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In this insider guide to sensational sex, the ultimate sexpert spills the secrets that will send you to ecstasy. TT Sparkling, fresh, and funnier than rr aa ever, Tracey Cox reflects and reveals cc ee what we really should be doing to yy keep our sex lives scandalously good. CC oo xx S e c Secrets of a Supersexpert r Praise for supersex: e t “A must-have book for cranking s o your lust life up a gear.” f —Cosmopolitan a S u p e r s e x p e r t TTrraacceeyy CCooxx BBeessttsseelllliinngg aauutthhoorr ooff ssuuppeerrsseexx Discover more at www.dk.com US_SD402_jkt.indd 1 26/9/08 13:13:51 Secrets of a Supersexpert Secrets of a Supersexpert 4 London, New York, Munich, Melbourne, Delhi Design SEA Published in Great Britain by Dorling Kindersley Limited. Editor Dawn Bates Senior Art Editor Helen Spencer A catalog record for this book is available from the Senior Editor Peter Jones Library of Congress. Senior Production Editor Jenny Woodcock Senior Production Controller Mandy Innes ISBN 978-0-7566-4459-8 Managing Art Editor Kat Mead Executive Managing Editor Adèle Hayward DK books are available at special discounts when Art Director Peter Luff purchased in bulk for sales promotions, premiums, Publisher Stephanie Jackson fund-raising, or educational use. For details, contact: US Editor Chuck Wills DK Publishing Special Markets, 375 Hudson Street, New York, New York 10014 or [email protected] Photography Andrew G. Hobbs, John Ross Printed in Germany by Mohn Media First American Edition, 2009 Published in the United States by Discover more at www.dk.com DK Publishing 375 Hudson Street, New York, New York 10014 Neither the publisher nor the author is engaged in rendering professional advice or services to the 09 10 11 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 individual reader, and neither shall be liable or SD402—January 2009 responsible for any loss or damage allegedly rising from any information or suggestion in this book. Copyright © 2009 Dorling Kindersley Limited Anyone participating in the activities that this book Text copyright © 2009 Tracey Cox discusses or suggests assumes responsibility for his or her own actions and safety, and for compliance Without limiting the rights under copyright reserved with all applicable laws. If you have any health problems above, no part of this publication may be reproduced, or medical conditions, or any other concerns about stored in or introduced into a retrieval system, or whether you are able to participate in any of these transmitted, in any form, or by any means (electronic, activities, you should take appropriate precautions. mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise) The information contained in this book cannot replace without the prior written permission of both the professional advice, or sound judgment and good copyright owner and the above publisher of this book. decision making. 5 Contents 6 Introduction Chapter One: Getting It Chapter Four: Pushing It Why you shouldn’t always listen to sexperts, boning up How a butterfly, rabbit, or duck can help pep up your on his precious part, keeping up with the Joneses in the sex life, surviving a threesome, loving porn, tackling bedroom, and why we all have sex on the brain. net sex, talking dirty, and how to simply talk about sex. 10 Sex Advice: Is It All A Lot Of Nonsense? 126 Have Sex Like A Gay Man 16 Coming of Age: Who’s Doing What, When 132 Net Sex: Evil or Erotic? 24 Sex On The Brain 136 Sex Toys That Work 28 Stiff Competition 146 The Other Oral Sex 154 Why Porn Works 162 How To Have A Threesome Chapter Two: Doing It Chapter Five: Believing It How to give and get great oral sex, sinful sex tricks and killer combos, more and better orgasms; and why the G-spot still fascinates. The solutions to some rather undignified sex situations 38 Melt In The Mouth and why a virgin can start fires and catch salmon with 48 Destination Orgasm her bare hands. Yes, really. 58 Gushing Over The G-Spot 172 Sex Stuff That’s Seriously Odd 64 Mission Possible 178 What The Hell Do I Do Now? Chapter Three: Living It 186 Index 191 Thanks Fix your sex life tonight, what to do if you can’t have an orgasm, what he needs to know to be the best she’s ever had, and how she can blow his … brain. 76 17 Sinful Sex Tricks 86 What Men Need to Know 92 What Women Need to Know 98 Missing In Action 106 How To Have Lust That Lasts 116 Instant Sex Makeovers 7 Introduction It’s quite interesting having sex as after six glasses of wine, and senior citizens on trains, your speciality topic—you get to sharp and sober, who lean over to share what they consider are the secrets of a good sex life over sixty. know stuff the average person doesn’t about the world’s all-time favorite What do I do with all this information? I keep my mouth shut for starters—if I blabbed, people would stop obsession. Quite apart from sex being confiding in me and where’s the fun in that? But I keep the focus of my professional life— my mind open, constantly revising how this impacts on how I think about sex and how I’m advising people in I write books, magazine articles, and my books and TV shows. Am I still on the right track? do TV and radio shows on the topic Are there things I should be covering that I’m not? Am I leading people toward the bedroom for truly satisfying worldwide—people tell me things. sex or up the garden path? “What’s myth, what’s reality?” is a question that continually hovers because Because I’m a sexpert, people have the urge to confess there’s so much nonsense written about sex, it really is to me. They think I’ve got the answers—or they think I’m hard to separate the two. unshockable and simply want to boast. People write to my website, stop me in lines at airports, outside This book is the result of more than 15 years solid study, (sometimes inside) the bathrooms at parties, in bars research, and personal reflection on a subject that still and restaurants, and once in the vegetable section of fascinates all of us. It’s what I thought then, what I know a supermarket while I was still in my gym clothes and now—and what you can do with this information to make holding a bunch of carrots. People talk—and I listen. your sex life better than it’s ever been. As per usual, I’ve tried to make the book useful for singles, couples of all I’m also observant. I read over people’s shoulders on ages and stages, and those who are straight, gay, or planes to see the erotic book hidden inside the novel bi. Please excuse me for mainly using heterosexual they’re supposedly reading. I peek into women’s references, but it gets a bit complicated trying to cater handbags to see portable vibrators, handcuffs, curious for all possible combinations. I also want to make it clear packets of condoms—curious because she’s married everything I suggest assumes you are either practicing and I know her husband’s had a vasectomy. I watch safe sex or are in a monogamous relationship where seemingly loved-up couples at the movies to see who both of you have been tested. There! Now all the formal averts their eyes during the sex scenes for hints on stuff’s out the way, please enjoy! I hope you get as much which one’s in lust, which one’s in love. I know that a pleasure reading this as I did writing it! hand placed on a bottom means a couple are far more likely to be at it than a friendly but asexual arm slung Tracey around the waist. I hear stories from people on planes,