RETHINKING VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN Sage Series on Violence Against Women Series Editors Claire M. Renzetti St. Joseph's University Jeffrey L. Edleson University of Minnesota In this series . . . I AM NOT YOUR VICTIM: Anatomy of Domestic Violence by Beth Sipe and Evelyn J. Hall WIFE RAPE: Understanding the Response of Survivors and Service Providers by Raquel Kennedy Bergen FUTURE INTERVENTIONS WITH BATTERED WOMEN AND THEIR FAMILIESfedited by Jeffrey L. Edleson and Zvi C. Eisikovits WOMEN'S ENCOUNTERS WITH VIOLENCE: Australian Experiences edited by Sandy Cook and Judith Bessant WOMAN ABUSE ON CAMPUS: Results From the Canadian National Survey by Walter S. DeKeseredy and Martin D. Schwartz RURAL WOMAN BATTERING AND THE JUSTICE SYSTEM: An Ethnography by Neil Websdale ATHLETES AND ACQUAINTANCE RAPE by Jeffrey R. Benedict SAFETY PLANNING WITH BATTERED WOMEN: Complex Lives/Difficult Choices by Jill Davies, Eleanor Lyon, and Diane Monti-Catania RETHINKING VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN edited by R. Emerson Dobash and Russell P. Dobash EMPOWERING SURVIVORS OF ABUSE: Health Care for Battered Women and Their Children edited by Jacquelyn Campbell BATTERED WOMEN, CHILDREN, AND WELFARE REFORM: The Ties That Bind edited by Ruth A. Brandwein RETHINKING VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN Editors R. Emerson Dobash Russell P. Dobash Sage Series on Violence Against Women ijfcv SAGE Publications 13^1 International Educational and Professional Publisher ^^/ Thousand Oaks London New Delhi Copyright © 1998 by Sage Publications, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or utilized in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher. For information: SAGE Publications, Inc. ® 2455 Teller Road Thousand Oaks, California 91320 E-mail: [email protected] SAGE Publications Ltd. 6 Bonhill Street London EC2A 4PU United Kingdom SAGE Publications India Pvt. Ltd. M-32 Market Greater Kailash I New Delhi 110 048 India Printed in the United States of America Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Main entry under title: Rethinking violence against women / edited by R. Emerson Dobash and Russell P. Dobash. p. cm. — (Sage series on violence against women; v. 9) Includes bibliographical references and index. ISBN 0-7619-1186-3 (cloth: acid free paper) ISBN 0-7619-1187-1 (pbk.: acid free paper) 1. Women—Crimes against. 2. Sexual harassment of women. 3. Family violence. 4. Wife abuse. 5. Women—Social conditions. I. Dobash, R. Emerson. II. Dobash, Russell. III. Series. HV6250.4.W65 R47 1998 362.88,082-ddc21 98-9084 98 99 00 01 02 03 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Acquiring Editor: C. Terry Hcndrix Editorial Assistant: Fiona Lyon Production Editor: Diana E. Axelsen Editorial Assistant: Denise Santoyo Typesetter/Designer: Rose Tylak Indexer: Trish Wittcnstcin Contents Acknowledgments ix 1. Cross-Border Encounters: Challenges and Opportunities Rebecca Emerson Dobash and Russell P. Dobash 1 Violence(s), Concepts, and Definitions 4 Working Across Disciplines 6 Methods of Study 8 The Importance of Context 9 The Extent of Violence Against Women 10 Physical and Sexual Attacks on the Body: Definitions of "What Counts," "Marking" the Body, and "Making" the Person 11 Intimate Violence in the Context of Violence in the Wider Society 14 The Violent Event, Masculinity, and the Context of Male Culture 15 Constructing Gender Through Violence, Enacting Gender Through Violence 16 2. Rethinking Survey Research on Violence Against Women Holly Johnson 23 Traditional Crime-Victim Surveys 25 The Conflict Tactics Approach 26 The Violence Against Women Survey 29 Constructing Definitions of Violence 34 The Prevalence of Violence Against Women 37 Test of a Theory of Assaults on Wives 41 Summary 50 3. Sexual Violence Against Women and Girls: An Approach to an International Overview Liz Kelly and Jill Radford 53 Emergence and Development of Issues 54 Definitions 56 Power and Male Domination 63 Offenders and Male Sexual Aggression 64 Impacts and Consequences 61 Institutional and Social Responses 70 Normalization and Resistance 73 4. Violence Embodied? Circumcision, Gender Politics, and Cultural Aesthetics Janice Boddy 11 Practices and the Literature 81 Marriageability and Identity: Toward a Concept of Embodiment 93 On the Politics of Aesthetics 97 Conclusion 108 5. Violence Against Women in Societies Under Stress Monica McWilliams 111 What Constitutes Violence Against Women in Conflictual Societies? 112 Violence Against Women in Conflict Situations 114 Violence Against Women in the Family 119 Political Conflict and Domestic Violence: The Example of Northern Ireland 129 Conclusion 137 6. Violent Men and Violent Contexts Rebecca Emerson Dobash and Russell P. Dobash 141 Violent Acts and Violent Actors 143 The Constellation of Violence: Violence, Injuries, and Controlling Behaviors 155 Men, Masculine Identity, and Violence 164 7. The Hand That Strikes and Comforts: Gender Construction and the Tension Between Body and Symbol Eva Lundgren 169 The Symbols of Violence or the Aesthetics of the Gender Battle? A Symbolic Field Based on Bodily Movement and Contact 171 The Masculine Symbolic Trinity: The Hand, the Strap, and the Phallus 178 Women's Sexual Morphology of Touch as a Symbolic Basis 180 Striking and Comforting—or the Hand as a Constitutive Category 183 A Violent Sex Life: Regulative Flexibility and Basic Constitutive Patterns 185 "The Stone" and "The Sea": "Different" or "The Same"? 188 "Different" Contents—"The Same" Function? 189 The Division Between the Bodily and the Symbolic "Self"—The Strategy of the Abused Woman 191 The Body as a Category for Change? 194 Conclusion: A More Open Approach to Gender Theory? 196 8. Lethal and Nonlethal Violence Against Wives and the Evolutionary Psychology of Male Sexual Proprietariness Margo Wilson and Martin Daly 199 Psychological Links Between Sexual Proprietariness and Violence 202 An Evolutionary Psychological Framework for Understanding Links Between Male Sexual Proprietariness and Violence Against Wives 207 Hypotheses About Patterned Variations in Male Sexual Proprietariness and Violence 214 Violence Against Wives and Children 224 Concluding Remarks 228 References 231 Index 251 About the Editors 271 About the Contributors 273 Acknowledgments T A his anthology benefited from two conferences funded by the Harry Frank Guggenheim Foundation in 1993 and 1995, where scholars from diverse disciplines had an opportunity to discuss their work and current thinking about violence against women. For that early part of the project, we wish to thank Karen Colvard and Joel Wallman of the Harry Frank Guggenheim Foundation. We also wish to thank all the authors for their commitment to this project and willingness to continue as it grew and changed; Dorothy Anderson, who faithfully and professionally recorded the proceedings of the first conference in Carmona, Spain; and Lauren McAllister, who had more than her fair share of technological blips processing text and computer discs on the way to the final manuscript. We also wish to acknowledge support from the Scottish office, the Home Office, the Rockefeller Foundation, NATO, and the Carnegie Foundation. The final collec- tion and the contents herein are the sole responsibility of the editors and authors. IX