This publication has been produced with the assistance of the European Union. The contents of this publication are the sole responsibility of Ba Futuru and can in no way be taken to reflect the views of the European Union. Printed by Ba Futuru: February 2012 TABLE OF CONTENTS ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS ............................................................................................................... 3 INTRODUCTION ............................................................................................................................ 5 BACKGROUND .............................................................................................................................. 7 FACILITATION SUGGESTIONS .................................................................................................... 8 1. PREPARATION ........................................................................................................................ 8 2. FACILITATION ....................................................................................................................... 12 3. ROLEPLAYS ......................................................................................................................... 19 4. DIFFICULT ISSUES ................................................................................................................ 21 LESSON 1 – INTRODUCTIONS & AFFIRMATIONS ................................................................... 25 LESSON 2 – WHAT ARE HUMAN RIGHTS? ............................................................................... 31 LESSON 3 – UNIVERSAL DECLARATION OF HUMAN RIGHTS .............................................. 39 LESSON 4 – HUMAN RIGHTS VIOLATIONS .............................................................................. 46 LESSON 5 – THE SPECIAL NEEDS OF CHILDREN .................................................................. 52 LESSON 6 – CHILD PROTECTION & SUPPORT ........................................................................ 57 LESSON 7 – POSITIVE DISCIPLINE ........................................................................................... 86 LESSON 8 – ALTERNATIVES TO PHYSICAL PUNISHMENT ................................................... 93 LESSON 9 – INTRODUCTION TO GENDER BASED VIOLENCE .............................................. 99 LESSON 10 –THE IMPACTS AND EFFECTS OF GENDER-BASED VIOLENCE .................... 113 LESSON 11 – WHAT IS CONFLICT ........................................................................................... 139 LESSON 12 – CONFLICT ANALYSIS ........................................................................................ 155 LESSON 13 – CONFLICT MAPPING ......................................................................................... 163 LESSON 14 – PEACEFUL & CREATIVE CONFLICT RESOLUTION ....................................... 182 LESSON 15 – HOW TO RESOLVE CONFLICT WINNER/WINNER .......................................... 190 LESSON 16 – NEGOTIATION .................................................................................................... 197 LESSON 17 – MEDIATION & CONFLICT TRANSFORMATION ............................................... 205 LESSON 18 – BUILDING PEACE IN YOUR COMMUNITY ....................................................... 221 LESSON 19 – ASSESSMENT & CLOSURE .............................................................................. 239 SOURCES ................................................................................................................................... 246 KONTESTU LIA MAKLOKEK ............................................................................................................................. 3 INTRODUZAUN .............................................................................................................................. 5 MAKDALAK ................................................................................................................................... 7 SUJESTAUN FASILITASAUN NIAN ............................................................................................. 8 1. PREPARASAUN ...................................................................................................................... 8 2. FASILITASAUN ..................................................................................................................... 12 3. PAPEL HALIMAR .................................................................................................................. 19 4. KESTAUN NE’EBÉ DIFILSIL .................................................................................................... 21 LISAUN 1 – INTRODUSAUN NO AFIRMASAUN ........................................................................ 25 LISAUN 2 – SAIDA MAKA DIREITUS UMANUS ......................................................................... 31 LISAUN 3 – DEKLARASAUN UNIVERSAL DIREITUS UMANUS NIAN ..................................... 39 LISAUN 4 – VIOLASAUN BA DIREITUS UMANUS ..................................................................... 46 LISAUN 5 – LABARIK SIRA NIA NESESIDADE ESPESÍFIKU ................................................... 52 LISAUN 6 – PROTESAUN & SUPORTA BA LABARIK .............................................................. 57 LISAUN 7–DIXIPLINA POSITIVU ................................................................................................. 86 LISAUN 8 –ALTERNATIVUS BA KASTIGU FISIKU .................................................................... 93 LISAUN 9 – INTRODUZAUN VIOLÉNSIA BAZEIA BA JÉNERU ................................................ 99 LISAUN 10 –IMPAKTU NO EFEITU HUSI VIOLÉNSIA BAZEIA JÉNERU ............................... 113 LISAUN 11 – SAIDA MAKA KONFLITU? .................................................................................. 139 LISAUN 12 – ANALIZASAUN KONFLITU ................................................................................. 155 LISAUN 13– MAPA KONFLITU .................................................................................................. 163 LISAUN 14 – REZOLVE KONFLITU HO DAME NO KREATIVU ............................................... 182 LISAUN 15 – REZOLVE KONFLITU HO METODU MANÁN/MANÁN ....................................... 190 LISAUN 16 – NEGOSIASAUN .................................................................................................... 197 LISAUN 17 – MEDIASAUN & TRANSFORMASAUN KONFLITU ............................................. 205 LISAUN 18 – HARII DAME IHA ITA NIA KOMUNIDADE ......................................................... 221 LISAUN 19 – ASESMENTU NO LIA MAKTAKAK ..................................................................... 239 REFERENSIA .............................................................................................................................. 246 REFERENSIA .............................................................................................................................. 193 Page 2 of 246 ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS LIA MAKLOKEK Ba Futuru wishes to thank all those that have participated in the development of this Protection Empowerment and Conflict Transformation Manual (the “PECTManual”). We hope that it proves valuable to all those working to build peace Timor-Leste and around the world. Ba Futuru hakarak hato’o agradese ba sira ne’ebé partisipa iha dezenvolvimentu Guia Haforsa Protesaun no Transformasaun Konflitu (the “Guia PECT”). Ami hein katak ida ne’e bele fó valor ba sira hotu ne’ebé servisu atu harii dame iha Timor-Leste no iha mundu tomak. The PECT Manual builds on Ba Futuru’s Transformative Arts and Human Rights Education (TAHRE) Guide. This guide has been in use in Timor-Leste since 2004. The concepts in the PECT Manual stem from work done by others in the area of facilitation skills development, protection, positive discipline, human rights education, trauma, conflict resolution and conflict management. In particular it relies heavily on ideas, information and examples provided by the sources mentioned below. The facilitation suggestions are taken from “The Human Rights Education Handbook” from University of Minnesota’s Human Right’s Recourse Center.The lessons on human rights are móstly from the“First Steps: A Manual for Starting Human Rights Education”. The lessons on conflict resolution and conflict analysis come primarily from “Opening the Door to Nonviolence” by Maja Uzelac, “A Handbook for Working With Conflict, Democracy and Social Change” by Robin Neustaeter and “Responding to Conflict Skills and Strategies for Peace” from Action Asia. Guia PECT ne’e harii husi Guia Transformasaun Artes no Edukasaun Direitus Umanus (Guia TAHRE). Ba Futuru komesa uza guia TAHRE iha Timor-Leste husi 2004. Ideia iha Guia PECTmai husi servisu ne’ebé ema seluk halo tiha ona iha area desenvolvimentu kbi’it ba fasilitasaun, protesaun, dixiplina pozitivu, direitus umanus, rezoluzaun konflitu no maneija konflitu. Partikulármente ida ne’e depende ba ideas, informasaun, no ezemplu sira ne’ebé hasai husi livrus hirak ne’ebé tuir mai; sujestaun ba fasilitasaun hasai husi livrus “Human Rights Education Handbook” husi University of Minnesota’s Human Right’s Recourse Center Publication, Lisaun kona-ba direitus umanus adapta liu-liu husi “First Steps: A Manual for Starting Human Rights Education”. Lisaun sira kona-ba rezoluzaun konflitu no analiza konflitu adapta husi “Opening the Door to Nonviolence” husi Maja Uzelac, “A Handbook for working with Conflict, Democracy and Social Change” husi Robin Neustaeter no “Responding to Conflict Skills and Strategies for Peace” husi Action Asia. “The Student Mediation Training Manual” from the United States and “A Peace and Disarmament Curriculum” from Cambodia were both used to help create the activity on mediation. Moreover, various activities including those on managing rumors, decision making, proverbs on peace and conflict also came from “A Peace and Disarmament Curriculum”, and this curriculum provided ideas that we added to other activities – including the conflict web, the story of the birds, the relationship between rights and needs. “The Student Mediation Training Manual” husi Estadus Unidas no “A Peace and Disarmament Curriculum” husi Cambodia buat rua ne’e ami uza atu kria atividade kona-ba mediasaun. No mós, atividade seluk mai husi “A Peace and Disarmament Curriculum” inklui atividade kona-ba maneja rumoris, halo desizaun, proverbu ba dame no konflitu, no guia ne’e fornese ideia ne’ebé ami aumenta iha atividade seluk – inklui rede konflitus, istória kona-ba manu pombu, no relasaun entre direitu no presiza. In addition Pradet’s manual “Responding to Children who have Experienced Trauma and Violence through Child Abuse” provided details on the Convention of the Rights of the Child as well as all the handouts and some of the lesson content from the lesson on child protection. The activity “Creating Nonviolent Social Change” and its handout came from Gene Sharp’s “The Politics of NonViolent Action” and “Third-Party Nonviolent Intervention Curriculum and Trainer’s Manual” by Daniel Hunter and George Lakey. The handout for activity on democracy came from “Democracy Education for Iraq—Nine Brief Themes”. Page 3 of 246 No mós Pradet nia guia “Responde ba Labarik ne’ebé Hetan Ona Trauma Ho Violasaun Liu Husi Violasaun ba Labarik Sira” fornese informasaun kona-ba Konvesaun Direitu Labarik Nian, no mós surat hotu no ideia balun iha lisaun kona-ba protesaun ba labarik. Atividade “Kriasaun Mudansa Social Pozitivu” ho surat mai husi Gene Sharp nia livru “The Politics of NonViolent Action” no “Third- Party Nonviolent Intervention Curriculum and Trainer’s Manual” husi Daniel Hunter no George Lakey. Surat ida ho atividade kona-ba demokrasia mai husi “Democracy Education for Iraq—Nine Brief Themes”. The lessons that make up the PECT Manual have been compiled, and inpart authored, by Sierra James, Joana dos Santos Camoes, Vidal Campos Magno, Juliana de Oliveira Marcal, Lulu Martins and Leilani Elliott. Without their hard work and dedication this guide would not have been possible. Lisaun ne’ebé sai nu’udar Guia PECT ne’e halibur tiha ona, no parte autor maka Sierra James, Joana dos Santos Camoes, Vidal Campos Magno, Juliana de Oliveira Marcal, Lulu Martins no Leilani Elliott. Se la ho sira nia servisu maka’as no dedikasaun, Guia ida ne’e sei la sai posivel. Ba Futuru’s current main partners include: Child Frontiers, the European Commission, Finnish Fund for Local Cooperation, Germany’s Institute for Foreign Cultural Relations (Institut für Auslandsbeziehungen), Global Fund for Children, Global Fund for Women, Justice Facility, the Oaktree Foundation, Plan International, Roman Luan, Save the Children, UNICEF and UNWOMEN. Ba Futuru is also collaborating with various local and national government entities in Timor-Leste including the National Police Force, the Ministry of Education, the Ministry of Social Solidarity, the Secretary of Youth and Sport, as well as various school communities and community councils. Ba Futuru iha parseiru ne’eb’é inklui Child Frontiers, the European Commission, Finnish Fund for Local Cooperation, Germany’s Institute for Foreign Cultural Relations (Institut für Auslandsbeziehungen), Global Fund for Children, Global Fund for Women, Justice Facility, the Oaktree Foundation, Plan International, Roman Luan, Save the Children, UNICEF no UNWOMEN. Ba Futuru servisu hamutuk ho organizasaun no parte Governu nian lokal no nasional iha Timor-Leste, seluk inklui Polisia Nasional, Ministeriu da Edukasaun, Ministeriu da Solidaride Sosiál, Sekretariu de Estadu ba Joventude no Desportu, no mós komunidade Eskola nian no konsellu komunidade. Ba Futuru is a national non-profit development organization established in Timor-Leste in 2004. The vision of Ba Futuru is to transform a culture of mistrust and violence into one of peace and self- directed growth by motivating the people of Timor-Leste to engage in creating a positive future for themselves, their families and their communities. Ba Futuru's mission is to contribute to peace- building and sustainable human development by supporting the psychosocial recovery of conflict- affected, vulnerable and at-risk children and youth, and by developing the knowledge, skills and values of community leaders, young people and their carers in the areas of human rights, children’s rights, child protection and non-violent conflict transformation. Ba Futuru hanesan organisasaun nasional ida ne’ebé mak estabiliza iha Timor-Leste iha 2004. Visaun Ba Futuru ninian hanesan atu transforma kultura diskonfiansa no violénsia troka ba paz no haburas-an liu husi fó suporta ba povo Timor Leste hodi kria futuru ne’ebé di’ak ba sira nia an, família no komunidade. Misaun Ba Futuru nian maka hanesan atu kontribui harii paz no dezenvolve ema ne’ebé sustanavel liu husi fasilita no hadi’ak hikas psikososiál ba sira ne’ebé hetan afeitu negativu husi konflitu, vulnuravel no labarik sira ne’ebé iha risku no mós dezenvolve ka aumenta matenek, abilidade, no valores ba lider komunidades, jovens no ema ne’ebé tau matan ba labarik iha area direitus umanus, direitus labarik, protesaun labarik no transformasaun konflitu la ho violénsia. Thank you for your contributions and support! Obrigado barak ba ita boot sira nia kontribuisaun no suporta! Page 4 of 246 INTRODUCTION INTRODUSAUN This PECT Manual has been created for people working to build peace and improve protection for vulnerable populations in Timor-Leste. This guide uses interactive learning, artistic and physical activities while combining information and knowledge from different fields including: healing for people affected by conflict, human rights education and the steps for non-violent conflict resolution. It also combines activities connected to the past with those future-oriented. Guia PECT ida ne’e kria ba ema ne’ebé servisu atu harii dame no hadia protesaun ba ema ne’ebé vulnerabel iha Timor-Leste. Guia ida ne’e uza aprendisazen interativu, artistika, no atividade fisika hodi tau hamutuk informasaun, koñesimentu husi materia diferensia inklui ho: lisaun ba tulun ema sira ne’ebé afeita husi konflitu, edukasaun direitus umanus no etapa ba rezoluzaun konflitu ne’ebé non- violénsia. Atividades ne’ebé iha koneksaun ho tempu pasadu ne’ebé orienta liu ba futuru inklui hotu. The Background section provides information about the reasoning behind the development of the PECT Guide, identifying its purpose and intended outcomes. The Facilitation Suggestions section should be thoroughly studied prior to using the PECT Guide as this section provides in-depth guidelines for being a good facilitator. Sesaun ’istória’ sei hato’o rasaun ba dezenvolve guia PECT, identifika ninian papel, no resultadu ne’ebé ita espera. Sesaun ‘sujestaun ba fasilitador’ nian sei estuda liu tan oinsá uza Guia PECT ho didi’ak, sesaun ida ne’e hakle’an liu tan lina guia atu sai nu’udar fasilitador di’ak. If you do not have enough time to work through every step, please feel free to cut activities out or adapt them according to the needs of the participants. This program can be used over short or long- term period depending on the availability of the facilitators and participants. Se ita la iha tempu atu hala’o faze hotu, ita bele sente livre atu hakat liu ba atividade ruma ka adapta tuir partisipante sira nia presiza. Programa ne’e bele uza iha prazu badak ka prazu naruk (short-term and long-term) depende ba disponibilidade fasilitador no partisipante sira nian. As this guide is far from complete, we welcome suggestions and feedback from those people using it. We are also in the process of collecting stories of best practices from childcare centers across Timor- Leste, so please let us know about activities that you and the participants find to be effective. Email: [email protected] Guia ida ne’e seidauk kompletu, ami simu sujestaun no koresaun husi ema hotu ne’ebé uza. Ami mós buka nafatin istória ne’ebé hatudu servisu di’ak liu husi sentru tau matan ba labarik iha Timor-Leste tomak, nune’e ami husu ba ita boot sira atu fó hatene ami kona-ba atividades ne’ebé ita boot sira sente efektivu. Email: [email protected] As a facilitator you have an opportunity to bring significant positive changes into the lives of the participants you work with. At the same time you can learn positive strategies yourself and bring positive change into your own life. Nu’udar fasilitador ida, ita iha oportunidade di’ak ida atu lori mudansa signifikadu pozitivu ba iha partisipante sira nia moris ne’ebé ita servisu ba. Durante servisu ita bele aprende mós estratéjia pozitivu ba ita nia-an no lori mudansa pozitivu ba ita nia moris rasik. “You have the power to! overcome feelings of loss, grief, anger, fear, shame and guilt and transform them into feelings of self-respect, self-esteem and trust towards others. You have the power to change hatred and fear into respect and love. We hope that these interdisciplinary workshops will help you to achieve just such transformation” (from Uluzac 1997, Introduction). Page 5 of 246 “Ita iha forsa atu... hadi’ak sira nia sentimentu lakon, triste, hirus, tauk, moe no sente sala, no transforma sira ba iha sentimentu; respeita-an, konfia-an no fiar ba ema seluk. Ita iha forsa atu troka odio no tauk ba iha respeitu no domin. Ami hein katak seminariu (workshop) interdisiplinariu hirak ne’e sei tulun ita atu hetan transformasaun” (husi Uluzac 1997, Introduzaun). Page 6 of 246 BACKGROUND MAKDALAK Timor-Leste is currently recovering from the trauma of a severe political, social and cultural oppression and transitioning into an era of opportunity. The experience of grief, anxiety and violence during armed conflict has both short and long-term effects on people’s mental health, quality of life and subsequent behavior. Thus, sustained conflict leaves a deficit in human capacity for building peace just when social reconstruction is essential. This reality illuminates the importance of addressing trauma so that a society can process the negative impacts of conflict laying the necessary groundwork for post-conflict development to be successful. Ohin loron Timor-Leste sai di’ak ba dau-daun husi trauma opresaun severa politika, sosiál no opresaun kultura no mós fó transisaun to’o tempu oportunidade. Esperiénsia laran triste, nervoza, no violénsia durante konflitu funu iha periode tempu badak no tempu naruk iha duni efeitu ba ema nia mentalidade, kualidade moris no hahalok tuir mai. Maske nune’e, konflitu kontinual husik hela defisiente ida iha ema nia kapasidade atu harii dame bainhira rekonstruksaun sosiál nian maka sai importante. Realidade ida ne’e hatudu importansia kona-ba trauma, nune’e sosiedade ida bele prosesu impaktu negativu husi konflitu, hatun nesesidade servisu subar iha dezenvolve konflitu pasadu atu sai susesu. The PECT Guide is an interdisciplinary approach to help people overcome the negative affects of conflict, build self-confidence, learn about their rights and obligations as human beings, and deal with conflict in a humane, cooperative and effective way. The guide combines the therapeutic power of artistic expression with conflict resolution techniques and training on protection and human rights. Guia PECT ida ne’e nu’udar metodu interdisiplinario ida atu tulun ema atu hadi’ak husi impaktu negativu ne’ebé mai husi violénsia ida-idak nian, atu harii fiar-an, atu aprende kona-ba direitus no obrigasaun nudar ema, no mós prosesu hadi’ak konflitu ho dalan loos, kooperativu no efektivu. Guia ida ne’e sei kombina forsa terapéutiku espresaun artistika nian ho teknika rezoluzaun konflitu no treinu kona-ba protesaun no direitus umanus. Page 7 of 246 FACILITATION SUGGESTIONS SUJESTAUN FASILITASAUN NIAN 1. PREPARATION 2. PREPARASAUN A. In Advance A. Iha Advansia ! Approach participants thoughtfully. Ensure that all of the ways in which you or anyone else brings people into the learning environment are respectful, considerate and nondiscriminatory. ! Hakbesik partisipantes sira ho laran tomak. Konvense katak dalan hotu ne’ebé ita ka ema seluk lori ema ba iha ambiente aprende nian ne’ebé nakonu ho respeitu, konsiderasaun no la halo diskriminasaun. ! Prepare yourself. Look over the material to be covered. Make an agenda but be ready to be flexible. ! Prepara-an. haree fila fali ba material ne’ebé sei uza. Halo ajenda maibé prontu nafatin atu troka se karik situasaun presiza. ! Learn more about your participants. What are their ages and backgrounds? Who do they live with? What negative experiences may they have experienced? Consider how they will affect the learning environment? Have their family members died or been killed? If so, when and in what type of circumstances. This knowledge can help you prepare for what issues may come up during project implementation. ! Aprende liu tan kona-ba ita nia partisipante sira. Sira nia idade no kontestu oinsá? Sira hela ho se? Esperiénsia negativu ida ne’ebé sira hetan ona? Hanoin oinsá buat hirak ne’e afeita ambiente aprende nian? Sira iha família ruma mate tiha ona ka hetan oho? Se nune’e, bainhira no iha sirkunstánsia saida? Hanoin ida ne’e bele tulun atu prepara ba kestaun ruma ne’ebé sei akontese durante implementasaun projetu ne’e. ! Gather materials. Prepare what you need for each lesson. If you do not have the materials listed then either attempt the alternative suggestion or be creative by finding another way. Try to use things from the natural environment or easily available things (you can use products that you might normally throw away, for example old milk cartoons). It is really important for the participants to have the opportunity to be creative. ! Halibur material. Prepara buat ne’ebé ita presiza iha lisaun ida-idak. Se karik ita la iha material ruma, haree ba alternativu seluk ka buka tékniku seluk ho kreativu. Koko atu uza sasan husi ambiente natural ka husi sasan ne’ebé fasil atu hetan (ita bele uza sasan ne’ebé baibain atu soe, hanesan surat tahan). Importante liu ba partisipante sira hetan oportunidade atu sai kreativu. B. Before the Meeting B. Molok enkontru ! Arrive early so that you have time to collect your thoughts, prepare the meeting space and greet the earliest arrivals. ! To’o sedu nune’e ita iha tempu atu tau hamutuk ita nia hanoin, prepara fatin ba enkontru no komprimenta ba sira ne’ebé to’o uluk. ! Prepare the meeting space to ensure it is somewhere everyone will feel welcome and comfortable. Decorate if you need to in order to make the environment more appealing. Arrange the seating so that everyone can sit together in a circle for certain activities and they each have a place to write or draw for other activities. Page 8 of 246
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