also by Al Siebert: The Resiliency Advantage: Master Change, Thrive Under Pressure and Bounce Back From Setbacks The Survivor Personality: Why Some People Are Stronger, Smarter, and More Skillful at Handling Life’s Diffi culties . . . and How You Can Be, Too also by Al Siebert and Mary Karr: Teaching College Success & Internet Skills to Adult Learners. An instructor’s manual to accompany The Adult Student’s Guide to Survival and Success, (6th ed.) Practical Psychology Press is proud to announce that author Al Siebert received the 2006 Independent Publishers “Best Self-Help Book” Award for his book The Resiliency Advantage. Sixth Edition (cid:129) Practical Psychology Press, Inc., Portland, Oregon (cid:129) © 2008, 2003, 2000, 1996, 1992, 1989 by Practical Psychology Press, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechani- cal, including photocopying, recording or by an information stor- age and retrieval system, without the written permission of the publisher, except where permitted by law. Practical Psychology Press P.O. Box 535 Portland, Oregon 97207-0535 www.PracticalPsychologyPress.com Electronic version available. (ISBN-13: 978-0-944227-40-4) Book/cover design/prepress by Kristin Pintarich, kpservices.us Printed with soy-based ink on recycled-content stock by Thomson-Shore, Inc. 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Siebert, Al. The adult student’s guide to survival & success / Al Siebert, Mary Karr.-- 6th ed. p. cm. Includes bibliographical references and index. ISBN-13: 978-0-944227-38-1 (alk. paper) 1. College student orientation--United States. 2. Adult college students--United States. 3. Study skills--United States. 4. Adult learning--United States. I. Karr, Mary, 1938- II. Title. LB2343.32.S556 2008 378.1’98--dc22 2008007194 Contents 1 Lots of Help is Available .......................................................1 2 Fears and Concerns: How to Confront and Overcome Them ..........................................................9 3 How to Choose Your Program, Get Financial Help, and Become Oriented .....................19 4 Actions That Lead to Success in College ...........................33 5 Online Learning ..................................................................41 6 The Best Way to Study .........................................................48 7 How to Get High Grades on Tests .......................................65 8 How to Write Excellent Papers ..........................................81 9 Learning Styles and Teaching Styles: How to Infl uence Instructors .............................................91 10 How to Gain Support and Encouragement from Your Family ............................................................103 11 How to Balance Going to College with Working ..............113 12 How to Handle Pressure Well ............................................119 13 Resiliency in a World of Non-Stop Change .......................128 Resources and Selected Reading ......................................144 Online Resources ...............................................................149 Index ...................................................................................154 To all students with the courage and commitment to pursue their dreams and improve their lives. Foreword If you feel nervous and have doubts about your ability to succeed in college, guess what. We felt the same way when we fi rst started! Al attended college as an army veteran. Mary started college when the youngest of her four children entered high school. After we each graduated, we decided to write a book about what we wish we‘d had available when we fi rst started. Our personal expe- riences shaped what we put into this book. Since the fi rst version of this book was published, thousands of adult students have found it extremely helpful. Many say they couldn’t have made it through college without The Adult Student’s Guide. This revised sixth edition is loaded with practical information that will give you an advantage. It shows how to study effectively, pass tests, write excellent papers, and get high grades. It will help you deal with your concerns and more. It has many suggestions for handing the challenges that can block your progress. This new edi- tion emphasizes how the skills you need for succeeding in college are the same skills most employers want today. Mainly, we want to say that if you believe in yourself and take things one day at a time, you can get the education you want and fi nd the fi nancing you need. You have faced tough challenges be- fore. You can survive the paper writing, test taking, and late night studying. With good effort and self monitoring you can succeed in college. We did, and we believe you can too! Al Siebert, PhD Mary Karr, MS March, 2008
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