Snapshots of Autism of relatedinterest Asperger’s Syndrome AGuideforParentsandProfessionals TonyAttwood ForewordbyLornaWing ISBN1853025771 Freaks, Geeks and Asperger Syndrome AUserGuidetoAdolescence LukeJackson ISBN1843100983 Living and Loving with Asperger Syndrome TheMcCabeFamily ISBN1843107449 Pretending to be Normal LivingwithAsperger’sSyndrome LianeHollidayWilley ForewordbyTonyAttwood ISBN1853027499 Hitchhiking through Asperger Syndrome LisePyles ForewordbyTonyAttwood ISBN1853029378 Snapshots of Autism A Family Album Jennifer Overton Jessica Kingsley Publishers London and New York Allrightsreserved.Nopartof thispublicationmaybereproducedinany materialform(includingphotocopyingorstoringitinanymediumby electronicmeansandwhetherornottransientlyorincidentallytosomeother useof thispublication)withoutthewrittenpermissionof thecopyrightowner exceptinaccordancewiththeprovisionsof theCopyright,DesignsandPatents Act1988orunderthetermsof alicenceissuedbytheCopyrightLicensing AgencyLtd,90TottenhamCourtRoad,London,EnglandW1P9HE. Applicationsforthecopyrightowner’swrittenpermissiontoreproduceany partof thispublicationshouldbeaddressedtothepublisher. Warning:Thedoingof anunauthorisedactinrelationtoacopyrightworkmay resultinbothacivilclaimfordamagesandcriminalprosecution. Therightof JenniferOvertontobeidentifiedasauthorof thisworkhasbeen assertedbyherinaccordancewiththeCopyright,DesignsandPatentsAct 1988. FirstpublishedintheUnitedKingdomin2003 byJessicaKingsleyPublishersLtd 116PentonvilleRoad LondonN19JB,England and 29West35thStreet,10thfl. NewYork,NY10001-2299,USA www.jkp.com Copyright©2003JenniferOverton Library of Congress Cataloging in Publication Data ACIPcatalogrecordforthisbookisavailablefromtheLibraryof Congress British Library Cataloguing in Publication Data ACIPcataloguerecordforthisbookisavailablefromtheBritishLibrary ISBN1843107236 PrintedandBoundinGreatBritainby AthenaeumPress,Gateshead,TyneandWear To Nicholas My husband: my partner in life, art and autism. Thank you for your inspiration, guidance, and patience. In life, art, and autism. I love you, David. Thank you for holding hands with me on this journey. Thanks also to Jessica, for her encouragement and wisdom. Contents Nicholas’ Birthday: A Letter to My Son 11 Hallowe’en: Trick or Treat 15 Remembrance Day: Lest We Forget 27 Christmas: A Visit to Oma’s 34 New Year’s Day: Please Stand By 41 Valentine’s Day: Roses Are Red 50 Grandpa’s Birthday: Grandpa’s Story 60 My Birthday: The Gift 62 Ash Wednesday: Battle Fatigue 72 Easter Sunday: Acceptance 92 Our Wedding Anniversary: First Comes Love 100 Mother’s Day: Our Age of Innocence – A Screenplay 115 Moving Day: Great Expectations 135 Father’s Day: Heirloom 138 The End of the School Year: O Canada! We Stand on Guard for Thee 143 Summer Vacation: Today’s Agenda 153 David’s Birthday: The Case of the Lost Parents (or These Lost Parents are a Case) 155 Labour Day: The Five Stages 165 Grandparents’ Day: Knitting 189 Thanksgiving: Small Miracles 193 Nicholas’ Birthday: The Conversation 209 Postscript 220
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