Walden University ScholarWorks Walden Dissertations and Doctoral Studies Walden Dissertations and Doctoral Studies Collection 2015 Lived Experiences of Military Personnel Reintegrating with their Preschool Aged Children Rob Atchison Walden University Follow this and additional works at: htps://scholarworks.waldenu.edu/dissertations Part of the Counseling Psychology Commons, and the Military and Veterans Studies Commons Tis Dissertation is brought to you for free and open access by the Walden Dissertations and Doctoral Studies Collection at ScholarWorks. It has been accepted for inclusion in Walden Dissertations and Doctoral Studies by an authorized administrator of ScholarWorks. For more information, please contact Walden University College of Counselor Education & Supervision This is to certify that the doctoral dissertation by Rob Atchison has been found to be complete and satisfactory in all respects, and that any and all revisions required by the review committee have been made. Review Committee Dr. Melinda Haley, Committee Chairperson, Counselor Education and Supervision Faculty Dr. Katherine Coule, Committee Member, Counselor Education and Supervision Faculty Dr. Kelly Coker, University Reviewer, Counselor Education and Supervision Faculty Chief Academic Officer Eric Riedel, Ph.D. Walden University 2015 Abstract Lived Experiences of Military Personnel Reintegrating with their Preschool Aged Children by Robert A. Atchison MA Indiana Wesleyan University, 2009 BS, Indiana Wesleyan University, 2007 Dissertation Submitted in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree of Doctor of Philosophy Counselor Education and Supervision Walden University August 2015 Abstract Researchers have indicated that school-aged children with a caregiver who had been deployed were more likely to exhibit emotional and behavioral problems. These problems were impacted by the ability of the parent at home to manage emotions so as to utilize appropriate parenting skills with the child. However, there remained an important gap in the literature regarding the experiences of the military personnel reintegrating with their preschool aged child. Therefore, the purpose of this phenomenological study was to address the experiences of military caregivers with their preschool-aged children through semistructured interviews to better understand the variables that impacted the ability to reattach with the child. The main research question for this study examined reattachment experiences of 11 military parents with their preschool-aged child during reintegration through the theoretical lens of attachment theory because previous attachment literature showed the importance of attachment development during the preschool- aged years. Data from the 11 interviews were analyzed to identify relevant themes that told the story of the experiences of those military personnel, which were then broken into the significant structural and textural descriptions to form the essence of each participant’s experience. Data were member checked and triangulated using peer reviewers. Findings from this research helped clarify the positive or negative behaviors of the military parent and contextual factors that impacted the child’s ability to reattach with that caregiver. The results also enhanced social change initiatives through increasing awareness and understanding, among all entities that work with the military, of the importance of attachment so as to promote programs that address ways to help those families stay connected during all phases of deployment. Lived Experiences of Military Personnel Reintegrating with their Preschool Aged Children by Robert A. Atchison MA, Indiana Wesleyan University, 2009 BS, Indiana Wesleyan University, 2007 Dissertation Submitted in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree of Doctor of Philosophy Counselor Education and Supervision Walden University August 2015 Dedication I want to dedicate this dissertation to the men and women in the military who sacrifice so much on a daily basis serving across the world to keep this great country safe. I don’t pretend to understand the many challenges that soldiers manage at home and when deployed, individually or amongst their families. However, I hope my work sheds light on some of their experiences and increases opportunities for soldiers and their families to access relevant programs to help them be successful. Acknowledgments I would like to thank my Lord and Savior, who has made all things possible even when I doubted myself and I always know is right there encouraging me to finish the race. Also, many thanks and much love to my wife, who has always stood in my corner, and loved and supported me even when it meant sacrificing time with the family while putting more responsibility on her in the home. I would also like to thank my parents, who sacrificed to put me through college and have modeled the importance of education by going back to get degrees and switching careers. Others I would like to thank include my committee, who always gave constructive feedback and encouraged me throughout the whole process, my professors and teachers, who gave me the knowledge and modeled for me the critical role of being a gatekeeper for the counseling profession, and my friends, who encouraged me, but probably prolonged this process throughout my schooling by diverting attention away from education to other fun things. Table of Contents List of Tables ...................................................................................................................... vi Chapter 1: Introduction to the Study ................................................................................... 1 Introduction ......................................................................................................................... 1 Background .......................................................................................................................... 2 Problem Statement ............................................................................................................... 4 Purpose of the Study ............................................................................................................ 5 Research Questions ............................................................................................................. 6 Theoretical and Conceptual Framework for the Study ........................................................ 6 Nature of the Study .............................................................................................................. 8 Definitions ........................................................................................................................... 9 Assumptions ...................................................................................................................... 12 Scope and Delimitations .................................................................................................... 13 Significance ....................................................................................................................... 16 Summary ............................................................................................................................ 17 Chapter 2: Literature Review ............................................................................................ 20 Introduction ....................................................................................................................... 20 Literature Search Strategy ................................................................................................. 21 Theoretical Foundation ...................................................................................................... 22 Literature Review .............................................................................................................. 33 Military Culture and Mental Health Stigma .......................................................... 34 Military Deployment Stages and Stressors Associated with each Stage ............... 38 i Child Development ................................................................................................ 40 Reaction to Deployment and Reintegration .......................................................... 47 Support Factors ...................................................................................................... 62 Studies Related to Research Questions ................................................................. 70 Summary and Conclusions ................................................................................................ 74 Chapter 3: Research Method ............................................................................................. 77 Introduction ....................................................................................................................... 77 Research Design and Rationale ......................................................................................... 78 Role of the Researcher ....................................................................................................... 80 Methodology ...................................................................................................................... 82 Participation Selection Logic ................................................................................ 82 Instrumentation ...................................................................................................... 84 Procedures for Pilot Studies .................................................................................. 86 Procedures for Recruitment, Participation, and Data Collection ........................... 87 Data Analysis Plan ................................................................................................ 88 Issues of Trustworthiness .................................................................................................. 90 Ethical Procedures ................................................................................................. 93 Summary ............................................................................................................................ 97 Chapter 4: Results .............................................................................................................. 99 Introduction ....................................................................................................................... 99 Pilot Study ....................................................................................................................... 100 Setting ............................................................................................................................. 101 ii Demographics .................................................................................................................. 101 Data Collection ................................................................................................................ 104 Data Analysis ................................................................................................................... 106 Step 1: Create a Description of My Experience of the Phenomenon .................. 106 Step 2: Identify Significant Statements ............................................................... 107 Step 3: Group Significant Statements into Themes ............................................. 107 Step 4: Create a Textural Description of the Experience .................................... 107 Step 5: Create a Structural Description of the Experience .................................. 108 Step 6: Integrate the Essence of the Experience .................................................. 108 Evidence of Trustworthiness ........................................................................................... 120 Results ............................................................................................................................ 121 Routine Creation .................................................................................................. 122 Caregiver Discussions with the Kids about Impending Deployment .................. 124 Planning for Basic Needs while Deployed .......................................................... 130 Caregiver Role with the Children ........................................................................ 133 Coping in Preparation for Deployment: Distancing Behaviors and Quantity .... 135 Rituals within the Family System ........................................................................ 137 Ways Families Communicated Via Distance ...................................................... 139 Emotions over Missing Child Milestones ........................................................... 141 Role Changes in the Parental Subsystem ............................................................ 144 Compartmentalizing the Mission while Being Away from the Family .............. 147 Behavioral Changes in the Participants' Children ............................................... 163 iii