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The Seduction Method: The Ultimate Guide to Meeting and Seducing Women Carlos Xuma THE SEDUCTION METHOD This work is copyrighted by the author. No unauthorized duplication or presentation allowed. Copyright © 2003, DD Publications All Rights Reserved (Ver. SM-001-3-22) www.seductionmethod.com “The G-spot,” “Here it Comes,” and “The Approaches” originally published at Dating Insider. Some sections revised and reprinted with permission from Dating Dynamics. © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 2 THE SEDUCTION METHOD The only life worth living is the adventurous life. Of such a life the dominant characteristic is that it is unafraid. It is unafraid of what other people think… It does not adapt either its pace or its objectives to the pace and objectives of its neighbors. It thinks its own thoughts, it reads its own books, it develops its own hobbies, and it is governed by its own conscience. The herd may graze where it pleases or stampede where it pleases, but he who lives the adventurous life will remain unafraid when he finds himself alone. - Raymond Fosdick When people say to me, “How do you do so many things?” I often answer them, without meaning to be cruel, “How do you do so little?” It seems to me that people have vast potential. Most people can do extraordinary things if they have the confidence or take the risks. Yet most people don’t. They sit in front of the television and treat life as if it goes on forever. - Philip Adams Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. - Mark Twain No great deed is done by falterers who ask for certainty. - T.S. Eliot Life is a daring adventure … or nothing. - Helen Keller © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 3 THE SEDUCTION METHOD What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail? - Robert Schuller © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 4 THE SEDUCTION METHOD Introduction.............................................................................................................................11 So, Who IS This Carlos Guy?....................................................................................................................15 Busting the Myth of “Speed Seduction”...................................................................................................18 A Helpful Warning......................................................................................................................................19 Love Women................................................................................................................................................20 Women Want Sex........................................................................................................................................20 The Fundamental Problem With Men.....................................................................................................21 How To Use This Book...............................................................................................................................23 Seduction is the Wrong Goal: The Six Big Mistakes In Seduction.......................................................26 Sexual Power................................................................................................................................................28 SEDUCTION: A Definition.....................................................................................................31 Seduction Strategy: Seduction is a Billiards Game................................................................................33 Seduction Strategy: Get a Dog...................................................................................................................34 Seduction Strategy: Get To Work.............................................................................................................35 SEDUCTION: Psychology.......................................................................................................37 PRINCIPLE: Find The Fun In It..............................................................................................................37 PRINCIPLE: Worry...................................................................................................................................38 PRINCIPLE: She Always Does What She Really Wants To Do...........................................................38 PRINCIPLE: Pain/Pleasure.......................................................................................................................39 PRINCIPLE: Scarcity and Appreciation.................................................................................................41 PRINCIPLE: Reduce Your Availability And Increase Your Perceived Desirability........................42 PRINCIPLE: Female Attraction...............................................................................................................42 PRINCIPLE: Physical Size And Trust.....................................................................................................43 PRINCIPLE: The Slut Complex...............................................................................................................44 PRINCIPLE: Her Program is Set – Delay Time.....................................................................................45 PRINCIPLE: Line Them Up and Knock Them Down..........................................................................46 PRINCIPLE: Defensive Shields................................................................................................................48 PRINCIPLE: Psychological Posture.........................................................................................................49 Qualification..............................................................................................................................................................50 PRINCIPLE: Self-interest..........................................................................................................................52 PRINCIPLE: Female Behavior.................................................................................................................53 PRINCIPLE: Words and Actions.............................................................................................................53 PRINCIPLE: Sphere of Control vs. Sphere of Influence.......................................................................55 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 5 THE SEDUCTION METHOD PRINCIPLE: The Jerk Syndrome............................................................................................................59 PRINCIPLE: The Phases Of Becoming A Seduction Master...............................................................60 PRINCIPLE: The Seduction Dance..........................................................................................................61 Preparation for Seduction........................................................................................................64 Persistence....................................................................................................................................................65 Self-Confidence............................................................................................................................................66 Get A Baseline..............................................................................................................................................68 Get Fit...........................................................................................................................................................68 Social Skills...................................................................................................................................................70 Are you socially IN or socially OUT?.......................................................................................................71 PRINCIPLE: Trust.....................................................................................................................................72 Role Reversal...............................................................................................................................................75 Seduction Strategy: Social Proof...............................................................................................................76 Being Right or Getting Laid......................................................................................................................78 Dominant and Submissive..........................................................................................................................79 Sense of Humor............................................................................................................................................80 Work Your Way Up....................................................................................................................................82 Control Your Thinking...............................................................................................................................83 Stop Daydreaming!....................................................................................................................................................83 Handling Setbacks During the Method....................................................................................................84 Pain Management......................................................................................................................................................85 Ego Wall....................................................................................................................................................................87 Misrepresentation........................................................................................................................................88 One Night Stands.........................................................................................................................................88 The Myth of the “Pick-up” Artist and “The Player”.............................................................................90 The Cycle of Opportunity..........................................................................................................................91 The Ultimate Seduction Secret..................................................................................................................91 Desperation, and Keeping a Consolation Prize.......................................................................................93 It’s Not What You Say – It’s HOW You Say It.......................................................................................93 Demonstrate Your Uniqueness.................................................................................................................................94 Screening......................................................................................................................................................95 Screening vs. Establishing Trust...............................................................................................................................96 Control the Conversation...........................................................................................................................97 Why You Don’t Want To Be Her Therapist.............................................................................................................99 Control The Conversation Through Questions.......................................................................................................101 Keep Her Believing in Destiny.................................................................................................................105 Imaginary Competition............................................................................................................................106 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 6 THE SEDUCTION METHOD Beware the Crazies....................................................................................................................................106 The Seduction Utility Belt........................................................................................................................109 Your Home.................................................................................................................................................110 Your Car.....................................................................................................................................................112 Body Language..........................................................................................................................................113 Seduction Skills..........................................................................................................................................116 Divination / Fortune Telling....................................................................................................................................116 Magic Tricks............................................................................................................................................................119 Poetry.......................................................................................................................................................................120 Music........................................................................................................................................................................120 Read Her Mind By Reading Her Body Language................................................................................121 Breaking Through Her Shell...................................................................................................................124 Cultivating Rapport..................................................................................................................................126 Induce Familiarity....................................................................................................................................................126 Use Mirroring..........................................................................................................................................................129 Point Out Similarities..............................................................................................................................................130 Strong, Consistent Eye Contact...............................................................................................................................130 Charged Words.........................................................................................................................................131 The Method............................................................................................................................134 FOUNDATION 1: Escalating Excitement.............................................................................................136 FOUNDATION 2: The Power of Anticipation......................................................................................137 FOUNDATION 3: The Occupation and Redirect................................................................................138 Seduction Strategy: Don’t Panic.............................................................................................................142 Seduction Strategy: Have a Wingman....................................................................................................142 Seduction Rule: Sunk Cost.......................................................................................................................143 Seduction Rule: The Fickle Factor..........................................................................................................144 STAGE 1: TARGET...............................................................................................................146 The Big “M”...............................................................................................................................................147 Subjects to Discuss....................................................................................................................................147 Subjects to Avoid.......................................................................................................................................148 The Ultra-Pause.........................................................................................................................................152 Show Her You See Her.............................................................................................................................153 Conversational Bridging..........................................................................................................................155 Tease Her....................................................................................................................................................156 The Seduction Method Approaches.......................................................................................158 Hot and Cold..............................................................................................................................................158 Seduction Strategy: The Name Test........................................................................................................159 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 7 THE SEDUCTION METHOD Situation 1: Grocery Store.......................................................................................................................160 Situation 2: Coffee House.........................................................................................................................162 Situation 3: On the Street.........................................................................................................................163 Tease to Please.........................................................................................................................................................163 Situation 4: Singles Bar (non-dance)......................................................................................................170 Situation 5: Dance Club............................................................................................................................173 Situation 6: Bookstore (or Other Retail Store)......................................................................................175 Situation 7: At the Gym or Exercise Club.............................................................................................176 Phone Numbers and Email Addresses....................................................................................................177 Interruption Transition............................................................................................................................178 The “Scams”..............................................................................................................................................179 STAGE 2: PROGRESSION...................................................................................................183 Step 1: Interest, Excitement, and Attraction.........................................................................................185 Heat Up The Conversation......................................................................................................................................187 Start Suggesting.......................................................................................................................................................187 Step 2: Disconnection................................................................................................................................190 Step 3: Increased Physical Intimacy.......................................................................................................191 The Kiss...................................................................................................................................................................193 Step 4: Isolation.........................................................................................................................................196 Step 5: Extended Physical Intimacy.......................................................................................................198 Step 6: Close the Sale - Sex.......................................................................................................................200 Seduction Strategy: Recovery – Excuse Yourself And Try Again......................................................204 The Denial – or, the Takeaway................................................................................................................205 Let Her Think It’s Her Idea.....................................................................................................................206 The Cardinal..............................................................................................................................................208 The Last Ditch Attempt............................................................................................................................209 STAGE 3: SHARPEN............................................................................................................212 Sharpen Smart – Fly With Another Ace................................................................................................213 Learn, Don’t Burn.....................................................................................................................................215 Sharpen Yourself.......................................................................................................................................216 The Seduction Types.................................................................................................................................217 The Intellectual........................................................................................................................................................218 The Sharp Chick......................................................................................................................................................218 The Slut....................................................................................................................................................................219 The Tease.................................................................................................................................................................220 The User...................................................................................................................................................................221 The Goddess.............................................................................................................................................................221 The Nun....................................................................................................................................................................222 The Man-Hater.........................................................................................................................................................223 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 8 THE SEDUCTION METHOD The Agenda Chick...................................................................................................................................................224 The Romantic...........................................................................................................................................................226 The Thrillseeker.......................................................................................................................................................226 The Angry Chick.....................................................................................................................................................227 The Crazy Chick......................................................................................................................................................227 The Bore...................................................................................................................................................................228 The Depressed Chick...............................................................................................................................................229 The Low Self-Esteem Chick...................................................................................................................................229 The Center of Attention...........................................................................................................................................231 Anatomy of a Seduction.........................................................................................................233 What Worked............................................................................................................................................240 Advanced obstacles and their solutions:................................................................................242 Seduction Strategy: The Philosophy of Handling and Overcoming Blocks to the Seduction.........242 The Other Man/Woman...........................................................................................................................244 Time To Move On (How to Lose a Girl In 5 Days)................................................................247 Give Her Your Exit Visa..........................................................................................................................247 Flood Her....................................................................................................................................................249 Happy Little Friends.................................................................................................................................250 NLP – Neuro-Linguistic Programming.................................................................................252 States...........................................................................................................................................................253 Modality......................................................................................................................................................256 “Kino” or Kinesthetics...........................................................................................................258 Always Leave Them Wanting More.......................................................................................................259 Avoid These Touches................................................................................................................................260 Now, The Positive Areas for Kino...........................................................................................................261 Good places to touch early:.....................................................................................................................................261 Places To Touch After You’ve Established Her Attraction:..................................................................................263 Other Areas:.............................................................................................................................................................264 Sexual Kino................................................................................................................................................264 How To Drive Her Crazy In Bed............................................................................................267 Communication.........................................................................................................................................268 Skills............................................................................................................................................................271 Slow it Down..............................................................................................................................................273 Premature Ejaculation..............................................................................................................................................273 Whoops, Too Slow: Couldn’t Get it Up.................................................................................................................274 Foreplay......................................................................................................................................................275 Tempo – Again, Slow Down...................................................................................................................................275 Mutual Masturbation...............................................................................................................................276 Cunnilingus................................................................................................................................................276 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 9 THE SEDUCTION METHOD Dirty Talk...................................................................................................................................................277 Blow Jobs....................................................................................................................................................278 “Here it Comes”.......................................................................................................................................................278 Threesomes.................................................................................................................................................280 Bondage/S&M/Spanking/Fetishes...........................................................................................................282 Phone Sex...................................................................................................................................................283 Your Favorite Number: 69.......................................................................................................................283 Toys.............................................................................................................................................................284 The G-spot..................................................................................................................................................284 How Do I Find The G-Spot?...................................................................................................................................285 Does Every Woman Have A G-Spot?....................................................................................................................285 How Do You Stimulate The G-Spot?.....................................................................................................................285 The Forbidden Zone of Pleasure.............................................................................................................286 Your Pleasure Chest.................................................................................................................................288 Sexual Weirdness.......................................................................................................................................290 Watch out for the "I Love You"..............................................................................................................................290 Crying.......................................................................................................................................................................290 Manipulation and Leeching.....................................................................................................................................291 The Extreme Female Sex Types..............................................................................................................291 Manage Your Chi......................................................................................................................................293 How To Be Memorable.............................................................................................................................294 Closing...................................................................................................................................296 APPENDIX: The Affect of Age on Seduction Interests.......................................................................303 References and Recommended Reading List.........................................................................................306 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. 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The Seduction Method: The Ultimate Guide to Meeting and Seducing Women Carlos Xuma THE SEDUCTION METHOD This work is copyrighted by the author. No unauthorized duplication or presentation allowed. Copyright © 2003, DD Publications All Rights Reserved (Ver. SM-001-3-22) www.seductionmethod.com “The G-spot,” “Here it Comes,” and “The Approaches” originally published at Dating Insider. Some sections revised and reprinted with permission from Dating Dynamics. © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 2 THE SEDUCTION METHOD The only life worth living is the adventurous life. Of such a life the dominant characteristic is that it is unafraid. It is unafraid of what other people think… It does not adapt either its pace or its objectives to the pace and objectives of its neighbors. It thinks its own thoughts, it reads its own books, it develops its own hobbies, and it is governed by its own conscience. The herd may graze where it pleases or stampede where it pleases, but he who lives the adventurous life will remain unafraid when he finds himself alone. - Raymond Fosdick When people say to me, “How do you do so many things?” I often answer them, without meaning to be cruel, “How do you do so little?” It seems to me that people have vast potential. Most people can do extraordinary things if they have the confidence or take the risks. Yet most people don’t. They sit in front of the television and treat life as if it goes on forever. - Philip Adams Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. - Mark Twain No great deed is done by falterers who ask for certainty. - T.S. Eliot Life is a daring adventure … or nothing. - Helen Keller © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 3 THE SEDUCTION METHOD What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail? - Robert Schuller © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 4 THE SEDUCTION METHOD Introduction.............................................................................................................................11 So, Who IS This Carlos Guy?....................................................................................................................15 Busting the Myth of “Speed Seduction”...................................................................................................18 A Helpful Warning......................................................................................................................................19 Love Women................................................................................................................................................20 Women Want Sex........................................................................................................................................20 The Fundamental Problem With Men.....................................................................................................21 How To Use This Book...............................................................................................................................23 Seduction is the Wrong Goal: The Six Big Mistakes In Seduction.......................................................26 Sexual Power................................................................................................................................................28 SEDUCTION: A Definition.....................................................................................................31 Seduction Strategy: Seduction is a Billiards Game................................................................................33 Seduction Strategy: Get a Dog...................................................................................................................34 Seduction Strategy: Get To Work.............................................................................................................35 SEDUCTION: Psychology.......................................................................................................37 PRINCIPLE: Find The Fun In It..............................................................................................................37 PRINCIPLE: Worry...................................................................................................................................38 PRINCIPLE: She Always Does What She Really Wants To Do...........................................................38 PRINCIPLE: Pain/Pleasure.......................................................................................................................39 PRINCIPLE: Scarcity and Appreciation.................................................................................................41 PRINCIPLE: Reduce Your Availability And Increase Your Perceived Desirability........................42 PRINCIPLE: Female Attraction...............................................................................................................42 PRINCIPLE: Physical Size And Trust.....................................................................................................43 PRINCIPLE: The Slut Complex...............................................................................................................44 PRINCIPLE: Her Program is Set – Delay Time.....................................................................................45 PRINCIPLE: Line Them Up and Knock Them Down..........................................................................46 PRINCIPLE: Defensive Shields................................................................................................................48 PRINCIPLE: Psychological Posture.........................................................................................................49 Qualification..............................................................................................................................................................50 PRINCIPLE: Self-interest..........................................................................................................................52 PRINCIPLE: Female Behavior.................................................................................................................53 PRINCIPLE: Words and Actions.............................................................................................................53 PRINCIPLE: Sphere of Control vs. Sphere of Influence.......................................................................55 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 5 THE SEDUCTION METHOD PRINCIPLE: The Jerk Syndrome............................................................................................................59 PRINCIPLE: The Phases Of Becoming A Seduction Master...............................................................60 PRINCIPLE: The Seduction Dance..........................................................................................................61 Preparation for Seduction........................................................................................................64 Persistence....................................................................................................................................................65 Self-Confidence............................................................................................................................................66 Get A Baseline..............................................................................................................................................68 Get Fit...........................................................................................................................................................68 Social Skills...................................................................................................................................................70 Are you socially IN or socially OUT?.......................................................................................................71 PRINCIPLE: Trust.....................................................................................................................................72 Role Reversal...............................................................................................................................................75 Seduction Strategy: Social Proof...............................................................................................................76 Being Right or Getting Laid......................................................................................................................78 Dominant and Submissive..........................................................................................................................79 Sense of Humor............................................................................................................................................80 Work Your Way Up....................................................................................................................................82 Control Your Thinking...............................................................................................................................83 Stop Daydreaming!....................................................................................................................................................83 Handling Setbacks During the Method....................................................................................................84 Pain Management......................................................................................................................................................85 Ego Wall....................................................................................................................................................................87 Misrepresentation........................................................................................................................................88 One Night Stands.........................................................................................................................................88 The Myth of the “Pick-up” Artist and “The Player”.............................................................................90 The Cycle of Opportunity..........................................................................................................................91 The Ultimate Seduction Secret..................................................................................................................91 Desperation, and Keeping a Consolation Prize.......................................................................................93 It’s Not What You Say – It’s HOW You Say It.......................................................................................93 Demonstrate Your Uniqueness.................................................................................................................................94 Screening......................................................................................................................................................95 Screening vs. Establishing Trust...............................................................................................................................96 Control the Conversation...........................................................................................................................97 Why You Don’t Want To Be Her Therapist.............................................................................................................99 Control The Conversation Through Questions.......................................................................................................101 Keep Her Believing in Destiny.................................................................................................................105 Imaginary Competition............................................................................................................................106 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 6 THE SEDUCTION METHOD Beware the Crazies....................................................................................................................................106 The Seduction Utility Belt........................................................................................................................109 Your Home.................................................................................................................................................110 Your Car.....................................................................................................................................................112 Body Language..........................................................................................................................................113 Seduction Skills..........................................................................................................................................116 Divination / Fortune Telling....................................................................................................................................116 Magic Tricks............................................................................................................................................................119 Poetry.......................................................................................................................................................................120 Music........................................................................................................................................................................120 Read Her Mind By Reading Her Body Language................................................................................121 Breaking Through Her Shell...................................................................................................................124 Cultivating Rapport..................................................................................................................................126 Induce Familiarity....................................................................................................................................................126 Use Mirroring..........................................................................................................................................................129 Point Out Similarities..............................................................................................................................................130 Strong, Consistent Eye Contact...............................................................................................................................130 Charged Words.........................................................................................................................................131 The Method............................................................................................................................134 FOUNDATION 1: Escalating Excitement.............................................................................................136 FOUNDATION 2: The Power of Anticipation......................................................................................137 FOUNDATION 3: The Occupation and Redirect................................................................................138 Seduction Strategy: Don’t Panic.............................................................................................................142 Seduction Strategy: Have a Wingman....................................................................................................142 Seduction Rule: Sunk Cost.......................................................................................................................143 Seduction Rule: The Fickle Factor..........................................................................................................144 STAGE 1: TARGET...............................................................................................................146 The Big “M”...............................................................................................................................................147 Subjects to Discuss....................................................................................................................................147 Subjects to Avoid.......................................................................................................................................148 The Ultra-Pause.........................................................................................................................................152 Show Her You See Her.............................................................................................................................153 Conversational Bridging..........................................................................................................................155 Tease Her....................................................................................................................................................156 The Seduction Method Approaches.......................................................................................158 Hot and Cold..............................................................................................................................................158 Seduction Strategy: The Name Test........................................................................................................159 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 7 THE SEDUCTION METHOD Situation 1: Grocery Store.......................................................................................................................160 Situation 2: Coffee House.........................................................................................................................162 Situation 3: On the Street.........................................................................................................................163 Tease to Please.........................................................................................................................................................163 Situation 4: Singles Bar (non-dance)......................................................................................................170 Situation 5: Dance Club............................................................................................................................173 Situation 6: Bookstore (or Other Retail Store)......................................................................................175 Situation 7: At the Gym or Exercise Club.............................................................................................176 Phone Numbers and Email Addresses....................................................................................................177 Interruption Transition............................................................................................................................178 The “Scams”..............................................................................................................................................179 STAGE 2: PROGRESSION...................................................................................................183 Step 1: Interest, Excitement, and Attraction.........................................................................................185 Heat Up The Conversation......................................................................................................................................187 Start Suggesting.......................................................................................................................................................187 Step 2: Disconnection................................................................................................................................190 Step 3: Increased Physical Intimacy.......................................................................................................191 The Kiss...................................................................................................................................................................193 Step 4: Isolation.........................................................................................................................................196 Step 5: Extended Physical Intimacy.......................................................................................................198 Step 6: Close the Sale - Sex.......................................................................................................................200 Seduction Strategy: Recovery – Excuse Yourself And Try Again......................................................204 The Denial – or, the Takeaway................................................................................................................205 Let Her Think It’s Her Idea.....................................................................................................................206 The Cardinal..............................................................................................................................................208 The Last Ditch Attempt............................................................................................................................209 STAGE 3: SHARPEN............................................................................................................212 Sharpen Smart – Fly With Another Ace................................................................................................213 Learn, Don’t Burn.....................................................................................................................................215 Sharpen Yourself.......................................................................................................................................216 The Seduction Types.................................................................................................................................217 The Intellectual........................................................................................................................................................218 The Sharp Chick......................................................................................................................................................218 The Slut....................................................................................................................................................................219 The Tease.................................................................................................................................................................220 The User...................................................................................................................................................................221 The Goddess.............................................................................................................................................................221 The Nun....................................................................................................................................................................222 The Man-Hater.........................................................................................................................................................223 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 8 THE SEDUCTION METHOD The Agenda Chick...................................................................................................................................................224 The Romantic...........................................................................................................................................................226 The Thrillseeker.......................................................................................................................................................226 The Angry Chick.....................................................................................................................................................227 The Crazy Chick......................................................................................................................................................227 The Bore...................................................................................................................................................................228 The Depressed Chick...............................................................................................................................................229 The Low Self-Esteem Chick...................................................................................................................................229 The Center of Attention...........................................................................................................................................231 Anatomy of a Seduction.........................................................................................................233 What Worked............................................................................................................................................240 Advanced obstacles and their solutions:................................................................................242 Seduction Strategy: The Philosophy of Handling and Overcoming Blocks to the Seduction.........242 The Other Man/Woman...........................................................................................................................244 Time To Move On (How to Lose a Girl In 5 Days)................................................................247 Give Her Your Exit Visa..........................................................................................................................247 Flood Her....................................................................................................................................................249 Happy Little Friends.................................................................................................................................250 NLP – Neuro-Linguistic Programming.................................................................................252 States...........................................................................................................................................................253 Modality......................................................................................................................................................256 “Kino” or Kinesthetics...........................................................................................................258 Always Leave Them Wanting More.......................................................................................................259 Avoid These Touches................................................................................................................................260 Now, The Positive Areas for Kino...........................................................................................................261 Good places to touch early:.....................................................................................................................................261 Places To Touch After You’ve Established Her Attraction:..................................................................................263 Other Areas:.............................................................................................................................................................264 Sexual Kino................................................................................................................................................264 How To Drive Her Crazy In Bed............................................................................................267 Communication.........................................................................................................................................268 Skills............................................................................................................................................................271 Slow it Down..............................................................................................................................................273 Premature Ejaculation..............................................................................................................................................273 Whoops, Too Slow: Couldn’t Get it Up.................................................................................................................274 Foreplay......................................................................................................................................................275 Tempo – Again, Slow Down...................................................................................................................................275 Mutual Masturbation...............................................................................................................................276 Cunnilingus................................................................................................................................................276 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit www.seductionmethod.com for more information. 9 THE SEDUCTION METHOD Dirty Talk...................................................................................................................................................277 Blow Jobs....................................................................................................................................................278 “Here it Comes”.......................................................................................................................................................278 Threesomes.................................................................................................................................................280 Bondage/S&M/Spanking/Fetishes...........................................................................................................282 Phone Sex...................................................................................................................................................283 Your Favorite Number: 69.......................................................................................................................283 Toys.............................................................................................................................................................284 The G-spot..................................................................................................................................................284 How Do I Find The G-Spot?...................................................................................................................................285 Does Every Woman Have A G-Spot?....................................................................................................................285 How Do You Stimulate The G-Spot?.....................................................................................................................285 The Forbidden Zone of Pleasure.............................................................................................................286 Your Pleasure Chest.................................................................................................................................288 Sexual Weirdness.......................................................................................................................................290 Watch out for the "I Love You"..............................................................................................................................290 Crying.......................................................................................................................................................................290 Manipulation and Leeching.....................................................................................................................................291 The Extreme Female Sex Types..............................................................................................................291 Manage Your Chi......................................................................................................................................293 How To Be Memorable.............................................................................................................................294 Closing...................................................................................................................................296 APPENDIX: The Affect of Age on Seduction Interests.......................................................................303 References and Recommended Reading List.........................................................................................306 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. 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