suddenly FRUGAL HOW TO LIVE HAPPIER & HEALTHIER FOR LESS LEAH INGRAM Copyright © 2010 by Leah Ingram All rights reserved. This book, or parts thereof, may not be reproduced in any form without permission from the publisher; exceptions are made for brief excerpts used in published reviews. Published by Adams Media, a division of F+W Media, Inc. 57 Littlefield Street, Avon, MA 02322. U.S.A. www.adamsmedia.com ISBN 10: 1-4405-0182-3 ISBN 13: 978-1-4405-0182-1 eISBN: 978-1-4405-1293-3 Printed in the United States of America. 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data is available from the publisher. This publication is designed to provide accurate and authoritative information with regard to the subject matter covered. It is sold with the understanding that the publisher is not engaged in rendering legal, accounting, or other professional advice. 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The author and publisher disclaim any liability of any kind arising directly or indirectly from the use of this book. This book is available at quantity discounts for bulk purchases. For information, please call 1-800-289-0963. table of CONTENTS introduction THE MYTH OF FRUGALITY chapter one REBOOTING YOUR DAILY ROUTINES chapter two SHIFTING HOW YOU SHOP chapter three APPLIANCES THAT DON’T SUCK. . . ENERGY, THAT IS chapter four ROOMS FOR IMPROVEMENT chapter five MIXING MEDIA WITH FRUGALITY chapter six GETTING FROM POINT A TO POINT B chapter seven THE WARM AND COLD OF IT chapter eight BECOMING A DO-IT-YOURSELFER chapter nine RENOVATIONS AND INTERIOR DECORATING chapter ten IN THE GARDEN AND AR OUND THE YARD chapter eleven GETTING SOMETHING FOR (ALMOST) NOTHING chapter twelve HOLIDAYS, CELEBRATIONS, AND ENTERTAINING chapter thirteen DON’T THROW IT OUT—WEAR IT OUT chapter fourteen VACATIONS AND GETAWAYS appendix FOR MORE INFORMATION about the author acknowledgments I’m a believer in karma and fate. And both had a big role in my taking the concept of living a suddenly frugal life from an idea to a blog to a book. For starters, had I not been raised by a frugal mother, I never would have even considered dedicating my recent writing life to all things frugal. Of course, when I was growing up, I didn’t know what to call my mother’s shrewd habits—weird, perhaps? But as I grew older and wiser and recognized the wisdom in her money-saving ways, I came to appreciate the thriftiness she taught me. For that, thanks go out to my mother, Judy Watson Ingram, the original Yankee in my book. Then there is the matter of my husband, Bill Behre, and me deciding to sell our old home and buy our new house some two years ago—a move that ended up not being financially prudent, but that helped us to fully embrace frugal living. Because we didn’t want to end up as another foreclosure statistic, we knew we had to significantly change how we lived and spent money. My husband and my daughters, Jane and Annie, have been really good sports throughout this whole frugal experiment, and I thank them for their everlasting support of this and my many other professional endeavors. Because we sold our house and bought a new one, we became even closer with our realtors and friends Michele Natale and Kim Sager at the Coldwell Banker Hearthside office in our town. Not only did these women listen to use as we blabbered on about our newly frugal ways, but they also introduced me to the local CSA farm of which I’m now a member. I’d also like to thank fellow realtor (and fellow author and frugalista) Dee Dee Bowman. She’s schooled me on all things green and frugal, and I value all of the advice and suggestions she’s shared with me in the past few years. So thanks go out to Michele, Kim, and Dee Dee. Now on to my agent Adam Chromy at Artists and Artisans. Though I’ve had a handful of agents with the thirteen other books I’ve written, Adam is the first agent who has been more than just the person who sells a book for me. Adam believes in me holistically, as a writer, an expert, and a brand. I have never had someone who wasn’t related to me be such a cheerleader for my future success, and had Adam not believed in me so strongly, I know that Suddenly Frugal never would have happened. Plus, had I not filled in for my dear friend (now deceased) Sarah Wernick as a moderator at a writing conference a few years ago, I never would have met Adam, who was a speaker on the panel I was moderating. Thank you, Sarah and fate, for allowing Adam and me to meet. It took more than two years, Adam, but finally we’ve got a book in our hands, and greater things to come in the near future. Were it not for Adam, I never would have been able to work with the fine folks at Adams Media again. (I wrote the second edition of The ® Everything Etiquette Book for the company a few years back.) I’m thrilled to have the opportunity to work closely with editors Meredith O’Hayre and Laura Daly at Adams. Finally, thank you to all of the loyal readers of my Suddenly Frugal blog: www.suddenlyfrugal.com. You all have shared great ideas with me, made awesome suggestions about topics I should cover in the future, and given me honest feedback when you felt my blog was slipping a bit off the frugal path. I hope you’ll all stick around for many years to come, and tell everyone you know about my frugal mission. introduction THE MYTH OF FRUGALITY I’m not shy about telling people why we decided to start living frugally back in 2007. We had gotten in over our heads with debt and then bought more house than we could afford. When I make this confession, most people reply, “Well, good for you for nipping the problem in the bud.” I’m sure that behind our backs, they say, “Serves you right, you spendthrift, for buying a house you couldn’t afford.” Some people actually called us freaks when we told them we had become a suddenly frugal family. They couldn’t fathom that we could change how we live and what we spend in today’s world, and how we could still come out ahead financially and socially, and actually be happy about it. Now, granted, all of this name-calling occurred long before the economy sunk to the bottom of the toilet. It was still a time of freely available credit and conspicuous consumption. But more important, people didn’t understand how or even why we would willingly become frugal. That’s because these folks had bought into the myth of frugality. To them, living frugally meant not living much at all. But that’s not the point of frugality— the “not living” part. In reality, if you adopt a more frugal lifestyle, suddenly you will find that you are more in control of your spending and you will actually be able to live more on less. It’s like the people I met long ago when I joined Weight Watchers, who believed that if they ate too little each day, they would lose more weight. These people had determined from day one on Weight Watchers that they would undercut their Points intake every day so they could get skinnier faster. While that theory sounds perfect, it is flawed. Your body needs a certain amount of calories each day to function, and if you shortchange your body, it will fight your attempt to lose weight. Once you start tracking how many Points you could and should eat each day, you’ll discover that you can eat more food