDF

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FIRESIDE Rockefeller Center 1230 Avenue of the Americas New York, NY 10020 Visit us on the World Wide Web: http://www.SimonSays.com © Copyright 2001 by Marlin S. Potash, Ed.D., and Laura Potash Fruitman All rights reserved, including the right of reproduction in whole or in part in any form. FIRESIDE and colophon are registered trademarks of Simon & Schuster Inc. ISBN-10: 0-7432-1754-3 ISBN-13: 978-0-74321754-5 MEDICAL DISCLAIMER This publication contains the opinions and ideas of its author. It is intended to provide helpful and informative material on the subjects addressed in the publication. It is sold with the understanding that the author and publisher are not engaged in rendering medical, health, psychological, or any other kind of personal professional services in the book. If the reader requires personal medical, health, or other assistance or advice, a competent professional should be consulted. The author and publisher specifically disclaim all responsibility for any liability, loss, or risk, personal or otherwise, which is incurred as a consequence, directly or indirectly, of the use and application of any of the contents of this book. We dedicate this book to Perle and Monroe Potash— may we always make you proud Acknowledgments This book could not have been written without the help of our wonderful editor, Doris Cooper, who shepherded it with good humor all the way; invaluable input from Hilary Potash Fruitman, our unofficial third author (we thought you were too young to be our coauthor when we started writing and you proved us wrong!); the patience of Steven, Jazz, and Tasha; and the insight of our agent, Todd Shuster. Various professionals and organizations ensured that our information was accurate and up-to-date. We gratefully thank William Pollack, Ph.D., for hisReal Boysand belief in our vision to help real girls; and Kathleen Cowan, who earned our admiration for reading the whole shebang in its rawest stage and giving us helpful notes. Also, eternal gratitude to Frank Petito, M.D., the professional colleague everyone should be so lucky to have in their corner. A special thanks to Amy Beecher for her terrific illustrations in Chapter 3, and to Bob Stein, who helped us edit the “must-keep” from the “gotta-go.” Thanks to David Burgreen, Ben Diskant, Chris Fisher-Lochhead, Hannah Frank, Colleen Hall, Rachel Heyman, Dan Manso, Ben Preston-Fridman, Rachel Rosenberg, Matt Schneier, Nic van der Meer, and to the entire class of 2002 at Friends Seminary in Manhattan: You’ve all been a great help with everything! Particular thanks go to David Arnold, former head of Upper School at Friends Seminary, and all the Upper Schoolers there, who were so generous with their time, energy, and ideas about adolescence. Appreciation to Fiamma Arditi, Mary Pipher, Norine Johnson, Ph.D., Ronald Levant, Ed.D., The Hon. Sheila E. McGovern, Alfred Mendelsohn, Wendy Oppenheim, Kary Presten, Burt Rosenberg, John Sahag, and Sarah Snider for their unique contributions and inspiration along the way. With gratitude to Planned Parenthood; Youth Crisis Hotline; Step Family Foundation; Women’s Sport Foundation; Girls Incorporated; Students Against Destructive Decisions (SADD); Anxiety Disorders Association of America; Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG); National STD Hotline; National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and Drug Information; National Domestic Violence Hotline; Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN); National Eating Disorders Organization. And to all the patients and friends who shared their stories about adolescence so that our readers could benefit. We hope they, too, have benefited by the reliving and rethinking. We know our readers will be as enriched by their generous sharing as we have been. Contents Acknowledgments The Life List 1 Getting It On Crushes Getting a Date On a Date Getting Serious One Last Dating Tip from Dr. Marlin 2 Getting Together Communication Jealousy Breaking Up One Last Love Tip from Dr. Marlin 3 Getting Physical First Base Second Base Third Base Home Base Solo Sex Being Gay Everything You Need to Know About STDs but Were Afraid to Ask Love Sick Protecting Yourself Getting in (Birth) Control Getting an Abortion Rape The Healing Process Date-Rape Drugs One Last Sex Tip from Dr. Marlin 4 Getting Powerful Puberty Going to the Gyno Periods Looking Your Best Eating Right Eating Disorders One Last Self-Acceptance Tip from Dr. Marlin 5 Getting Over It Feeling Sad and Bad Losing Control with Drugs Alcohol Smoking One Last Survival Tip from Dr. Marlin 6 Getting Cool Making Friends The In-Crowd Dealing with Prejudice Best Friends Friends and Guys Friendships to Relationships

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Am I Weird or Is This Normal? is for every girl who has ever wondered whether all the stuff that's happening to her body, feelings, and relationships is normal -- and who's seeking the 411 that will get her in step with life. Am I Weird or Is This Normal? is like being a part of a private conversati
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