Somebody’s Darling Somebody’s Darling Essays on the Civil War Kent Gramm This book is a publication of Indiana University Press 601 North Morton Street Bloomington, IN 47404-3797 USA http://iupress.indiana.edu Telephone orders 800-842-6796 Fax orders 812-855-7931 Orders by e-mail [email protected] ∫ 2002 by Kent Gramm All rights reserved No part of this book may be reproduced or utilized in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying and recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher. The Association of American University Presses’ Resolution on Permis- sions constitutes the only exception to this prohibition. The paper used in this publication meets the minimum requirements of American National Standard for Information Sciences—Permanence of Paper for Printed Library Materials, ANSI Z39.48-1984. Manufactured in the United States of America Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Gramm, Kent. Somebody’s darling : essays on the Civil War / Kent Gramm. p. cm. Includes bibliographical references and index. ISBN 0-253-34081-0 (alk. paper) 1. United States—History—Civil War, 1861–1865—Influence. 2. United States—History— Civil War, 1861–1865—Social aspects. 3. United States—History—Civil War, 1861–1865—Literature and the war. 4. Gettysburg (Pa.), Battle of, 1863. 5. Wilderness, Battle of the, Va., 1864. I. Title. E468.9 .G74 2002 973.7—dc21 2001006085 1 2 3 4 5 07 06 05 04 03 02 For Somebody’s Darlings and for Alan Nolan Into the ward of the clean white-wash’d halls, Where the dead slept and the dying lay; Wounded by bayonets, sabres, and balls, Somebody’s darling was borne one day. Somebody’s darling, so young and so brave, Wearing still on his sweet, yet pale face— Soon to be hid in the dust of the grave, The lingering light of his boyhood’s grace. Somebody’s darling, somebody’s pride. Who’ll tell his mother where her boy died? Give him a kiss but for somebody’s sake, Murmur a prayer for him soft and low; One little curl from its golden mates take, Somebody’s pride it was once you know; Somebody’s warm hand has oft rested there, Was it a mother’s, so soft and white? Or have the lips of a sister so fair Ever been bath’d in their waves of light? Somebody’s darling, somebody’s pride, Who’ll tell his mother where her boy died? —‘‘Somebody’s Darling,’’ 1864 My subject is war, and the pity of war. —Wilfred Owen C O N T E N T S Introduction: What Was It Like? xi The Gettysburg Nobody Knows 1 Somebody’s Darling 12 Ghosts of Gettysburg 20 A Ghost Story 25 The American Iliad 36 The Song of God 50 Wilderness 58 The Real War 89 ‘‘Nothing but Omnipotence’’ 98 A Soldier’s Grave 106 A Soldier’s Bones 115 Face-to-Face 133 Witnesses 143 CONTENTS ‘‘. . . You Cannot Refine It.’’ 150 The Road to Gettysburg 154 Epilogue: Les Terribles 160 Notes 177 Acknowledgments 183 Index 185 x