PREACHING BIBLICAL WISDOM IN A SELF-HELP SOCIETY Alyce M. McKenzie Abingdon Press -- Nashville Copyright Information To my parents, Robert and Beverly Fowler, my first and foremost sages Introduction--"Wisdom For Monday Mornings"1 “The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom.” (Proverbs 4:7) Lots of pastors take Mondays off. I prefer Fridays. Some Mondays I have wished I could go home, climb back into bed and pull the covers over my head. I remember one such Monday a few years ago when I was serving a local church. I drive to church, still tired from last night's finance meeting. My arms filled with briefcase and folders, I struggle to insert the key in the church's front door, wondering, as I do every morning, why it has to be kept locked when there are people inside. Trudging down the hall to my office, I reason that at least my office door will be unlocked as I had left it last night. I turn the knob, and find that it, too, is locked. Once inside my office, I set my paraphernalia on my desk and head for the coffeepot. Technically, I gave up coffee six months ago. But a dull headache is already humming in my temples. This is what always happens when I skip breakfast. The phone begins to buzz. First phone call: a church member complaining that the secretary left her announcement about the spaghetti dinner out of yesterday's bulletin for the second time this month. “She has some kind of vendetta against me and my projects.” “Vendetta is an awfully strong word,” I point out. “I'd call it a sin of omission, but I will draw it to her attention.” A clergy colleague calls lamenting his inner-city Anglo church's negative reaction to a Korean house church's request to use its facilities. “Do you think I should just go over their heads and talk to the bishop?” he asks. “Better make every effort to work it out with them first, or they'll feel betrayed,” I respond. I massage my temples with both hands while holding the phone in the crook of my neck. A trustee calls to get my advice on the gridlock among the worship committee, the memorials committee, and the trustees over whether to refurbish the existing organ or buy a new one. “Is there a way to work within our economic limits and still achieve our musical goals?” I ask. I open up the local paper, already starting my reading for next Sunday's sermon. “Children First to Suffer From Program Cuts” says the headline of an article about the increased demand for food at local food banks and soup kitchens. How can this congregation best address this issue? I ask myself. A woman who was a visitor at yesterday's 11:00 service is on line one. “I enjoyed your service yesterday very much, but I saw something on the way in that upset me so much I had to call you about it. There was a father who had taken his daughter out in the parking lot. He was angry with her, out of control, yelling. He struck her hard on the side of the face.” She goes on to describe them both. “I wanted you to know this so you could take some kind of action,” she concludes. “You were right to call me. Thanks for your concern.” I reply. I hang up and begin running both hands through my hair, debating which clumps to pull out first. I continue flipping through the rest of the paper. Ann Landers is telling a new bride not to tolerate her in-laws' tendency to sit on their hands (not the word used in the letter) while she served them a meal and cleaned up after them. “Dieter's Wisdom,” the headline on page one of the Lifestyle section, offers advice on foods to eat that burn fat even if you don't exercise. “Brokers Share Wall Street Wisdom with Local Merchants” reads a blurb in the community events column announcing a forum this afternoon at the Township Building. A thought congeals in my throbbing head. Wisdom! That's what everybody wants from me this morning. They don't just want the ahhh's and ummm's of reflective listening, a skill I perfected in seminary counseling classes in the late '70s. They want wise guidance, perhaps on Mondays more than any other day. A friend of mine who is a lawyer says Mondays are her worst day, as people who have had really bad weekends jam her e-mail, voice mail, and fax lines. They send messages like “I can't take this anymore” and “You've got to get her to comply with the custody agreement,” and “What are you doing to speed this process along?” Gym owners watch their parking lots fill up on Mondays with people who have stepped on the scales earlier in the day and seen the “bottom line” consequences of their weekend fork-lifting exercises. On Fridays, we thank God it's Friday. Saturday nights are for romance. Sundays are, in theory at least, for rest and worship. Mondays, non-romantic Monday mornings--the day and time of the week you are most likely to have a heart attack--Mondays are for facing reality. And on Monday mornings many people face the truth of the contemporary proverb that “reality bites.” A line from the book of Proverbs pops into my head: “I have taught you the way of wisdom; I have led you in the paths of uprightness. When you walk, your step will not be hampered; and if you run, you will not stumble” (Proverbs 4:11, 12). What is wisdom? I sense that it is something I have a measure of now, something I am seeking, and something I need to define before I can spot it and seek it more intentionally. Either that, or start taking Mondays off! 1--Wisdom: The Art of Steering “How Should One Live?” All pastors have, at one time or another, sat, with head in hands, sunk in the knowledge that everyone needs wisdom from them and they cannot meet these needs with their own resources. On this particular Monday morning my reverie is interrupted by a call from Jean, a parishioner who, after her mastectomy and bone marrow transplant last year, has gotten the results of a liver biopsy back this morning. Her liver is riddled with tumors. A new drug offers only a 30% chance of shrinking them. “Could you come right over?” she asks with tears in her voice. Seated across from her in her living room, she tells me, “I'm not angry with God. I know these things happen. I don't think it's a punishment. But it doesn't seem right that I should die before I've completed my task of raising Anna--she's only eleven. I guess my task now is to figure out how best to live out whatever time I have left.” Jean had defined the question that drives the human search for wisdom, whether expressed in secular or religious terms--how best to live out the time each of us has left. Socrates, many centuries before, asked, “How should one live?” In times of crisis the question is sharpened. Many decisions lie ahead for Jean: how and when to break the news to her family, what treatment to pursue, and how to balance the demands of daily life with her body's need for rest. On a daily basis all of us are faced with the need to make wise choices. Yogi Berra, baseball catcher and manager of the New York Mets, once said, “When you come to a fork in the road, take it.” His aphorism brings a smile, but we need direction. Should I go to the doctor today or wait and see if I feel worse tomorrow? Should I try to mediate the quarrel my neighbors are having, or stay out of it? Should I preach about homosexuality my first year in a new church or wait until I've gained their trust to tackle controversial issues? Not just individuals, but groups, need guidance. That's where wisdom comes in. Biblical wisdom in the Old Testament is concentrated in three books sandwiched between the end of the salvation history and the beginning of the Prophets: Proverbs, Job, and Ecclesiastes. The mighty acts of God in Israel's history (the exodus, giving of the law at Sinai, crossing of the Red Sea) are never mentioned in these books. The wisdom writings are primarily concerned with the regularities of ordinary life.1 They deal with wisdom, an attitude of mind that enables an observer to see patterns in human experience and an articulation of these observations in forms that can be taught and learned. Taken together they assert that wisdom is attainable in part through human effort (Proverbs 4:5-7), and is at the same time a gift from God (Proverbs 2:6). They also affirm that wisdom in its entirety is unattainable, except by God (Ecclesiastes 3:11; Job 28:23). Each book in its own way addresses the question of what is good for human beings to do as they live out their brief lives under the sun. Their conclusions vary greatly from one book to another and, at times, from one speaker to another within a single book. While their conclusions about life vary according to their experience of it, their method of inquiry is uniform: reflection on patterns in that experience.2 This literature from the Hebrew Scriptures represents insights that span several centuries of reflection by the sages or wise ones of Israel. It has counterparts in the wisdom literatures of other ancient Near Eastern cultures (Sumerian, Babylonian, Persian, and Egyptian). The sages' counsel comes from varied contexts: field and king's court, hearth and home. It represents a pool of advice on how to be successful in the most important arena of life--not in dieting or investing, but in being faithful to God, the source of wisdom for living in both the safe harbors and the high gales of our day-to-day lives. In the New Testament, wisdom is found primarily in sayings attributed to Jesus in the Gospels and in Pauline reflection on Jesus' identity in light of his Resurrection. The book of James, replete with concrete guidance for the works that should spring from faith, has also been called a wisdom book. Wisdom in the book of Proverbs is often described as “the Way” (derek) (4:11). This word suggests an action of treading or trampling and calls to mind a path worn by constant use. The implication is that wisdom involves patterns of behavior, not just isolated acts. The purpose of this “way” is the formation of an interior disposition (2:1f, 10; 3:1, 3, 5; 4:4, 21, 23; 6:21; 7:3).3 Biblical wisdom affirms that the gift of a discernible path of order in nature and human relationships is a manifestation of the guiding presence of God.4 Wisdom is also described as the Way in several Eastern faith systems. By no coincidence, in the early days of the church, Christians were described as “followers of the Way.” Wisdom is also described as a “tree of life” (Proverbs 3:18). The concept of life includes the notion of health, relative prosperity, and a good reputation, but more deeply, the inward person whose very breath depends on God. At the communal level, life translates into shalom, peace with justice.5 Wisdom is also described in Proverbs as the art of “steering” (tahbulot). “Let the wise also hear and gain in learning, and the discerning acquire skill” (tahbulot) (Proverbs 1:5). This description of wisdom as a set of steering strategies is based on ancient Egyptian methods of navigating the Nile River by pulling the ropes on one's boat. Wisdom is “learning the ropes” of life. Navigating a treacherous river that leads to life is a good metaphor for the Monday mornings of our future. Biblical wisdom teachings are the provisions the wise person remembers to bring on the trip of life: the paddle, the map, the food, the compass, and the life jacket. The Genres of Wisdom The sages' wisdom insights come to us via several genres. A genre is a group of discourses, whether oral or written, that share common characteristics of substance, style, and situation.6 These similarities in text (thematic content), texture (language and structure), and context (social setting and function) make a genre a unique form of cultural communication.7 The Admonition Two of the most frequent genres in the wisdom literature are the admonition and the saying. The two are often placed side by side in the book of Proverbs. 8 Biblical admonitions, like those we are familiar with from secular sources, are expressed as do's and don't's. They are imperative and direct. “Honor the Lord with your substance and with the first fruits of all your produce” (Proverbs 3:9); “Do not rob the poor because they are poor, or crush the afflicted at the gate” (Proverbs 22:22).9 The Saying Sayings correspond to what we call proverbs, both in biblical and in contemporary usage.10 The saying or proverb is a “wisdom sentence expressed in the indicative, based on observation and experience.”11 A good example is, “Those who oppress the poor insult their Maker, but those who are kind to the needy honor him” (Proverbs 14:31). Proverbs are not expressed as direct do's and don't's. They give advice by being applied to a specific situation by the sage. Proverbs, whether biblical or secular, are devised by the older and wiser to instill traditional values in the generation to come. As I write this I am far from lonely. It is a school holiday and the house is full of children of varying ages. The strains of their music waft under my office door. “Just tell your hoodlum friends outside, you ain't got time to take a ride. Don't talk back, yakkety yak.” Not a bad summation of the social function of proverbs! Proverbs are by definition anonymous and most often teach traditional values like impulse control, hard work, perseverance, avoidance of evil companions, and respect for the poor. By contrast, aphorisms, sayings whose author is known, often go against the grain, operating on the premise that “rules were meant to be broken,” or at least bent! Many modern Western poets and thinkers have embraced the aphorism.12 “When the gods choose to punish us, they merely answer our prayers” (Oscar Wilde).13 “No one can make you feel inferior without your own consent” (Eleanor Roosevelt).14 Jesus' aphorisms hearken back to traditional religious values. “It is not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but it is what comes out of the mouth that defiles” (Matthew 15:11). “Those who find their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it” (Matthew 10:39). He was no rebel without a cause, but a subversive sage, crafting a countercultural life based on radical trust in a God who demands all but, at the same time, gives all. The Instruction A third wisdom genre is called instruction. It takes the form of a poem intended to teach a moral lesson, consisting of several lines within which proverbs and admonitions often appear (for examples, Job 6:5-6; Proverbs 2:1-21).15 The setting is often a court school, the speaker a higher courtier advising his student. The teacher speaks out of experience and tradition, recommending diligence, honesty, reliability, avoidance of bad companions, kindness to the needy, and self-control. Commands and prohibitions are frequent.16 The descendants of the ancient instruction genre are alive and well. Roaming the self-help section at Barnes & Noble, you'll find Peter McWilliams' You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought. There you'll find Richard Carlson's Don't Sweat the Small Stuff . . . and it's all small stuff . . . , a book filled with admonitions for daily life: 100 of them! After each admonition, the author shares pertinent lessons he and others have gleaned from daily life. Sometimes we find ourselves preaching to people who know more about not sweating the small stuff than they do about the Sermon on the Mount! There's nothing wrong with advice like “Breathe before you speak,” or “Be happy where you are,” but they make a shallow substitute for Paul's “Love is patient; love is kind,” (1 Corinthians 13:4) and “I have learned to be content with whatever I have” (Philippians 4:11). The Disputation Speech Much of the book of Job is in the form of a disputation speech. Job's friends offer him the whys and wherefores of his affliction, using traditional wisdom's preconceptions as their guide. Job disputes their assumptions.17 The disputation or dialogue format is the ancestor of the question-and-answer strategy in preaching, the dialogue sermon, and the sermon that looks at a controversial issue from all sides and offers an interpretation in light of scripture and tradition. We can find disputation formats on political talk shows, group interviews with representatives of opposing views on morning news shows, and a plethora of “People's Court” clones on afternoon television. The Reflection The “reflection” is another wisdom genre. In Ecclesiastes, Qohelet, the Preacher, takes up various topics such as the value of wisdom and the futility of toil and reflects on them in light of his own experience (Ecclesiastes 2:12-26).18 The reflection is the ancestor of journal and diary entries, pastors' newsletters, and editorials. The work of Anna Quindlen (Thinking Out Loud), and Robert Fulghum (All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten) fall within the reflection genre. The Memoir More extended than the reflection is a genre that abounded in ancient Egypt: the autobiographical narrative. Egyptian kings and prominent officials sought to memorialize their accomplishments and to pass along their wisdom to posterity. Judging from tomb inscriptions, ordinary people, too, were lauded for their exemplary lives. Autobiographical narratives often begin with “I saw . . . and I have seen.” (Ecclesiastes 4:1-8; Proverbs 24:30-34) The autobiographical narrative records for posterity life lessons gained by reflection on experience. It is the ancestor of the memoir and the autobiography.19 Over the past five years, the memoir has exploded in popularity. The New York Times Best-Seller List regularly includes memoirs in its ranks, and a websearch using the keyword “memoir” reveals over 2,100 sites related to the topic. Cable television's Biography Channel features a website (www.biography.com) where viewers can summon up profiles of 25,000 of the famous and the infamous. The site includes links to resources on writing biographies and daily journalling. Another site, (www.amillionlives.com), claims to be the largest guide to biographies on the Web and includes links to autobiographies, memoirs, diaries, letters, narratives, and oral histories.20 A Gift and a Search Both biblical and cultural fields are ripe with wisdom for the discerning preacher. The task before today's preachers is to glean in these fields alongside our people. They promise to yield a rich harvest of wisdom for the living of these days. God's gift of wisdom in the midst of daily life reminds me of the “Can You Find?” page in children's magazines. This was a picture in which several items were “hidden.” The child's task was to find the carrot, the shoe, the apple, and the baseball bat. The implied promise was that if she looked hard enough, she would find those items. The Bible's wisdom literature promises that, if we search life thoroughly enough we will find guidelines for attitudes, speech, and conduct. That search will not be an autonomous human achievement, although human effort is an indispensable component. Biblical wisdom affirms that it is God who places the gift of a discernible order in nature and human relationships.21 A theological expression of this biblical insight is John Wesley's interpretation that God makes gracious salvific overtures to humankind, but that humans may regrettably resist them. Grace is resistible, and the process of salvation is co- operant between God and us.22 Wisdom is not just the effect of God's prior actions, but it is the manifestation of God's presence. Wisdom is not a force immanent and operative in the world apart from God. Wisdom is the power or activity of God manifest in a particular way: namely, as instruction or guidance of the people of God aimed at bringing them to life.23 Wisdom scholar Kathleen O'Connor sums it up well, “Ultimately, biblical wisdom is neither innate talent nor disciplined human achievement. It is divine gift. Wisdom is something, or rather someone, to be sought after, to pursue, to pray for, but finally, it is Wisdom who finds us.”24 Wisdom is presented in Proverbs as a personification of this guiding activity of God--Woman Wisdom. She is present at creation as a “master worker” in the process of creation (Proverbs 8:30). She calls out to passersby to enter onto her path of life. The task of the one who would be wise is to answer her invitation, acknowledge God as the source of Wisdom, and then to be alert to patterns of God's workings in human relationships and nature. The goal and prize of the wisdom process is personal and community harmony (shalom) and life. Proverbs depicts God as a revealing God who offers us clues in daily life for right actions and thought. At the same time, however, biblical wisdom from Proverbs, Job, and Ecclesiastes insists that God is a concealing God. Proverbs affirms the limitations of human knowledge and the sovereignty of our Creator God (30:2-4). Job depicts a God who has no need to justify himself, but does not do a disappearing act when our smooth road becomes rutted with unjust suffering and twisted by tragedy. Qohelet portrays a God who is distant, yet the giver of joy in living. In the context of the entire canon, biblical wisdom also embraces the subversive sayings of Jesus. These sayings challenge conventional wisdom's advice to listen to one's elders, avoid risk, and live so as to secure good health, a good
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