How To Sleep With Any Girl: A Guide On How To Seduce Women

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by  Adrian Gee

How to Sleep With Any Girl

By Adrian Gee

Table of Contents

How to Sleep With Any Gir l

By Adrian Ge e

Introduction :

You Can Lear n

Chapter 1: Gaining Confidence Before You Approac h

Practice, Practice, Practic e

Choose a Good Locatio n

Keep Learnin g

Chapter 2: Humor, Hygiene, and Smiles – Important Steps Before Looking for
the Ladies Improve Your Physical Appearanc e

Improve Your Hygien e

Remember to Smil e

A Little Humor of the Right Type Goes a Long Wa y

Reading Social Cue s

Do Not Fear Rejectio n

Chapter 3: The Approac h

Be Mentally Ready to Pick Up a Girl Anytim e

The Right Approach for the Local e

Observe Before the Approac h

Develop a Topic or Two to Talk About Before Initiating a Conversatio n

The Approach Must Be Nonthreatenin g

The Approach Should Be Well-Time d

Chapter 4: The Conversatio n

Your Body Languag e

NLP – Neuro-Linguistic Programming – What Is It and How Do You Use It
?

Conversation Starter s

Taboo Topic s

Ask for an Opinio n

You Don’t Always Have to Agre e

Conversation Includes Listenin g

The Power of Innuend o

Basic Conversational Etiquett e

Chapter 5: Make an Emotional Connectio n

Start an Emotional Connection as Soon as Possibl e

You Should Share, To o

How Personal Should Your Stories Get ?

What Is Negging and Does It Really Work ?

Chapter 6: Make a Physical Connectio n

What Is Anchoring ?

Go With Her Flow Regarding Physical Connectio n

Chapter 7: Never Be Need y

Are You Too Needy? Signs of Needines s

How to Stop Being Need y

Instant Neediness Is Instant Rejection for Most Wome n

Why Do Women Hate the Needy Man ?

Conclusion :

Introduction:

You are probably like many men out there. You have some trouble and
trepidation when it comes to speaking with women, especially when it comes to

flirting and trying to get them into bed. It’s a more common problem than you

might imagine, and not everyone is a natural when it comes to charm and
seduction.

However, this certainly does not mean that you can’t succeed when it comes to
women. You just need to know what you can do to improve your chances, and

that’s just what this book is all about.

You Can Learn

Over the course of the book, you will learn things that you need to start doing

right now to make yourself appear better in the eyes of the women that you want

to be with. After all, they aren’t going to want someone who is slovenly and

unkempt and who doesn’t seem to have it together. This is true whether you are
looking for a relationship or just a one-night stand with her.

You will learn how to approach women the right way, how to start up and have a

conversation, and even how to make an emotional connection when you meet a
woman. You will learn how to make the physical connection that can start to put

her mind in the right place.

You will also learn why it is so important not to seem needy, along with some
other tips and tricks that will help to ensure you come across as a prize, not just

some schmuck who is terrible at flirting.

Best of all, you will discover that learning and implementing these techniques
into your life are not as difficult as some might lead you to believe. It’s not a

magic trick that helps guys get the girls. Most of the time, it’s just learning to

look good, learning how to talk to and listen to women, and learning how to take
things to the next level. Let’s get started, so you can seriously bump up your

success rate.

Chapter 1: Gaining Confidence Before You Approach

When it comes to meeting women, you will always find that those men who are
more confident are going to have far more success. It’s not about luck. It’s about

becoming a more self-assured and poised man. You make your own luck.

Confidence is far more attractive to women than someone who is meek and

unsure of himself, or the wallflower who stands in the corner and gazes at them

creepily, hoping for that “spark” or the “look across the room” they’ve seen in
all of those cheesy romance movies. Those sorts of things don’t typically

happen, and the vast majority of women are not looking for the lovable loser

whether it’s for a one-night stand or a long-term relationship.

You need confidence before you approach women, so you will have the

confidence when you do approach them. When you know how to talk to women,

and you have the right attitude, you will start to exude self-assurance. With more

confidence, and plenty of practice, you will find that the techniques in this book

can help you to hook up with girl that you want.

Of course, you are probably wondering just what you need to do in order to

improve your confidence. Let’s look at a few steps that will start you off on the
right path.

Practice, Practice, Practice

One of the biggest mistakes that a person can make in this endeavor is to start off
by always trying to talk to the most gorgeous woman in the room. If you are

unaccustomed to doing this, your head is going to start swimming in doubt the
moment you start thinking about it. This means trouble, as many people are

going to start making excuses right away as to why they can’t approach her right
now. Maybe they worry about her friends, the music, their breath, whether they

put on too little or too much cologne, the lighting, the phase of the moon… any

number of random excuses will pop into their head and derail them from
approaching her.

This is because they have not put in the time to practice talking with enough

women so that they are confident enough to approach the one that they truly
want to be with. So, as with anything else in life, practice is going to make

perfect.

You will want to build your confidence gradually. Start making conversation

with women you have no intention of picking up wherever and whenever you

can. This includes people you are not attracted to. Talk with the waitress, the
cashier, the bank teller, and everyone else.

You are using these opportunities to learn how to talk without getting nervous or

stumbling over your words. You are learning to smile when you talk and

learning to make eye contact with people.

Once you start to practice, you will definitely find that your confidence is

growing and that it is becoming easier to start conversations with women you do

not know. In time, you will have no problem walking across that crowded room
and talking with the beautiful woman that caught your eye.

Choose a Good Location

Another great tip to help you meet the type of women that you would like, and
that would make it easier to converse with, is to choose a type of venue that

makes you feel at home. Perhaps you don’t like the bar or club scene, for
example. This could make approaching women in these locations more difficult

if you hate yelling over the music or looking like a fool on the dance floor –
unless, of course, you know how to dance.

Instead of using that as an avenue for meeting women, consider classes, such as

an art class or a cooking class, head to the park, a farmer’s market or grocery
store, a museum… there are countless places that you could meet women outside

of a bar or club. Find those locations that you enjoy, and you will find that you

are more confident when it comes to approaching women and talking with them.

Keep Learning

Building your confidence is a vital initial step. Later in the book, we will be

discussing more about using humor and smiles, approaching women and

breaking the ice, and actually conversing with them and moving on to a physical
connection.

Chapter 2: Humor, Hygiene, and Smiles – Important
Steps Before Looking for the Ladies

Sure, you want to get out there and meet women who are going to be interested

in you and who will want to sleep with you. However, all of the talking in the

world is not going to get you anywhere, if you are humorless, gruff and hygiene-

challenged. Think about it from the woman’s perspective for a bit. Would you
want to go home with someone who did not take care of themselves and who

was grim all of the time? Probably not.

That’s why this chapter is all about working on yourself and making yourself

into a better catch before you start trying to hook up with women. By taking
these steps now and making some improvements in your life, you will find that it

can help you to build the confidence discussed in the first chapter. You are going

to be happier with who you are and what you have to offer.

You will exude confidence, and that’s what so many women find attractive,

whether they are looking for a one-night stand or someone with whom they can

build a real relationship.

Improve Your Physical Appearance

We’re not talking about running out and getting plastic surgery to look like
whoever the current heartthrob actor or musician is right now. It’s far simpler

than that, fortunately.

You will find that even if you are an average guy, or perhaps even a somewhat

less than average guy, there are plenty of things you can do that will help to

change and improve your physical appearance to make you more attractive.

Physical Fitness

The first step is to make sure that you are taking good care of yourself when it
comes to your physical fitness. Not only is it important for your health, but it is

important for how you are perceived by women. If you are hoping to sleep with

attractive women who have great bodies, you can be sure they want the same

thing from the men they choose.

Whether you are highly overweight, a bit overweight, a little flabby, or nothing

but skin, bones, and a little bit of muscle, you can do better. If you have the

money, spend some time at the gym to shed some pounds and build muscle. You

don’t need to have a six-pack, and you don’t need to look like a fitness model.
You just need to make sure you are in shape and that you look good.

For some, the journey to fitness might be longer than it is for others. Perhaps

you’ve neglected taking care of yourself for a while now, or perhaps fitness was
never important to you. Now is the time to start getting into great shape. You are

going to feel better, and you are going to look better. When this happens, you are

going to be bursting with energy and confidence.

If you want to sleep with beautiful women, don’t you think it would be nice to

be happy with your body, and to have that extra energy for all of those…
extracurricular activities you have planned? You don’t want to get winded or

get a cramp when you are having sex. That would be rather embarrassing, don’t
you think?

So, how do you start to get in shape? It really depends on what you need to do.

Are you trying to lose weight and build muscle? Are you skinny and want to
pack on some muscle? You can go to the gym if you have one in your area and

can afford it, or you could work out at home. Hike, swim, walk, run, and find as
many ways to be active in your life as you can. You don’t have to spend a lot of

money getting into good shape. Calisthenics and body weight exercises can work

wonders.

The goal of this book is not to give you a bunch of workout plans that you can

use. Instead, we’re teaching you how to pick up and sleep with women. Getting

into shape is just one of the aspects you will have to consider.

There are plenty of books and websites dedicated to helping men get into proper
shape. Find several that appeal to you and that have positive reviews with people

who have gotten good results, and then follow those plans.

Just make sure you follow through with the plan and put in the time and effort it

takes to get into shape before you start trying to strut around a club and pick up

women. It’s not likely to work unless you have at least a passable body. The

better shape you are in the easier it will be. Women want someone who’s

attractive, and it’s your job to make sure you fit the bill.

Diet and Nutrition

Remember that physical fitness is about far more than just working out. You also

need to think about the foods that you are eating if you want to get into the best
shape possible. If you want to put on muscle and cut out the flab from your

body, it means eating right with quality protein sources and fresh fruits and
vegetables. You want to choose these foods over processed foods.

That’s not to say that you can never have some of those unhealthy foods that you

love, just that if you want to get into shape and stay in shape – which helps you
stay on top of your game when it comes to picking up women – you might need

to seriously consider your food choices. Again, the right foods help to give you

plenty of energy, which helps with working out, not to mention having staying
power when it comes to women.

Proper nutrition can also help to make your skin look and feel better to the touch,

which can help make you appear young and strong. Bad nutrition can often cast
a sickly appearance on people, even if they are those folks who can “eat

anything and not gain weight”. Think about the foods you are putting into your

mouth, along with how much you are eating, and staying in shape and attractive
is going to be much easier for you.

Better Clothes and Shoes

In addition to getting your body into shape, you need to think about other aspects

of your outward appearance. This certainly includes the clothes and shoes that
you are wearing.

People say that you should never judge a book by its cover. However, it’s human

nature to do just that. People judge based on appearances, and there’s nothing
you can do about that. If you were to see an unkempt woman in ragged, dirty

sweatpants, wearing an old baggy t-shirt, and with a cigarette dangling out of her

mouth, you are probably not going to think she’s the most attractive woman in
the room.

Now, think about it from a woman’s perspective. If you have holes in your
clothes, ratty shoes with frayed laces, and stains on your clothes that just won’t

come off, why would she be interested? You can’t wear your favorite Velcro
sneakers everywhere, no matter how comfy they might feel. You are not a
professional hobo, so don’t dress like it.

Sure, if you are just lounging around the house, wear whatever you want. Be
comfortable. When you head out, though, whether you are heading to the gym,

to work, to the store, or you are going out to a bar, movie, museum, or wherever
you might be heading, dress appropriately.

You don’t have to run out and spend all your money on new clothing – at least

most people don’t. You probably have a few things around the house that you
can wear that look nice and that make you look great . That last bit is the most

important. You want clothes that work well for you and that make you look as

good as possible.

Maybe you do need to spend a bit of money getting some clothes that fit better
on your body. This is certainly true if you have been working out and getting

into better shape, as mentioned. If you aren’t sure exactly what you should be

wearing to look good or the type of clothing that will work best for you, talk

about it with some friends.

If you have some friends who are women, and hopefully you do, they can

provide you with some great suggestions. If you aren’t sure who you should be

asking, then you can always spend some time talking with people in the clothing

shop. They can certainly help, but don’t fall into the trap of buying shoes and
clothing items that are more expensive than you really need.

Now that you have started to think about your physical fitness and health, and

you’ve started to look at your wardrobe to see what you need to buy, it’s time
that we talked about hygiene.

Improve Your Hygiene

Everyone who is an adult and who has managed to get through their awkward

teen years should have at least a basic grounding of hygiene and how important
it truly is if you want to attract women. However, it does still bear repeating here
because there are plenty of men – too many, in fact – out there who do not care