IN N ATE H A P P IN E S S R e a l i z i n g C o mp a s s i o n - E mp t i n e s s K h e n p o D r i me d D a wa The Innate Happiness of Compassion and Wisdom © 2013 Khenpo Drimed Dawa All Rights Reserved This book is dedicated to all beings. May you experience lovingkindness and compassion for all. May you experience the deep inner peace of transcendent wisdom. May you experience the innate happiness of compassion and wisdom for all … always and all ways! TABLE OF CONTENTS Table of Contents Preface Part 1 – Introduction Chapter 1: Introduction Part 2 – Background Chapter 2: A Concise Historical Background Chapter 3: Trainings & Paths Chapter 4: The Teacher & Devotion Part 3 – The Path of Individual Liberation Chapter 5: The First Training on the Path of Individual Liberation: Ethics Chapter 6: The Second Training on the Path of Individual Liberation: Meditation Chapter 7: The Third Training on the Path of Individual Liberation: Wisdom Part 4 – The Path of Altruism Chapter 8: The First Training on the Path of Altruism: Ethics Chapter 9: The Second Training on the Path of Altruism: Meditation Chapter 10: The Third Training on the Path of Altruism: Wisdom Part 5 – The Path of Tantra Chapter 11: The First Training on the Path of Tantra: Ethics Chapter 12: The Second Training on the Path of Tantra: Meditation—the Preliminary Practices Chapter 13: The Second Training on the Path of Tantra: Meditation—the “Outer” Deity Yogas Chapter 14: The Second Training on the Path of Tantra: Meditation—the “Inner” Deity Yogas Highest Yoga Tantra – Generation Stage Chapter 15: The Second Training of the Path of Tantra: Meditation—the “Inner” Deity Yogas Highest Yoga Tantra – Completion Stage Chapter 16: The Third Training on the Path of Tantra: Wisdom Part 6 – The Path of Great Perfection Chapter 17: The First Training on the Path of Great Perfection: Ethics Chapter 18: The Second Training on the Path of Great Perfection: Meditation Chapter 19: The Third Training on the Path of Great Perfection: Wisdom Part 7 – Innate Happiness Chapter 20: Enlightenment in This Lifetime Part 8 – Appendices Appendix A: The Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva Appendix B: The Sadhana of the White Dakini Appendix C: The Sadhana of the Red Dakini Appendix D: Sadhanas of Long-Life Appendix E: Sadhana of the Blue Dakini Endnotes Preface REASONS FOR WRITING THIS BOOK The Western householder faces a very different experience and set of challenges than the monks and nuns living in a monastic community in Tibet, India, Nepal and so forth. While some lamas have made an effort to adopt their teachings to the West, most have largely approached teaching here in the same way as in the East as if for the same audience, and often with the same expectations. In contrast, other lamas have learned to speak English and use Western stories and metaphors to supplement traditional ones. His Holiness the Dalai Lama has said that Western students tend to be very intelligent and learn dharma very quickly. Still, few lamas have learned Western pedagogical methods and scientifically-researched techniques that may expedite the learning and the process of realization, particularly using these methods to adapt the teachings and practices to the Western householder lifestyle. While teaching in the West, many persist in attempting to fit students into a traditional mold. Too often we hear, “If you really want to achieve enlightenment in this lifetime, you need to ___.” Fill in the blank: complete a three-year retreat, practice in a cave for many years or even for your lifetime, etc. Really? Why then are there stories of householders (and rather unremarkable or even lesser lamas for that matter) who did achieve enlightenment outside or in spite of the establishment? What’s really possible here? The Dzogchen Ponlop Rinpoche adds, It’s like saying to our ourselves, “Yes, you’re a buddha too. You have the same enlightened potential. You can wake up any minute, just like Shakyamuni Buddha and many others.” … We’re trying to see how all of these teachings exist in our everyday life: taking piano lessons, driving our kids to school, walking home from the bar, or locking ourselves up in a three-year retreat – they’re all the same. In discussions with students, lamas, and others, I have found two predominant views of dharma in the West. One view is that of maintaining the tradition in a fairly rigorous manner, even though much of it is focused on monk and nun practitioners living in monasteries. The other view is the secularization of the tradition, removing the “cultural” and “mythical” elements down to the essence of the teachings, but at the same time stripping it of the rich and vibrant character and, most importantly, their benefits for helping us achieve realization. When the Buddha first taught the Middle Way, he emphasized the middle between asceticism and indulgence. When he next taught the Middle Way, he emphasized the middle between the extremes of permanence and nothingness. In this text I have approached the tradition with a focus on a middle way between the monastic tradition taught in the East and the attempts to secularize that tradition in the West. My position is that while the West has much to offer the tradition, particularly through our scientific and inquiring minds, we must be careful not to exorcise too much of the character that makes the actual process of training the mind effective. For example, we have no deity tradition in the West and it can be very tempting to consider all the deity practices as nothing more than mythical stories of an ancient civilization that are no longer relevant in the modern world. But as tools for training the mind, these practices have been shown for centuries to be highly effective. Furthermore, I would argue from experience, as well as the instruction of my teachers, that there is a great value in the rich and varied wealth of material in the dharma, even that which seems beyond credibility to the modern Western mind when viewed from a very literal interpretation and presentation, as often happens. Thus, I have taken somewhat different approach that seeks to include a balance between the two extremes, while also focusing on the heart of the path with a comprehensive series of trainings appropriate for the Western householder with limited time for “formal” training and practice. At the same time, I have selected those practices that are consistent with the scientific support for efficiency and effectiveness towards achieving the traditional goal of enlightenment in this lifetime. In this context, it is important to understand that Buddhism as a practice is largely a matter of training the mind, although there is ample opportunity for elaborate ritual and other elements of religion that may also appeal to practitioners. Mind training is not unlike that of an athlete or a musician. It takes hours and hours of practice. Some techniques are more effective than others, but there is no shortcut. Some say that one needs at least 10,000 hours of meditation to achieve a significant level of realization. If you only practice 20 minutes a day, that will take 30,000 days or about 82 years (with no vacations). On the other hand, if you sit in a 3-year retreat with 10 hours per day of actual practice, you will achieve that goal before the end of the retreat. Lest you be discouraged by this, reframe the “problem.” We each have 24 hours per day, whether we are lamas in retreat or busy Western professionals. Twenty-four hours! You, me, Rinpoche, all of us. So how do we take advantage of this opportunity? You make everything practice. Instead of focusing only on what you do on the cushion, as most Western practitioners tend to do, you expand your view of practice to literally everything you do. Thich Nhat Hanh (pronounced “tik not hon”), for example, teaches this through numerous little prayers and sayings that apply to dozens of activities we all do every day. That is one approach. My approach, however, comes directly from the teachings in the Tibetan tradition. It takes a while to master, so it is not like you can start doing it from day one, but it is a very realistic accomplishment. And doing so levels the playing field for Western practitioners, many of whom are very intelligent and deeply committed to this goal, a significant advantage. At 24 hours per day, 10,000 hours can take as little as 416 days! Just over one year. And you can do this all without giving up your job, your family, or moving to Tibet or India. One of the reasons that I have chosen to follow the teachings of Padmasambhava in this text is that he recommends doing nearly all of the practices for a period of three days. I have extended this in light of the fact that we may only be doing the practices for shorter periods of time than for a full day. Nevertheless, it does become possible, if not advantageous, to do a very good job of completing these practices and achieving the signs of realization for each incremental practice within one to three weeks. Now, before you get too excited – or critical – keep in mind that this requires a level of focused attention that takes time to develop. So in reality it is likely to take longer. It took the Buddha himself 6 years after having already mastered the teachings of two other gurus. And most of the great Mahasiddhas took at least 12 years, often after considerable previous training. So unless you consider yourself to have skills beyond the best of the best, a little humility and patience are warranted. As I said, it takes some effort and practice to achieve that level of experience. So we still need patience and persistence, the hallmarks of training the mind and two of the Six Perfections. My hope is that this book can help you expedite the process. The faster you can get there, the sooner you can potentially achieve enlightenment. We have the advantage of hundreds of years of experience and recent scientific inquiry. Nevertheless, we still need patience and persistence regardless of our capabilities. So whether you have zero experience or several decades, it is within this context that I invite you to participate in this marvelous experience we call Buddhism. You may do so as a religious or secular practitioner. That, as His Holiness the Dalai Lama frequently points out, is of little consequence. What does matter is how this experience can help you and others benefit in the quality of your life in this world and the next, whatever that might be. Buddhism has been very good to me. So much so, that I agreed to share what little expertise I have developed in my study and practice. It began when my teacher, Tulku Khenchen Paljea Dorjee Rinpoche, asked me to teach. I began teaching and developing courses for Dharmakirti College and eCollege (now the Awam Tibetan Buddhist Institute). After a while, I was named President, and two years later I was given the title Khenpo, as nearly as we can tell, the first American to receive that title in the United States. Rinpoche has continued to ask that I teach more, as well as begin to write. My students, too, asked that I write to benefit them in their studies and understanding. Thus, I humbly dedicate this text to all sentient beings. May it be of some small benefit.
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