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Putting Faith into Action
Women gather to
share their wisdom.
By Bonnie Hobbs Bhagavad Gita Noting that Emma Lazarus was the Jew-
I
(Hindu scripture), ish woman who wrote the words inscribed
n today’s political climate, women can she said, “Some- on the base of the Statue of Liberty, Kohn
often feel powerless. But more than times activism may said many other Jewish women, such as
100 women of various faiths came to demand that we [Supreme Court Justice] Ruth Bader
gether recently to learn how they can fight or that we Ginsberg, work to better people’s lives ev-
and are making a difference in the world walk away. Ulti- ery day. “We have to try to make a differ-
around them. mately, we’re souls ence, even when the task is daunting,” said
Hosted by the Women’s Auxiliary of the beyond our bodies, Kohn. “And we have to speak up when our
Ahmadiyya Muslim Community, the event and the Gita also leaders don’t. Salaam Shalom was founded
was held March 18 at the Mubarak Mosque teaches compas- Dr. Susan Kohn to bring Jewish and Muslim women to-
in Chantilly. It’s presented each year in com- sion — you can’t listens to a gether and speak out against injustice.”
memoration of Women’s History Month, and even kill an ant. So speaker. Next came Shari Zamarra, a Catholic in-
the theme this time was “Activism Through the challenge for us volved with the Fairfax County Communi-
Faith: How Women Make an Impact.” as women is to discern the best impact we ties for Action Youth Task Force. She’s also
Welcoming everyone was Sahar can have in any given situation.” a member of Virginians Organized in Com-
Choudhary, regional president of the So, said Vrindavan, “My faith is in both munity Engagement. She’s also marched
Ahmadiyya Muslim Community’s Virginia stepping back from the world and stepping and protested and does so monthly outside
chapter. She said her religion “categorically into the world, from a place of good inten- the NRA building.
rejects terrorism in any form and endorses tion, and seeing where I can best serve. So Matthew 25 is her parish’s mission state-
the separation of church and state. We how do you take the principles of your spiri- ment. “God judges us by asking what we’ve
champion universal human rights, protec- tual practice into the world? To help us de- done for the poor and the most vulnerable
tion of minorities and the empowerment of cide, we have six Gita values: Equal vision among us,” she said. “Now my work is serv-
women through education.” – we’re all equal; choice – we have free will ing poor pregnant women and supporting
Ananda Vrindavan, temple president of and must live with the results of our choices, Photos by Bonnie Hobbs education in Guatemala.”
the International Society of Krishna Con- affection and humility – deal with each Ananda Vrindavan makes a point. Zamarra said she’s inspired by Dorothy
sciousness in Washington, D.C., was the first other with [both these things], live life with- Day, a famous Catholic who helped es-
speaker. Born and raised in Ireland, she out cruelty, and live by example.” is a member of the Sisterhood of Salaam tablish special houses of hospitality to
taught in India for 21 years. “It’s sad that “When you live in the real world, black Shalom — a group of Muslim and Jewish help those in need. Day was also an ac-
evil happens when good people don’t stand and white disappear and there’s a lot of women. Representing the Jewish viewpoint, tivist who worked for social causes such
up and say something,” she said. “But you gray,” she added. “So be alive and awake she said, “Women must not be silent in the as pacifism and women’s suffrage.
don’t want to lose yourself in the process, and as active as you can.” face of discrimination or injustice to oth- Zamarra also follows the words of Pope
so it’s a balance.” Pediatrician Susan Kohn belongs to ers. We believe in caring for the stranger Francis, who said, “Each person has a
In Krishna Consciousness and the Temple B’nai Shalom in Fairfax Station and and repairing the world.” mission of social responsibility.”
‘We’re Diverse, but One Human Community’
Women of different said the importance of motherhood is
also emphasized. She said it’s seen as
faiths discuss a way “to create a more just and peace-
ful society by raising children who have
helping others. a conscience and are morally engaged
with their communities.”
Citing activist Malala Yousafzai as an
By Bonnie Hobbs advocate for girls’ education, Ahmad
D said women in general “write letters
uring the March 18 event at the and op eds to make their voices heard.
Mubarak Mosque in Chantilly, Board of Super- We also meet with people on Capitol
women representing a variety of visors Chairman Hill to discuss issues important to us.”
religions explained their beliefs to others. Sharon Bulova She further noted Ahmadiyya Mus-
They also illustrated how what women do lims’ involvement in Humanity First, a
in their daily lives can impact the future. aimed at reforma- non-religious, international nonprofit
Nakasha Ahmad, of the Ahmadiyya Mus- tion, rather than pun- that runs programs such as Water for
lim Community, has a master’s in philoso- ishment, and mercy Life, which brings clean drinking wa-
phy and is a former college professor. She should be used to get ter to poor areas of Africa. “We also
said Ahmadiyya Muslims view activism as people back on the believe that prayer is more effective
“campaigning for social change, social right path. “Pardon Photos by Bonnie Hobbs than fire or water,” said Ahmad. “And
progress and a most just society to right and forgiveness are April Dalton is seeking baby items for Afghani women. we all are able to pray to advocate for
wrongs and alleviate injustices.” just as important as social change.”
She said the five pillars of Islam are a punishment,” she Next at the podium was county
declaration of faith, prayer, giving to the said. Regarding racial inequality, said Muslims also rely on the hadith — oral tra- Board of Supervisors Chairman Sharon
poor, fasting during Ramadan and going to Ahmad, “We believe no one people has su- ditions from their prophet. “It’s important Bulova. Recalling the vandalism to the
Mecca. Also important are connecting with periority over another. We are diverse, but to speak truth to power,” added Ahmad. “If Mubarak Mosque shortly after its specially
others and being empathetic and sympa- we’re one human community.” you see something you disapprove of — and made windows were installed, she stressed
thetic. For example, said Ahmad, “We fast “So what is the role of women?” she you see injustice — act and speak up against what happened afterward.
to empathize with and be compassionate asked. “Men and women have equal respon- it.” “The community came out with flowers
toward people who are hungry.” sibility to work for social justice.” In addi- While noting that Islamic women may go
She also said criminal justice should be tion to the Holy Quran, she said Ahmadiyya into whatever profession they want to, she See Women, Page 12
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From Hiking Appalachian Trail
... to Biking
across America.
By Nancy Yenke
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ver wanted to hike the Appalachian
Trail? Well, last February about this
time, 18-year-old Greenbriar resi-
dent Jackson Clark decided to do just that.
He wanted to find a purpose in life. He saw
an article about people who hiked the trail,
and looked into it. He decided to set off in
search of his passion; and one more thing
… this tall, red-headed adventure-seeker
had never backpacked before.
Since it was late February, the hikers start
from the warmer climate of northern Geor-
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for both warm and cold weather, food and t
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water supplies, as well as water filters for s C
use with natural water sources when bottled o
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water runs out. He also packed first aid sup- tr
plies, a tent, and a cell phone. ibu
t
The Appalachian Trail is 2,189 miles ed
through 14 states from Georgia to Maine. Jackson Clark on the Appala-
When Jackson started out in Georgia, his chian Trail.
parents went with him to see him off and
often is you start to hate almonds with a
say good-bye. He admitted to being a little
passion.”
nervous. Asked about his parents’ reaction,
Jackson learned he needed to make
he replied without hesitation, “My mom was
changes along the way. He only really
a wreck.” He texted his parents every few
needed two changes of clothes, a better
days, so that helped them keep in touch.
water filtration system, and a much lighter
Jackson remarked that about 50 people
tent. He found other ways to cut even small
leave that north Georgia starting point each
amounts of weight to lighten his load, even
day. He explained that you’ll always run into
to the point of cutting the handle off his
people on the trail eventually. There are
toothbrush and only keeping the brush end
others along the way who will offer help to
to use. He also left some of his extra cloth-
the hikers by leaving food supplies in large
ing in boxes along the trail just for that
buckets on the trail. “These people were
purpose. It was a way to share with other
called Trail Angels.” he said. “There was one
hikers. He wanted to be one of the 30 per-
crossing near a road on the trail in Pennsyl-
cent who actually succeed in “thru-hiking”
vania during the drought last summer
the whole trail.
where they left 30 [single] gallon jugs of
Jackson related a few encounters with the
water for the hikers. That was a lifesaver.”
wildlife in the mountains. He explained that
He talked about the kind of food one takes
bears won’t bother you, if you don’t bother
on such a hike as this. “When it came to
them. Otherwise, if you see a cub with its
food I was boring. In the beginning I would
mother roaming around, you just have to
cook a little bit like oatmeal for breakfast
wait them out, let them go where they want,
and ramen or mashed potatoes for dinner
then move on. Any pictures are taken from
with Clif [protein] Bars thrown in through-
a healthy distance, no close-ups. He men-
out the day. I would focus on cooking simple
tioned that some hikers had a bull horn-
foods that wouldn’t require too much ef-
type device to scare bears or other preda-
fort and that were easy to clean up. After a
tors away, but Jackson didn’t. He just used
while I decided to … just eat cold meals. I
common sense.
would make tacos that would consist of a
Asked if he had hiked with anyone he
tortilla with peanut butter, honey, and
made friends with on the trail, whether for
cream cheese (yummy!). For snacks I would
all or part of the trip, Jackson said, for the
eat Pop Tarts and granola bars and Peanut
first month or so, he hiked with a friend
M&M’s. The thing I ate the most through-
who went by the “trail name” Casey Jones.
out the trail was almonds. They are ex-
Jackson’s was Nutella. Trail names are ac-
tremely high in calories and not too heavy.
quired like any nickname.
The only problem with eating almonds so
“My favorite views would have to be in
New Hampshire or in Maine. Those two
states have some of the highest mountains
on the whole AT (Appalachian Trail) and
you are rewarded with the best views,” Jack-
son said. “If I had to pick one spot on the
AT I would say Mt. Katahdin had the best
view. At 5,269 feet you [get] one of the best
views on the whole AT. On days where the
skies are clear and visibility is high you can
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Awareness in the Midst of an Epidemic
Thriving Family diction, we introduced re- vent addiction, and if addic-
sources available, and then tion does occur, then the
Summit addresses representatives from the faith whole family needs to be
community were able to give treated to achieve the best
drug addiction. people hope.” chance of recovery.”
About 200 people attended While the Thriving Family
By Ashley Claire Simpson the Thriving Family Summit, Summit is a major step in
E
an all-day event held at the right direction, experts
Centreville’s Korean Central say that Fairfax County must
ven though heroin was once con-
Presbyterian Church. Since wake up to reality and do a
sidered a drug more prevalent in
emotional health, substance lot more to effectively com-
lower income communities, ad-
misuse and substance use dis- bat mass addiction and the
diction to this substance is now
orders are linked, the summit fallout that comes with it.
epidemic in affluent Northern Virginia. Ac-
was planned so that attendees “Fairfax County is slowly
cording to the Centers for Disease Control
confronted it all. heading in the right direc-
(CDC), the use of heroin and other opioids
“Throughout the day, we tion, but we can do better,”
has increased significantly across all demo-
addressed general mental Lovitt said. “When some-
graphics of the United States over the last
health issues, but the focus of thing tragic happens, there
decade. The amount of 18- to 25-year-old
the event was drug addiction,” is a public cry for something
heroin users has more than doubled.
Caldwell said. “It was a beau- to be done, and incremen-
“A lot of people don’t realize the magni-
tiful day. There were teens, tal changes are made, but
tude and severity of the opiate addiction
parents, and even some indi- it’s not enough. We are in an
crisis in Fairfax County,” said Lucy Caldwell,
viduals who just wanted to unprecedented epidemic.
director of communications at the Fairfax-
learn about what is going on.” Small actions don’t fix huge
Falls Church Community Services Board
The day started with four problems. Swift and com-
(CSB). “What’s going on here mirrors P
speakers to shed light on the h prehensive action is the only
what’s going on around the rest of the coun- o
summit and its intended pur- t thing that’s going to be ef-
try.” o
Since awareness is the first step in con- pose, as well as to highlight the s C fective — actions like the
role of awareness in the rever- o safe stations started in
fronting the problem, the Western Fairfax n
sal of drug trends in Fairfax t Manchester, New Hamp-
Church Coalition and the Christian non- r
profit organization, One Heart DC, collabo- County, and the world at large. ibut shire, that have reduced
“According to Jim Cox, sec- e overdoses by 50 percent in
rated with Fairfax County law enforcement d
ond lieutenant of the Fairfax At the Thriving Family Summit are, from left, Heather a year’s time. We need to
and the CSB to host the first Thriving Fam-
County Police, the epidemic is Davies, Fairfax County Unified Prevention Coalition look at what is working else-
ily Summit on March 11.
exploding,” Caldwell said. “It board member; Supervisor Pat Herrity (R-Springfield) where and bring it here.”
“The Western Fairfax Church Coalition
will take all of us as a commu- and Gemma Sohn, Fairfax County Unified Prevention The hosts, speakers and
was inspired to put this event together af-
nity to get us out of this hole. Coalition board member. resource tables at the sum-
ter the drug-related death of a young
He’s been on the force for 29 mit last month drove home
woman from Centreville High School last
years, and he’s never seen anything like Caldwell said. “There is no way the gov- the point that there is hope for people strug-
spring,” Caldwell said. “The event was a re-
this.” ernment alone can solve this. The govern- gling with substance use disorders, as long
sponse to that community, where many
Ginny Atwood Lovitt, one of the introduc- ment has to work with the community at as they come forward and seek out assis-
people were obviously distraught. It was a
tory speakers and executive director of the the roots. That’s what this whole event was tance. At the same time, the only surefire
tragedy. This was the first time we’ve ever
Chris Atwood Foundation, addressed the about for everyone who came. Everyone way not to succumb to drug addiction is to
had a summit like this in Fairfax County.
audience not only as the founder of an or- who was there spent the day considering simply avoid drugs all together — even the
And, we really did raise awareness of ad-
ganization that provides resources for sub- how to mobilize everyone in Fairfax seemingly harmless ones.
stance misuse and use disorders, but also County.” “Even in the case of marijuana, experi-
as the sister of a young man who lost his Caldwell said events like this will certainly mentation should never be encouraged as
own related battle. save lives, even if there’s no way direct way being OK,” Caldwell said. “We’re not say-
“My message was one of tragedy and to see prevention. ing marijuana or underage drinking are of-
hope,” Lovitt said. “My brother lost his life “Many people who lost their young adult ficially gateways, but a lot of the serious
to an overdose in 2013, but out of that loss children due to death weren’t even aware drug addictions we see started with pot or
we started a foundation that helps other that their loved ones were using,” Caldwell underage drinking. The statistics we’ve seen
families and has rescued almost 50 people said. “When a police officer handles an over- have proven that, the younger a person
from potentially fatal overdoses. This epi- dose, they can’t always inform families of starts using, the more likely it will lead to
demic is complicated and scary, but we all what happened. heroin.”
have incredible power to combat it just by So, it’s vital for parents to know what to Because substance misuse is an element
going out into our community and being a look for and get involved. A lot of parents of mental health, Lovitt said parents can
voice for hope and recovery, not stigma and might think experimentation is a part of stop the crisis at home long before it might
judgement.” growing up, and that it’s none of their busi- begin.
Following Lovitt’s comments, each at- ness, but, frankly, your children’s lives are “Teach your kids healthy coping skills very
tendee attended two breakout sessions of your business.” early on,” she said. “The best way to do this
their choosing. There were discussion top- Lovitt agreed that an event like this could is to demonstrate it yourself. Show them
ics designed for teenagers, and a different possibly have made a difference to those that the answer to stress, depression, or
selection of topics specifically for parents. who have fallen victim to addiction, like her other negative feelings is to ask for help and
Still, everyone who attended — whether own brother. practice self-care, not pick up a glass of
parents who spent their breakout time “Events like this are crucial for two rea- wine. When you have teenagers — listen
learning new ways to thwart the dangers sons,” she said. “One, because the deadly more than you lecture. Ask open ended
of cyberspace, or teenagers who chose to stigma around addiction has to be ad- questions and make them feel truly heard,
open up about depression or addiction with dressed on a community level to be effec- even if you don’t always like what you hear.
Ginny Atwood Lovitt, executive a smaller group — was a part of something tive, and two, because the family is the best They need to know that they can talk to
director of the Chris Atwood bigger. protective force against addiction. The you about anything. That could save their
Foundation. “We are looking at this as a crisis,” whole family needs to be educated to pre- life when it really counts.”
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Corner
Be a part of our
Wellbeing pages, the first Evelyn Samuel, DMD
with
Q. I have TMJ and the presenting
Elaborating a week of every month.
symptoms (jaw pain, clicking,
etc.) are text book. Will I have
to have major in patient dental
Delight in our
Log Cabin surgery? Are there any new
HomeLifeStyle sections, innovative procedures like laser
technology or less invasive
the second week of every procedures to correct and or
alleviate TMJ problems?
month. Peek at the top
Retirees find satisfaction A. You have brought up a very involved
Photo by Larry Golfer real estate sales, glimpse topic. The Tempromandibular Joint
(TMJ) connects the mandible (lower
in a pair of art studios, and By raising the roof above the garage over-the-top remodeling jaw) to the skull. TMJ can also stand
studio six feet (right) and adding win- for Tempromandibular Joint Disorder
projects, get practical sug- or a group of problems that are related
a front porch with a view. dows, the remodeler freed up 770 square
to the joint. Symptoms include but are
feet of floorspace which is now used for gestions for your home. not limited to clicking and/or popping
two art studios and storage space. in the joint, muscular pain, temporary
locking of the mouth, facial pain, and
Celebrate students, headaches. It can be caused by clenching
thought we wanted. That’s when we called Foster and grinding of the teeth, malocclusion
By John Byrd Remodeling back in.” camps, schools, enrich- (off bite) arthritis, injury, stress, and
B muscle tension. Treatment usually begins
But the first surprise inspired another pause: ment programs, colleges in a conservative manner with oral
lissful retirement often validates of the old Turned out the front porch seen as spanning the en- medication. In situations where patients
and more in our A-plus: clench or grind their teeth at night, splints
homily: “Busy hands mean happy hearts.” tire front elevation couldn’t be built because of its or occlusal guards may be prescribed.
On this point, it is hard to imagine a more proximity to a part of the home’s septic system. Education, Learning, Fun Surgery is often a last result. In many
instances the condition is temporary and
fruitful environment than the home of “The symmetry, the curb appeal, was important to
pages, the third week of improves on its own. Question?
Kirby and Helen Thornton, two 70-something retir- us,” Helen Thornton said. “We wanted a balanced Email: [email protected]
ees who recently completed focused renovations to facade on both the house and the garage. We were every month. Samuel Dental Group
a log cabin style home in Lorton they have occupied kind of at a loss.” Fortunately, Foster’s team led by 8301 Arlington Blvd., Ste. 207
for more than 20 years. Chris Arnold came up with an innovative solution. Questions? E-mail Fairfax, VA 22301
571.297.4302
The changes were all about tweaking to even Foster’s architectural concept call for a faux peak
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higher relevance aspects of the home that had gradu- on the main house at exactly the same pitch as the
ally become a sources of distinctively personal satis- one above the garage which is, in turn, reinforced newspapers.com
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or call 703-778-9431
Kirby Thornton, a former electrical engineer, has the ground-level entrance to the porch.
been exploring his passion for woodworking for many A porch swing occupying the far corner now
years. Helen Thornton, a one time research analyst, fleshes-out the portrait of a restful carefree idyll
revels in creating shimmering objets d’arte from fused amidst flowers and trees. For an expanded view,
glass. When not pursuing their hobbies, the couple there’s a large Velux skylight overhead.
might otherwise be found taking in the scenery from Rough-hewn timbers, the handiwork of Foster
the wide, rustic-style front porch that now graces master carpenter Mike Borman, is integral to the
the home’s front elevation. aesthetics of a new front elevation that is both invit-
For all the quiet simplicity that abounds in every ing and whimsical. Red cedar trim and molding,
direction though, the Thornton’s lifestyle accommo- meanwhile, provide sympathetic color accents.
dation has been decades in the making, beginning To fashion studio space useful to all, Foster found
with purchasing the 2,900 sq foot house and garage a way to elevate the headroom to fully six feet, free-
in the late 1990s. ing up all 770 square feet of floorspace. A front-fac-
“We were attracted to the relaxed ambiance of a ing dormer featuring a pair of double hung windows
log home,” Kirby Thornton said. “There were changes invites generous southerly light. Kirby’s wood shop
we wanted to make from the first, but since we were — equipped with a lathe, a drill press and table saw
both busy, modifications would have to occur in — is tucked snugly behind a new partition. Helen
phases.” Thornton uses two kilns to produce her work.
The first step was acquiring more storage space. Matching the logs needed to “pop up” the second
As Kirby Thornton tells it, the couple hired Foster level also entailed a close look at existing details.
Remodeling Solutions of Lorton to remove an un- “We spent quite a while researching options with
needed balcony, add a floor above the open garage various vendors, which is a challenge when you’re
and apportion the space for storage and other uses working with a 30-year-old exterior,” said project
to be determined. manager Chris Arnold.
Soon Kirby Thornton decided that the windowless Summarizing the well-planned lifestyle shift, Kirby
garage loft would work fine as a place to take up Thornton says the couple are frequently in the stu-
woodworking. He had actually purchased a lathe dio at the same time. A window in the interior parti- Good
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kiln and began fusing glass. but also a place of interaction and play. individual style and visual needs. Funds
The pursuit of one’s muse being all-absorbing, the The distinctive by-products of the Thornton’s la- We have a full-service optical lab on the premises.
pair spent little time worrying about the fact that bors are mostly donated to friends, children and Highest-rated optician in Fairfax County by a local consumer magazine.
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Senior Living
Ending Homelessness: ‘It Can Be Done’
Housing and homeless services providers discuss “Complex needs and promising solutions.”
By Andrea Worker
H
omeAid Northern Virginia
(HANV) brought together
about 100 housing and
homeless service providers
from a variety of public, nonprofit and faith-
based organizations at its annual Housing
Forum on March 30, giving them the op-
portunity to share their challenges and best
practices with their peers, while learning
about some of the latest trends in the fight
to end homelessness.
Newly appointed HANV executive direc-
tor Kristyn Burr opened the event before
turning the program over to moderator
Karen Cleveland of the Cleveland Group.
Samantha Batko, director of the Home-
less Research Institute, National Alliance to Photos by Andrea Worker Shelter House chief operating officer Jamie Ergas
End Homelessness, was the program’s key- Newly appointed HomeAid Northern Virginia execu- presents the summary from the round table discus-
note speaker and started her section with tive director Kristyn Burr welcomes the participants sion on “Implementing Coordinated Entry” while
positives, noting that Virginia was the first to the organization’s annual Housing Forum for program moderator Karen Cleveland captures the key
state to functionally end homelessness housing and homeless services providers. points on the flip chart.
among veterans. “On Tuesday,” she added,
“Bergen County, New Jersey announced that people scattered around the region in a and appropriately when there are problems. Batko stressed two main points before
they were the first to end chronic variety of housing situations can be a chal- Batko also commented on the current concluding her remarks. First, she noted,
homelessness. We know it can be done.” lenge. political climate, highlighting several top- “Efficiency. Agencies have to use the data,
How were these successes achieved? But the housing and homeless service ics of much discussion by groups like the work together, re-think strategies” to de-
“Through ‘Rapid Rehousing,’ the value of providers have, for the most part, risen to National Alliance to End Homelessness. crease the length of time that people spend
data, and a determined community-based the challenges. The official statistics for the According to Batko, although federal dol- homeless, she said, and the organizations
partnership,” said Batko. homeless population for 2016 are not yet lars allocated toward homeless prevention must be prepared to validate the outcomes
The switch to a focus on the Rapid Re- available, but the anecdotal evidence shared and remediation make up the smallest per- of their efforts.
housing model was a major topic at last by the attendees indicate a positive result centage of the federal budget at approxi- Secondly, Batko called upon the attend-
year’s forum and the cause for considerable to the shift in strategy. mately $2.5 billion, predictions for the ees to learn how to advocate. Many
concern among some of the providers. The “Trust and a good relationship with land- FY2018 budget call for the lowest level of nonprofits operate under the misconception
strategy represents a paradigm shift in pre- lords is essential,” said one attendee. When financial support since 1962. that they risk their exempt status if they
vious methodologies to end a person’s or trying to place clients who are still working Potential cuts to the agencies that help take, and voice, a position on politically con-
family’s homeless situation by pulling out through obstacles, or who have credit prob- provide services to the homeless or those troversial issues. There are rules and limi-
all the stops to first find suitable housing lems, who have been evicted — possibly who are only a step away from that condi- tations, but Batko urged the attendees to
for the client(s) and then wrapping any ser- more than once — who have served prison tion, changes in health care laws and in speak out and find ways to magnify their
vices they may need — financial assistance, terms, or who may be registered sex offend- other social safety net programs could voices. “You are the experts,” she said, and
help finding employment, overcoming past ers, requires getting out into the rental com- greatly increase the numbers of people that should be able to offer that expertise to the
credit problems, mental health treatments, munity and honestly addressing the suddenly find themselves without a place lawmakers.
etc. — around them once they have been landlord’s concerns and responding swiftly to live. Batko suggested developing stronger re-
placed in a stable housing environment. lationships with local elected officials to
inform them and to ask for their support,
THE TRADITIONAL APPROACH to and the support of faith-based communi-
helping the homeless in the past has been ties, in advocacy efforts. “Call now,” she
to take them into shelters and then work said, to ask Virginia lawmakers to pass the
with them to resolve issues and obstacles extension of Medicaid in the state. Start
before placing them in an independent liv- efforts now to protect funding and to resist
ing situation. While this strategy can make “block grants” as funding solutions, since
finding them suitable housing less challeng- they are often seen as “funding cuts.” In
ing, the process could take months, some- their take-home packets, the attendees re-
times years. Remaining in shelter for that ceived a primer on how to avoid any pit-
long creates a different set of problems, falls when publically addressing policy is-
from overcrowding or impossible waiting sues.
lists for shelter placement, to potentially
exacerbating the anxiety of the homeless, BEFORE THE PANEL DISCUSSION got
particularly children and youth, who find underway, there was a reminder that as of
it difficult to adjust and face the stigma of June 30, organizations seeking HUD funds
their situation at school or during other will have to have adopted the standards of
social activities. practice set forth by the National Alliance
Rapid Rehousing also put further pressure to End Homelessness — a requirement of
on service providers. It’s easier to provide which not everyone in the audience seemed
services and to monitor progress when the to have been aware. The Alliance has
clients are grouped in shelter facilities and Attendees at the Housing Forum divided into round table groups to toolkits for implementation and measure-
have the benefit of supervision and readily- tackle some of the issues they all face, like “Landlord Engagement,” and ment available on their website at
accessible support. Monitoring hundreds of “Resource Gaps and Needs.” www.endhomelessness.org.
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Submit entertainment announcements On Sunday, April 9, the
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Northern Virginia
Photos and artwork welcome. Deadline is
Thursday at noon, at least two weeks be- NTRAK members will
fore event. hold an N gauge T-
Join us for a Very Special
TRAK model train
ONGOING show,1-4 p.m. at the
Art Guild of Clifton Exhibit. 10 Fairfax Station Rail-
a.m.-8 p.m. at Clifton Wine Shop, road Museum, 11200
7145 Main St., Clifton. Includes oil
Fairfax Station Road in
paintings of European settings;
doors, windows, and flower shops. Fairfax Station. Visit April 16th – 10:00 A.M. until 3:00 P.M.
Free. Call 703-409-0919 for more. www.fairfax-
Carolina Shag Dance. Wednesdays, Traditional Breakfast Carving Station
station.org or call 703-
6:30-10 p.m. at Arlington/Fairfax
Elks Lodge, 8421 Arlington Blvd., 425-9225. Scrambled Eggs Filet Mignon
Fairfax. Free lessons at 7:30 p.m.; no Bacon, Sausage & Ham Roasted Leg of Lamb
partners needed; dinner menu at Breakfast Potatoes Virginia Baked Ham
6:45 p.m. Tickets are $8. Visit discuss a book chosen by the group. the egg hunt and then ride around
www.nvshag.org for more. To find out book title, call 703-502- the crop fields. $2. Ages 2 and older. Fresh Fruit Salad and Featuring
Open Rehearsal. Wednesdays, 7:30 3883. Visit www.fairfaxcounty.gov/parks. …and more! Seafood Medley
p.m. at Lord of Life church, 13421 Lego Block Party. Every other
Twin Lakes Drive, Centreville. The Tuesday, 3 p.m. at the Chantilly Omelet Station Chicken Cordon Bleu
APRIL 8-9
Fairfax Jubil-Aires barbershop chorus Library, 4000 Stringfellow Road.
Design your own Omelet Side Dishes
invites men of all ages who enjoy Legos will be provided for an Mother’s Day Art Show. 1-6 p.m. at
singing. Free. Visit afternoon of building. Grades 3-6. 6540 Jerome Court, Manassas. Desserts Green Beans & Corn
www.fairfaxjubilairs.org for more. Free. Call 703-502-3883 to reserve a Original paintings, photography, Assorted Cakes Rice Pilaf
Toddlin’ Twos. Tuesdays, 10:30 and spot. fused glass, prints, and hand-crafted
11:30 a.m. at the Chantilly Library, Duplo Storytime. Every other jewelry. Visit visitmanassas.org.
4000 Stringfellow Road. Early Wednesday, 10:30 and 11:30 a.m. at www.backyardgrillrestaurant.com
literacy storytime with songs and the Chantilly Library, 4000
SUNDAY/APRIL 9
activities included. Age 2 with Stringfellow Road. Develop and
Adult Buffet $21.95
caregiver, free. Call 703-502-3883 to reinforce early literacy skills for Festival of Color. noon-7 p.m. at Bull
reserve a spot. reading success. Ages 1-3 with adult. Run regional park, Centreville.
Storytime for Three to Fives. Free. Call 703-502-3883 to reserve a Celebration of festival of colors, Holi, Unlimited Champagne Brunch $29.95
Tuesdays, 1:30 p.m. at the Chantilly spot. with the sensational Bollywood
Children Buffet (10 & under) $9.95
Library, 4000 Stringfellow Road. Live After Five. Fridays at 5:30 p.m. at singer Mika Singh. Visit
Stories and activities for children age The Winery at Bull Run, 15950 Lee womenmpower.org/ for more. RESERVATIONS RECOMMENDED
3-5 with caregiver. Free. Call 703- Highway. Every Friday night a band Model Train Show. 1-4 p.m. at the
502-3883 to reserve a spot. plays on the patio of the winery. Free Fairfax Station Railroad Museum, Call or stop by today!
English Conversation Group. to attend. Visit 11200 Fairfax Station Road in Fairfax
Thursdays, 7 p.m. at the Chantilly www.wineryatbullrun.com for a full Station. The Northern Virginia 703-802-6400
Library, 4000 Stringfellow Road. schedule. NTRAK members will hold an N
13999 Metrotech Dr. • Chantilly, VA
Practice English with a group of Mondays are Family Night. 5-7 p.m. gauge T-TRAK model train show.
students and adults. Free. Call 703- at Villagio, 7145 Main St. $45 for a Museum members and ages 4 and
502-3883 to reserve a space. family of four. Call 703-543-2030. under, free; ages 5-15, $2; 16 and
English Conversation Group. Legos Kids Club. Every other older, $4. Visit www.fairfax-
Selected Saturdays, 3 p.m. at the Tuesday, 10:30 a.m. at the station.org or call 703-425-9225.
Centreville Regional Library, 14200 Centreville Regional Library, 14200
St. Germain Drive. Practice English St. Germain Drive. Thousands of
SATURDAY/APRIL 15
with a group of students and adults. Legos for children to play with. Ages
Turn your House
Free. Call 703-830-2223 for dates. 6-12. Free. Call 703-830-2223 to Celebrate 275 Years of History. 1-4
English Conversation Group. reserve a space. p.m. at Ellanor C. Lawrence Park,
Tuesdays, 10:30 a.m. at the Chantilly Starlight Storytime. Every other 5040 Walney Road, Chantilly. It’s a
Library, 4000 Stringfellow Road. Wednesday, 7 p.m. at the Centreville party to celebrate 275 years of into a Home
Practice English with a group of Regional Library, 14200 St. Germain history at the site, mingle with
students and adults. Free. Call 703- Drive. Stories under the stars for ages historic reenactors, enjoy visits with
502-3883 to reserve a space. 4-8. Wear pajamas and bring stuffed the Walney Visitor Center animals,
Plant Clinic. Saturdays, 10:30 a.m. at friends. Free. Call 703-830-2223 to play historic games and try your
the Chantilly Library, 4000 reserve a space. hand at woodworking. Delve into the
Stringfellow Road. A neighborhood Over-40 Softball League. A Fairfax- past with history tours, archaeology
plant clinic with horticultural tips, based league is looking for enough talks, and Civil War drilling demos.
information, techniques, and advice. players to form another team. Players Call 703-631-0013 or visit
Free. Call 703-502-3883 to reserve a must be at last 40 years of age to be www.fairfaxcounty.gov/parks/
space. eligible. All games are doubleheaders eclawrence.
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the Centreville Regional Library, Herndon between 11 a.m. and 6 p.m. p.m. at Ellanor C. Lawrence Park,
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discuss a book chosen by group. Free. [email protected] for more. about the lives of the soldiers who
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and to reserve a spot. drilling with a soldier and see a
SATURDAY/APRIL 8
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11 a.m. at the Chantilly Library, 4000 Easter Eggstravaganza Wagon Call 703-631-0013 or visit
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