Who Says You Can’t? You Do

306 Pages·1997·1.48 MB·English

by  Daniel Chidiac

WHO SAYS YOU CAN’T?
YOU DO
DANIEL CHIDIAC
First published in Australia by DC Group Global, 2012
Copyright ©Daniel Chidiac, 2012
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ISBN: 978-0-9871665-0-0
Edited and typeset by Christine Nagel
Cover design: G. Nibel
Back cover photo: Riccardo Andrea
Who Says You Can’t? YOU DO is stimulating and, regardless of one’s success, perceived and otherwise,
assists in determining how to engineer what we want in life and from life. I found Daniel’s philosophy
unique. I recommend that everyone, regardless of their status in life, would gain much benefit from reading
this book.
Professor Geoffrey Edelsten
Medical entrepreneur and author of Enigma
Making my way through a lifetime of self-help books, finally a text which executes practical use of how to
apply the switch to an intelligent and positive lifestyle. Daniel’s enthusiasm leaps out of the pages like he is
personally behind your cause. Compelling reading!
Helen Kapalos
Senior news presenter, Network Ten
Daniel is someone who amazes you with his personal experiences and knowledge. Don’t let his age fool
you: Daniel possesses the clear and positive understanding of how the world works, and the effects that
certain behaviour can have on a person’s self esteem. His passion and thoughtful commentary should be
shared with everyone.
Ahron Young
Bureau chief, Sky News
Daniel has uncanny intuition of the core issues driving the challenges his clients face. He possesses the skill
to gently guide them to a new and empowering perspective. His intelligence and vibe is contagious. Daniel
has the capacity to understand and respect each person’s situation, yet at the same time he challenges them
to move beyond their obstacles and achieve what they want in life.
Toby O’Brien
Senior psychologist, Sydney, Australia
His [Daniel’s] encouragement and strategies to push past known limits are second to none, truly genius. If
only the world had more people like Daniel in it.
Angela Jacobsen
Celebrity nanny and author of Baby Love: Angela Jacobsen’s A to Z
Daniel understands people of any age group. In my experience, he can easily connect with the youth. He
knows what they need to achieve. His strategies transform lives.
Nick Bracks
Media figure and owner of underBracks
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
How does someone who has been emotionally touched by so many people in life
ever have the words to express how they feel? These words are like a grain of
sand in an ocean compared to the enormity of the gratitude I feel towards these
amazing people.
I dedicate this book to my unconditionally loving mother and father. Thank you
for always encouraging me to be the best person I can be. Your belief and faith
have driven me to levels I once dreamed about.
To my brother and mentor Matthew, I appreciate the life chats and support you
have given me throughout my life. We are in this together.
To my sister Jeannie, thank you for giving me unforgettable Saturdays with my
two beautiful nephews, Zac and Adam. To raise children the way you have says
it all about the qualities you attain.
To my second mother, Aunty Helen, I would definitely not be where I am today
without you. I don’t need to explain; you know how much you mean to me.
To my Nan and Aunty Adele, thank you for the support you continue to give me
throughout my life. And to my grandfather, even though it has been many years
since your passing, your spirit continues to inspire me.
I would also like to thank all my friends who have been there through thick and
thin. You know who you are.
To the rest of my family, thank you for always being there. Our family is so
special because of the morals we have been raised to value. Let’s never forget
them.
I would also like to thank all the people who said, ‘No you can’t’. You have been
the fuel that drives me to prove that I can.
Lastly, to all of you who want to dump the word ‘can’t’ and go on a journey that
will empower your life forever, I salute you for having the courage to master
your life.
I believe the true meaning of our experiences is not just to learn, but to teach
others what we have learnt.
Daniel Chidiac
CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION
1ST STEP SELF DISCOVERY: THE KNOWLEDGE TO EMPOWER YOUR LIFE FOREVER
ABSOLUTE POWER OF QUESTIONING
UNCOMFORTABLE IN THE ‘COMFORT ZONE’
THE CERTAINTY OF APPRECIATION
WHAT YOU BELIEVE, YOU CREATE
NEUROPLASTICITY
NEURO-SENSORY ASSOCIATION — BREAKING PATTERNS
2ND STEP ENERGY — THAT FUNDAMENTAL FORCE
THE FORCE OF LIFE
FOCUS AND FIND
3RD STEP THE SYSTEM OF ACHIEVEMENT
TAKE INSTANT CHARGE
THE PERSISTENCE PUNCH
TIMES OF CRISIS — LET’S BE HONEST
THE ACTION TRILOGY
FEAR — FRIEND OR FOE?
SHAPING YOUR DESTINY: MEGA-STATE SEVEN-DAY CHALLENGE
QUALITY DRIVEN SUCCESS
LIFE’S ULTIMATE DUO — THE SPIRIT AND ITS VISIONS
4TH STEP STEER YOUR RELATION-SHIPS
ROCKY, DOCKED, OR SAILING SMOOTH?
THE IMPORTANCE OF PEERS
5TH STEP TO A HEALTHY PHYSICAL EXISTENCE
START THAT ENGINE
MIND AND BODY
INTELLIGENT EATING
6TH STEP AWAKEN YOUR MIND, UNCHAIN YOUR HEART
THE INFINITE HUMAN SPIRIT
A SPIRITUAL JOURNEY THROUGH THAILAND
IT’S NOT JUST YOUR LIFE
THE MYSTERY OF LIFE
7TH STEP FINDING FULFILMENT: A REAL SUCCESS
A TRUE HAPPINESS
TO FIND A HEART FILLED WITH LOVE
THE BEGINNING
INTRODUCTION
‘There are powers inside of you which, if you could discover and use, would make you everything you ever
dreamed or imagined you could become.’
Orison Swett Marden
Why do you act the way you do? Why are some highly motivated while others
would almost be in tears for having to get up and get the TV remote? What
makes the difference in people’s lives? How do you change your approach and
outlook when the world seems to be crashing down around you? How do you
create your life the way you want it? What are the strategies that have worked
for the most successful people in history? How do you build a relationship with
yourself to a point of trust, which will ensure you achieve what you set out for?
The burning desire to search for answers has become my life’s passion and has
granted me an infinite source of intelligence and wisdom that waits patiently
within every human. I am committed to regaining that fighting spirit which has
been diminished over time and through experience, for so many individuals.
It’s obvious that we all have visions as to what we wish our life would be, but
very few of us ever get to experience it. Why? Could it be reluctance to search
deeper? Could it merely be not knowing how? Could it be psychological or
emotional barriers that prevent our true powers being displayed? The sad reality
is that most people will live out their lives, dreaming about another life that
seems out of reach. The hope and faith in their own ability will be clouded by
the stress and worry of everyday life.
‘Where there is no vision, the people perish.’
Proverbs 29:18
Not so long ago, I found myself in one of life’s uncertain events. I was in my
room on my knees, experiencing the physical and emotional effects after a big
weekend on drugs. I had no job, no sense of direction, and had lost all hope in
my ability to shape my destiny. I felt helpless to myself, and the world. Just like
everyone else, I wanted my life to mean something; to have the ability to make a
difference in people’s lives and live by a purpose that inspired my every move;