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Jerry J. Bigner, PhD Joseph L. Wetchler, PhD Editors Relationship Therapy with Same-Sex Couples Relationship Therapy with Same-Sex Couples has been co-published simultaneously as Journal of Couple & Rela tionship Therapy, Volume 3, Numbers 2/3 2004. Pre-publication i 4 'VVTorking with same-sex cou- REVIEWS, ” pies is a challenge for COMMENTARIES, even the most seasoned thera EVALUATIONS. . pist. The authors of this book should be applauded for taking bold steps in addressing how ther apists can prepare themselves to handle numerous important is sues facing the GLBT commu nity and themselves as therapists. The book covers a broad spec trum of issues from numerous vantage points (e.g., the thera pist, the heterosexual partner, the supervisor). ” Julianne M. Serovich, PhD Professor of Marriage and Family Therapy Ohio State University More pre-publication REVIEWS, COMMENTARIES, EVALUATIONS . “ A WINNER. Bigner and Wet- < i P OMPREHENSIVE___This chler have brought togeth ' “'is a book I will return to over and over again. The stories er all of the most current infor and suggestions are PRACTICAL, mation on the dynamics of same- RICH, INSPIRING, AND REAL. sex relationships in American so ... In this EXCELLENT book, ac ciety. Nowhere in the literature is cessible to a wide readership, re this addressed so comprehen lationship therapy with same-sex sively. This is A MUST-READ for couples comes of age. A variety every couples counselor, every of relationship contexts, theoret LGBT-QQI counselor, and every ical frameworks, and clinical is counselor, period, for the insights sues are treated with depth and and practical interventions that are sensitivity. First-person accounts offered throughout this invalu and clinical examples provide able book. The chapter authors scholarly insights and solutions offer important and thought-pro for positive change.” voking insights into rarely ex plored subjects such as bisexual Katherine A. Allen, PhD Professor of Human Development as well as transgender issues in Virginia Polytechnic Institute same-sex couple therapy. EACH and State University CHAPTER IS A GEM.” Mark Pope, EdD President American Counseling Association (2003-2004) Associate Professor Division of Counseling and Family Therapy University of Missouri-St. Louis The Haworth Press, Inc. Relationship Therapy with Same-Sex Couples RelationshipTherapywithSame-SexCoupleshasbeenco-published simultaneously as Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy, Vol- ume 3, Numbers 2/3 2004. TheJournal of Couple & Relationship Therapy Monographic “Separates” (formerly theJournal of Couples Therapy series)* Below is a list of “separates,” which in serials librarianship means a special issue simultaneously published as a special journal issue or double-issueandas a “separate” hardbound monograph. (This is a format which we also call a “DocuSerial.”) “Separates” are published because specialized libraries or professionals may wish to purchase a specific thematic issue by itself in a format which can be separately cataloged and shelved, as opposed to purchasing the journal on an on-going basis. Faculty members may also more easily consider a “separate” for classroom adoption. “Separates” are carefully classified separately with the major book jobbers so that the journal tie-in can be noted on new book order slips to avoid duplicate purchasing. You may wish to visit Haworth’s website at . . . http://www.HaworthPress.com . . . to search our online catalog for complete tables of contents of these separates and related publications. You may also call 1-800-HAWORTH (outside US/Canada: 607-722-5857), or Fax 1-800-895-0582 (outside US/Canada: 607-771-0012), or e-mail at: [email protected] Relationship Therapy with Same-Sex Couples,edited by Jerry J. Bigner, PhD, and Joseph L. Wetchler, PhD (Vol. 3, No. 2/3, 2004).“A WINNER. Bigner and Wetchler have brought together all of the most current information on the dynamics of same-sex relationships in American soci- ety. Nowhere in the literature is this addressed so comprehensively. This is A MUST-READ for every couples counselor, every LGBTQQI counselor, and every counselor, period, for the in- sights and practical interventions that are offered throughout this invaluable book. The chapter authors offer important and thought-provoking insights into rarely explored subjects such as bi- sexual as well as transgender issues in same-sex couple therapy. EACH CHAPTER IS A GEM.” (Mark Pope, EdD, President, American Counseling Association [2003-2004]; Associate Profes- sor, Division of Counseling & Family Therapy, University of Missouri-St. Louis) Clinical Issues with Interracial Couples: Theories and Research,edited by Volker Thomas, PhD, Terri A. Karis, PhD, and Joseph L. Wetchler, PhD (Vol. 2, No. 2/3, 2003).“A USEFUL TEXT IN FAMILY SYSTEMS AND THERAPY COURSES. . . . A very useful, and even necessary, text for clinicians who do couples work and will increasingly be dealing with cross-cultural and interra- cial couples.” (Maria P. P. Root, PhD, Psychologist, Seattle, Washington) Couples, Intimacy Issues, and Addiction,edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCD, CGP (Vol. 10, No. 3/4, 2001).*“A much needed and insightful book for those who already work with cou- ples, and a marvelous addition to the library of any new therapist just venturing into the field of couples therapy. This book opens windows to explore, with respect and understanding, the many ways of partnering.” (Mary Ellen O’Hare-Lavin, PhD, Clinical Psychologist, Private Practice; Adjunct Faculty, Oakton Community College, Des Plaines, Illinois) Couples and Body Therapy,edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCD, CGP (Vol. 10, No. 2, 2001).* “A wonderful revisiting and blending of two significant fields. Once digested, one won- ders how the therapist can focus on the couple without addressing the bodies they inhabit.” (Cindy Ashkins, PhD, LCSW, LMT, Couples Psychotherapist and Licensed Bodyworker in Pri- vate Practice, Metairie, North Carolina) The Abuse of Men: Trauma Begets Trauma,edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 10, No. 1, 2001).*“Addresses a topic that has beenneglected. . . . This book isuniquein adopting a systematic perspective thatfocusesnot solely on themaleswho have beenabused but also on their partners and family members. . . . Givesdetailedand specificdirectionsfor intervening with couples who have experienced multiple traumas.” (Joseph A.Micucci, PhD, Associate Professor of Psychology, Chestnut Hill College, Pennsylvania) The Personhood of the Therapist,edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 9, No. 3/4, 2000).*Throughsuggestions,techniques,examples,andcasestudies,thisbookwillhelpyou develop a great sense of openness about yourself and your feelings, enabling you to offer clients more effective services. Couples Connecting: Prerequisites of Intimacy,edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 9, No. 1/2, 2000).* “Brothers views marriage as an ideal context for the psychological and spiri- tual evolution of human beings, and invites therapists to reflect on the role they can play in facili- tating this. Readers are sure to recognize their clients among the examples given and to return to their work with a renewed vision of the possibilities for growth and change.” (Eleanor D. Macklin, PhD, Emeritus Professor and former Director of the Marriage and Family Therapy program, Syracuse University, New York) Couples Therapy in Managed Care: Facing the Crisis,edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 8, No. 3/4, 1999).*Provides social workers, psychologists, and counselors with an overview of the negative effects of the managed care industry on the quality of mental health care. Within this book, you will discover the paradoxes that occur with the mixing of business principles and service principles and find valuable suggestions on how you can creatively cope within the managed care context. WithCouples Therapy in Managed Care, you will learn how you can remain true to your own integrity and still get paid for your work and offer quality ser- vices within the current context of managed care. Couples and Pregnancy: Welcome, Unwelcome, and In-Between,edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 8, No. 2, 1999).*Gain valuable insight into how pregnancy and birth havea profoundpsychologicaleffectontheparents’relationship,especiallyontheirexperienceofin- timacy. Couples, Trauma, and Catastrophes,edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 7, No. 4, 1998).*Helps therapists and counselors working with couples facing major crises and trauma. Couples: A Medley of Models, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW, BCD (Vol. 7, No. 2/3, 1998).* “A wonderful set of authors who illuminate different corners of relationships. This book belongs on your shelf . . . but only after you’ve read it and loved it.” (Derek Paar, PhD, Associ- ate Professor of Psychology, Springfield College, Massachusetts) When One Partner Is Willing and the Other Is Not, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 7, No. 1, 1997).*“An engaging variety of insightful perspectives on resistance in couples therapy.” (Stan Taubman, DSW, Director of Managed Care, Alameda County Behavioral Health Care Service, Berkeley, California; Author,Ending the Struggle Against Yourself) Couples and the Tao of Congruence, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 6, No. 3/4, 1996).* “AlibraryofinformationlinkingVirginiaSatir’steachingandpracticeofcreative improvementinhumanrelationsandtheTaoofCongruence....Astimulatingread.”(Josephine A. Bates, DSW, BD, retired mental health researcher and family counselor, Lake Preston, South Dakota) Couples and Change, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 6, No. 1/2, 1996).*This enlightening book presents readers with Satir’s observations–observations that show the differ- ence between thinking with systems in mind and thinking linearly–of process, interrelatedness, and attitudes. Couples: Building Bridges, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 5, No. 4, 1996).* “This work should be included in the library of anyone considering to be a therapist or who is one or who is fascinated by the terminology and conceptualizations which the study of marriage utilizes.” (Irv Loev, PhD, MSW-ACP, LPC, LMFT, private practitioner) Couples and Countertransference, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 5, No. 3, 1995).* “I would recommend this book to beginning and advanced coupletherapistsas well as to social workers and psychologists. . . . This book is a wealth of information.” (International Transactional Analysis Association) Power and Partnering, editedbyBarbaraJoBrothers,MSW,BCSW(Vol.5,No.1/2,1995).* “Appeals to therapists and lay people who find themselves drawn to the works of Virginia Satir andCarlJung.Includesstoriesandresearchdatasatisfyingthetastesofbothleft-and right-brained readers.” (Virginia O. Felder, ThM, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, private practice, Atlanta, Georgia) Surpassing Threats and Rewards: Newer Plateaus for Couples and Coupling, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 4, No. 3/4, 1995).*Explores the dynamics of discord, rejection, and blame in the coupling process and provides practical information to help readers understand marital dissatisfaction and how this dissatisfaction manifests itself in relationships. Attraction and Attachment: Understanding Styles of Relationships, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 4, No. 1/2, 1994).* “Ideas on working effectively with couples. . . . I strongly recommend this book for those who want to have a better understanding of the complex dynamics of couples and couples therapy.” (Gilbert J. Greene, PhD, ACSW, Associate Professor, College of Social Work, The Ohio State University) Peace, War, and Mental Health: Couples Therapists Look at the Dynamics, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers,MSW,BCSW(Vol.3,No.4,1993).*Discoverhowissuesofworldwarandpeace relate to the dynamics of couples therapy in this thought-provoking book. Couples Therapy, Multiple Perspectives: In Search of Universal Threads, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 3, No. 2/3, 1993).* “A very sizeable team of couples therapists has scoured the countryside in search of the most effective methods for helping couples improve their relationships. . . . The bibliographies are a treasury of worthwhile references.” (John F. Sullivan, EdS, Marriage and Family Counselor in Private Practice, Newburgh, New York) Spirituality and Couples: Heart and Soul in the Therapy Process, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 3, No. 1, 1993).* “Provides an array of reflections particularly for thera- pists beginning to address spirituality in the therapeutic process.” (Journal of Family Psycho- therapy) Equal Partnering: A Feminine Perspective, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 2, No. 4, 1992).*Designed to help couples, married or not, understand how to achieve a balanced, equal partnership. Coupling...WhatMakesPermanence?editedbyBarbaraJoBrothers,MSW,BCSW(Vol.2, No.3, 1991).* “Explores what it is that makes for a relationship in which each partner can grow and develop while remaining attached to another.” (The British Journal of Psychiatry) Virginia Satir: Foundational Ideas, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 2, No. 1/2, 1991).* “The most thorough conglomeration of her ideas available today. Done in the intimate, yet clear fashion you would expect from Satir herself. . . . Well worth getting your hands damp to pick up this unique collection.” (Journal of Family Psychotherapy) Intimate Autonomy: Autonomous Intimacy, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 1, No. 3/4, 1991).* “A fine collection of chapters on one of the most difficult of human tasks–getting close enough to another to share the warmth and benefits of that closeness without losing what is precious in our separations.” (Howard Halpern, PhD, Author,How to Break Your Addiction to a Person) Couples on Coupling, edited by Barbara Jo Brothers, MSW, BCSW (Vol. 1, No. 2, 1990).* “A vari- ety of lenses through which to view relationships, each providing a different angle for seeing pat- terns, strengths, and problems and for gaining insight into a given couple system.” (Suzanne Imes, PhD, Clinical Psychologist, Private Practice, Atlanta, Georgia; Adjunct Assistant Profes- sor of Psychology, Georgia State University) Relationship Therapy with Same-Sex Couples Jerry J. Bigner , PhD Joseph L. Wetchler, PhD Editors RelationshipTherapywithSame-SexCoupleshasbeenco-publishedsi- multaneouslyasJournalofCouple&RelationshipTherapy,Volume3, Numbers2/32004. RelationshipTherapywithSame-SexCoupleshasbeenco-published simultaneously as Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy™, Volume 3, Numbers 2/3 2004. First published 2004 by The Haworth Press Published 2013 by Routledge 711 Third Avenue, New York, NY, 10017, USA 2 Park Square, Milton Park, Abingdon, Oxon OX14 4RN Routledge is an imprint of the Taylor & Francis Group, an informa business ©2004byTheHaworthPress, Allrightsreserved.Nopartofthisworkmaybereproducedorutilized inanyformorbyanymeans,electronicormechanical,includingphotocopying,microfilmandrecord- ing,orbyanyinformationstorageandretrievalsystem,withoutpermissioninwritingfromthepub- lisher. 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