The Law of The MoTher The law of the mother is made up of words charged with pleasure and suf- fering that leave their mark on us in early childhood. In this groundbreaking book, Geneviève Morel explores whether it is possible for the child to escape subjection from this maternal law and develop their own sexual identity. Through clinical examples and critical commentary, the book illustrates the range and power of maternal influence on the child, and how this can gener- ate different forms of sexual ambiguity. Using a Lacanian framework which revises the classical idea of the Oedipus complex, the book is not only a ma- jor contribution to gender studies but also an invaluable aid to the clinician dealing with questions of sexual identity. The book avoids many of the moral and political prejudices that paralyse twenty-first century society, be they re- lated to legislation on marriage, parentage or adoption, the status of “mental health”, or the limits to the supposed ownership of the human body. Insightful and revealing, The Law of the Mother will be of great interest to Lacanian psychoanalysts, as well as to researchers in the fields of gender stud- ies and sexuality. Geneviève Morel is a psychoanalyst practicing in Paris and Lille. She is a member of the Association Lilloise pour la Psychanalyse et son Histoire and of the group Savoirs et Clinique. Her previous books include Sexual Ambiguities (Routledge). THE CENTRE FOR FREUDIAN ANALYSIS AND RESEARCH LIBRARY Series editors: anouchka Grose, Darian Leader, alan rowan CFAR was founded in 1985 with the aim of developing Freudian and Lacanian psychoanalysis in the UK. Lacan’s rereading and rethinking of Freud had been neglected in the Anglophone world, despite its important implications for the the- ory and practice of psychoanalysis. Today, this situation is changing, with a lively culture of training groups, seminars, conferences, and publications. CFAR offers both introductory and advanced courses in psychoanalysis, as well as a clinical training programme in Lacanian psychoanalysis. It can provide ac- cess to Lacanian psychoanalysts working in the UK, and has links with Lacanian groups across the world. The CFAR Library aims to make classic Lacanian texts available in English for the first time, as well as publishing original research in the Lacanian field. oTher TITLeS IN The SerIeS The Marks of a Psychoanalysis Luis Izcovich Obsessional Neurosis edited by astrid Gessert Lacan Reading Joyce Colette Soler The Law of the Mother: An Essay on the Sexual Sinthome Geneviève Morel www.cfar.org.uk https://www.routledge.com/The-Centre-for-Freudian-Analysis-and-Research- Library/book-series/KARNACCFARL The Law of The MoTher an essay on the Sexual Sinthome Geneviève Morel Translated by Lindsay Watson Additional notes by Ben Hooson First published in English 2019 by Routledge 2 Park Square, Milton Park, Abingdon, Oxon OX14 4RN and by Routledge 711 Third Avenue, New York, NY 10017 Routledge is an imprint of the Taylor & Francis Group, an informa business English edition © 2019 Geneviève Morel Translated by Lindsay Watson Additional notes by Ben Hooson Geneviève Morel, La loi de la mère. Essai sur le sinthome sexuel © Economica Anthropos, Paris, 2008 The right of Geneviève Morel to be identified as author of this work has been asserted by her in accordance with sections 77 and 78 of the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reprinted or reproduced or utilised in any form or by any electronic, mechanical, or other means, now known or hereafter invented, including photocopying and recording, or in any information storage or retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publishers. Trademark notice: Product or corporate names may be trademarks or registered trademarks, and are used only for identification and explanation without intent to infringe. British Library Cataloguing-in-Publication Data A catalogue record for this book is available from the British Library Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Names: Morel, Geneviève, author. Title: The law of the mother: an essay on the sexual sinthome / Geneviève Morel. Other titles: Loi de la máere. English Description: Abingdon, Oxon; New York, NY: Routledge, 2019. | Originally published in French as: La loi de la máere: Essai sur le sinthome sexuel. | Includes bibliographical references. Identifiers: LCCN 2018030869 (print) | LCCN 2018032477 (ebook) | ISBN 9780429435447 (Master eBook) | ISBN 9781138351189 (hardback) | ISBN 9781138351196 (pbk.) Subjects: LCSH: Mother and child. | Gender identity—Psychological aspects. | Psychoanalysis. Classification: LCC BF723.M55 (ebook) | LCC BF723.M55 M6313 2019 (print) | DDC 155.4/182—dc23 LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2018030869 ISBN: 978-1-138-35118-9 (hbk) ISBN: 978-1-138-35119-6 (pbk) ISBN: 978-0-429-43544-7 (ebk) Typeset in Optima and Palatino by codeMantra CONTENTS ACknowLEDGEMEnTS vii InTRoDuCTIon 1 PART ONE SYMPTOM, FANTASY AND PATHOLOGIES OF THE LAW 9 CHAPTER I The law of the mother and the symptom that separates 11 CHAPTER II A critique of the fundamental fantasy 37 PART TWO LACAN AND THE SINTHOME 51 CHAPTER III Freudian constructions and Lacanian reductions 53 v vi CoNTeNTS CHAPTER IV The symptom abolishes the symbol 77 CHAPTER V The young man without an ego 107 PART THREE THE SINTHOME AND THE RELATION TO THE OTHER – FILIATION, TRANSMISSION, SEXUATION 141 CHAPTER VI Extensions of the symptom 143 CHAPTER VII Psychoanalytic uses of the sinthome 187 CHAPTER VIII Sinthome and sexual ambiguity 203 PART FOUR THE AMBIGUOUS MAN, HIS MOTHER AND HIS SINTHOME 217 CHAPTER IX Gide: masks and sinthome 219 CHAPTER X Three cases of sexual ambiguity in men 265 ConCLuSIon The sinthome is sexual 301 REFEREnCES 315 InDEX 321 ACkNOWLEdGEMENTS I would like to express my deepest gratitude to my colleagues, and to the participants from Paris and Lille who attended “Savoirs et clinique” and ALEPH (Association Lilloise pour l’Étude de la Psychanalyse et de son Histoire), all of whom listened patiently to me in research seminars and in private. Over a long period of time, I discussed the themes of this book with Franz Kaltenbeck, Brigitte Lemonnier, Lucille Charliac, Darian Leader, Emmanuel Fleury, Carine Decool, Jean-Paul Kornobis, Marie-Ange Baudot, Monique David-Ménard, Daisuke Fukuda, Sadi Lakhdari, S ophie Mendelssohn, Érik Porge and many others. I learnt a great deal from working in Dr. Lavoisy’s service at Armentières Hospital, and this book bears the stamp of that clinical experience. My warmest thanks to Professor Paul-Laurent Assoun, of Paris VII, who most elegantly guided the thesis which forms the basis of this work, as well as to Professors Marie-Jean Sauret, Christian Hoffmann and Markos Zafiropoulos, members of the panel, who read the work, and whose com- ments, critiques and questions challenged me to think anew. Pierre-Henri Castel read and re-read the text, offering his comments and corrections with great generosity, and Lucile Charliac spared no time or effort in asking probing and pertinent questions and helping vii viii aCkNowLeDGeMeNTS me to re-write some of the more delicate passages of this book. Franz Kaltenbeck energetically encouraged me to finish the work. Discussions with Professors Jean Bollack and Jacques Aubert opened up new and unexpected horizons for me. Michel Gardaz kindly chose to include me once again in his series of psychoanalytic books at Anthropos, and I am grateful to him for this and for his careful advice regarding my text. Finally, a sincere thank you to Diane Watteau, Parveen Adams and es- pecially Régis Michel who inspired me in my choice of the cover image. INTROduCTION I was dreaming that our old priest was about to pull me by my curls; this had been absolute terror, the harsh Law of my childhood. The fall of Kronos, Prometheus’s discovery, the birth of Christ, none of these had raised the heavens so high above humanity, which until then had been crushed, as did the cutting-off of my curls, which brought in its wake the most awful apprehension. In truth, other sufferings and other fears had perhaps replaced it, but the world’s axis had been shifted. I could go back quite easily into this world of the old law when I was asleep, and would wake only at the moment when, having tried in vain to escape from the poor priest, who had been dead for years, I had the intense feeling of my curls being pulled from behind my head. And before going back to sleep, as I remembered that the priest was dead and I had short hair, I was nevertheless at pains to cement myself into a protective nest made from the pillow, the coverlet, my hand- kerchief and the wall, before returning to this bizarre world in which after all the priest was alive, and I had my curls. Marcel Proust1 What an ambiguous world it is that the narrator of “In Search of Lost Time” aspires to find again in his disturbed sleep! Certainly, the dreamer 1