The Refinement of Character

160 Pages·14.271 MB·English

by  Ibn Qudamah al-Maqdisi

Imam Ahmad Ibn Qudamah al-Maqdisi [d. 689H]
The REFINEMENT of
CHARACTER
A textbook on the Ethics of Good Character
A TRANSLATION OF
‘Mukhtasar Minhaj al-Qasidin ’
“And indeed, you are of a great moral
character.”
[QUR’AN (68): 5]
The Refinement of
Character
A textbook on the Ethics of Good Character
by
Imam Ahmad Ibn ‘Abdu’l-Rahman Ibn Muhammad Ibn
Ahmad Ibn Qudamah [d. 689H]
Dar as-Sunnah Publishers
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Title: The Refinement of Character
by Imam Ahmad Ibn ‘Abdu’l Rahman Ibn Qudamah al-MaqdisI
Translated from the original Arabic
ISBN 1-904336-59-0
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Content
AUTHOR’S INTRODUCTION.........................................................................................11
CHAPTER ONE
On the Ethics of Eating
ikitab adab al-akl).........................................................................13
The first category: This pertains to the etiquette before
eating...........................................................................................13
The second category: This pertains to the etiquette during
eating...........................................................................................14
The third category: This pertains to the recommended
etiquette after eating..............................................................16
1.1. The Manners of Eating When in Company with
Others.........................................................................................16
1.2. Manners to be adopted when Presenting Food to
One’s Brothers.........................................................................17
1.3. Not entering upon people who are Eating......................18
1.4. The Manners of Hospitality...............................................18
1.5. The Etiquette of Presenting the Food and Eating. 20
CHAPTER TWO
On the Ethics of Marriage
(kitab adab al-nikah).........................................22
2.1. The disadvantages of Marriage............................................24
2.2. Gracious Companionship......................................................25
2.3. The Etiquette of Graceful Companionship and the
Dudes of Both Spouses......................................................27
CHAPTER THREE
On the Ethics in Earning a Livelihood
(Kitab adab al-Kasb iva ’l-Ma (ash)..................................................34
3.1. On the Virtues of Work and Exhortadon
Towards It................................................................................34
First: On the Science of Valid Selling, Buying and
Transactions...........................................................................37
Second: On the Exposition of Justice (al-'adl) in
Transactions, Avoiding Oppression and the
Prohibition of Hoarding.................................................39
Third: On the Exposition of benevolence (al-ihsdn) in
Transactions...........................................................................40
The fourth: On the Merchant’s Concern for His Religion 41
CHAPTER FOUR
On the Ethics in the Lawful and the Unlawful
(Kitab al-halal rva l-harard).............................................................43
4.1. Exposition on the degrees of the Lawful and the
Unlawful.....................................................................................45
4.2. Exposition on the degrees of Prudence............................46
4.3. Exposition on the State of those who Socialise with
Tyrannical Rulers..................................................................56
4.2. Going to tyrannical rulers Due to an Excuse..................58
CHAPTER FIVE
On the Ethics in Companionship and Brotherhood
(Kitab adab al-suhba wa’l-akwa wa mu ‘asharat al-khalq) 61
5.1. Exposition on What Must Be Considered When
Choosing Companionship...................................................65
5.2. Exposition on the Rights of Brotherhood and
Companionship characteristics...........................................68
5.3. Exposition on the Etiquettes of Interaction with
People.......................................................................................75
5.4. The rights of Muslims, kinship, neighbours, kings 77
5.5. The rights of the relatives and kinsmen............................84
CHAPTER SIX
On the Ethics of Solitude
(jKitab adab al- (u%la)........................................................................86
6.1. On the Benefits of Solitude, and its Pitfalls, and
showing the truth about the superiority of solitude...89
6.2. On the Pitfalls of Solitude........................................................95
6.2. Etiquettes of Solitude............................................................101
CHAPTER SEVEN
On the Ethics in Travelling
(Kitab adab al-safr)......................................................................103
7.1. On Permissible Travelling...................................................106
7.2. On what the Traveller must do...........................................108
CHAPTER EIGHT
On the Ethics of Enjoining Good and Forbidding Evil
(Kitab al-amr bi’l-ma ‘ruf wa ’l-nahyi ‘an ’l-munkar)...................110
8.1. On the Stages of Enjoining Good and Forbidding
Evil.........................................................................................112
8.2. On the Pillars, Conditions, Levels and Etiquettes on
Enjoining Good and Forbidding Evil...........................113
8.3. The Stages of Guarding against infringements...............115