MANAGING VULNERABILITY Tavistock Clinic Series Margot Waddell (Series Editor) Published by Karnac Books Other titles in the Tavistock Clinic Series Acquainted with the Night: Psychoanalysis and the Poetic Imagination, edited by Hamish Canham & Carole Satyamurti Assessment in Child Psychotherapy, edited by Margaret Rustin & Emanuela Quagliata Borderline Welfare: Feeling and Fear of Feeling in Modern Welfare, by Andrew Cooper & Julian Lousada Creating New Families: Therapeutic Approaches to Fostering, Adoption, and Kinship Care, edited by Jenny Kenrick, Caroline Lindsey, & Lorraine Tollemache Facing It Out: Clinical Perspectives on Adolescent Disturbance, edited by Robin Anderson & Anna Dartington Inside Lives: Psychoanalysis and the Growth of the Personality, by Margot Waddell Internal Landscapes and Foreign Bodies: Eating Disorders and Other Pathologies, by Gianna Williams Looking into Later Life: A Psychoanalytic Approach to Depression and Dementia in Old Age, edited by Rachael Davenhill Mirror to Nature: Drama, Psychoanalysis, and Society, by Margaret Rustin & Michael Rustin Multiple Voices: Narrative in Systemic Family Psychotherapy, edited by Renos K. Papadopoulos & John Byng-Hall Oedipus and the Couple, edited by Francis Grier Organization in the Mind: Psychoanalysis, Group Relations, and Organizational Consultancy, by David Armstrong, edited by Robert French Psychoanalysis and Culture: A Kleinian Perspective, edited by David Bell Psychotic States in Children, edited by Margaret Rustin, Maria Rhode, Alex Dubinsky, & Hélène Dubinsky Reason and Passion: A Celebration of the Work of Hanna Segal, edited by David Bell Reflecting on Reality: Psychotherapists at Work in Primary Care, edited by John Launer, Sue Blake, & Dilys Daws Sent Before My Time: A Child Psychotherapist’s View of Life on a Neonatal Intensive Care Unit, by Margaret Cohen Surviving Space: Papers on Infant Observation, edited by Andrew Briggs The Anorexic Mind, by Marilyn Lawrence The Groups Book. Psychoanalytic Group Therapy: Principles and Practice, edited by Caroline Garland The Learning Relationship: Psychoanalytic Thinking in Education, edited by Biddy Youell The Many Faces of Asperger’s Syndrome, edited by Maria Rhode & Trudy Klauber Therapeutic Care for Refugees: No Place Like Home, edited by Renos K. Papadopoulos Understanding Trauma: A Psychoanalytic Approach, edited by Caroline Garland Unexpected Gains: Psychotherapy with People with Learning Disabilities, edited by David Simpson & Lynda Miller “What Can the Matter Be?”: Therapeutic Interventions with Parents, Infants, and Young Children, edited by Louise Emanuel & Elizabeth Bradley Working Below the Surface: The Emotional Life of Contemporary Organizations, edited by Clare Huffington, David Armstrong, William Halton, Linda Hoyle, & Jane Pooley Work Discussion: Learning from Reflective Practice in Work with Children and Families, edited by Margaret Rustin & Jonathan Bradley Orders Tel: +44 (0)20 7431 1075; Fax: +44 (0)20 7435 9076 Email: [email protected] www.karnacbooks.com MANAGING VULNERABILITY The Underlying Dynamics of Systems of Care Tim Dartington KARNAC First published in 2010 by Karnac Books 118 Finchley Road London NW3 5HT Copyright © 2010 by Tim Dartington The rights of Tim Dartington to be identified as the author of this work have been asserted in accordance with §§ 77 and 78 of the Copyright Design and Patents Act 1988. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without the prior written permission of the publisher. British Library Cataloguing in Publication Data A C.I.P. for this book is available from the British Library ISBN: 978–1–85575–888–9 Edited, designed, and produced by Communication Crafts Printed in Great Britain www.karnacbooks.com Dedicated to Eric Miller and Anna Dartington CONTENTS SERIES EDITOR’S PREFACE ix ABOUT THE AUTHOR xiii ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS xv PREFACE xvii I Individual survival and organizational life 1 Thinking about systems of care 3 2 The gang in the organization 14 3 Self and identity: defences against vulnerability 29 4 The question of dependency 41 5 The pursuit of common unhappiness 51 vii viii CONTENTS II The survival of the unfittest 6 The management challenge 63 7 The isolation of care services 74 8 Mediating between systems 87 9 The case for integration 98 10 Human nature and organizational change 110 11 True and false relationship in health and social care 119 12 The costs of care 129 III The personal and the professional 13 An Alzheimer’s case study 139 14 My unfaithful brain: a journey into Alzheimer’s Disease Anna Dartington (with Rebekah Pratt) 154 15 Learning to live with dementia 166 16 Two weeks in 2006 176 17 The realities of care 189 18 Postscript—learning from experience 197 IV Conclusions 19 Reflections on partnership: can we allow systems to care? 205 REFERENCES 215 INDEX 227 SERIES EDITOR’S PREFACE Margot Waddell Since it was founded in 1920, the Tavistock Clinic has developed a wide range of developmental approaches to mental health which have been strongly influenced by the ideas of psychoanalysis. It has also adopted systemic family ther- apy as a theoretical model and a clinical approach to family prob- lems. The Clinic is now the largest training institution in Britain for mental health, providing postgraduate and qualifying courses in social work, psychology, psychiatry, and child, adolescent, and adult psychotherapy, as well as in nursing and primary care. It trains about 1,700 students each year in over 60 courses. The Clinic’s philosophy aims at promoting therapeutic methods in mental health. Its work is based on the clinical exper- tise that is also the basis of its consultancy and research activities. The aim of this Series is to make available to the reading public the clinical, theoretical, and research work that is most influential at the Tavistock Clinic. The Series sets out new approaches in the understanding and treatment of psychological disturbance in chil- dren, adolescents, and adults, both as individuals and in families. This fine volume, Managing Vulnerability, is essentially about the management of anxiety, both institutional and personal. It is about ix