Woman's Weekly New Zealand - July 25, 2022

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WHY ZARA HAS
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Shelley
Ferguson’s
family
change Plus: Tips for talking to your kids
‘‘WWEE’’RREE EEIITTHHEERR
BBRRAAVVEE OORR MMAADD!!’’ Slices of heaven
Cystic
fibrosis
battlers
cry for
FRESH IDEAS
help
FOR PIZZA NIGHT
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Tom (right) only
had eyes for Kate!
A beaming Kate
presents women’s
singles winner
Elena Rybakina, 23,
with her trophy.
SIR CLIFF
JODIE RICHARD
COMER
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George wows
THE CROWD
The young prince is becoming a fan favourite
P
eople go to Wimbledon tennis tournament with his parents
to watch some of the best Prince William and Catherine,
tennis players in the world Duchess of Cambridge, both 40.
in action, but there’s also plenty Watching Novak Djokovic, 35,
to see off-court if you fancy a bit overwhelm Nick Kyrgios, 27, was
of star-gazing. a treat for the youngster, who turns
George
There were lots of celebrities in nine this week. He coped admirably
takes a
the crowd for the fi nals this year, with both the sweltering heat – while
shine to
Top Gun: Maverick
including star dressed in the blazer and tie required
the prize.
Downton Abbey
Tom Cruise, 60, of male royal-box patrons – and
dowager Dame Maggie Smith, 87, Nick’s swearing. The highlight of
and our very own Taika Waititi, 46. the day was getting to hold Novak’s
But all eyes were on Prince George, trophy, with George admitting he
making his fi rst visit to the London wanted the Serbian to win.
DAME
KATE MAGGIE MARTINA TAIKA WAITITI
WINSLET SMITH NAVRATILOVA & RITA ORA
This week in...
July 25, 2022
I
n this week’s magazine, we chat with
mental-health advocate Mike King
and his wife Joanna, both of whom
have worked tirelessly to help support our
country’s young people. It’s a role that sees
26 18
Mike debating with leaders and vocal in
the media, but even though he appears so
confi dent, he shares that he doesn’t always
feel that way. There was a recent incident
On the cover Style
18 Winona, interrupted that really brought this to light and now
6 Mike & Joanna King Why Hollywood 50 Fashion the couple is telling their story in the hope
‘The secret we have needed her back 52 Beauty that it helps others feel comfortable to be
to share’ 20 C all the conductor! honest about their own diffi culties too.
Lifestyle
10 Royal game-changer Midwife star Jenny’s You can read their story from page six
Why Zara’s the gone off the rails 54 Health and if you want to donate to Mike’s charity
Windsor winner 22 Exiled royals exposé 56 Home I Am Hope, there are details about how
14 Anna Paquin at 40 The scandal behind 58 Travel to do so at the end of the story.
‘Love, luck and the the traitor king Elsewhere, The Block NZ: Redemption
Timeout
lessons I’ve learned’ makes its debut this week on Three. This
16 Shelley’s family change 62 Puzzles year sees couples returning from previous
‘We’re either brave 70 Kevin Milne seasons, gunning for a second chance at
or mad!’ 72 Michele A’Court winning. Don’t miss our interview with
28 Cystic fibrosis 73 Horoscopes judge Shelley Ferguson, who I think is one
sufferers ‘Please don’t 74 Join the conversation brave woman. Not only did she decide to
give up on us!’ 76 Colin Hogg embark on a new career at the age of 40
36 Pizza night 77 Kerre Woodham amid a global pandemic, she’s also started
78 Entertainment a whopping personal project. Good on her!
Stories
80 Books with Nicky Just last week, I wrote in this column that
8 The wrap-up Pellegrino I was working at my dining-room table,
Kirsten and Graham back in isolation, after a family member
22 Celeb watch
get hitched, and we had tested positive for Covid. At the time,
farewell James 2 Star news I was feeling fi ne and testing negative...
82 Star weekly but it wasn’t to stay that way. Sure enough,
Weekly people
it wasn’t long before I woke up feeling
26 Going for Games dreadful. Thankfully, I’m feeling much
glory Friends’ golden better, but it’s certainly a
partnership reminder we need to do
what we can to protect
Food
ourselves, especially in
20 40 Loaded salads 84 these cooler months.
44 Get ready to crumble Enjoy your
48 Shop window magazine and have
a great week,
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Cover story
King of Confide
TH E SECRET I’V
F O R 60 YEA
Behind the trademark smile, Mike is batt ling a crippling fear
I
f you were at the same shares, “It was a pretty cool you’ve got to do the same. to prevention as much as
school play that featured conversation. Now I can Don’t tell me, show me. reactive services. She explains,
Mike King’s youngest support him next time. Young people need to know “I worked on the charity from
daughter Charlie earlier I don’t think those parents’ they are normal, that we’re day one as the admin lady.
this month, the former fi rst thought would be, all pretending we’ve got our I’ve had my own struggles
funnyman wants to apologise. ‘Maybe he’s anxious.’ s**t together.” through the years and this got
If you thought he was, at Probably it was, ‘Does he Mike, a father of six, has to be a bit too much for me.
best, aloof, or worse, full of think he’s too big for his had to learn to be vulnerable But in the last month, I’ve just
himself, the mental-health boots?’ He was buried in his and open, although he wasn’t jumped back in. I love that
advocate wants to say sorry. phone for about 25 minutes – raised that way. He shares, now it’s more preventative.”
For the fi rst time in his 60 but he never stops working.” “My dad taught me the rules It gives the couple the
years, the Kiwibank New By sharing his own to being a man – protect opportunity to spend more
Zealander of the Year is experience, Mike hopes to your family, provide for your time together, something that
publicly declaring he suff ers show youths who become family, give your kids a better Joanna admits she misses as
from social anxiety and nervous around others that opportunity than you had and Mike makes himself available
purposely kept to himself to they are not alone. never show weakness.” to anyone who needs mental
avoid talking to the other “The biggest problem facing He tells us those directives health support 24/7.
primary-school parents. young people today is an meant that for his fi rst three “I’m human and there
While he can stoically argue overactive inner critic. And children – Nate, 36, Teekay, are times when I want my
with government ministers, they’re living in a world of 34, and Alex, 25 – his love husband, but that sounds
champion mental wellness on perfect adults who are never language was money. For the really selfi sh,” she says.
live TV and give presentations vulnerable, who never talk younger three – Ruby, 21, “Earlier this year, he was
to literally thousands of about their Indi, 19, and away and got Covid, and had
school children – that armour issues unless a Charlie, eight, to isolate on his own. For
‘My job isn’t
disappears if he has to make young person his love language those 10 days or so, Mike
to fi x anyone
small talk. He’d kept it so is talking about is time. and I were FaceTiming. And
secret that Joanna, his wife theirs,” he tells. “My eldest say one night I said, ‘I’m really
– I’m not
of seven years, had no idea. “So we choose you never did loving this. I’m looking at
qualifi ed to.
Mike recalls, “It was at inopportune that for us, the you. You’re looking at me. No
Charlie’s play, and I walked times to make But I can give young ones say interruptions. You can’t be on
in super-anxious because I’m ourselves we don’t buy your phone while I’m talking
you hope’
terrifi ed that people are going vulnerable by them anything. to you. I’m really enjoying it.’
to come up and start talking sharing our I’ve explained “I wasn’t making a dig, it
to me. I was buried in my heartbreaks when our kids I’m a fl awed human being. was just that our life is busy.
phone and I wouldn’t engage. are sharing theirs with us. I’m a better dad now.” When he came home, he said
“Jo said to me afterwards, We’re saying, ‘Everyone goes Mike and Joanna set up he’d heard me and he pulled
‘What was with you tonight? through it. You’ll get over it.’ I Am Hope to help provide back a bit from work.”
Did you think you’re better What our kids are thinking is, early, accessible mental-health I Am Hope is the recipient
than all those other parents?’ ‘So when I talk about me, you support. The 50-year-old charity for this week’s Fight
She said that was how it make it all about you.’ needed to take time out when For Life celebrity boxing gig
would have come across. I was “We’ve got to stop telling she found it too hard to cope at Eventfi nda Stadium on
just terrifi ed because I’ve got kids what to do and start with the examples of young Auckland’s North Shore, as
social anxiety. I don’t want to showing them what to do. people dealing with suicidal well as Pay Per View around
be judged.” If you want your kids to be thoughts, but has recently the country, that features All
Joanna thanked Mike vulnerable and talk about become more immersed as Blacks against rugby league
for being so honest. She what’s going on in their life, the charity turns its focus star bouts, including Keven
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nce
Mike even left
wife Joanna
in the dark.
E KEPT “Now I can
support him
next time,”
she says.
RS
With daughter
Charlie. “I’m a
better dad now.”
MMeallamu vs WWaiirangii KKoopu,
and Carlos Spencer vs Paul
Whatuira.
“Fight For Life is such an
apt name for what we do,”
says Mike. “We are out there
fi ghting for the lives of young
people. Forty percent of kids
in school today will have a
major crisis often associated
with some type of suicidal
thinking before they leave
school, and 80 percent of
those kids never asked for Talking to kids
help because they’re worried
about what other people
will think.” Focus on the positives. friends, and you feel loved down. But when we come
The money raised will Kids come home, they’re by your family, that kid isn’t home as parents, we don’t
support an early intervention talking about fi ve things that going to get as upset when relate that. So we’ve got
N.
O system where young people happened in their day. Four someone calls them names kids thinking, “It’s just me.
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A can talk to a mental health amazing, one’s bad. What do on social media. Everyone else is fi ne.”
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A expert. “My job isn’t to fi x we focus on? “What do you A simple put-down is The number-one rule of
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LI anyone – I’m not qualifi ed to,” mean you failed the maths anything but. “Who left mental health – no one
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U Mike tells. “But I can give you test?” We think we’re saying their sock on the fl oor?” “Do has got it together. “I just
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A hope and we will pay for it.” to our kids, “We both know you think money grows on want my child to be happy.”
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& The event will see Mike get that you can do better.” trees?” Two little put-downs Do you know the pressure
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AI into the ring too. Not to fi ght, What our kids are hearing a day, seven days a week, you’ve just put on them by
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G. though. Instead, he will be the is, “No matter what I do, I’ll 365 days a year for 15 years. saying that? They now think
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N “I’m way to old to fi ght,” How we speak to our critic you’re placing in your when they’re upset or angry.
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T walk to the toilet!” inner voice. If you’re a kid Keep it real. We all have “If I’m anything but happy,
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H To donate, visit Iamhope.org and you’re valued by your bad day, we all let ourselves dad down.”
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James
A legend leaves us
Caan
A
1940-2022
s the hot-headed married four times and
Sonny Corleone in fathered fi ve children – now
The Godfather
, actor aged between 23 and 57.
James Caan sizzled onscreen In the 1980s, he hit
and when he died on July 6, headlines for his cocaine
aged 82, Hollywood mourned addiction and frequent visits
one of its brightest stars. to the Playboy Mansion. He
Born on March 26, 1940, once lost his home and life
James was the son of a New savings, and owed a fortune
York butcher with a passion in back taxes.
for football. Last week, his agent
He got his big acting break described him as “funny,
The Godfather
in 1972’s and loyal and caring”, and James’
Godfather
had his pick of roles after co-star Al Pacino,
that, appearing in everything 82, said, “It’s hard to believe
Funny Girl
from the sequel that he won’t be in the world
opposite Barbra Streisand to any more because he was so
Misery
with Kathy Bates. alive and caring… I’m gonna
Behind the scenes, he miss him.”
Right: In The Godfather
with Al Pacino.
Far right: With Barbra
Streisand in Funny Lady.
STAR-STUDDED WEDDING
G
raham Norton has never straight man, my female partner
revealed the identity of would have a role in the eyes of
his current partner – and society… but that’s not the case
the beloved chat-show host if your partner is male. Every
recently tied the knot with his man – no matter how young
mystery man at a lavish do in or fey – has something of the
his native Ireland. alpha in him.”
It’s believed 120 guests He said his previous
attended the private nuptials boyfriends ended up “loathing”
in Cork, including singer Lulu, attending events with him
who gave a special performance, because they hadn’t “earned
and drag queen Panti Bliss, who it for themselves”.
acted as DJ.
Graham, 59, believed to be
worth around $46 million,
has gone public with previous
boyfriends, but said several
years ago that dating would be
much easier if he was straight.
LLLuulu (left) was among
“This will sound sexist, but
tttthhe guests at Bantry
that doesn’t mean it’s any less
HHHouse (far left).
true,” he explained. “If I were a
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