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virtualintimacies virtualintimacies media, affect, and queer sociality Shaka McGlotten SUNY P R E S S Cover art by Rory Golden. Wood block print and laser printing over collage on paper. 10 inches 3 7½ inches. © 2012 Rory Golden. Used with permission. Published by State University of New York Press, Albany © 2013 State University of New York All rights reserved Printed in the United States of America No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission. No part of this book may be stored in a retrieval system or transmitted in any form or by any means including electronic, electrostatic, magnetic tape, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise without the prior permission in writing of the publisher. For information, contact State University of New York Press, Albany, NY www.sunypress.edu Production, Laurie Searl Marketing, Fran Keneston Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data McGlotten, Shaka, 1975– Virtual intimacies : media, affect, and queer sociality / Shaka McGlotten. pages cm Includes bibliographical references and index. ISBN 978-1-4384-4877-0 (hardcover : alk. paper) 1. Gay men—Sexual behavior. 2. Internet—Social aspects. 3. Interpersonal communication. 4. Computer networks—Social aspects. I. Title. HQ76.25.M372 2013 306.77086’642—dc23 2013000129 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Contents Acknowledgments vii Introduction 1 Chapter One The Virtual Life of Sex in Public 17 Chapter Two Intimacies in the Multi(player)verse 39 Chapter Three Feeling Black and Blue 61 Chapter Four Justin Fucks the Future 79 Chapter Five The Élan Vital of DIY Porn 101 Coda On Not Hooking Up 123 Notes 137 Bibliography 157 Index 165 Acknowledgments This book has been a lesson in sociality. I am grateful for the feedback and support of colleagues, who have modeled the criticality and care that supports every good friendship. Jason Pine, Agustin Zarzosa, Michelle Stewart, Ahmed Afzal, Bill Baskin, and Lisa Jean Moore all read portions of the book and offered their generous input. Special thanks go to Mor- ris Kaplan and Rudolf Gaudio, who read the manuscript in its entirety during an especially busy time. Scott Webel, friend and editor extraordinaire, helped me to polish the book, making suggestions that helped me improve my arguments and others that kept me thinking and inspired. I also thank the external reviewers who helped me to strengthen my claims and who even appre- ciated its “mundane” voice. Beth Bouloukos and Laurie Searl at SUNY Press offered the book a home and helped it to see print. My friend Rory Golden provided the gorgeous cover art. Although this book draws only a little on my research on sex pub- lics in Austin, Texas, the thinking that shaped that project and my sub- sequent work benefited from a brilliant and politically attuned graduate cadre, including, in no particular order, Junaid Rana, Peggy Brunache, Ken Rubin, Jennifer Goett, Jacqueline Polvora, Celeste Henery, Teresa Velasquez, Lynn Selby, Mathangi Krishnamurthy, Diya Mehra, Nicho- las Copeland, Whitney Battle, and many others. I was also fortunate to benefit from the institutional and financial support of the Austin School of Diaspora Studies and the Center for African and African American Studies. Edmund Gordon, João Costa Vargas, Jafari Sinclaire Allen, Char- lie Hale, Sharon Bridgforth, and Joni Jones/Omi Osun helped to shape vii viii / Acknowledgments a vibrant intellectual and political culture, and they played an impor- tant role in shaping a generation of black scholars. Charlie Hale, Kamala Visweswaran, and John Hartigan each demonstrated, albeit very differ- ently, ways of bringing academic and political cultures together. My conception of an academic life, and how to make it livable, was shaped by many exceptional mentors, including Katya Gibel Mevorach, Begoña Aretxaga (missed by many), and Dána-Ain Davis. Neville Hoad and Katie Stewart deserve special thanks for their ongoing support and friendship. Katie Stewart taught me how to cultivate the pleasures of an ordinary life, and I continue to find her writing and lateral thinking enormously inspiring. More recently, I have, like many others before me, benefited from the kind wisdom of Henry Abelove, mensch and gentle- man. I also thank Lauren Berlant, whose theorizations of intimacy made this book possible. She models an engaged scholarship that addresses the pressing political, aesthetic, and moral issues of our times with brilliance, force, no small measure of humor, and an abiding commitment to the power of pedagogy. I also wish to thank the men (and some women) who shared their stories with me. In the face of anxieties about creeping homonormativ- ity, they have all impressed upon me the vitality of queer cultures. Finally, I express my gratitude to those who helped me broaden and nurture my understanding of intimacy in very material ways, who fruitfully disrupt- ed my fantasies of self-sovereignty, who disorganized me and held me ac- countable, who taught me about attachment, losing, and learning to love more gracefully. Jasper White, Jason Brown, and Thomas Beard moved me with their creativity and passion. Daniel Alexander Jones shared his fierce liveness and taught me about the necessity of communion. This book is dedicated to Amit Menachem Gilutz: to the immanence of in- timacy. Introduction A life contains only virtuals. It is made up of virtualities, events, singularities. What we call virtual is not something that lacks reality but something that is engaged in a process of actualiza‑ tion following the plane that gives it its particular reality. The immanent event is actualized in a state of things and of the lived that make it happen. —Gilles Deleuze, “Immanence: A Life”1 This book is about what it feels like to connect, or fail to, in a tech‑ nophilic and technophobic present in which intimacy has gone virtual, if it ever was real. We depend on communications technologies to facilitate our lives and our interactions with others; we look to new media for succor from our loneliness, to bring us into contact with others we might love, hate, or remain stubbornly indifferent to. The virtual operates as a promise of immanence, the indwelling force of things waiting, pressing, ready to act. As an immanent power, the virtual is often deferred, sometimes materialized, but always charged with the capacity to help us feel like we belong. Intimacy describes: a feeling of connection or a sense of belonging; embodied and carnal sensuality, that is, sex; and that which is most inward or inmost to one’s personhood. Intimacy is also a vast assemblage of ideologies, institutional sites, and diverse sets of material and semiotic practices that exert normative pressures on large and small bodies, lives, and worlds. In contemporary U.S. culture, intimacy names the affective encounters with others that often matter most, while also functioning as a juridical form, an aspi‑ rational narrative, and therapeutic culture’s raison d’être.2 All of this is to say that intimacy refers to things we feel and do, and it is a force. 1

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Uses ethnography and cultural analysis to track scenes of intimate connection and disconnection among gay men across an array of media sites.Virtual Intimacies tells the stories of gay men, including the author, who navigate social worlds in which the boundaries between real and virtual have been th
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