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Time and Intimacy : A New Science of title: Personal Relationships LEA's Series On Personal Relationships author: Bennett, Joel B. publisher: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, Inc. isbn10 | asin: print isbn13: 9780805836790 ebook isbn13: 9780585365213 language: English Intimacy (Psychology) , Time, Interpersonal subject relations. publication date: 2000 lcc: BF575.I5B45 2000eb ddc: 158.2 Intimacy (Psychology) , Time, Interpersonal subject: relations. Page i Time and Intimacy: A New Science of Personal Relationships Page ii LEA's Series on Personal Relationships Steve Duck, Series Editor Miller/Alberts/Hecht/Trost/Krizek: Adolescent Relationships and Drug Use Honeycutt/Cantrill: Cognition, Communication, and Romantic Relationships Christopher: To Dance the Dance: A Symbolic Interaction Exploration of Premarital Sexuality Bennett: Time and Intimacy. A New Science of Personal Relationships Page iii Time and Intimacy: A New Science of Personal Relationships Joel B. Bennett Texas Christian University The author and publisher collaborated in preparing the final camera copy for this work and together they share responsibility for consistency and correctness of typographical style. This arrangement helps to make publication of this kind of scholarship possible. Copyright © 2000 by Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of the book may be reproduced in any form, by photostat, microform, retrieval system, or any other means, without the prior written permission of the publisher. Grateful acknowledgment is made to the following for permission to reprint previously published material: Excerpt from "Revising Prose (3rd Ed.)" by Richard A. Lanham © 1992. Reprinted by permission from Allyn & Bacon, Simon & Schuster Education Group Excerpts from "Time, Self and Social Being" by Patrick Baert © 1992. Reprinted by permission from Ashgate Publishing Limited Excerpts from "Intimate Relations'' by Murray S. Davis © 1973. Reprinted by permission from The Free Press and Murray S. Davis Excerpt from "Stopping the Clock" by Michele Ritterman, which first appeared in The Family Therapy Networker and is copied here with permission. Excerpts from "Love Cycles" by Winifred B. Cutler © 1995. Reprinted by permission from Random House, Inc. Excerpts and Figure 11.3 from "A Theory of Social Interaction" by Jonathan H. Turner. Reprinted with the permission of the publishers, Stanford University Press © 1988 by the Board of Trustees of the Leland Stanford Junior University. "Love Line" by Libby Stephens © 1996. Reprinted by permission from Utne Reader. Note Policy at Lawrence Erlbaum Associates is to obtain permission for copying excerpts from a single source that exceeds 200 words. Grateful acknowledgement is made to the many different publishers that have also contributed extracts of less than 200 words. Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, Inc., Publishers Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, Inc., Publishers 10 Industrial Avenue Mahwah, New Jersey 07430 Cover design by Kathryn Houghtaling Lacey Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Bennett, Joel B. Time and Intimacy : a new science of personal relationships / Joel B. Bennett. p. cm. (LEA's series on personal relationships) Includes bibliographical references and indexes. ISBN 0-8058-3679-9 (alk. paper) ISBN 0-8058-3680-2 (pbk. : alk. paper) 1. Intimacy (Psychology) 2. Time. 3. Interpersonal relations. I. Title II. Series. BF575.15 B45 2000 158.2dc21 00- 041106 Books published by Lawrence Erlbaum Associates are printed on acid-free paper, and their bindings are chosen for strength and durability. Printed in the United States of America 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Page v Contents Series Editor's Foreword ix (Steve Duck) Preface xiii 1 3 Introduction Orientation and Definitions: Grasping at Complexity 3 Defining Intimacy 5 Defining Time 9 A Note on Metaphor 13 Outline of Book 15 2 35 Intimacy as a Journey through This Text: Time and Change from Transcription to Transcendence (Model 1) Is This "Our" Text? 38 The Changing Nature of Relationships: The Essence of 41 Intimacy Types of Change and Intimacy 43 The Differences between Reading and Meeting 51 Textual Time and Intimacy 55 Blocks to the Present: Collusion and Romance 58 Conclusion 64 3 75 Unfolding in Time: Intimacy across Situations (Model 2) The Journey to the Present 77 "In Time I See"In · tim · a · cy 80 "Into me; see?"Individuation/Differentiation 83 "In Time I See"Self-Remembering, Presence, and Faith 84 "In Time Mates See"Co-journeying 86 "Into My Sea"Spiritual Community 87 Harmony and Disharmony 90 4 93 The Forces of Time: The Process of Intimacy (Model 3) Flow, Presence, and Synchronicity 94 Intimacy and the Four Forces of Time 97 Nurturing Conditions (Context) 100 Research Notes on Nurturing Conditions: The Concept 102 of Yüan Time Shaping (Action) 104 Research Notes on Time Shaping (Action): Turner's 108 Microsociology of Interaction Chaos 112 Page vi Research Notes on Chaos: Dynamic Relational Systems 115 and the Mandala Principle Structure (Form) 119 Research Notes on Relationship Forms and Structure: 121 Discerning Patterns Conclusion 124 5 129 Time, Addiction, and Intimacy: Scripts, Archescripts, & Holoscripts (Model 4) Blocks to Interpersonal Intimacy: Relationship 130 Addiction and Insecure Attachment Addictive Scripts, Time, and Inner Work 132 Relationships in Time: Defining Scripts, Archescripts, 133 Holoscripts Recurring Problems 135 A Review: From Scripts to Holoscript 136 Summary 151 6 155 Temporal Context in Love and Science: The Weave of Temporal Sensitivity (Model 5) Time and Temporality 157 From Context to Temporal Context 158 Lovers and Scientists: Knowledge for Them Both 162 The Appreciation of Process and Sequence 164
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