The ultimate guide to anal sex for women

257 Pages·2006·2.65 MB·English

by  Tristan Taormino

Table of Contents

The Ultimate Guides from Cleis Press
Title Page
Acknowledgements
Introduction

CHAPTER 1 - 12 Myths About Anal Sex
Myth #1: Anal sex is unnatural, wrong, and immoral.
Myth #2: Only sluts, perverts, and weirdos have anal sex.
Myth #3: The ass is exit only, it’s not an erogenous zone.
Myth #4: Anal sex is dirty and messy.
Myth #5: Only gay men have anal sex.
Myth #6: Straight men who like anal sex are really gay.
Myth #7: Anal sex hurts.
Myth #8: Women don’t like anal sex.
Myth #9: Anal sex is dangerous and unhealthy.
Myth #10: If you have lots of anal sex, you’ll end up in adult diapers.
Myth #11: Anal sex is the easiest way to get AIDS.
Myth #12: Anal sex is naughty.
Replacing Myths with Truths

CHAPTER 2 - Our Asses, Ourselves: Anal Anatomy
The Anus
The Anal Sphincters and PC Muscles
The Anal Canal and the Rectum
The G-spot
The Prostate

CHAPTER 3 - Beyond Our Bodies: Emotional and Psychological Aspects of
Anal Eroticism
Desire
Talking About It
Fear
Fantasies
Trust and Power

CHAPTER 4 - Preparing the Ass for Pleasure
Hygiene
Manicured Nails
Shaving and Waxing

CHAPTER 5 - Enemas
Plastic Bottle and Bulb Syringe Enemas
Enema Bags and Accessories
Using an Enema Bag
Shower Attachment Enemas
Enema Do’s and Don’ts
Cleaning Enema Equipment
Enema Ingredients

CHAPTER 6 - Safer Sex
Gloves
Oral Sex Barriers
Condoms
The Female Condom
Making Toys Safe
Other Safety Precautions
Protecting Yourself

CHAPTER 7 - Lubricants
Oil-or Vegetable-Based Lube
Desensitizing Lube
Water-Based Lube
Silicone Lube
How to Use Lube

CHAPTER 8 - Anal Sex Toys
Anal Beads and Bead Toys
Butt Plugs
Anal Probes and Vibrating Toys
Dildos
Strap-on Dildos and Harnesses
Inflatable Toys
Anal Toy Tips
Sex Toy Materials, Care, and Cleaning

CHAPTER 9 - Doing It for Yourself: Anal Masturbation
Why You Should Masturbate
How to Masturbate

CHAPTER 10 - Let Your Tongue Do the Walking: Analingus
Hygiene
Analingus Tips and Techniques
Analingus and Safer Sex

CHAPTER 11 - Anal Penetration
Beginning Penetration
Penetration with Penises, Dildos, and Bigger Toys
Double Penetration
Anal Sex Positions

CHAPTER 12 - Anal Pleasure for Men
Gender Roles and Psychology
Prostate Stimulation
Just for Men: The Aneros
A Different Kind of Orgasm

CHAPTER 13 - BDSM and Anal Play
BDSM: The Basics
Spanking
Butt Plugs and BDSM
Anal Training
Psychological Play
Maintaining the D/s Dynamic
Penetration by Consensual Force
Erotic Enema Play

CHAPTER 14 - Butt Bondage: Long-Term Butt Plug Wear
Tips for Wearing a Butt Plug
Keeping It In
Bondage 101
Bondage Tape Butt Plug Harness
Rope Bondage Harness
Leather Butt Plug Harness
How Long Is Too Long?

CHAPTER 15 - The Art of Anal Fisting
My Personal Philosophy
Preparation and Safety
Keep It Real: Communication and Expectations
There’s No Such Thing as Too Much Lube
Positions for Fisting
Work Your Way In
Four Fingers and Beyond
Once You’re In
Aftercare

CHAPTER 16 - Troubleshooting: Common Issues and Problems

CHAPTER 17 - Anal Health, Anal Ailments, and STDs
Anal Health
Sexually Transmitted Diseases
Anal Ailments
Anal Wellness

CHAPTER 18 - The Ultimate Frontier

CHAPTER 19 - Resource Guide
Books
Enema Equipment and Information
Shopping Guide
Videos
Websites

Index
About the Author
About the Illustrator
Copyright Page
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