Immigrants on Grindr Race, Sexuality and Belonging Online Andrew DJ Shield Immigrants on Grindr Andrew DJ Shield Immigrants on Grindr Race, Sexuality and Belonging Online Andrew DJ Shield Leiden University Leiden, The Netherlands ISBN 978-3-030-30393-8 ISBN 978-3-030-30394-5 (eBook) https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-030-30394-5 © The Editor(s) (if applicable) and The Author(s), under exclusive license to Springer Nature Switzerland AG 2019 This work is subject to copyright. All rights are solely and exclusively licensed by the Publisher, whether the whole or part of the material is concerned, specifically the rights of translation, reprinting, reuse of illustrations, recitation, broadcasting, reproduction on microfilms or in any other physical way, and transmission or information storage and retrieval, electronic adaptation, computer software, or by similar or dissimilar methodology now known or hereafter developed. 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Cover image: Igor’ Gerbovnik/EyeEm Cover design by eStudio Calamar This Palgrave Macmillan imprint is published by the registered company Springer Nature Switzerland AG The registered company address is: Gewerbestrasse 11, 6330 Cham, Switzerland To Ib: Livet er ikke det værste man har A cknowledgements I am grateful that the Danish Council for Independent Research contin- ues to fund truly unfettered research, such as Immigrants on Grindr. This gratitude extends also from the other participants of the “New Media, New Intimacies” team, all of whom provided helpful suggestions about my work over the years: Rikke Andreassen, Maria Christensen-Strynø, Katherine Harrison, Michael Nebeling Petersen, and Tobias Raun. I am endlessly indebted to three professors who forever changed the ways I think: Dagmar Herzog, who taught me how to contextu- alize and historicize words, images, and ideas; Jan Willem Duyvendak, who engages with the curious around the world as if they are his clos- est colleagues; and Mari Jo Buhle, who taught me to look for archives everywhere. At Roskilde University’s Department of Communications and Arts, where much of this book was written, I thank those who provided thoughtful feedback: Sine Just, Susana Tosca, Kim Schrøder, Randi Marselis, Jakob Feldt, Garbi Schmidt, Marie Brobeck, Julie Uldam, and Mostafa Shehata. A number of supremely sharp and generous scholars across the globe also took time to read and discuss parts of this book: Nicholas Boston, Sharif Mowlabocus, Sara Louise Muhr, Florence Villesèche, Alexander Dhoest, Lukasz Szulc, Marlou Schrover, Nancy Baym, Tarleton Gillespie, Stefanie Duguay, Kaarina Nikunen, Debra Ferreday, Gavan Titley, Annette Markham, Sarah Hackett and Kate O’Riordan: I am hon- ored to have met and worked with you throughout this process. I’m also vii viii ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS grateful for the ongoing conversations with Ann Wilson, Jens Rydström, Peter Edelberg, Gert Hekma, Mattias Duyves, and Fahad Saeed. To my high-school guidance counselor, Mel Butarro, who ran our Gay-Straight Alliance: did you know you were effectively my first teacher of queer studies? To my mother, sister, and grandmother—Diane Juster, Emily AJ Shield and Judith Jaffe Juster—who amaze me with their energy, involvement and curiosity; to other loving family throughout the world: Chris, Henry, Maya, Nora; Britt, Aage; Jay, Dani, Rowan; cousins near and far; Madeleine, Michelle, Henning, Andrews, Veninderne, and so many other lovelies: thank you! And of course, to Ib, du er det beste jeg vet… c ontents 1 “We all have a responsibility… to save them”: Immigrants, Gays, and Those Caught in Between 1 2 “The glittering future of a new invention”: Historicizing Grindr Culture 27 3 “Remember that if you choose to include information in your public profile … that information will also become public”: Methods and Ethics for Online, Socio-Sexual Fieldwork 71 4 “I was staying at the camp, and I met this guy on Grindr, and he asked me to move in with him”: Tourists, Immigrants, and Logistical Uses of Socio-Sexual Media 111 5 “Tend to prefer sane, masculine, caucasian (no offense to other flavours though)”: Racial-Sexual Preferences, Entitlement, and Everyday Racism 143 ix x CONTENTS 6 “White is a color, Middle Eastern is not a color”: Drop-Down Menus, Racial Identification, and the Weight of Labels 185 7 “Vi hygger os!”: Challenging Socio-Sexual Online Cultures (Conclusions) 227 Index 241 A A bout the uthor Andrew DJ Shield is Assistant Professor at Leiden University, where he specializes in sexuality, migration, and diversity studies. He is the author of Immigrants in the Sexual Revolution, and co-founder of the Leiden Queer History Network. He lives and bikes in Amsterdam and Copenhagen. xi