The International Library of Psychology THE CHILD AND HIS FAMILY Pounded by C. K. Ogden The International Library of Psychology DEVELOPMENTAL PSYCHOLOGY In 32 Volumes I The Childs Discovery of Death Anthony II The Psychology of the Infant Bernfeld III The Psychology of Special Abilities and Disabilities Bronner IV The Child and His Family B uhler V From Birth to Maturity B uhler VI The Mental Development of the Child B abler VII The Psychology of Children’s Drawings Eng VIII Educational Psychology Fox IX A Study of Imagination in Early Childhood Griffiths X Understanding Children’s Play Hartley et al XI Intellectual Growth in Young Children Isaacs XII Conversations with Children Katz XIII The Growth of the Mind Koffka XIV The Child’s Unconscious Mind Lay XV Infant Speech Leivis XVI The Growth of Reason Lonmer XVII The Growing Child and its Problems Miller XVIII The Child’s Conception of Physical Causality Piaget XIX The Child’s Conception of Geometry Piaget et al XX The Construction of Reality in the Child Piaget XXI The Early Growth of Logic in the Child Inhelder et al XXII The Growth of Logical Thinking from Childhood to Adolescence Inhelder et al XXIII Judgement and Reasoning in the Child Piaget XXIV The Moral Judgment of the Child Piaget XXV Play, Dreams and Imitation in Childhood Piaget XXVI The Psychology of Intelligence Piaget XXVII Mental Health and Infant Development, V1 Soddy XXVIII Mental Health and Infant Development, V2 Soddy XXIX Modern Psychology and Education Sturt XXX The Dynamics of Education Taba XXXI Education Psychology Thorndike XXXII The Principles of Teaching Thorndike THE CHILD AND HIS FAMILY CHARLOTTE BUHLER |J Routledge Taylor &. Francis Group LONDON AND NEW YORK First published 1940 by Routledge Published 2013 by Routledge 2 Park Square, Milton Park, Abingdon, Oxon 0X14 4RN 711 Third Avenue, New York, NY, 10017, USA , Routledge is an imprint of the Taylor & Francis Group an informa business © 1940 Charlotte Biihler, Translated by Henry Beaumont All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reprinted or reproduced or utilized in any form or by any electronic, mechanical, or other means, now known or hereafter invented, including photocopying and recording, or in any information storage or retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publishers. The publishers have made every effort to contact authors/copyright holders of the works reprinted in the International Library of Psychology. This has not been possible in every case, however, and we would welcome correspondence from those individuals/companies we have been unable to trace. These reprints are taken from original copies of each book. In many cases the condition of these originals is not perfect. The publisher has gone to great lengths to ensure the quality of these reprints, but wishes to point out that certain characteristics of the original copies will, of necessity, be apparent in reprints thereof. British Library Cataloguing in Publication Data A CIP catalogue record for this book is available from the British Library ISBN 13: 978-0-415-20984-7 (hbk) CONTENTS Preface vii Introduction i Problems, Method and Scope of the Study of Family Life Undertaken by the Vienna Psychological Insti tute i Material and Procedure 6 PART I. PARENT-CHILD RELATIONS i. General Aspects of Parent-Child Relations 27 Characteristics of Parent-Child Contacts 27 Contact Situations and Purposes 44 The Role of Individual Members of the Household 52 The Reactions of Parents and Children 54 The Means of Establishing Contacts 57 n. T he Individual Families 60 The Ambros Family 60 The Burian Family 71 The Cermak Family 82 The Dostal Family 91 The Erhardt Family 96 The Fabian Family 100 Summary and Conclusions 108 PART II. SIBLING RELATIONS hi. General Aspects of Sibling Relations 115 Characteristic Tendencies 115 The Classification and Its Reliability 120 General Characteristics of Sibling Contacts 123 v I11 Contents I11 T he Individual Sibling Pairs 130 Erna and Kathe 131 Gertrud and Steffi 143 Ilse and Berthold 148 Alfred and Susi 159 Ada and Rudi 163 Herta and Lizzi 167 I11 Summary of Sibling R elations 170 Appendix: T he Problem of O bedience, by Sophie Gedeon 178 Index 183 PREFACE The Child and His Family has as its general purpose the investi gation of the mutual relations between the child and his family, and, more generally, the child’s life within the family circle. The study is based on accurate records of events occurring in individual homes during prolonged observation periods. Many specially trained collaborators were needed to collect the data, and many more to evaluate the results., The information on which our work is based was collected between November, 1931, and August, 1933. Observations in seventeen homes were made by the following collaborators: Hildegard Adelberg, Edeltrud Baar, Anny Blitz, Dr. Lotte Danzinger-Schenk, Dr. Liselotte Frankl, Dr. Irma Gindl, Dr. Sophie Gedeon, Franz Xavier Hollensteiner, Gertrud Hortner, Dr. Maria Maudry, Dr. Eleonore Plischke, Dr. Ellen Nora Ryan, and Eduard Ulbrich. The interpretations of the collected material were contributed primarily by Dr. Sophie Gedeon, Dr. Lotte Danzinger-Schenk, and myself. Dr. Gedeon, First Assistant in the Psychological Institute of the University of Athens, worked with us for a year. She first conceived the method of grouping and classifying our data, and studied independently the parents’ spontaneous ap proaches to their children. In addition, she classified and tabu lated the children’s reactions. Dr. Danzinger, co-director of our Parents Association Institute in London, investigated the chil dren’s spontaneous approaches. My sincerest thanks go first of all to these two independent and tireless collaborators. Further assistance in classification, tabulation, and statistical evalua tion wras rendered by Edeltrud Baar, Gertrud Falk, Elise Hammer, Ilse Hellmann, Maria Hertz, Gertrud Hortner, Rudolf Groger, Maria Nekula, and Maria Synck. * Dr. Norbert Thumb, Assistant at the Psychotechnical Insti tute of Vienna, and Dr. Maria Maudry, now Professor of Psychology at Fordham University, New York, assumed the vii viii Preface responsibility for the statistical treatment of our tables. To all these industrious helpers, I am truly grateful. Finally, I am deeply appreciative of the permission granted by the different families to visit and observe them, and of the generous assistance of the Rockefeller Foundation, which made possible the collection and evaluation of data on such a large scale. Vienna, Summery 1937. Charlotte Buhler INTRODUCTION I. Problems, M ethods and Scope of the Study of Family Life Undertaken by the Vienna Psychological Institute T he title of this book, The Child and His Family, might arouse the erroneous hope and expectation that vve are about to present entirely new revelations concerning the relations between the child and his family. This, be it said at the outset, is not the case, nor was it the purpose of our investigations. Our study has and claims a methodological significance only; it attempts to apply exact methods to problems which have hitherto been ap proached only descriptively. The child’s environment, its influence on him and on his char acter development, have in the past been described in anecdotal terms. A more precise approach, based on a classification of de fined behavior units, has never been undertaken. The present study is a first attempt in this direction and demonstrates a method whereby the mutual relations between individuals may be evaluated quantitatively. Even though at present our mate rial is still limited in scope and we may claim only a heuristic value for our results, this preliminary study shows that it is pos sible to describe in quantitative terms the atmosphere and basic social structure of family life. In several homes, the mutual re lations of parents and children and of siblings were studied on the basis of exact records of all events occurring in those fami lies. This was done by tabulating defined units of contact in their qualitative characteristics. Thus the principal result of our study lies in demonstrating a new approach to these relations and the possibility of studying them by exact methods, rather than in investigating their contents. We plan to continue our research along these lines in order to I11