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THE Sex & Pleasure Book Dr. Carol Queen and Shar Rednour THE Sex & Pleasure Book Copyright © 2015 by Dr. Carol Queen & Shar Rednour. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without the prior written permission from the author or publisher. Smashwords Edition ISBN: 978-0-9861504-2-5 Credits The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Great Sex for Everyone by Carol Queen with Shar Rednour. Published by BARNABY LTD, LLC goodvibesblog.com/the-sex-and-pleasure-book/ Additional line editing and proofing by Marcy Sheiner marsheiner.wordpress.com/editorial-services/ Interior Design, conversion and ebook formatting by 52 Novels 52novels.com Illustrations by Amanda Lafrenais Amandalafrenais.com Book Cover Design by Stewart A. Williams stewartwilliamsdesign.com Vintage Vibrator Illustrations provided by The Antique Vibrator Museum antiquevibratormuseum.com Used by permission from Elizabeth Stephens and Annie Sprinkle Vows for Marrying the Earth and 25 Ways to Make Love With the Earth sexecology.org Praise for THE Sex & Pleasure Book “The Sex & Pleasure Book will change lives, if you let it. Whether you’re new to sex and looking to learn, seasoned in sex and looking to make things a little sexier, or a parent navigating how to talk to your child or teenager, this book is for you. Good Vibrations has been a leader in making sex better for people of all ages, genders, orientations, and bodies since its doors first opened and it continues to blaze trails with this excellent book. Highly recommended!” —Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., Associate Professor at Indiana University and author of The Coregasm Workout and Sex Made Easy “It is absolutely no surprise that Good Vibrations would publish the ultimate how-to, why-to, what-to book about sex. For decades, people have relied on them for products and advice that was dependable, progressive, and above all, human. I plan to recommend this book to many, many patients—the shy ones, the bold ones, and the curious ones. There’s something in here for absolutely everyone.” —Dr. Marty Klein, Sex Therapist and author of Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want From Sex, and How to Get It “Good Vibrations has created an important resource guide for women’s empowerment. Yes, empowerment means having agency in all aspects of our lives from the boardroom to the bedroom. Healthy sexuality is key to our personal power. When I was a young woman, my mom didn’t have the courage to talk to me about sexuality. Luckily, she did have Our Bodies, Ourselves on the bookshelf. The Sex & Pleasure Book will be that guide for women of all ages to embrace our bodies and our passion. Pleasure is our birthright. Thank the goddess for Carol Queen and Good Vibrations!” —Abiola Abrams, Self-Empowerment Coach, author of The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love “People have trusted Good Vibrations to bring them quality sex ed and orgasms for decades, and this book is a reminder why: it’s sex- positive, comprehensive, inclusive, and dedicated to demystifying all the amazing diversity of sex and sexuality. Carol Queen and Shar Rednour are the brilliant, bad ass aunts we all need to teach and advise us. Every one should own a copy of this book!” —Tristan Taormino, Author, sex educator and director of The Expert Guide to Female Orgasms “Good Vibrations has always been a safe and pleasure-filled space for everyone. Men feel as comfortable as women, cisgendered and transgendered alike, are included, addressed and celebrated in The Sex & Pleasure Book. Dr. Carol Queen and Shar Rednour provide smart, compassionate, thoughtful, and, importantly, practical advice to the whole person in a multitude of possible human experiences across the spectrum of passion, sexuality, relationships and even love.” —Dr. Hernando Chaves, Doctor of Human Sexuality, Licensed CA Marriage & Family Therapist “This is the one! An inclusive, compassionate, funny, and comprehensive guide to being a human with both a brain and genitals. If everyone, everywhere read this book, we’d probably have world peace.” —Emily Nagoski Ph.D. in Health Behavior, Author of Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life List Of Illustrations by Amanda Lafrenais 1. Yin Yang 2. Orgasm descriptions: volcano, rockets & bells 3. Safer sex supplies: condoms, plastic wrap, gloves 4. Lubricant 5. Homologues 6. Penis & Pelvis Area Anatomy 7. Vulva & Pelvis Area Anatomy 8. Woman masturbating with vaginal balls & vibrator 9. Yes, No, and Maybe Lists 10. Cunnilingus: “Going Down” a. In bed with close-up of fingers b. Senior couple using adjustable office chair for comfort 11. Fellatio: “Giving Head” series a. standing b. on bed c. with anal and ball stimulation 12. Missionary Positions a. bodies together b. up on elbows/arms c. legs over shoulders d. with vibrator e. holding legs spread f. woman holding vulva lips to help with stimulation 13. Man wearing a harness 14. Woman Astride a. on chair with partner in restraints b. 2 images in bed: sitting up and leaning forward 15. Man Astride other man facing away: “Reverse Cowboy” 16. Pregnant masturbation: Lying on vibrator on pillow 17. Pregnant position: being spooned by person wearing a dildo harness 18. Up on knees: fingers from behind 19. Sex furniture: using wedge for standing beside bed 20. Anal sex: using pillows for relaxation and comfort 21. Anal sex: woman wearing harness “Pegging” 22. “69” with anal oral sex 23. “T” Position a. lying down on bed b. sitting across armchair for control and comfort 24. Rear Entry a. standing beside bed b. on bed with vibrating cock ring c. spooning a.k.a. “77” using pillow on side for comfort 25. Couple Astride: “Yab Yum” a. 3 couples of different genders facing each other b. mandala-shaped Yab Yum image 26. BDSM Dominatrix with toys TOYS 1. Wand-style vibe 2. Anal safe toy, anal plug with flared base 3. Oblong “bullet” style vibrator 4. Vibrating cock ring 5. Rocket style small battery vibe 6. Smoothie—long, slim vibe 7. “Rabbit” or what we call Twice As Nice 8. Couple’s U-shaped vibe 9. Panties remote control vibe also used in palm of hand 10. Pure Wand for the G Spot 11. Smaller smoothie 12. Rubber duckie 13. Cock ring with ball spreader 14. Dildo 15. Dildo with balls 16. Double dildo 17. Set of novelty vibrators: cupcake, mustache, and dolphin 18. Music Hath Charms