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Male Chastity A Guide for Keyholders Lucy Fairbourne Lucy Fairborne Published by Velluminous Press www.velluminous.com Copyright ©2007 Lucy Fairbourne The author asserts the moral right to be Identified as the author of this work. ISBN-13: 978-1-905605-14-9 ISBN-10: 1-905605-14-5 All Rights Reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise, without the prior permission of the copyright owner. Cover design by Elspeth Fahey Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders Male Chastity A Guide for Keyholders Lucy Fairbourne Lucy Fairborne Take Care, not Risks! This book is for consenting adults who recognize that the adult activities they enjoy in private require correspondingly adult levels of responsibility and common sense. As with any erotic activity that involves physical restraint, misuse of a chastity device can be dangerous. The author and publisher of this book accept no liability for the consequences of any such misuse. If you are uncertain of how to use a chastity device (or anything else) safely, refrain from using it until you have clarified your questions and concerns with the supplier or manufacturer. If the supplier or manufacturer refuses to stand behind their product by providing information on its safe use, then choose an alternative device. Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders Lucy Fairborne Male Chastity: the practice of securing a consenting adult male by means of a lockable chastity device such that the chastened male’s sexual release can be achieved only with the keyholder’s involvement and consent. Keyholder: the one who holds the above male’s key. Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders Lucy Fairborne Preface The male libido is very different from the female. It is almost entirely focused on the sex act – which, for a heterosexual male, generally means engaging in sexual intercourse with an agreeable female to the point of ejaculation. Denied access to an agreeable female (or if she is temporarily unavailable), most males resort to masturbation and sexual fantasy as a 'safety valve' to release the tension caused by their biological drives. From the point of view of the perpetuation of the species, such a highly-focused sex drive is natural and desirable; how else were men supposed to 'Go Forth and Multiply'? Unfortunately, the tendency that worked so well when it came to spreading humanity across the face of the planet can turn out to be a problem in a modern loving relationship. Do you recall how your man behaved, back when he was courting you? Wasn’t he more attentive, more romantic, more concerned with pleasing you? Did he ever forget to call you, back then? Have you ever wondered where that attentiveness came from, or asked yourself where it went? It came from his natural sexual tension, and it most likely left through that safety valve I mentioned before. Without a doubt your man liked you; without a doubt he loved you; without a doubt he desired you. And that desire was based on sexual tension, on the physical rewards you could offer him – rewards that were temporarily denied, although he knew they were right there within his grasp, if only he could win you... That’s what desire is. Think back to the last time you and your man made love. Was he as passionate as he used to be in the early days? Did his interest wane as soon as he’d had his climax? Did he roll over and start snoring? Did his ability and inclination to please you fade as soon as his libido was satisfied? Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders That scenario might be all-too-common, but it’s not inevitable. This book describes an alternative that can lead to a return to romance and a re-kindling of desire, and it involves taking physical control of your man’s opportunities for sexual arousal and orgasm. If you can manage this, you will have harnessed his libido, which is the most primal of the forces that drive him. You will be able to ramp him up and bring him back down, tease him and please him and delight him (but not necessarily to the extent he would like). You will – quite literally – hold the key that can unlock his nature; that can help you understand him and help him understand you and your needs. You will find that he becomes eager – desperate, even – to fulfill your desires. And just as importantly, with a man who is amenable to these ideas, you will find that you have fulfilled wishes he never knew he had, and satisfied his own deepest needs as well. Lucy Fairborne PART ONE INTRODUCTION AND ORIENTATION Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders