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Masturbation By Dr Janet Hall www.drjanethall.com.au Masturbation” is one of 19 titles in Dr Janet Hall’s Sensational Sex Series! Copyright 2014 Dr. Janet Hall Smashwords Edition About Dr. Janet Hall Dr Janet Hall, speaker, hypnotherapist, author of many books and audio recordings, is your guide in the art of sensational sexual success. Dr Jan is one of Australia’s leading experts in understanding the psychology of sexual behaviour. Her gift is to make psychological information user-friendly, easily understood, and easy to apply. For over a lifetime, she has given people clarity and direction from her Richmond Hill Psychology Centre in Melbourne, Australia and online at www.sex- therapy.com.au. Enlightening and entertaining, Dr Jan affirms, encourages, and empowers you to make changes that will have long term positive effects for the rest of your life. www.sex-therapy.com.au www.drjanethall.com.au Please NOTE! 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Published by: Dr Janet Hall Website: http://www.drjanethall.com.au E-Mail: [email protected] TABLE OF CONTENTS About Dr. Janet Hall Disclaimer Tables of Contents What’s in a Name? Introduction to Masturbation Why We Masturbate Why is it Done in Secret Most of the Time? Should Parents Talk to their Children about Masturbation? What Specifically is Masturbation and How Do You Do it Best? Men and Masturbation Women and Masturbation Sharing Masturbation with your Partner Concluding Thoughts More Books From Dr Jan Further Recommendations How To Be A Master Of Masturbation What’s in a Name? Masturbation – the touching of one’s own genitals. Is it a pleasure, or a sin? It’s certainly been a topic of contention in society, plagued with misconceptions and old wives tales; including the warnings that your hand will shrivel up and fall off, or you’ll grow hair on the back of your hand, or your hair will fall out. As well as the standard joke about the little boy who was told by his mother that if he masturbated he would go blind, and he flashes back, “Well gee Mum, can’t I just do it until I have to wear glasses?” Society sure doesn’t set us up to feel safe to enjoy it. Even the name is a turn off. ‘Masturbation’. Say it ten times and it still doesn’t sound pleasurable. It’s a harsh sounding word isn’t it? It sounds a bit like a serious illness. And in fact the word is a corruption of a Latin and Greek root that put together, literally means, “to defile yourself with your hand”. That doesn’t sound like much fun, does it? At least men have come up with some more ‘boys club’ expressions which wryly acknowledge the universality of masturbation. These include things like ‘Mrs Palmer and her five daughters,’ ‘wanking,’ a ‘hand job,’ ‘jacking off’ or ‘jerking off’. But women tend not to even admit to masturbating, as evidenced by their lack of terms for it. A woman would be likely to call it ‘masturbation’ or at best she might say she was ‘fingering herself’ or ‘giving herself a hand job’. And the truth of it is that most women never even admit to doing it, much less naming it in public. Why We Masturbate The doggone real truth is that masturbation is pleasurable and that most of us indulge in it, if not consistently, then in spurts of enjoyment, depending on our beliefs, the context of our life and presence of, or availability of a partner. In reality, the more sexually active you are, the more likely you are to masturbate, even if you do have a partner. Kinsey, the world’s best known sexpert, found people who masturbated early in life led more rigorous sex lives than those who didn’t, and continued them long past when the average person stopped having sex. Surely mankind was meant to masturbate. You can see very young children playing with their genitals and obviously enjoying it. And kindergarten teachers are consistently embarrassed when the group is sitting on the mat and there’s a little boy who is blissfully rubbing himself, either through his pants or with his hand up his shorts’ leg, or a little girl who is rubbing her panties, or even more sneakily rocking up and down on her crossed legs, with her foot exerting a gentle pressure on her crotch. Men, of course, are far more likely to masturbate because they’re handling their apparatus at least four times a day for urination. And they’re also usually blessed with a morning erection, which some men see as a good enough