TRAUMA & Transformation For Mary Lynne, Eliza, and Mary Laura. The joys of my life. L. G. C. For Joan, Michael, and my parents, for all they have given. R. G. T. i stMJlt/IÄ TVansformation Growing in the Aftermath of Suffering Richard G. Tedeschi Lawrence G. Calhoun j^vSAGE Publications ,JL) International Educational and Professional Publisher $^55 ' Thousand Oaks London New Delhi Copyright © 1995 by Sage Publications, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or utilized in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher. For information address: /^Jv SAGE Publications, Inc. IXj 2455 Teller Road ^ / Thousand Oaks, California 91320 E-mail: [email protected] SAGE Publications Ltd. 6 Bonhill Street London EC2A 4PU United Kingdom SAGE Publications India Pvt. Ltd. M-32 Market Greater Kailash I New Delhi 110 048 India Printed in the United States of America Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Tedeschi, Richard G. Trauma and transformation: Growing in the aftermath of suffering / Richard G. Tedeschi, Lawrence G. Calhoun. p. cm. Includes bibliographical references and index. ISBN 0-8039-5256-2 (alk. paper).—ISBN 0-8039-5257-0 (pbk.: alk. paper) 1. Suffering. 2. Life change events—Psychological aspects. 3. Adjustment (Psychology) 4. Self-actualization (Psychology) I. Title. BF789.S8T 1995 155.9'3—dc20 95-11803 This book is printed on acid-free paper. 99 10 9 8 7 6 5 43 Sage Production Editor: Tricia K. Bennett Sage Typesetter: Andrea D. Swanson Cover Illustration: Dawn Anderson CONTENTS Preface ix 1. The Uses of Suffering: Religious and Psychological Roots 1 Tragedy in Philosophy and Literature 2 Religious Views of Suffering 5 Psychological Views of Suffering 10 Plan for This Book 13 2. The Negative Consequences of Trauma 15 What Makes Events Traumatic? 16 The Negative Impact of Traumatic Events 19 Negative Psychological Effects 19 Physical Problems and Complaints 24 Life Stress and Psychiatric Disorder 25 Does Time Heal All Wounds? 26 Is There a Positive Side? 28 3. Psychological Growth From Trauma: Research Findings 29 Perceived Changes in Self: Self-Reliance and Vulnerability 30 Increased Self-Reliance and Personal Strength 30 Recognition and Appreciation of Vulnerability 33 A Changed Sense of Relationship With Others 34 Self-Disclosure and Emotional Expressiveness 35 Compassion, Empathy, and Effort in Relationships 36 A Changed Philosophy of Life 37 Conclusions 40 4. Personality Characteristics and Successful Coping 43 Locus of Control 44 Self-Efficacy 45 Optimism 46 Hardiness 48 Resilience 49 Sense of Coherence 52 The "Big Five" Personality Factors 53 Creative Copers: Common Themes 55 5. Tasks and Cognitive Processes in Coping With Trauma 59 Rumination 60 Making the Crisis Manageable 61 Primary and Secondary Control 62 Use of Religious Beliefs 64 Vicarious Learning 64 Downward Social Comparisons 65 Reducing Emotional Distress 66 Making the Crisis Comprehensible 67 Schemas: Basic Assumptions About Life 67 Traumas as Challenges to Schemas 69 Finding That Life Continues to Be Meaningful 71 Religious Routes to Meaning 72 Benefits of Religious Meanings 74 Conclusions 75 6. How Growth Happens: A Model for Coping With Trauma 77 Principle 1: Growth Occurs When Schemas Are Changed by Traumatic Events 78 Principle 2: Certain Assumptions Are More Resistant to Disconfirmation by Any Events, and Therefore Reduce Possibilities for Schema Change and Growth 81 Principle 3: The Reconstrual After Trauma Must Include Some Positive Evaluation for Growth to Occur 82 Principle 4: Different Types of Events Are Likely to Produce Different Types of Growth 83 Principle 5: Personality Characteristics Are Related to Possibility for Growth 84 Principle 6: Growth Occurs When the Trauma Assumes a Central Place in the Life Story 85 Principle 7: Wisdom Is a Product of Growth 86 Summary of Principles of Growth 87 A General Model for Personal Growth Resulting From Trauma 88 7. Support and Intervention 93 The Role of Friends and Family 94 Mutual Help 97 Professional Help 100 Supporting Self-Perceptions of Benefits and Growth 101 Respectful Intervention 102 Is the Client Ready for Growth? 104 Using the Survivor's Belief System 106 Narrative Development 108 Conclusions 110 8. Research Directions 113 Unanswered Questions 114 Person Variables 114 Situational Variables 117 The Validity of Personal Experience 118 Which Perspective and Which Methods? 121 Qualitative Approaches 122 Quantitative Approaches 123 A Research Strategy 125 9. Guideposts for People Challenged by Trauma 127 Experience Is the Teacher 128 A Willingness to Accept and Endure 128 The Challenge Perspective 129 Searching for Humor 130 Needing and Serving Others 130 An Active Search for the Gains in the Losses 132 Readings in Transformation 133 Conclusions 137 Appendix: The Post Traumatic Growth Inventory 139 References 143 Index 161 About the Authors 163 PREFACE This volume is an attempt to weave together material from various writings in philosophy, religion, and especially psychology to account for a phenomenon that has been recognized since ancient times but given little attention by psychologists: the experience of personal growth or strengthening that often occurs in persons who have faced traumatic events. We use an essentially cognitive framework to ex- plain this experience because changes in belief systems seem to be so often reported by persons who describe their growth, and these beliefs appear to play a central role in relieving emotional distress and encouraging useful activity. Although both of us have experienced traumatic events in our lives, we are personally unfamiliar with many of the events mentioned in this book. Our teachers have been the clients with whom we have worked as clinicians, and the people who have agreed to talk with us, sometimes for hours, as part of our research studies in this area. It is to these people we owe the greatest debt. They have not only informed us as psychologists, but made us more sensitive to the struggles and victories of those who have been most painfully touched by life. We hope that we have presented information in a way that is accessible to clinicians, laypersons, and especially in Chapter 9, other people who have experienced trauma. We have also tried to summa- rize a far-flung literature and describe a way of understanding the process of growth that will encourage more attention from researchers. In addition, we believe that this book can be used as a supplementary IX