This page intentionally left blank 287 SECRETS of REINVENTING YOUR LIFE This page intentionally left blank 287 SECRETS of REINVENTING YOUR LIFE BIG AND SMALL WAYS TO EMBRACE NEW POSSIBILITIES MORE By the editors of magazine and Dana Hudepohl John Wiley & Sons, Inc. Copyright © 2011 by Meredith Corporation, Des Moines, Iowa. All rights reserved Published by John Wiley & Sons, Inc., Hoboken, New Jersey Published simultaneously in Canada Design and composition by Forty-fi ve Degree Design LLC Designations used by companies to distinguish their products are often claimed as trade- marks. In all instances where John Wiley & Sons, Inc., is aware of a claim, the product names appear in Initial Capital or ALL CAPITAL letters. Readers, however, should con- tact the appropriate companies for more complete information regarding trademarks and registration. 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Wiley also publishes its books in a variety of electronic formats and by print-on-demand. Some content that appears in standard print versions of this book may not be available in other formats. For more information about Wiley products, visit us at www.wiley.com. Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data MORE magazine 287 secrets of reinventing your life : big and small ways to embrace new possibilities / MORE Magazine. p. cm. ISBN 978-1-118-01262-8 (pbk.); ISBN 978-1-118-08794-7 (ebk.); ISBN 978-1-118-08795-4 (ebk.); ISBN 978-1-118-08796-1 (ebk.) 1. Women—Psychology. 2. Women—Conduct of life. 3. Self-realization in women. 4. Success. 5. Career changes. I. More (Meredith Publishing Group) HQ1206.M6534 2011 646.70082—dc23 2011024779 Printed in the United States of America 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Contents Introduction 1 1. Following Your Passion 7 Call of the Wild • Juliette Watt 7 From Executive Assistant to Master Chef • Debbie Frangipane 13 Not Too Late for a New Degree • Babette Gladstein 16 Homing In on a Hobby • Suzi Renehan 17 A Sea Change • Claudia Espenscheid 21 Skills from the Past Can Create a Future • Elinor Griffith 26 The Sheep Farmer • Rebecca Denhoff 29 From Wags to Riches • Mimi Darr 32 The Beekeeper • Marina Marchese 35 2. Tapping Your Creativity 38 Fashion Saved Her Life • Jane Pennewell 38 A Headhunter Rediscovers Painting • Linda Holt 41 From Entrepreneur to Best-Selling Novelist • Karen Quinn 44 How a Beading Class Set Her Free • Pam Older 47 Handbags Helped Her Heal • Jayne Dearborn 51 Giving Up Money for Music • Kim Cameron 54 She Ditched the Corner Offi ce • Lalita Tademy 57 A Dream Built on China • Alexanne Albert 62 v vi CONTENTS Her New Life Was in the Cards • Kathy Davis 65 Write What You Know • Alexandra Kathryn Mosca 69 3. Finding Your Place in the Limelight 73 A Suburban Mom’s Road to TV Stardom • Kathryn Joosten 73 The Cop Who Became a Comedian • Gina Scarda 76 She Discovered She Was a Leader • Grace Diaz 78 Mika’s Do-Over • Mika Brzezinski 81 Becoming Mrs. Oregon at Fifty • Debra Gilmour 88 Soul Survivor • Sharon Jones 92 4. Doing Good 97 Her Restaurant Breaks All of the Rules • Denise Cerreta 97 The Book Farmer of Botswana • Pam Shelton 103 Crisis Is Her Business • Elisabeth Schuler Russell 109 The Earthquake Avenger • Marla Petal 118 She Dreamed of Africa • Vivian Glyck 124 Her Artful Business Plan • Willa Shalit 131 She Saves Wild Cats • Kay McElroy 137 Shipping Help from America • Danielle Butin 142 5. Discovering Your Business Sense 152 She’s a Wrap Star • Jill Boehler 152 The Egg Banker • Diana Thomas 157 She De-stressed in a New Career • Mary Robbins 163 Furnishing Her Life with Meaning • Shelly Leer 166 Wife for Hire • Kay Morrison 168 From Flight Attendant to Fashionista • Sandy Stein 173 The Million-Dollar Coupon Clipper • Teri Gault 175 Cancer Wigged Her Out • Sheril Cohen 177 CONTENTS vii She Found Her Inner Publicist • Carrol Van Stone 182 Discovering the Art of Instruction • Patty Palmer 184 Miracle in the Ladies Room • Stefanie Ziev 187 Reinventing via Inventions • Holly Tucker 190 The DNA Detective • Colleen Fitzpatrick 193 The MBA Who Became a Matchmaker • Rachel Greenwald 201 A Chocolate-Coated Life Change • Shelly Mortensen 205 6. Seeking Adventure 209 Finding Fulfi llment in a War Zone • Shelby Monroe 209 Sell Your House, Find a Life • Liz Ward 211 A Path in the Wilderness • Mary Emerick 215 7. Transforming Your Sense of Self 219 The World’s Unlikeliest Weight Lifter • Lisa Fisco 219 A Bike Brought Her Confi dence • Diane McAleer 222 From Nonathlete to Triathlete • Dani Phillips 225 8. Reinvention Tips for You from the Trenches 228 Ten Steps to Jump-Starting Your Change 228 Five Tips from Masters of Change 232 How to Aff ord Your Next Chapter 233 Moonlighting Tips 236 How to Write a Great Business Plan 238 Mastering the New Job Hunt 242 The Ten Best Jobs for Women Now 251 Contributors 262 Acknowledgments 264 This page intentionally left blank