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Oooooh ... Say it Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex can be described as 60% self-help and social commentary for men regarding their pursuit of short-term and/or non-monogamous (i.e., "casual") sexual companionship, and 40% detailed examples of erotically explicit dialogue that author Alan Roger Currie used in his real-life verbal seduction experiences with women. Readers will enjoy Currie's no-holds-barred writing style and entertaining, enlightening, and honest advice and wisdom. Oooooh… Say it Again Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex Order the complete book from Booklocker.com http://www.booklocker.com/p/books/5901.html?s=pdf or from your favorite neighborhood or online bookstore. Your Free excerpt appears below. Enjoy! Copyright © 2011 Alan Roger Currie ISBN: 978-1-61434-885-6 All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, recording or otherwise, without the prior written permission of the author. Printed in the United States of America. Mode One Enterprises, Inc. 2011 http://www.modeone.net Other books and paperbacks by Author Alan Roger Currie: Mode One: Let the Women Know What You’re REALLY Thinking Mode One – HARDCORE (eBook only) Upfront and Straightforward: Let the Manipulative Game Players Know What You’re REALLY Thinking Mode One – Semantics and Scenarios (eBook only) Introduction Sad to say, very few men will purchase a self-help book, particularly one about love, long-term romantic relationships, or marriage. Women are overwhelmingly the primary buyers of self-help books from the dating and relationships genre. When it comes to discussions about conversing with and interacting with women, men primarily care about sex. Just about all single heterosexual men want to know about one or more of these three things: 1) how to be better at sex (e.g., how to maintain an erection for a longer period of time before orgasm, how to cause a woman to ‘squirt’ or experience more orgasms, etc.); 2) how to improve the quality or quantity of their female sex partners; and 3) how to get a woman aroused and in their bed without investing too much time or too much money. If a book offers advice related to one of these three areas, there is a good chance that a man will pick it up. This book primarily offers advice related to issue #3, and to a lesser extent, issue #2. I believe there are more than enough books on the market currently that emphasize issue #1, so I do not really touch on that area at all. As a reader, the books that inspire me the most and that I tend to learn the most from are those that 1) ask the reader a really good question (or series of questions), and 2) proceed to provide knowledge, wisdom, well thought out logic and valid opinions, and even relevant data and statistics, that is supported by documented research that attempts to thoroughly answer that question (or questions) to the best of the author’s ability. As an aspiring screenwriter and filmmaker living in Los Angeles, I would evaluate the vast majority of my favorite films 1 Alan Roger Currie with those criteria in mind. “What primary question is this film posing? And what answers to that question is this film providing to viewers?” Take the 1987 film, Fatal Attraction starring Academy Award winning actor Michael Douglas and Glenn Close. The question this movie asked its audience, and in particular the male audience, is this: “What are some of the unforeseen repercussions and potential consequences of having an adulterous weekend affair with someone who you know very little, if anything about?” Just about every scene and major plot point in that film was either directly or indirectly related to providing a visual answer to that question. As a writer, this is the format I use. Ask a compelling question, and then answer it in the most entertaining, enlightening and intellectually thorough manner as possible. If you have read my previous paperbacks, you’ll see that in each book I posed one central question to my readers, and then I used each individual chapter in each book to provide my brand of knowledge, wisdom, philosophies and assertions that attempted to answer that central question. Central Question #1: “How does the fear of being rejected by a woman and the fear of being criticized or disliked by a woman inhibit the ability of a single heterosexual man to approach a woman of interest, initiate a conversation with her, and ultimately express his romantic or sexual desires, interests and intentions?” The answer: Mode One: Let the Women Know What You’re REALLY Thinking (the title of my first paperback) 2 Oooooh… Say it Again Central Question #2: “Alan, how does communicating with members of the opposite sex in a ‘Mode One’ manner help you quickly and effectively identify or prevent ‘manipulative head games?’ How can I distinguish when a man or woman sincerely shares the same romantic or sexual desires, interests and intentions that I have, versus a man or woman who is really intending to deceive me, mislead me, manipulate me, and toy with my emotions?” The answer: Upfront and Straightforward: Let the Manipulative Game Players Know What You’re REALLY Thinking (the title of my second paperback) I do not possess a Ph.D. in counseling or clinical psychology, marriage therapy, sex therapy, or any other related field. I have earned my credibility as an author and dating coach simply by having a history of offering advice to readers and clients that helped them solve their problems and ultimately improve their love life, sex life, and overall social life. Arguably my best advice to male clients has been in the areas of 1) helping single heterosexual men overcome their fear of being rejected so that they will soon start approaching more women of interest and initiate a conversation with them, and 2) helping these same men overcome their fear of being criticized by women or their fear of receiving negative reactions from women so that they will soon express their romantic and sexual desires, interests and intentions to women of interest in a more self-assured, upfront, forthright manner. Even though I am not a licensed psychologist or therapist, I have many clients in various countries who pay me by the hour for advice and consultations. I receive positive testimonials full of appreciation and gratitude on a monthly, if not weekly basis. 3 Alan Roger Currie Some people in society say that “sex is a very controversial subject, and always will be.” I half-agree, and half-disagree. More specifically, it is kinky sex and promiscuous sex that typically provokes strong opinions from many. There is no real controversy regarding prudish, monogamous-minded John Doe having sex at 10:00 PM in the master bedroom with his prudish, monogamous-minded wife Mary Ann Doe. Very few men and women want their sexual preferences, sexual habits, and sexual activities to become public knowledge when they are engaging in sex that they know will be perceived as kinky or polyamorous and promiscuous. My attitude is, once you are 18 years of age, you can do whatever you choose to sexually as long as you are totally aware of all of the potential emotional, social and health-related consequences and repercussions that may accompany your choices and behavior. Many men and women in American society are naturally hypocritical, duplicitous, self-righteous and judgmental when it comes to issues related to sex. Remind yourself of this on a regular basis, otherwise you will eventually become agitated. I have been criticized, many times very harshly, by some conservative and deeply religious types for not discouraging single heterosexual men from engaging in premarital sex or pursuing women for short-term non-monogamous sex. I am not a minister or a preacher. I feel I have done my part by encouraging men to avoid being dishonest with women, and to avoid engaging in manipulative ‘head games’ with women. I have said it before, and I will say it (repeatedly) again: If you are a man, and you know you just want short-term non- monogamous (casual) sex with a woman, just TELL WOMEN THAT FROM THE GET-GO. This allows the woman to make her own choice and decide whether or not to sleep with you. 4 Oooooh… Say it Again Personally, I have no issue with men and women engaging in any form of sex they choose, as long as it is mutually consensual sexual activity, and the man and woman involved are being upfront and straightforwardly honest with each other about their long-term desires, interests and intentions. As I discussed in my two previous paperbacks, Mode One and Upfront and Straightforward, anytime you are dishonest or misleading about your interest … or your lack of interest … in some form of romantic or sexual relationship, you are engaging in manipulative ‘head games.’ Why are there so many manipulative ‘head games’ employed by both men and women related to dating and relationships and the pursuit of sexual companionship? Here is a recap of the major games that members of both genders tend to engage in: Men’s primary manipulative ‘head games’: - Men who approach women, and give them the misleading impression that they want a sexual relationship that is both long-term and monogamous, when in reality, these men want a sexual relationship that is short-term or non-monogamous. - Men who approach women, and give them the misleading impression that they are only interested in a platonic friendship, when they know deep-down they are interested in some form of romantic or sexual companionship. - Men who offer women financial and non-financial “favors” under the guise of being ‘generous’ and ‘helpful,’ when in reality, they are expecting the women they are helping out to ‘reward’ them with sex. - Men who give their spouses or long-term romantic companions the misleading impression that they are “in love” and being monogamous to their partner, when in actuality, they are being unfaithful and having sex with “women on the side.” 5 Alan Roger Currie Women’s primary manipulative ‘head games’: - Women who interact with men under the guise of being genuinely interested in them romantically or sexually, when in reality, they simply want flattering attention, entertaining social companionship, financial and non-financial favors, or a dependable, empathetic listening ear when they are frustrated or bored. - Women who ‘cock tease’ men on a regular or semi-regular basis for their own egotistical satisfaction. - Women who date and marry men primarily for the man’s level of social status, level of education, career success, or wealth, but in reality, they have no real romantic feelings for these men or no real sexual attraction for these men, and ultimately, they end up being unfaithful to these men and having sex with “men on the side.” - Women who pretend to be genuinely interested in a casual sex relationship with a man, when in reality, they really want a relationship that is long-term, emotionally profound, and monogamous. Some in society say, “Most unwanted pregnancies come from short-term non-monogamous (casual) sex.” Bullshit. Statistics do not back that up. Most of the women I have met who had babies out of wedlock got pregnant while they were in a long-term monogamous “boyfriend-girlfriend” relationship. Some in society say, “Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are more frequently passed around because of casual sex.” Again, I say bullshit. Men and women who fail to practice safe sex and are sexually irresponsible engage in long-term monogamous relationships just as much, if not more, than they do short-term non-monogamous (casual) sex. Adult film stars are very promiscuous, and they also have some of the lowest rates of STDs of any man or woman in 6