Dedication Page: 05 Epigraph Page: 09 Contents Page: 09 Introduction Page: 12 1 From Adventure to Captivity: Why the Quest for Security Saps Erotic Vitality Page: 24 2 More Iintimacy, Less Sex: Love Seeks Closeness, but Desire Needs Distance Page: 42 3 The Pitfalls Of Modern Intimacy: Talk Is Not the Only Avenue to Closeness Page: 61 4 Democracy Versus Hot Sex: Desire and Egalitarianism Don’t Play by the Same Rules Page: 76 5 Can Do! The Protestant Work Ethic Takes On the Degradation of Desire Page: 94 6 Sex Is Dirty; Save It for Someone You Love: When Puritanism and Hedonism Collide Page: 111 7 Erotic Blueprints: Tell Me How You Were Loved, and I’ll Tell You How You Make Love Page: 129 8 Parenthood: When Three Threatens Two Page: 148 9 Of Flesh and Fantasy: In the Sanctuary of the Erotic Mind We Find a Direct Route to Pleasure Page: 175 10 The Shadow of the Third: Rethinking Fidelity Page: 198 11 Putting the X Back in Sex: Bringing the Erotic Home Page: 223 Notes Page: 244 Bibliography Page: 252 Searchable Terms Page: 1 Acknowledgments Page: 06 About the Author Page: 733 Credits Page: 734 Books by Esther Perel Page: 734 Copyright Page: 04 About the Publisher Page: 04
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