r e d n se u e b A G d n a e d c n n ole a Vi dzi , s of yere e n e c a n K r ie a u per Av t x E ul e al C m e F , k c e a Bl c a R Race, Culture, and Gender Ava Kanyeredzi Race, Culture, and Gender Black Female Experiences of Violence and Abuse Ava Kanyeredzi School of Psychology University of East London London, UK ISBN 978-1-137-58388-8 ISBN 978-1-137-58389-5 (eBook) https://doi.org/10.1057/978-1-137-58389-5 Library of Congress Control Number: 2017964273 © The Editor(s) (if applicable) and The Author(s) 2018 The author(s) has/have asserted their right(s) to be identified as the author(s) of this work in accordance with the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988. This work is subject to copyright. 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Thank you: to my mother Yolanda and sister, Davina, for Saturdays, fun, grounding, and unconditional love and understanding; to my second mother Ellie and her family for lifelong support and kindness to Chen; to my father Peronet and Joan, my sister Sharol and her family, and my brothers Ashton and Ryan for all the joyful conversations and support; to my cousins—Pauline, Patsy, Jennifer, Erica, Julian, and Diana—and their families, for your love and presence over the years; to my aunts Belle and Erin, for always turning up, no mat- ter what; to my late aunt Sylvia, whose life, love, and kindness inspired me to face my fears and demand more from life. To my dear friend Charlie and her family, thank you for the laughter, for our talks, and for seeing the end even before the beginning. Thank you to all my friends, including D, J, and M. To Reggie Pedro, Tichaona Kachingwe, Sylvester Carbon, and Alexander Muwori, who I thought I would see again. May you all rest in peace. Thank you to: Jenny Harding, for your patience and advice to write that first draft when I was dithering; Maddy Coy, for your all-round love- liness and always spotting where I could speak up more; Paula Reavey, for your continued encouragement over the years and your gentle guidance v vi Acknowledgements and honesty; Liz Kelly, for your generosity, patience, and careful critique, making this an awesome experience. My thanks also go to Joanne, Karin, Fiona, Maria, Janet, and Ruth for the laughter, lively debates, and being there. To all the women who participated and those who shared their experi- ences of violence and abuse, I thank you for your wisdom, time, inspira- tion, and courage! Contents 1 Introduction 1 2 Silenced Through Fear, Threats, and Betrayal: A Continuum of Oppression 47 3 Silenced, Shamed, Speaking Out and the Strong Black Woman 89 4 Silenced and Out of Place: Feeling Like a Nugatory Self 115 5 Feeling Through the Silences, Seeking Support, and Being ‘Saved’ 145 6 Learning to Hear the Silences 179 References 195 Index 217 vii List of Figures Fig. 2.1 Open Green 54 Fig. 2.2 Library 63 Fig. 5.1 Room body 147 Fig. 5.2 Jacinta’s dynamic and serendipitous routes to help 152 Fig. 5.3 Grasping joy 159 Fig. 5.4 Room with a key 170 Fig. 5.5 Get myself out 171 Fig. 5.6 Balance and nourishment 172 Fig. 5.7 A certain freedom 173 ix 1 Introduction This chapter presents an overview of the prevalence of violence and abuse, and with reference to Black women, definitions of key terms and con- cepts used throughout, and themes from previous research. Prevalence of Violence Against Women and Children Violence against women and children are worldwide issues of concern and are underreported as crimes (Radford et al. 2011). Global prevalence surveys estimate that over a third (35.6%) of women experience violence or sexual assault from a partner or non-partner (WHO 2013). The annual Crime Survey of England and Wales (CSEW) (ONS 2017) esti- mates that just under 1 in 5 (20%) and just over 1 in 10 men (9%) experience violence from a partner, with 1 in 5 women (20%) and just over 1 in 25 (4%) men experiencing sexual assault or rape, and this figure includes attempts. Eighty-six per cent of those who report rape are female, and just under a quarter (23%) of rapes are committed against children under the age of 16. Women are more likely to experience vio- © The Author(s) 2018 1 A. Kanyeredzi, Race, Culture, and Gender, https://doi.org/10.1057/978-1-137-58389-5_1 2 A. Kanyeredzi lence in the home than are men, and while men are more likely to be killed by another male acquaintance or stranger, women are more likely to be killed by a partner or ex-partner; this is the case for over half of the female homicides (ONS 2017). Women between the ages of 16 and 34 are more likely to experience stalking and physical violence from a part- ner or ex-partner (ONS 2017). Violence tends to increase post separation, where women are more likely to be murdered (ONS 2017; Thiara 2013). In the USA, African American, Native American, and non-White Hispanic women experi- ence higher rates of violence from partners and sexual violence from non- partners and are more likely to be killed by a partner than are White American women (Breiding et al. 2014). If a woman or a man has a dis- ability or long-term illness, he/she is more likely to be a victim of violence and abuse from a partner (ONS 2017; Nixon and Humphreys 2010). Few studies explore how living at the intersections of a range of social locations which include being racialised as Black presents, opportunities and limitations for women who experience violence and abuse. Child sexual abuse and the umbrella term ‘child maltreatment’ are also widespread phenomena. It may be impossible to know the full prev- alence of child sexual abuse as definitions of abuse vary by country and statistical measurement and individuals rarely disclose abuse experiences (Finkelhor et al. 2014; Lalor and McElvaney 2009), and when they do, they wait between 10 and 20 years (Lamb and Edgar-Smith 1994). The implementation of policies and preventive measures are also inconsis- tent across middle- and high-income countries, more so in low-income countries exacerbated by fewer resources (Dubowitz 2017; Wekerle and Black 2017). In the USA, between 1 in 4 (25%) and just over a third of women and between 1 in 10 (10%) and 1 in 4 (25%) men report sexual abuse. Between 1 in 10 (10%) and 1 in 4 (25%) men and women report physi- cal abuse in childhood (Briere and Jordan 2009; Finkelhor et al. 1990). One German study (Allgroggen et al. 2017) reported an elevated risk of sexual abuse of almost 1 in 2 (47%) for girls and 1 in 50 for boys (8%) among children in institutional care. These statistics reveal similar preva- lence rates of child sexual abuse across racial groups (Bolen 2001; London et al. 2005).