T H O M A S H A R D Y ’ S Elegiac Prose and Poetr y codes of bereavement Galia Benziman Thomas Hardy’s Elegiac Prose and Poetry Galia Benziman Thomas Hardy’s Elegiac Prose and Poetry Codes of Bereavement Galia Benziman Open University Ra’anana, Israel ISBN 978-1-137-50712-9 ISBN 978-1-137-50713-6 (eBook) https://doi.org/10.1057/978-1-137-50713-6 Library of Congress Control Number: 2017964610 © The Editor(s) (if applicable) and The Author(s) 2018 The author(s) has/have asserted their right(s) to be identified as the author(s) of this work in accordance with the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988. This work is subject to copyright. 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My biggest thanks go to Yotam, who read every word and whose comments were challenging and wise. For their friendship and advice I thank Gal Manor, Amy Garnai, Tammy Amiel-Houser and Yael Shapira. My colleagues at the Open University and the Hebrew University of Jerusalem were supportive and helpful. I am indebted to my research assis- tant Ruben Weiss of the English Department at the Hebrew University for his fine observations and hard work. I also thank my students in the “Thomas Hardy” and “English Elegy” classes at the Hebrew University for their lively input, which contributed to my understanding of Hardy and of the writing of mourning. My book evolved from early conference presentations. I thank Adrian Grafe from Artois University and Jane Thomas from the University of Hull for their generous and useful feedback on my papers on Hardy’s “codes of bereavement” delivered in Arras and Dorchester, respectively. I also owe thanks to Editor Ben Doyle for encouraging me to pursue this project almost from the start and expand it into a book. Ben, Camille Davies and the entire Palgrave Macmillan team offered continued professional help and guidance throughout the process. v vi ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS Finally, I was fortunate in receiving the Alon Fellowship awarded by the Israeli Council for Higher Education, as well as several Open University research grants. This generous financial support facilitated my work, and for that I am grateful. c ontents 1 I ntroduction 1 2 “Hands Behind Hands”: Seeing the Dead 39 3 “Spectres that Grieve”: The Dead Speak 63 4 “Still Corporeally Imminent”: Hardy’s Revenants 77 5 “For She Won’t Know”: Utilising the Dead 107 6 “I Do but the Phantom Retain”: The Mistrust of Memory 133 Works Cited 161 Index 167 vii CHAPTER 1 Introduction As a devout preserver of personal memory, Thomas Hardy (1840–1928) devotes much of his poetry and fiction to the effect of the past upon the present. Alongside his evocation of the past in relation to Wessex, commu- nity and family life, natural scenes, architectural developments and the pri- vate and social history of individuals, Hardy’s investigation into death and bereavement is central to his work. Imagining the dead as phantoms deserv- ing unfaltering attention, he conjures them as inscribed in the landscape, suggested to the eye and the mind through signifiers such as family vaults, portraits and statues, corners of nature filled with associations and written documents such as wills and testaments, epitaphs and posthumous letters. The prevalence of the dead in his work is the subject of numerous critical essays. J. Hillis Miller opines that in his poetry and fiction Hardy “brings the dead to life” and gives them “a permanent existence in an art which is memory embodied” (Miller 1970: 243). Tim Armstrong calls Hardy “one of the most ghost-ridden of authors” (Armstrong 2000: 1), while Catherine Robson refers to him as a “graveyard poet [who] offers up the most grave- laden poetic oeuvre in English literature” (Robson 2004: 500). DeSales Harrison goes on to maintain that the dominant figure for Hardy’s art is “the voice of the absent person, lost or dead” (Harrison 2010: 405). In discussing his key role in the transition from traditional to modern elegy, critics underline Hardy’s strong commitment to remembrance of the dead.1 This pattern notwithstanding, the assertion in this book is that Hardy’s complex stagings of remembrance are highly ambivalent. Keenly aware of the inconsistencies and paradoxes of mourning and the inherent © The Author(s) 2018 1 G. Benziman, Thomas Hardy’s Elegiac Prose and Poetry, https://doi.org/10.1057/978-1-137-50713-6_1 2 G. BENZIMAN contradictions in its poetic expression, Hardy revises traditional elegy. His scepticism regarding the language and poetics of grief undermines the ethical requirement to remain committed to the dead. Moving away from the spousal elegies to Emma on which most discussions of Hardy as elegist focus, it becomes clear how strongly Hardy either justifies or identifies with guilt-ridden mourners who wish to forget and go on with their lives. Hardy’s codes of bereavement and especially his depiction of the mourner as writer are inherently divided. While expressing the deep value of mem- ory, his work also manifests ongoing scepticism regarding it, suggesting that memory is often unreliable and narcissistic. This inconsistency pro- duces a powerful, nuanced revision of basic elegiac conventions. The omnipresence of the dead in Hardy’s work and the impression that the dead are still around us shape his representation of loss. In his constant evocation of the dead, Hardy seems to be a committed spokesman for the ethical importance of memory. He is universally acknowledged as an “avowed elegist,” one whose work constitutes “a momentary stay against amnesia” (Ramazani 1994: 1, 12). Writing at the turn of the century, Hardy contrasts the pain of bereavement with “the modern hurry-scurry” of contemporary life “bent on regimented advancement”; he resists mod- ern society’s attempt “to repress and silence the regressive anarchy of grief” (ibid.: 12–13). Indeed, Hardy regretted and often satirised the col- lective forgetfulness typical of his era, and freighted personal grief with cultural and moral value. Hence, consigning the dead to oblivion is often shown in his work to be a disrespectful oversight. Hardy critiques not only personal forgetfulness but also the broader cultural-historical process in which late-Victorians backed away from what they saw as the extravagant and persistent grief of the early nineteenth century. This change was reflected in such divergent doctrines as utilitarianism and psychoanalysis: two schools of thought that regarded prolonged mourning as respectively superfluous or pathological. Eschewing the view that we have no moral obligation to the dead, Hardy suggests that to forget them is to acquiesce to death and make its power acceptable.2 For Hardy, both the utilitarian and psychoanalytic critique of protracted mourning were at fault because the dead are permanently around us and forever in need of our care. Yet this is only part of the picture. My book explores a different dimen- sion of Hardy’s poetic commitment to the dead. I read his work as dialec- tically implicated in the very cultural and psychological “amnesia” he resists. Hardy is ambivalent towards the issue of remembrance and forgetting: although he often reacts against the late-Victorian tendency to INTRODUCTION 3 forget the dead, he is at the same time involved in it himself.3 The wish to leave the dead behind is sometimes represented in Hardy’s work as natural and even inevitable. Hence, the moral condemnation of forgetfulness is doubly undermined. First, Hardy shows nuanced empathy towards the selfishness and inconstancy of mourners and manifests keen interest in the creative freedom of their memory to shape imagined realities. Second, his critique of forgetfulness is diminished both by his view of memory as unre- liable and by the representation of excessive devotion to the dead as unrea- sonable, neurotic and harmful. In the following chapters I examine this pattern, with a particular interest in Hardy’s complicated, guilt-ridden vision of the writer’s role as elegist and preserver of memory—a vision that reveals also the writer’s emotional, moral and aesthetic participation in the collective cultural “amnesia” elegy openly resists. Based upon a somewhat different corpus than the one usually read in studies of Hardy’s elegies, this book examines the historical, scientific, psy- choanalytical and poetic context of traditional and modern conventions of mourning so as to illuminate Hardy’s unique role in the transition to mod- ern elegy. In placing Hardy’s poetry and fiction alongside each other, his unconventional concept of mourning and his suspicion of memory become more apparent. Hardy’s work collapses long-standing binary distinctions: remembrance versus forgetting, grief versus consolation, faithfulness to the dead versus their selfish appropriation by the living, preservation versus betrayal, all of which have informed poetic representations and theoretical discussions of mourning for centuries. Yet, in deconstructing these dichot- omies, Hardy shows these presumed opposites to be inevitably mixed. Hardy’s textualisation of mourning and the self-reflexive nature of his ele- giac writing add to his inveterate suspicion of the language of grief. Even his frequent device of speaking for the dead, for which he is taken to be a com- mitted elegist—impersonating and giving them a voice—is ambiguous. Speaking for the dead might be exploitative and self-centred even if it is intended to convey respect.4 Prosopopeia, or the use of the dead as speakers, a device Hardy employs in numerous poems, has its parallel in Hardy’s fiction where characters appear to come back from the dead, e.g. Troy in Far from the Madding Crowd (1874), Newson in The Mayor of Casterbridge (1886) and quite a few characters in the short stories. Speaking from the grave serves to condemn the living for not acting on behalf of the deceased, for usurping their place and for giving them up far too soon. This motif, while possibly connoting support of prolonged fidelity, also expresses a desire to possess the dead, usurp their voice and use them for artistic or emotional purposes.