PRAYERFULLY EVER AFTER!!!: Divorce-proof your marriage with these principles & deliverance prayers

52 Pages·2016·0.3 MB·English

by  Hlompho Phamodi

PRAYERFULLY EVER AFTER!!!
Divorce-proof your marriage with these principles & deliverance prayers By

©Pastor Hlompho Phamodi Copyright 2016
[email protected] Dear Friend,

I want to thank you for downloading this e-book, ‘Prayerfully ever after.

NB. THIS BOOK IS DESIGNED TO BE READ BY PEOPLE THAT ARE
MARRIED AND HAVE A NEED TO DO SPIRITUAL WARFARE FOR
THE SAKE OF THEIR MARRIAGE. IT CAN BE READ PERSONALLY
OR CORPORATELY FOR EACH OTHER.
INTRODUCTION

‘Christian divorce at roughly the same rate as the world.’-
TGC Article 25 September 2012

With the divorce rate of 53% in the US and an average of 20-35% in the
Church at large, we need to be alarmed and break this demon that is
wrecking millions of families, children’s lives and homes. The devil has
released his best to destroy this godly institution called marriage. He needs you
and me to stand against him in prayer. That is why I wrote this book.

I am pleased to present to you this powerful prayer manual for married couples. I
have never come across a spiritual warfare book that minister to the prayer needs
of the couples like this one. You are going to take your spouse along on this
journey. I know there are people reading this book whose marriages are well and
feel no need to pray, but I can assure if there is one area you cannot afford to
rest; is in this area of prayer in marriage. You being in a marriage relationship
are a thread to the kingdom of darkness. The devil has been fighting
marriage since the beginning of time with Adam and Eve. Marriage as we all
know is a covenant relationship between two people. Best described as a union
between two imperfect people, in a perfect institution called marriage from
a perfect God. Marriage is a very powerful spiritual union that promotes the
kingdom of God, whether it’s for a believer or non-believer. God desires every
husband to take a role of a Priest of the house and lead his family to God. So to
every man out there its time to lead your wife into Gods will for your lives. To
every wife out there its time to submit to your husband and allow him to do what
God has called him to do. With this book in your hands, you are going to
divorce-proof your marriage; destroy any potential threads to kill your love
for each other. This book is extra hot and should be read by people who are
serious about their marriage.

I am honored to walk this journey with you and can assure you that your
marriage will change for the better, that first love will be restored; you will find
fulfilment spiritually, emotionally, physically, sexually, financially and in every
area of your marriage and family. By so doing you will build a powerful legacy
for your children. This is will be your little secret to happiness and
fruitfulness. Be blessed as you read.
At your service.

Pastor Hlompho Phamodi
His Grace Family Church, Cape Town
July 2016

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TABLE OF CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION
UDERSTANDING THE POWER OF AGREEMENT & AUTHORITY
MARRIAGE COMES FROM GOD
HOME VS HOUSE
CONFESSION OF SIN
NOW TAKE COMMUNION TOGETHER AND PRAY
PUT ON THE FULL AMOUR OF GOD
PRAYER POINTS
TO MAKE GOD THE CENTRE OF YOUR MARRIAGE
PRAYERS TO DIVORCE-PROOF YOUR MARRIAGE
BREAKING SOUL-TIES FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS
SPIRITUAL POISOINING THROUH DREAMS FOR THE
WIFE/HUSBAND
DELIVERANCE FROM SPIRIT HUSBAND/WIFE
FRUITFULNESS IN YOUR MARRIAGE
DEALING WITH WITCHCRAFT ATTACK
BREAKING THE SPIRIT OF DEBT AND PORVERTY
YOUR PRAYERS FOR HEALING
DEALING WITH EVIL FOUNDATIONS
PRAYERS TO RENOUNCE
DEALING WITH LOW SPERM COUNT FOR HUSBAND
PRAYER AGAINST ADULTERY
WHO ARE YOU IN CHRIST?
PRAYER TO BLESS YOUR CHILDREN
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
DEDICATION & ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
OTHER BOOKS BY THE AUTHOR
UDERSTANDING THE POWER OF AGREEMENT & AUTHORITY

‘A prayerless marriage is a powerless marriage.’

God has a hidden our breakthroughs in some of the simplest places. According
to God the moment I connect with my partner and agree, God says we can have
anything we can believe for. Listen to this promise in Matthew 18:19; Again I
say unto you, that if two of you shall agree on earth as touching anything that
they shall ask, it shall be done for them of My father which is in heaven. It’s
really that easy. God says if you have someone like your partner and both of you
agree on anything, it doesn’t matter what it is, as long as you can see it by faith,
it’s yours. That’s a secret hidden from most believers even today. Your
husband or wife is the one person who is in tune and in agreement with you
the most, since marriage makes you one, the level of agreement that you
have is very profound. That is the level that is makes your prayers so
powerful. The devil has fought prayer amongst couples for this very reason. He
has kept you in your corner praying for her and she praying for him. As long as
your partner is willing to pray don’t even think twice. Get into a prayer of
agreement as much as you can.

From now on you need to stand together, the Bible says; how can two walk
together unless they agree. Amos 3:3. God honors agreement and will move
heaven and earth for you being of one heart and spirit.

Now let’s speak about authority;

In Spiritual warfare it’s all about authority. You need to take your full rights now
as God has intended. Let me explain something very important because a lot of
Christians are harassed by the devil yet they have authority to harass the devil. In
the spirit realm it’s all about what you know. Hence the Lord says in Hosea 4:6
that My people perish for lack of knowledge. If you don’t know your authority
you will pay a heavy price for it. Now let’s get to it. The word Power in Greek is
in four parts;

Dunamis-which means energy, might, power, great force, it’s

where we get the word dynamite.
Exousia- delegated authority.
Ischuros- great strength especially physical.

Kratos- Dominion authority.

Now this how it works you have all four of them especially Exousia meaning
you are in charge, and the devil is not your match or equal because remember in
the spirit realm we deal with opposites that are not equal; light and darkness are
opposites but they are not equal.

Life and death are opposites but not equal;

Sickness and health are opposites but not equal;

God and the devil are opposites but not equal;

You and the devil are opposites but not equal.

So the devil can’t have all power, but he is an angelic being, he is called the
prince of the power of the air. That’s why he can kill, steal and destroy. But he
cannot touch you because you have Christ in you, who is greater than the one in
the world. And remember the devil is defeated Jesus has triumphed over him on
the cross. For these reason was the Son of man-made manifest to destroy the
works of the devil says 1 John 3:8. This is very important to understand in
deliverance ministry. As far as Christ is concerned the devil is defeated he is
rendered powerless, but here is the wisdom;

So this is what it comes down to; WE NOT FIGHTING FOR
VICTORY BUT WE FIGHTING UNDER VICTORY, THE DEVIL
IS UNDER OUR FEET, it’s only through Christ that we fully subdue
him. He has no authority at all, actually all Authority is been given unto
us according to Luke 10:19; to trample over snakes and scorpions and
over all the power of the enemy and nothing shall by any means hurt us.
Jesus authority given to him in Matthew 28:18 and that is All Authority
from the Father is now ours in Christ. The devil can only use
deception and ignorance but as for power he is powerless to us. Rest
assured you are very dangerous and the devil is nothing in the light of the
Power of God in you.

So all you need to do is to take your Exousia and Dunamis and kick him out of
your life and marriage. The reason why the devil has access into so many lives
is because man open doors for him and gives him Exousia (delegated
authority) and that means he can do whatever he likes. Say this pray with me
four times out loud:
Every authority, power and rights that I have ever given to the

devil I take them back now in Jesus Mighty name.

So we say devil we not begging you, we are not nagging you. We say as Jesus
cast out demons by the finger of God, we don’t have time to be fighting defeated
demons all day and night. Prayer has to be by authority; Exousia (delegated
authority), rights and with Dunamis power in Jesus Name.
All you need to marry now is these two; AGREEMENT AND
AUTHORITY. THIS IS YOUR SECRET WEAPON TO GET TO WHERE
YOU NEED TO BE IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
MARRIAGE COMES FROM GOD

There needs to be clear thinking around this God institution called marriage.
You might have your own views about marriage, I know people from
dysfunctional families that don’t believe in marriage and even vow not to get
married, but marriage was and is not a worldly idea of man and woman staying
together and having children. Marriage is a Gods idea and plan. It is from the
heart of God. The world needs to acknowledge this. You cannot be an expert
on something you did not create. It is only God who has all the answers about
marriage as whole, that is why prayer is the only solution to your marriage
challenges.

"Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and shall cleave to his
wife and they shall be one flesh" Genesis 2: 24.

From the beginning of time God was painting a picture of the future
relationship that the Church and Christ will have. That is what marriage is all
about. This is a picture of a marriage of Christ and His bride (The Church) which
He loved and for which He gave Himself for even unto death. In speaking of
marriage in Ephesians 5:32 Paul says "This is a great mystery: but I speak
concerning Christ and the Church. If you are a man then you are called to be as
Christ unto your wife (Church) and if you are a woman you are called to be as
the Church (Bride) unto your Lord, Jesus Christ (Husband). You are called to
treat each other as Christ treats the Church and expects to be treated by the
Church. You are called to become one flesh sharing everything with your partner
as one person: yourself, your time, your money, your interests, your friends so
that all you do will be only that which you are both happily agreed upon before
the Lord. Ephesians 5:21 says it’s all about submission: Submitting yourselves
one to another in the fear of the Lord. The husband and wife have roles to play.
The husband’s responsibility is to be the head of the wife. The wife is to be the
helper to her husband. This is God's order to which we must be prepared to
submit to if we want His blessing upon our marriages.
HOME VS HOUSE

From the beginning of time God has set marriage as the first Church within the
Church. Marriage is a true model of the greater Church and a home for Gods
kingdom to be established. The home is the foundation of the church and the
nation. The home is also the foundation of society. Every phase of human life
has its foundation in the home. It is the nursery school and training ground for all
humanity. These days, the home is under serious attack. The devil’s number
one enemy is the Christian home. As we speak right now the divorce rate is not
only rising out there in the world, but in the Church. The devil has turned
homes to house, filled with strife, Unforgiveness and regret. A lot of homes
are become a playground for demons to operate. These prayers are going to shift
your marriage in an amazing way. Its time to turn your house into a heavenly
home that you and your family can enjoy life as God intended.