Table Of Content

Table of Contents Praise Title Page Dedication Acknowledgements Preface to the Second Edition Introduction chapter one - Welcome chapter two - Desire and Fantasy What’s Your Fetish? Run Wild Make Your Dreams Come True Nurture Your Libido Sex + Intimacy Fantasy Lesbian Porn Suggested Web Links chapter three - Anatomy and Sexual Response Anatomy Sexual Response Sexual Response over a Lifetime Suggested Web Link chapter four - Orgasm This Is Taking Too Long If You Can’t Have an Orgasm Does Viagra Work for Women? How Do You Come? Getting Her Off Multiple Orgasms Tantra and Extended Orgasms Ejaculation Suggested Web Links chapter five - The Road to Heaven Leads to You A Love/Hate Relationship Take a Good Look Appreciate Yourself Take It In Join the Crowd Get Into Your Body Somatic Healing You Are What You Eat Get a Pelvic Exam Safer Sex, Please Be Present Life Changes chapter six - Masturbation What Will Masturbation Do for You? The Masturbation Workshop Adventure Teach Yourself Some New Tricks How-To’s of Masturbation Solo Toys Erotica and Fantasy How-To’s of Orgasm Masturbating with a Partner Suggested Web Links chapter seven - Communication and Finding Sex Partners Geography, Not Destiny Talk Talk Talk Tongue-Tied? Who Are You Looking For? Making Your Move “No, Thank You” Personal Ads in Newspapers and Magazines Sex on the Internet Play Safe Sex Parties Sex Talk Guidelines Where to Learn More Suggested Web Links chapter eight - Sex and Partnership Erotic Intimacy What Kind of Sex Life Do You Want, Anyway? What Kind of Partnership Do You Want? You Make It Happen What’s Holding You Back? Low Libido High Libido One Libido No Libido What? No Sex? Find Your Passion Sexual Community Keep It Happening Suggested Web Link chapter nine - Breast Play Sensitivity Teach Your Partner How-To’s of Breast Play Nipple Piercings Toys for Breast Play chapter ten - Clitoral Play The Art of the Hand Take a Tour What If Your Hand Gets Tired? Frottage How-To’s of Clitoral Stimulation Genital Piercings Genital Shaving How-To’s of Genital Shaving Toys for Clitoral Play Clitoral Play—Safely Where to Learn More chapter eleven - Oral Sex Cunnilingus Going Down on Your Girl How-To’s of Cunnilingus Analingus How-To’s of Analingus Positions for Oral Sex What a Pain in the Neck! (Detachable) Cocksucking How to Suck (Detachable) Cock Oral Sex—Safely So What’s a Girl to Do? Suggested Web Links chapter twelve - Vaginal Penetration Take a Tour Finger-Fucking Vaginal Fisting Strap-On Dildos How-To’s of Vaginal Penetration Positions for Vaginal Penetration Toys for Vaginal Play Vaginal Penetration—Safely Where to Learn More Suggested Web Link chapter thirteen - Anal Penetration Take a Tour Basic Preparations Finger-Fucking Anal Fisting Strap-On Dildos How-To’s of Anal Penetration Toys for Anal Penetration Anal Penetration—Safely Where to Learn More Suggested Web Links chapter fourteen - Gender (Not Destiny) What Is Gender? Intersexuality Transgender and Transsexual Partners of Transgendered Women and Men Sexual Orientation Playing with the Boys Butch/Femme Suggested Web Links chapter fifteen - Play Nice! (…or Else) Ouch!!! (Yum…) Negotiation Creating the S/M Scene: Ritual and Theater Pushing the Emotional Edges Teach Yourself Some New Tricks How Do You Know What You Want? Toys for BDSM Play That Sounds Dangerous! BDSM Play—Safely Where to Learn More Suggested Web Links chapter sixteen - Play Parties and Public Sex Commercial Sex Play Parties How to Have Fun at a Sex Party Where to Find Play Parties Play Party Etiquette How to Throw a Safer-Sex Party Suggested Web Link chapter seventeen - Sex Toys and Accoutrements How to Choose Sex Toys Got Your Lube? Got Your Safer-Sex Supplies? Does Latex Make You Itch? How’s Your Budget? How to Care for Your Toys Suggested Web Links chapter eighteen - Safer Sex and Gynecological Health Talking to Your Doctor About Sex Gynecological Care STDs and Gynecological Concerns What If Your Partner Won’t Use Barriers? What If You Have an STD? Suggested Web Links chapter nineteen - Bibliography Articles Books Magazines DVDs and Videos chapter twenty - Resources Bisexuality Resources Butch/Femme Resources Disability Resources Health and Safer-Sex Resources Online Resources Play Parties and BDSM Organizations Polyamory Resources Retail and Mail Order Sex Education Workshops, Classes, and Resources Tantra and Bodywork Transgender and Intersex Resources Notes Index ABOUT THE AUTHOR Copyright Page