Seeing God in Our Birth Experiences There has been a recent surge in the examination of the evolutionary roots of religious belief, all trying to identify where the human desire to seek the supernatural and the divine comes from. This book adds a new and innovative perspective to this line of thought by being the first to link prenatal and perinatal experiences to the origins of these unconscious underpinnings of our shared images of God. The book poses a groundbreaking paradigm by thinking about our earliest images of God, whether theist or atheist, within a psychoanalytic framework, comparing and contrasting the thought of Freud and that of Rizzuto. It looks at the issue of images of God from a diversity of psychological perspectives, including attachment theory, developmental theory and biopsychosocial perspectives. This analysis leads to the conclusion that in parallel to postnatal findings, uterine and birth experiences can predispose individuals to form God representations later in life, through underpinning affective and environmental factors. This is a bold study of the development of one of humanity’s most fundamental aspects. Thus, it will be of great interest to scholars of the psychology of religion, psychology, psychoanalysis, religious studies and early infant development. Helen Holmes is a clinical and academic supervisor, having written and taught courses at top universities, alongside developing a new approach to self-harm cessation and suicide amongst adolescents. Helen is a group and individual therapist on a psychosis unit at Maudsley Hospital, alongside working in private practice with children, young people, families, couples and adults. 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Acknowledgements AcknowledgementsAcknowledgements This book reflects my lifetime curiosity in relation to the intricate, weaving vicissitudes of human dynamics, particularly the parent–infant relationship. Thank you to the copy editors at Routledge, for working diligently to bring this book into fruition. My appreciation is moreover due to my mother and father, MBE, who carefully read through drafts of this book, helping shape its contents. Looking back, my curiosity and my learning have been enhanced through observation, thinking about and reflecting on prenatal and perinatal devel- opment and inspired by philosophy and depth psychology, taught at Heyth- rop College, University of London. I am indebted to my tutors, the Jesuit Dr. Brendan Callaghan, feminist Dr. Kathleen O’Connor, Reverend John McDade, Reverend. Gerard Hughes and Dr. Janice Thomas who to this day ignitein me a deep interest in depth psychology and philosophy of mind and whom remain inspiring philosophers, psychologists and teachers in my life. My interest in early life developed in adulthood through psychoanalytic infant and young child observation at the Anna Freud Centre, UCL and Tavistock Clinic in London – transforming my life in myriad ways and remaining central to my clinical learning and in relation to enhancing my analytic stance. Mainly through the influential thinking of the Institute of Psychoanalysis in London, I trained psychoanalytically, enabling me to work effectively with people in complex situations, trying to help some of the most vulner- able people in our communities: under-fives and their parents, children and adolescents, family groups and adults. In particular, I am grateful to Ms. Shelagh O’Gorman and Margaret for their informed supervision and sup- port of my under-fives work for many years at the St Pancras play group and Nursery, Camden. Thanks are due to Reverend James and Mary Robinson for their assis- tance in setting up our Muslim and non-Muslim women’s dialogue group in Hampstead, following the 7/7 bombings in Russell Square. Additionally, gratitude is due to Dr. Judith Issroff for her support. It was the generosity of members of the Association of Prenatal and Peri- natal Psychology and Health, US, who initially edited and published my Acknowledgements ix work on prenatal and perinatal psychoanalytic development, which led to the writing of this book; also, my thanks go to Dr. Thomas Verny and Dr. Billy Lyman for the opportunities. Dr. Stanislav Grof, a psychiatrist and Freudian psychoanalyst, deserves my appreciation for sharing his pioneering and controversial clinical work with me and a group of 200 others, in relation to perinatal experiences, whilst located on the deserts and mountains in the US. Dr. Anthony Rob- erts, consultant child and adolescent psychiatrist, moreover deserves a huge thank-you for his invaluable advice over several years. My thanks are due to members of the psychoanalytic community in Lon- don and internationally, who have inspired my valuing of psychoanalysis as the most enriching and challenging psychology around: for their support, insight, analytic input, opportunities, mentoring and supervision. I have managed to work intensively for many years, with patients with a diagnosis of the schizophrenias and psychoses. I must thank Professor Robert Hin- shelwood for his consistent supervisory encouragement and guidance with this work. Additional thanks to Mr. Clive Mariner and Ms. Jane Rushton for their support. I am also deeply grateful for the clinical learning opportunities opened up to me, at the Royal Free Hospital in relation to adolescent and elderly eating disorders and through the staff at South London and Maudsley NHS Foundation Trust, self-harm outpatients service and psychotherapy depart- ment at Maudsley Hospital. My gratitude is due specifically to: Mrs. Judith Lask, Dr. Emanuelle Peters, Mr. Jack Nathan (who, sadly, died October 2019), Dr. Duncan Mclean, Mrs. Penelope Doue, Mrs. Anna Callinan and Mrs. Carmen Garcia. Further thanks are due to the staff at the Institute of Psychiatry, Psychol- ogy and Neuroscience, Kings College London, for their support whilst I have been supervising my research project on adolescent self-harm cessation and suicidality, to postgraduate students. Thank you to all the hard-working ward staff on the inpatient psychosis unit, at Maudsley Hospital, where I work as a group and individual thera- pist; to all the participants and the patients for the privilege in sharing their experiences with me, held by me with deep respect. Warm thanks go to all of the infants, children, young people, parents and adults with whom I work, past and present. Importantly, to my family and friends, thank you.